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chatinent:
While I don't support men beating women, I have legitly seen a woman slap a man repeatedly over a trivial issue...while still running her mouth.

What's the issue? It's a queue issue and the man came before the woman and disallowed her from trying to double-cross him by using the person in the front of the man as an excuse that that person allowed her to stay in the front.

The man was like: "if the person in the front allowed you to stay in front, then he has forfeit his position for you and one person must go to the back. I've been standing for 30mins and won't tolerate being cheated."

The lady started with "I will enter this line and there is nothing you can do... because I am even cool. Wo, me I dey mad too o. I've been talking politely at least. Come and beat me naw, since you bi woman beater."

She come enter the line. The person who allowed her just minded his business and refused to even talk.

Omo, as she entered, the argument got heated up as the main man insisted he won't allow it unless the good Samaritan forfeited his position. Na so this woman begin chochocho...like typewriter. The main man even stopped talking and she became more furious. The man just stood gigiban for the line to prevent illegal entrance. Next thing we had was TAAAWAAI. Omo, the man held himself and told her he would only respect her this once because she's a woman. Before he could finish, TAWAAAIII!


Me I was caught in the moment, before you could say Jack, this man don forget headbutt for this woman face naso she fall. We come rush hold the man o before en kill parrot.


Gaslight, mouth, attitude, victim game, come and beat = Some Women. Esp, the gaslighting.

People: Don't beat a woman.
Some women: if you are a man, come and beat me.

matrixmuzi:
Done allow her travel . I have been to Egypt . They will enslave her . The will wake away her passport and phone upon arrival . Don’t let her go or she might come back in a body bag . They don’t like black’s especially Nigerians

Pappyjim:
Tell her to abort the mission!

Arabo nations don't give a damn about African "Shagala" As they usually called black house helps!

They maltreat them as slaves without meaningful life.

Pls let her manage what she's managing here to avoid stories that touched!

hammed71:
Bro if you don't want your cousin to experience what this guy is saying here, you better call all your family members to talk to her and discourage her

Difrent:
Let your cousin beware, Alexandria In Egypt is known as a hub for organ trade. Warn her seriously. I watched a documentary where the girl was employed as a domestic servant but their main aim was to harvest her organ for Oga whose organ is failing....they began giving her some medication, even though she luckily escaped the drugs they were giving her has damaged her

franchasng:
She will be exploited and possibly forced into inhumane labor by the time she gets to Cairo. Cairo might not even be her final destination.


She is about to fall prey to traffickers. I understand she is desperate to succeed and possibly help her family, but she also needs to understand the risks she would be facing embarking on certain journeys out of frustration and desperateness.

It is well, sighs

hammed71:
Brother to understand what your cousin sister will go through once she leaves Nigeria to Cairo Google the Ethiopian lady called Naima Jamal who was deceived and trafficked to Libya and see how she was tortured by those Arabs. I pray make you no lose your cousin, rather than going to Egypt, Libya, Tunisia, Morocco, Algeria, UAE, Lebanon, Oman and other middleastern countries or go anywhere illegally I will rather live and die in Nigeria.

vaginasurgeon:
Na "SHAGALA" she wan go do o!

I fit give you the details well well.

franchasng:
Since she can confide in you, press her further to give you details of the job she got in Cairo; offer letter, which would reveal nature of work, organization hiring her, etc. If she can't, my brother she is on a gamble journey.


Everybody migrating abroad on a work visa always have an offer letter specifying your job role, salary/wage breakdown and other work terms. If she cannot provide all these and still insist then you can let her go but make it known to her and possibly confide in someone else that you are not in support of her move.


Is she a graduate, what course did she studied in school, and what experience or skill does she have presently? What is she doing currently for a living and what's her age range?

papyjaypaul:
Your younger female cousin is not giving you the contract details and you already know that this is a red flag. I don't mean to scare you but you are old enough to smell something that is wrong when you see one or when your old wise questions are asked and they don't give you reasonable answers.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u6V0NLA3CZA?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8-h-v1eUmz0?

helinues:
A lady going to North Africa countries. There is a big red glad based on history

They mostly end up in Libya

Tell your cousin to send you the employment letter which will indicate her name. If she can, you should be able to get the details of the company and find out yourself

franchasng:
That's a red flag.


If she can't provide those things, then it's probably a house help job which might lead to her being sexually abused or exploited. She won't see this picture now so make her understand it. Go to YouTube and get videos of African girls being abused by their masters in Arab countries.


Also let her understand that when Israel attacked Lebanon late last year, Lebanese people locked their African house helps and Nannies inside their apartments in high rise buildings and ran with their families leaving those African migrants working for them as domestic staffs stranded and exposed to death as Israeli bombs rained down their buildings. It was a horror to watch.



So warn her ahead and bring all these to her knowledge so that she won't claim to be ignorant tomorrow. Just do your best in enlightening her and leave the rest for her

Goodvibes007:
I rarely see any good story of someone going to Arab countries to work.

id4sho:
What's the company terms: contract years, whose paying for flight, how did she apply?

Roger3D:
You know better than to post this nonsense here. You're just comment baiting and you got me

SecretSpy666:
Tinubu is making a lot of in-roads to the southeast. More politicians will still decamp to APC in the southeast. In think tinubu will have more votes in southeast in 2027 than in 2023.

Mynd44:
The 2024 budget has been taken over by events. It is not a matter any longer. Although, it is grounds for impeachment as it is seen that the governor ran the state and made withdrawals without a budget.

Now remember that the Supreme Court has ordered the governor to represent the budget else no allocation because the supreme court sees that the 2025 budget was not presented at all

EXOUSIAng:
I believe this is to be the reason why the Martins Amaewhule has not said anything about the 2024 budget.
But their demand for the representation of the 2025 budget and representation of the list and screening of the current appointment members is also valid. From my understanding of the law.

Remember that the Martins Amaewhule and co assembly was not rendered invalid by any court.
So they were law makers but the budget was never presented to them.
I am not a lawyer but I think I have studied a great deal of the law to guide myself.

In the eyes of the law the budget has not been presented.
And the 2025 budget is still running under the Martins led house of assembly.
How can they national assembly function properly under a budget they know nothing about?
That's the big question.
How can dey hold commissioners they didn't approve of or even know accountable?
I think what they are asking for is very simple and also a trap.
At this point Fubara and his team need to be very smart.
They no longer have the cards.
With this latest supreme court judgement on their membership, Fubara has lost all cards

salykely:
U seem not to understand that this is an end game for Fubara. The house want to gain his legitimacy by that representation. Once that is done, they will commence impeachment proceedings against him. There is no way he could come up to argue that the house is illegitimate because he can't blow hot and cold.

Wutinky:
That dude is irredeemable, i promise myself never to engage him in any discussion, always off point and talk all sort of craps that came into his head, it's sickening and disgusting at the same time

CaptainGo:
Hopefully, the man go do his 4 years. But forget that Rivers is not Lagos talk. They can mess him up and nothing will happen.

Too much attention on frivolities as Poverty deepens is concerning.

It is deeply troubling that Nigeria’s political leadership is rapidly descending into an embarrassing spectacle.

We are at a time when our nation faces the highest levels of actual and multidimensional poverty, soaring infant mortality rates, millions of out-of-school children, one of the most insecure and hunger-stricken nations on earth, grappling with escalating insecurity and countless other challenges.

One would expect our leaders to be focusing and sacrificing solely on providing urgent, transformative solutions to this myriad of problems but not necessarily .

Instead, the national discourse is consumed by trivialities, whether it is allegations of sexual harassment or budget padding in the National Assembly, controversies surrounding State Houses of Assembly speakership, reckless Court judgments threatening to destabilize or deprive the State of funding to provide needed services to the citizens.

What is coming out of the three arms of government, the Executive, the Legislature and the Judiciary is disgusting and uninspiring. The Executive show of negative power as seen in Osun state, the reckless Judiciary pronouncement on Rivers State that is capable of threatening democracy plus the embarrassing scandal from the National Assembly all combine to give a gloomy picture of our democratic journey.

Leaders in these three arms should avoid undue disruptive interference in affairs of sub-national government activities.

Urgent steps should be taken by the leadership of the three arms to stabilize our polity and stem politicians from defecting to parties where they feel it will be easier to rig them into office.

This reckless neglect of serious governance is a grave disservice to the millions of Nigerians who deserve competent, accountable leadership focused on solving real problems.

The blatant display of political rascality, coupled with widespread irregularities, paints a distressing picture of a leadership that has abandoned its core responsibility to the people and is making governance resemble a theatrical performance rather than a serious commitment to public service.

While citizens bear the crushing weight of various hardships due to misgovernance, those in power prioritize personal interests and political gamesmanship over the nation’s well-being.

This mockery of leadership is not only unacceptable, it is a betrayal of the people’s trust.

Nigeria cannot afford to be governed like a reality TV show while millions suffer for so long. It is time for leadership rooted in character, competence, capacity, consistency, compassion, and urgency—leadership that prioritizes education, healthcare, and poverty alleviation.

Anything less threatens the nation’s stability, undermines the present, and betrays the nation’s future.

A new Nigeria is POssible! -PO

Rebelutionary:
You and your ilks that come on Nairaland to explain to us EVERY TIME that this person or that person don't speak for Ohaneze are just wasting your time!

Please get your acts together and go to court and trash this leadership thing once and for all cos I read your cousin MrVitalis saying Ohaneze should sue media houses that quote him as speaking for Ohaneze...lol...what flawed logic!

PressMyButton:
That's typical ipob for you, they would start by holding your hand, throwing their arms around your shoulder while leading you into a hole. After pushing you into the hole, they would turn around and start mocking you.