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Romance › Re: See What This Beautiful Lady Angrily Told Me Because I Rejected Her by Penpaddie: 1:14pm On Jul 29, 2023

As a lady, if you want me to contribute equally (finance), you should get ready to contribute equally in domestic chores and taking care of the children. You don't expect me to work my ass off and at the same time cater for your every whines. I'll cook, you will clean and do the laundry, shikena. You men have forgotten before this feminism and alpha male front began, men were contributing totally to the welfare of their families while their wives are full time housewives, taking care of the home and doing some petty trading. You all have brought crazy ass western cultures to our African values, yet you wonder the high rate of divorce in those countries...

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Celebrities › Re: What Bill Gates said about Burna Boy and Rema will shock you by Penpaddie: 12:52pm On Jun 25, 2023

Truth of the matter is ladies should learn to value themselves, how do you agree to be a man's side piece as well as birthing for him, if he is that interested and values you, he would have put a ring on the finger, Niyola is this, she is that, las las she is still a side piece, no fancy name for it. I have been in such shoes once. This guy and I were low key dating, all of a sudden bobo came back to Nigeria and married someone else. I just simply blocked him. Bobo got another number and started stalking me on WhatsApp, while he left his wife in Nigeria (he had relocated to the U.S , I threatened to expose him and he seems not to care. This same guy post his wife pictures on social media like no man's business, yet he is bombing my phone with countless calls and text, I told him I had gotten married and was pregnant for my husband before he let me be, truth is the so called Niyola is fully aware of what she signed up for. She is quite comfortable with it and hoping for an upgrade later, that's not a fling but a full blown affair, it's unfortunate how a lady of marriageable age would intentionally want to ruin someone else's home. Men also don't know what they want, if he really has a thing for Niyola, why marry Adesua then?

Nairaland General › How Do You Deal With Internet Connection Issues As A Freelancer by Penpaddie(op): 2:46pm On May 18, 2023

Guys I need your inputs, so I had an online interview earlier today via zoom which I religiously prepared for, only to start and the Nigerian factor had to play in, the internet connection was interrupted twice and the last one I guess my imterviewer was fed up. I'm so frustrated right now since this is my dream job and I've been waiting for such opportunity, now it's here and I can't even grab it, as a result of no fault of mine. This keeps me pondering, if I finally get such job that requires online meetings how do I cope? Freelancers how do you deal with bad network connection? What solutions can you suggest?

Crime › Re: Test Your Detective IQ Can You Spot The Killer? by Penpaddie: 7:54pm On Feb 10, 2023

It's either 4 or 3
In the case of 4, the deceased has a piece of his ripped shirt , also if you zoom the picture he has a cut on his neck, guess he sustained it during the struggle
In the case of 3, she is the only one that has a second unoccupied seat, that shows that they came in together hence she is a prime suspect

Travel › Re: Trenches To Texas: A Story Of Courage And Perseverance Against Poverty by Penpaddie: 9:27am On Feb 03, 2023

I'm following, please continue

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Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Fatoyinbo: Igbos Find It Difficult Donating Money To Churches by Penpaddie: 9:25pm On Jan 03, 2022

Is a pastor meant to mention any tribe while on the pulpit, this is wrong in all ramifications undecided

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Travel › How Do I Go About This by Penpaddie(op): 11:53am On Dec 30, 2021

Hey nairalanders, compliment of the season to you all. So it happened that towards the last quarter of this year, I met a guy on a dating site, he is actually a black American based in New York, since then it has been a smooth ride, this guy is pretty serious with me, he can call me 20 times in a day, atimes I get tired and ignore his call, but one thing I like about him is his attitude, very homely and humble. I've always had this impression that black Americans are unruly and bunch of scallywags, but he is different, this December, he told me he wanted to visit me in Nigeria, was talking about marriage and all, but I discouraged him from coming, since I've got no idea of how this stuff works , and I felt like we were moving too fast, so I don't look desperate, so I recently told my elder brother about him, he told me not to waste time and go for it. So I plan on him coming to Nigeria before my birthday, which is by April, how do we go about the visa and all, I've never done this before, please I need you all guidance and input, should I still delay his coming, and If things work out eventually and we tie the knot, how do I file to join him, he is serious and I'm the one trying to slow things down.

Properties › Re: What Is The Worst Experience You've Ever Had With A Bad Room-Mate? by Penpaddie: 11:03am On May 15, 2021

God I'm scared, with the kinda stories I'm seeing here, i just rented a self con in Abuja and planned bringing in a roommate to split the bills, but the kind of stories I'm seeing here, I'll just change my mind, i can't pretend talk more tolerating any bullshit.

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Family › Re: What Body Care/lotion Can I Use To Lighten My Skin by Penpaddie: 10:39pm On May 14, 2021

@op, I'll advise you use Nivea q10, it's a natural lotion that will tone you a bit, then if you want to get lighter you can use pure carrot lotion, the kojic acid and carrot one, it comes with a white container and orange cap, as for soap you can use cottage fresh alata samina soap, make sure you avoid the sun when using this soap, cause it contains lemon, also note that the cottage fresh soap should be the one on a yellow container, there are other variants but they ain't active, all these cosmetics i recommended are natural, no unnecessary bleaching, if you need a lotion or black soap that is pure organic, then you can pm me, I'm into cosmetics

Romance › Re: See What I Just Missed... Guys Come In Please. by Penpaddie: 11:24am On May 13, 2021

What is nairaland turning to... embarassed

Fashion › Roommate Wanted by Penpaddie(op): 12:13pm On May 12, 2021

A new self con going for 200k at dutse zone 7 Abuja, roommate wanted to split house rent and bills, must be a female between 23 upwards , no shady dealings, if interested pm, let's meet one on one

Food › Re: Photo Of The Oha Soup I Prepared With N850 In School by Penpaddie: 8:35pm On May 04, 2021

Odidigboigbo:
someone told you he has not eaten swallow for over a month, he managed to eat a nice meal for once in a month your are telling to go and exercise. To crown it all, you are comparing him with military men. Can you compare the nature of foods those military men eat with his in terms of nutritious value? I'm not condemning exercise but telling him to exercise because he ate a bowl of fufu for once a month is irrational.

Lol

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Jobs/Vacancies › I Need A Job by Penpaddie(op): 9:25am On May 03, 2021

I reside in Abuja, graduate of Unical, passed out of service not too long, studied English /Education, an eloquent speaker with good communication skills, dm me if you've got any offer, help a sister

Celebrities › Re: "Poverty Does Not Mean One Must Be Dirty" - Man Says As He Show Off His New Home by Penpaddie: 10:36am On Apr 29, 2021

Colour riot going on

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Dilemma Of A Graduate by Penpaddie: 10:22am On Apr 29, 2021

@op, I feel your pain, I'm almost in the same situation as yours, born n brought up in Lagos, i only left when I was offered admission to Unical, i enjoyed my sanity in Calabar, less traffic and serene environment, passed out of service last two months and now, I'm in Abuja, Lagos was never an option, i could no longer cope with the stress and madness, though I'm still looking for a job, but I'm hoping for the best.

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Travel › Re: Just Got My Visa To Travel To Germany For Work, I Am Having Cold Feet. by Penpaddie: 10:11am On Apr 29, 2021

onyi2k:
I just got my Visa to go to Germany. I am having cold feet making this journey. I have already told my boss I am leaving my current position.

I am yet to tell HR because of this cold feet. I have been in Qatar for 2years now and I think its best I move since I cannot marry and bring wify here.

The German company is paying for my flight and accommodation for 2 weeks but I am still having cold feet. The process is cumbersome.. I just realised I need health insurance to make this move. Where can i get such in Nigeria.

Can you put me in your ecolac box when traveling, don't worry, when i get there I'll find my way, damn tired of this country

Health › Re: Covid-19: How Indians Are Burning Their Dead With Firewood(Photos) by Penpaddie: 12:12am On Apr 28, 2021

Na wa o, not again lipsrsealed

Celebrities › Re: 5 Popular Actors Who Took Their Movie Roles Too Seriously by Penpaddie: 12:04am On Apr 28, 2021

NiklauseFred:
That's why they are were they are today

Well...can we talk about Bollywood actors?

Lol, except you want to talk about gesticulating with hands and incessant nodding of head, or dancing and being chased around half way through the movie, then Bollywood actors are much more boring

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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Personal Assistant Needed For An Investment Outfit by Penpaddie: 9:38pm On Apr 27, 2021

LifeCoachAndre:
Abuja

I'm in Abuja, what does the job entail and how do i apply

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Personal Assistant Needed For An Investment Outfit by Penpaddie: 5:57pm On Apr 26, 2021

LifeCoachAndre:
A Personal Assistant is needed for an upcoming investment outfit.

1. Interested applicant must be investment savy, and have a flair for social media.
2. Applicant should have minimum of National Diploma or equivalent qualification and have good interpersonal skills
3. Remuneration is N100,000 monthly

Interested applicants are kindly required to access our page on Instagram @investmentcoachng to be acquainted with the brand .

Thereafter engage us via Instagram chat detailing how you can add value and improve our investment drive.

We would be delighted to have you on board.

Good luck

Location please

Travel › Re: Some Amazing Facts About India by Penpaddie: 1:34pm On Apr 25, 2021

I'll never visit india even if I'm being given a free visa, those people are more racist than the whites, and my guts tell me they have poor hygiene and smell a lot like curry and spices...

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Travel › Re: 5 Must-See Beautiful Places In Abuja by Penpaddie: 6:25pm On Apr 24, 2021

cmecproblem:
As someone who has lived in Abuja recently please avoid these places (except the mosque) or you may be mugged and stabbed during your visit.

Do you know any housing agent here

Travel › Re: 5 Must-See Beautiful Places In Abuja by Penpaddie: 6:21pm On Apr 24, 2021

I'm looking for a housing agent here in Abuja, anyone got information, i need a self con

Romance › Re: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by Penpaddie: 2:08pm On Feb 07, 2021

Offorken:
Hahaha, u claimed she seduce u, u never mention to me till u were exposed and now u want a meeting, bastard soul what u sow is what u go reap. Upload whatever u want, I don make up my mind on how 2 handle did issue. It was a privilege being ur friend abi Time shall tell

Ruggedboy01

i bu anuofia, will you man up and stop behaving like an overfed little boy, first and foremost who send his fiancee to stay with his best friend. Are you sure you are an Igbo guy cos you don't behave like one, you are a pussy, a girl accuses your friend and believe her absolutely, no investigation of sort, who does that, why not investigate, if your so called girl is saying the truth, there is always a three sides to a story, his side, her side and the truth, are you sure this girl is not even a cheap harlot, yes i said it, she is a cheap harlot, who insists on staying with her fiance best friend even when he looked for an alternative accommodation, that girl is not saying the entire truth and you are too blind to see you, she has given you kayanmata chop, you no longer reason, you better check well. You all be disgracing me and my beloved state, pachara anya unu. Anumpama n'abuo

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Business › What Business Can You Do With 500k As A Lady by Penpaddie(op): 1:22pm On Dec 22, 2020

I am a serving corper, rounding up around February 2021, with a lot of discipline and denying myself lot of things, I've been able to save up 500k from my federal and state allowance. The thing is, i don't want that money lying idle in my account, i believe i can make something more profitable. I was thinking about crypto, but I'm not really sure, thought about setting up an online fashion store but I'm afraid of failing or not being able to get enough patronage. What kind of business can I do with such amount, any suggestions...between I'm a lady

Business › What Business Can You Do With 500k As A Lady by Penpaddie(op): 1:16pm On Dec 22, 2020

Travel › Re: H'abroad Through The Eyes Of A Bushman! by Penpaddie: 12:24pm On Jul 26, 2020

Lol, the op is quite hilarious, nice thread

Literature › Re: Slum And Paradise by Penpaddie(op): 9:16pm On Jul 17, 2020

After dinner he retired to his room to unpack. The room was spacious with a king sized bed and a walk in closet. He shook his head at the extravagance, it was exquisite with a royal blue and gold interior, it looked great but Hussein thought something was missing: a masculine touch. He loves his wallpapers and mini studio where he could create idea's that becomes reality. His decision to return to Nigeria was a hasty one since he put little to no resistance . He could not tell if he has done the right thing, only time will, for now he'll make his stay a worthy one. He smiled to himself as he rececollects on how him and his buddies had gisted about them Nigerian girls. They've got assets unlike their white counterparts who were flat. He intended to explore and there is nothing stopping him. His phone rang interrupting his thought. It was his best friend Harry.
"Hey pal, how'u putting up there "
"Hey buddy i'm good and how is Washington Heights ". Hussein said with his heavy American accent. Harry was white but he loves Nigeria and its culture.
"I'm good man but it's really not the same without you here, and how is that beautiful sister of yours"
"Stay clear of my sister man " Hussein thundered.
"Calm down, i was only after her well being, big brother " Harry laughed. He has a secret crush on Aliyah immediately he saw her picture on Hussein's phone. Hussein was so much protective of his sister and will skin him alive if he finds out.
"How is that bitchy girlfriend of yours " Hussein asked. He hated Mandy, she was spoit and cynical.
"Don't let her hear you call her that else... " He warned Hussein. He doesn't really love Mandy that much, he was only using her to pass time.
"Whatever man, I've got some issues already! He exclaimed.
" what is it... Oh i get, no more cracks " Harry laughed.
"It's not funny, i don't know why my old man insist i return, but you know I'm a loose shell without the dope " Hussein sighed.
"you'll be fine once you get to know your way around, I've got to run along " Harry reassured him. They said their goodbyes and hung up.

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