Good evening my fellow Nairalanders and compliments of the season....
So I recently moved into a new neighborhood last December,and I must really confess that this environment is so so cool,like everyone's living peacefully and amicably with one another..... Personally, I'm the calm kind of a guy.....An introvert,to the extent that if I'm not on the road via hustling,then I must be definitely be indoors, doing my stuffs online....
Now,the problem here is that my new neighbors have been secretly referring to me as a pastor due to my kind of lifestyle . What really baffled me was yesterday when a man whom I usually take to the park every Wednesday morning asked me if I've any affiliation with any Church........I said NO but I was really curious to know what was the reason behind that question...It was then he told me that it was my neighbor who's living in the flat close to my apartment was the one who told him I'm a pastor.
So,I just want to know,if anyone has ever had a similar experience in the past......That the moment people notice you're a calm and gentle person,they immediately tag you as a pastor or a religious personnel? Even without asking you first?
Some people see the true you spiritually. Once you appear before them, they will either see you praying for someone or they see a Bible in your hand.
Some see it in your behaviours and dressing.
Some hear it loud and clear once they see you.
Some people are not Pastors but God opened their spiritual eyes more than some Pastors
ednut1: AJ cant beat Fury or Usyk. He should retire and enjoy his loot 😆
Says who? Go and watch Otto vs Fury and watch Joshua vs Otto before you conclude. AJ has actually improved on moving his head and pulling back. Fury can only beat you if you can't move your head or pull back.
If USYK catches Fury, it's a win for USYK by a Knockout
obinna58: Somewhere inside your heart you’re wanting to dig her again but your mental capacity is unable to understand and agree to it bcoz it’s against your principle
Lamanii22: So guys, my sister met a man like a year ago that is divorced, right now he wants them to take it to another level, like wedding level…. My sister is a single mother though, educated, working class, successful…. But my mom doesn’t agree to it, she’s only seeing the bad side…
So I would like to know if there’s anyone who has gotten married to a divorced man before.. I would also like to know the pros and cons…
This said man has been truthful so far though…
Waiting for comments! Thank you…
I am so sorry for this thing I want to say. .Ask your mum if she can allow you to marry a single mother. It is obvious that your mum wants your sister to marry a single guy who has never married before or has a child. Your sister and the man could actually be a perfect match that will heal each other's wound.
AyoNews: Do advice her. Either from experience or witness
How long did you deny him before he stopped bothering himself about you?
I am not insulting you but it's like you have used your own hands to nail yourself. That man did not have any other girl/lady when he was disturbing you for sex but things might have changed now that he doesn't care to pester you for it again.
A faithful man who has high libido must disturb you for sex.
doggedfighter: Fear woman but you have women in your life they've not killed you , you are still alive typing fear woman .
If we check well, you have plenty women rubbing your back.
Fear woman indeed !
Odin just gave that guy one out of the best pieces of Advice on earth. Both married and single should fear women; even one's wife. What women cannot do to make or mar you does not exist.
Keepamsafe: For two weeks now, my next door neighbor who is a young single lady has been constantly bringing different meals for me after cooking. Please note: I have never asked her for food before, as I cook at home and enjoy doing my things myself.
The second time she brought me a meal she wore a skimpy dress. I didn’t mind tho, I just told her she is a very good cook and I enjoyed the first meal. Since then, she’s been bringing different dishes to me now. Sometimes she even calls to know if im back from work that she’s cooking something.
Also note, I have never given her any money for this meals she’s been giving me.
My question now is, should I continue eating? do I have anything to be scared of? Could there be another motives behind his her kindness? Or maybe im over thinking?
Advise please.
File Photo for illustration
Have you ever rejected the meal? If Yes, what was her reaction? If you have never rejected it, you have seen a wife my brother. She is not ready to be on a girlfriend level with you but a level that must lead to marriage (Single ladies are plenty outside). If you can't consider her for marriage, quickly find a way of disconnecting yourself but if you can consider her, then, let me know when the Wedding is just one month away. Happy Married Life in advance
The only thing that can shock me is to see $1 exchange for #216 because that was the rate when Jonathan was there and JAGABAN was among the people who protested
[quote author=officialwdhtv post=126539830]I feel so lonely. I feel so sad- Nigerian lady residing in Canada weeps as she recounts her life after relocating
Getting Oshimen is becoming easier for Guardiola. Arsenal will still not win the League and Guardiola will get Oshimen cheaper from Arsenal than from Napoli
englishmart: If a wife owns a restaurant, is her husband supposed to pay after eating?
This is a straightforward question.
There is no reason for him to pay. There is no way their children will not be eating out of the food prepared at the Restaurant. Who pays for your children in your own Restaurant? Who pays for your siblings' food whenever they come to eat in your Restaurant? Small things that should be overlooked are killing relationships/marriages. Any little argument over payment in that restaurant will definitely graduate to something big that could scatter the relationship/marriage.
femisplash: Underline the word "purported", it is a careful way of saying "we cannot confirm that they were lies but let us dish out propaganda against the Govt and string along our supporters who are largely from the unthinking population, anything we throw at them, they swallow it up like zombies". If wailers had sense, let them ask their boss why he used the word "purported"
Are you living in this Country at all? Reply me but be courteous.
jeromestarks: Tinubu remains President. Obigots should go and sit down. Atiku should go and sit down
You nailed it Bro! Anytime I feel like getting free Fuel, I only show my APC Membership Card at any Filling Station. I like being quiet even if I see provoking responses. I come in peace
Romanoff: I have said this before and I'll say it again, no woman leaves a man who treats her well.
My own MIL, the highest she can stay for Omugwo is 3weeks, she even try for you sef for that three weeks. She will be running back to her husband.
You see a woman that "nags", it is because she still cares about you, when she goes silent, wetin dey her mind, na only she know. She will endure till the right time to bolt. The man will now be wondering where he went wrong not knowing that he went wrong a long time ago, na manifestation he just dey see.
Treat your wives well, don't be a Lion in the home, be relatable, treat your wives with love and respect, develop friendship and intimacy with your wife that will sustain you both till old age.
I know old women who don't stay for Omugwo cause them no fit leave their husband, such husbands are reaping where they sowed ni. If they were bad to their wives, you think the wives will be running back to them?
What kind of old woman wants to start life afresh, even looking for a job in UK at that old age when she should be enjoying retirement with her husband?
Make una dey ask these kind questions.
You have never seen a woman that was getting everything she wanted, yet, she still cheated on her husband?
Any day a lady tells you that you love her too much, then, you will know that some women do not know what they actually want.