₦airaland Forum

Ken4agent:
U discover she was HIV+ early enough to take off, but you dem d consequence of going ahead.....now the consequence is here and u are asking for opinion??

Yu need not worry about what people will say when she can't breastfeed.....it a path you choose. But I can assure yu it going to be a very very very long walk for you so the earlier yu get set for what coming ahead d easier u get over it

My only worry now is just like we put HIV behind us and years ago and move on, am hopping we put coro virus behind us asap and move on

If u have any hiv positive person, bring her for me I will Bleep her without useless condom. HIV is a harmless virus.

Hndrrxxx:
OP YOU BE FOOL



nothing wey I wan follow you talk

You are the biggest fool. HIV is a hoax.

My guy, you have nothing to fear. HIV=AIDS is a medical scam. I can bet with anything, it she gives birth , let her breast feed that child for 12 months , even if she stops taking the poison they called ARV, nothing would happen to the baby. I know of a woman who was declared positive in 2010 when she went for anti natal, she was taken to the general hospital where they gave her drugs which she over reacted to. She stopped the drugs , gave birth to a baby girl through the normal process and breast fed the baby for 12 months . The girl is 10 now and 100% negative .

Take note , if she breastfed the child , nothing will happen to the child . I can bet with anything

Alawaxbimbex:
With the kind of stories I read daily on nairaland about marriage...I'm so scared of marriage ooo...God pls bless me with a good husband when it's time for me to marry

All men are bad, so it is better to stay unmarried. I am a man and I know I and all my over 10000 friends are bad. They ( my friends) equally told me all their friends are bad husband's. We men can pretend a lot. It is better u don't think of marriage at all. Good luck.

consultancy:
even the flagship s9, the s8, and all other Samsung have their own Exynos variant, so how can u say that?

Don't mind him. He wanted to say mtk.

Flier:
Its not Nigerian road it’s the car,most times they don’t use Car more than 10 years in developed worlds so it’s difficult to know it’s durability
Come to think of it,why always HONDA? And that ball joint is only one of the problems,it has several problems not mentioned in this post
Electrical problem,brain box and so on

It is a huge lie. Honda has no electrical problem. The only problem with honda is ball joint , and it is because of our roadless country. Honda has one of the best electrical and electronics durability. I still drive my 2005 honda bought over four years ago, no single electrical issue since purchase. Another issue is the location of the gear oil filter Which warrants dropping the gear box to have it cleaned. However, gear flush has provided solution for this.
Even the ball joint issue is mostly caused by buying fake parts and drivers not paying attention to thier car. I've only experienced ball joint pulling once in my four years of driving EOD

mechanics:
hmmmm, his sins will find him out, but why did your wife slept with him knowing fully well she was married.

She said she never believed what we told her. Before I married her, I and my family members told her that it is a taboo in our land for a married woman to have sex outside marriage. However, she said she met one police man Udebhu Liberty from Ekpon Edo state who told her that what we told her was a lie , that we usually say it to make our wives fear adultery. That was how she ventured into adultery which eventually took her life . Though she confessed, it was rather too late. She died. Adegbite Omotayo is evil and evil shall never depart from him and his household.

That was how CSp Adegbite Omotayo who was a former DPO , Agbara police station ruined my marriage and killed my wife. He decieved her, had sex with her and led her to untimely death . It is a taboo in Esan land for a married woman to have sex outside marriage and the punishment is death. Adegbite killed my wife who cooperated with him in adultery. RIP Bulky. But please do not sleep till Adegbite Omotayo is ruined. He is currently the DPO of Ilaro police station, Ogun state.

noakchukibadan:
Hello,

Please no ethnic banters. One of us is from Ekiti, and the other is from Benue. I am married for 8 years with 2 kids. It has been one problem to another.

I must be very frank, before marriage, my wife had many very questionable characters, but unfortunately we did the marriage counseling in a church were the pastor happened to be her family member. Many of the issues would have been resolved, but when I raised those issues about her character the pastor promised me that everything will be fine after the marriage.
Although this is not an excuse, but looking back now I would have been more patient and taken my decision myself instead of rushing into the marriage. For this I HOLD MYSELF ACCOUNTABLE

There is hardly nothing we do not quarrel about, I have always been the one to initiate settlement. The only way I ensure that there is peace in the house is for me not to complain about anything. Even at that, there is always trouble. If the children do anything wrong, she always says those characters the children are exhibiting are not from her and that she is not surprised that they inherited such characters from me.

She can go for months without talking to me, even if I tried to, I have done all I could do, I have begged, cried prayed. I just feel tired and exhausted from trying to make the marriage work or have peace in the home, the sad part is that she often reminds me every time there is misunderstanding that I should remember that she can stay on her own without talking to any body. Just to add, she is very prayerful.

OTHER INFORMATION.
1. I can say conveniently that there is no money problem at home. Finance is okay.
2. I went to see her father 2 years ago, the man said unfortunately he can not do anything. This is true because she was raised away from her Father, she has no contact with any of her fathers family and her father has a zero say in her life.
3. she has 5 elders ones, non of them is in communication with her because of many unresolved issues. Of her 3 younger ones she only maintains a relationship with the last boy who is just 14 years. .
4. Her mum can not talk to her because she simply dares not. However, behind, her mother use to beg me and she kept saying she understands her daughter's character and that she is doing her best by praying and doing deliverance for her.
5. She is not in contact with her maternal uncles and aunt because she said they supported her elder ones when she had problem with them.

So I am stuck with no one to help call the both of us and resolve the issue.

Every year for 5 straight years, she always forgets my birthday, last year, she forgot also, three days later, she bought me a present and I refused to collect the present and I asked her why does she keep forgetting my birthday, year after year for 5 years. She just said sorry, but I left the present in the room, she never bothered to bring the present to me. Another birthday was gone yesterday 2nd May, and as I write, no happy birthday yet.

I literally cook for myself, and all domestic things I do for myself.

I will end this by saying that in fairness to her, her character was not too different before the marriage and courtship, sincerely only once, that was like one year before the marriage I broke up with her, she came to apologize and promised that she will change. Her mother also came to apologize to me also.

This woman has refused to change or allow peace to hold sway, she is right every time, while everybody around is wrong. Sincerely, I do not know what to do anymore.

I am tired and exhausted. I do not know what to do anymore. I am 42, I was diagnosed of high blood pressure 2 years ago.

There are only two ways out of that conundrum , death or divorce. My marriage was exactly like yours and I was 41 when I supposed to divorce her but because I was claiming I don't want divorce, I allowed her to continue her uncontrollable behaviour till it lead to what would have taken my life. Fortunately for me , God was on my side and she fell sick in 2018 and later died last year. Once a woman doesn't love you , she sees you as a hindrance and an enemy and when she has the opportunity to eliminate you , she would do it with all Joy. Forget she has children with you oooo, women don't reason that.

The four of you , his children should hang up and beat the hell out of your father. By so doing, he will have sense.

Lleigh:
But the ages can't be right.
Her mother was 15 when she got pregnant. So when did she marry her daughter's father.
I am not saying what happened isn't wrong, but the ages might be off

she was probably raped and got impregnated. That is the danger of raping minors.

olaajilaran:
So nobody observed that something is wrong with this news?

Daughter is 28 and mother is 44, which means the mother gave birth to her at the age of 16?

Ah, kilode? It's either the news is false or the mother is really wayward from her childhood .

It happens. In Yoruba land, I've seen 13 years old girls being pregnant.

Lostz:
Southsouth is not interested in any relationship with the southwest.

we will look out for countries with something to offer......they will help in developing our land

Who made you the mouthpiece of the South South ? Unity with southwest would bring development to us all.

simplycarro:
You are sick if this all you have to say

Anyone that support this is evil is more than sick. This is disgusting!

And this made front page ! Chai

Tapout:
nonsense. The perpetrators of such act are aware that in the event of them getting caught, they will most likely get life time in jail with hope of leaving one day maybe thru jail break or being granted leniency by a shallow minded Governor. Look at the portharcourt serial killer, he is still alive jumping from one court to another till date when the evidence against him is overwhelming. Strap these guys to stakes at the beach and broadcast their execution live make we see if the rest no go get sense.

Exactly. In Europe and America of past, criminals were publicly executed in the most inhuman forms , that explains the reason for low crime rate there today. Those guys should be made to die slow

glowingflame7:
He as an ASP was sensible enough to see that he was being videoed. When the video was not on, he slapped the woman na.

Exactly. I just hope the woman can get her evidence to prove her case in court. The useless officer had dealt with the woman ruthlessly before she decided to retaliate.

Hope Oro people never use my Edo brother for ritual? If they try am, they will hear from us. We must revenge

God , thank you for giving me the wisdom and the ability to emancipate myself from the slave job they called banking early enough. Imagine if I'm being sacked at this point in time ! Sniper would have been my companion now.

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
Make money and girls will follow you like flies to shit
You can't blame the girl for wanting a good life
You sef if you were a female I can assure you you'd follow the man with the heaviest pocket
What can a tailor do for her except sew wretched clothes for her?
Find a girl on your level that'd appreciate you for who you are
Everyone is entitled to their standards and preferences
Yahoo boy or not, he's balling and he's got the type of money that'd Make her happy
I do not endorse dating them useless boys though but I wont judge her.

. The day he would be caught and render penniless like many of them have turned to now , what would the lady do ? Go for another one ? Or what if the lady is used for sacrifices? Your reasoning though.

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Baba God thank you say u don give me sense tipe tipe

Foolish girl, what if the man dump her ass tomorrow?

What is her source of income? So being a president's wife automatically makes one a billionaire? Haaaaa

Olusholar24:
Audio killing

Nobody can govern Nigeria as it is ungorvernable Even Jesus can't govern Nigeria successfully. The only way out is a dissolution of the imperial behemoth called Nigeria

UtilityRational:
good one
just like the way wike declared river State Christians state. and the hypocrites abusing now did not abuse wike then. they even celebrate. so chew this one too. if river State is a xtian state, Kano is also a Muslims state.

Did wike convert anyone to a Christian.

If he is looking for converts, let him release some money and I will convert me, my wife and children to Islam immediately. My parents may even follow suit. Anyone that knows Ganduje should thus inform him.

If a pos is used to move money from your account at gun point , get the bank that issued the POS from your bank and have the bank sued. Why would a bank give a pos to a customer they don't know his business and residential addresses? Most banks are just useless.

sodiqapril:
Abba Kumari had issues with the then minister of health Isaac Adewole so he transferred the approval of health funds to ministry of agric which means the ministry of health has to write to the ministry of agric before they purchase any needed healthcare material. He didn't reverse it even when a new minister of health came in. This led to a lot of issues when preventive material for covid 19 was about to be purchased. this is the legacy he left behind... https://punchng.com/coronavirus-health-ministrys-preparation-suffers-as-presidency-blocks-procurement/?amp=1#click=https:///l1RdUtbqef

He liked oppresion

Kemblaze:
Having HIV is not the end of the world i didn`t have a choice as i was born with the virus now in still getting older and i havent died of the virus yet to me its not the virus that kills the patient but the thought of having the virus same thing applies to Convid-19 just ignor it and focuse more on your immune system till there is a confirmed cure for the virus.

You don't have any virus. The anti body you tested positive to us not specific to HIV. Many things can make your body to produce that anti body. Take your peaceful mind off there and enjoy your life.

Preshieben:
Just tested negative
Yeeehhhh
So happy

HIV test is a fraud. By now , scientists should be able to make something that test for the virus and not the anti body. What if little quantity of HIV is introduced to my blood which ginger the anti body to be produced while the virus wasn't able to harm me ? Won't I still test positive to HIV antibody? If a test to antibody is a confirmation of the presence of a virus , how then is vaccination done ? If you are vacinnated , you must test positive to the anti body of to the virus you were vacinnated against. For example, if I take polio vaccine and I am tested for polio anti body, I must test positive. Does that mean I have polio? No. It simply means small amount of polio was introduced into my body but my body resisted it by producing enough antibody to counter it.