₦airaland Forum

Sebastine1994:
i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,

My friend use your head. That child is not yours., If you doubt me, go for DNA test.

[quote author=hashtagged post=96965656]Any country with Islam should be blacklisted, I wish Nigeria should split and let those gay paedophile pigs who call themselves Muslim leave us alone,
All countries should take measures to eradicate Islam from their country if they truly want peace cause everywhere Islam goes it's from "Allah Abubakar" to "Kaboooom".
I remember having a friend who became a Muslim and was almost killed when they heard he did not want to be a Muslim again, he told me how every Muslim fantasies about killing non Muslims and how they secretly do it in rural areas.
And OP don't lump Christianity with that piss religion of serial killers and paedophiles
That religion is God's biggest mistake[/quote

Islam has nothing to do with God, . Islam is the handwork of satan

Oizee:
Waiting patiently to see who will be bold enough to mention my place of work if there is any here.

hahahah. Olosho?

I sell Oshiogbo weeds. Very confirmed , a trial will convince you

OP , you are the problem I see here. . That lady is not the problem. You are a gold digger without brain. You came here to be talking tapa Topo without being able to tell us the contribution you made to the relationship other than you were having free regular sex. Look, it is not because of your good look that made the girl fell in love with you , the girl thought you were a human being whom she can build with without knowing you are a mere gold digger without brain. She saw the way you behave , being a graduate, the way you speak, and the way you work and believed she her met her dream man with the mental capacity to change her story. That was her attraction. When the lady presented her 300k as her contribution to the planned business, how much did you contribute? When you got to Benin, which business did you suggest you do which the lady declined ? You said you were making extra 5k at least everyday, what was your saving for the period you worked ? No saving ? If yes, that shows you are a wastrel and if you had saving but refused to bring it to the table and bring idea on how to invest the money , it means you are a wasted gold digger who would suffer untold hardship later in life. . That lady played all her part, fed you , housed you , gave you her body etc, but you failed to also make any positive contribution. As that 2016, POS was still very scanty in Benin and if you have contributed yuur savings to what she had then, you guys could have opened a restaurant and bar and ads pos business. That would have fetched you millions within a year then. . I started my pos business then with a lesser amount of money , but today, I have built house , bought cars for myself from the proceeds. Mind you , I never saw anyone who gave me money to start the business like u had , I borrowed the money from a lady, yet I was able to make good use of it and made something good myself. Just go and beg for forgiveness lest you will be permanently ruined as the lord lives. Beg her , change your mindset, stop being lazy and stop looking for free food lest you end up under oshodi bridge as a vagabond. You posted her name and number online to humiliate her for doing no wrong to you . Yes, you guys later had issues. But what do you expect ? That she should praise you for not being able to live up to expectations? She expected you to bring idea to turn things around , but you ended up being a lazy ass without idea . A spoilt child you are ! A lady that left prostitution and went to Benin to build with you who was later forced into prostitution because of your laziness is supposed to even poison you and get rid of you. She didn't poison you, she only tell you to be a man she though you were . That was only offence and you are here to tarnish her image. I just pity your life. 4uck off boy.

Swat should do the needful. Ki them all

ibro2much:
Pm me,let's see how I can help out

Please I also need help in this regard as I have also lost my original proof of ownership for my car.

I sold my incompleted hostel, invested in piggery, fed them for almost 6 months , paid workers, bought drugs etc and all of a sudden ASF entered the farm and I lost everything saved just one.

Zzor:
A tour to this man's house won't be a bad idea, I should have thought about this earlier

Hope say u fine and fair? If you know you know.

Let them show us her Facebook page where she posted about what happened to her in April. Ndi ara

Will a lady with a boyfriend try this shit? If at her age and exposure,she has no boyfriend talk less of a finance, it means something big is wrong with her. Olosho no dey get boyfriend self.

SmellySperm:
is always a male friend

Some of those guys, thier mama never eat for house. I know them.

They should take the kidnappers to the market square , have them stripped and killed in broad day light. That would send strong warning to the Fulani terrorist that the entire Yoruba land is no go area for terrorists.

ceaser:
I guess this one is already HIV positive, so she doesn't have to worry about nothing.

Well, if you don't know, Elisha Abbo is lenteviral positive and it's no secret anyways, and he has not denied it. I'm in no way trying to stigmatize him, but since it's not a secret, I just want to point out the obvious. His first wife succumbed to the ailment.

Why did Abbi not succumb to the ailment ?

chozzy:
His HIV status
nko?

HIV is for the poor. WizKid, Davido, 2face , etc all bang different girls without test or condom yet none is hiv positive or non has AIDS. Hiv is a mere political disease jare

Openbusiness:
Those of you saying because the girl asked him to go and wear condom means she consented, let me tell you, you guys have LOW IQ or your brain has low battery. The girl realized she couldn't win a struggle with him, he already overpowered her, a teen VS a grown adult man, not just any adult, but a police officer who definitely has some extent of combat training. So she said go and get condom, so as to create a separation, so he could temporarily release his grip on her, giving her a chance to try to escape.

This was an intelligent move on her part, a move that would have distracted her attacker while he tries to find condom inside his house, then she might be able to escape in the process. But unfortunately, the criminal didn't fall for it. Saying go and get condom was not consent, it was a well calculated intelligent attempt to gain freedom.

She said it so he can get distracted and then she tries to escape. Same way, some people have managed to escape from kidnappers through distraction. But obviously, some people here are too stupid to see this simple fact. Sometimes, if you get caught off guard by an attacker, you must try to bait him with distractions that can give you a chance to turn around the situation of your attacker having the upperhand.

What stopped her from shouting? She never said the man ceald her mouth with anything! If my daughter tells me this kind of story, I will get her injured. Why didn't she leave immediately the man told her his wife wasn't in? A man with an intention to rape won't even tell her his wife is not around , he would tell her to sit down for him to call him wife outside and used that opportunity to get to the door and lock it. I hate rape but I also hate lies. In a standard sitting room, the distance between the chair at the entrance and the one close to the room should be much. Before the man walked that distance to meet her , why didn't she leave ? Immediately the man asked her to hug him, why didn't she jump out ? We are talking of a girl already close to the door here. The man only spoilt his case by begging. Though he can say he begged the man for sleeping with his daughter not for raping her

picklighthouse:
Its good you are a lawyer. When your daughter get raped you can refuse to press charges. This one is going to loose his job and go to jail. What a disappointing post form a supposedly learnered fellow.

So that is what you will advice rape victims to do? Forget the case "in the name of peace and good faith"? Which university did you graduate from?

This is certainly not a rape case! What stopped the girl from shouting before an unarmed man who didn't lock his door dragged her from the sitting room to the bedroom? He even asked the man to use a condom, which means she has consented. What stopped the girl to leave when the man told her his wife was not home ? What was the girl stil waiting for before the man left his chair closed to his bedroom to meet her in her chair near the door ? Get a good lawyer and sue the girl.

Immediately I saw the headline , I knew it happed in Ogun state. Ogun state and human skulls, any nexus ?

reactman:
What is even wrong with this girl self, who is she fighting for , if not for her pocket, people business and livelihood that got destroyed, what is she and her gang doing to help those victims. Instead of her to concentrate on her Dj business, she wants to fight government.Let her check all over the world no one can defeat government, the only solution is dialogue

What kind of useless do you have in Nigeria? Does this shithole of a country looks like it has a government? Anything that threatens your hegemony must be uprooted . You northerners thought the protest was about Buhari, you paid thugs to disrupt it and killed many people in the process. Your end is near.

OfficialAwol:
I thought you were more reasonable than this.

In every society there are people who need to due for progress to be made , and the useless poster u responded in simply one of such. Very foolish Hausa Fulani slave.

ogorwyne:
Oh really? The way wen Holy Spirit take dey talk to some of una ehn.

Sweet Holy Spirit, I hope say me and you nor dey keep malice? I have a lot of posts to scroll through this morning, please whisper something.

The holy spirit would say my name . Just DM me now

galantjoe:
Best safety is to have ATM account. That is a bank account you will used to make atm or Pos withdrawal and you will not keep substantial amount or your life savings in the account.

Once fraudster get hold of ur card number and that 3digit number at the back of atm card, getting your pin is small case.

Be cyber smart!

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This is what I do . As we speak, I don't know the whereabouts of my Master card but I'm less bothered because I only have 400 naira there

Church is for fools. . what is he doing in church in the first place ? Is pastor God to judge him ? Go and read how Isaac married his wife, did he pay anything to Rebecca's parents before he married her ? Isaac took Rebecca into his mother's room and marri r her there. That is marriage as recorded by the Bible . Until you stop going to church , you won't realize how much you have enslaved yourself

Hiv is a hoax

OyinO:
HIV is an expired SCAM

Exactly

Emir8:
Thanks dear

We are just wasting our time advising him, the guy has already fallen for his babe ! Private university? You go hear wehn. Your girl who threatened to leave you because of mere title won't think twice to leave you if u can't meet her financial demand.

Emir8:
I have master degree and want to start my PhD next year. The university told me that I can't start PhD until I work for them for 3 years. That is another thing I'm considering. The secondary school will allow me to go for PhD

My guy, forget your finance and face your life. She is a destiny destroyer.

Yoruba and ritualistic stuffs! Those people have too much beliefs for small work big money. May God heal the land.

Congratulations to all lagosians as your redemption is near. Just take the bull by the horn, like Obaseki and challenge him. Your silence is the oxygen of his strength.

Disrespect Nigeria? Instead of you to kill yourself in shame. You have disrespected yourself before the world with the way you rig election

athaboi:
happy unraveling

From the way you behave here , it seems you are the very girl. If you meet your friend's guy with another babe two months to her wedding won't you talk ? You have successfully exposed whom you are . I pity your future husband if u can even find one ,judging with your behaviour.

Change fans and radiator, problem solved.