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Golden advice from a loving, caring and responsible father.

However, let's just hope the father's assumption of daughter's virginity status is still valid.

Dominiondominio:
I recently found out that my husband has cheated on me a number of times throughout our marriage and that the Pelvic inflammation was caused by untreated Gonorrhoea.

I feel like I will never be happy again. I used to be a happy, confident, bubbly person, now my zest for life is gone. Is this normal? Will these feelings ever go away?

To feel disappointed is normal when a person you love and trust betrays. However, to feel you will never be happy again is both abnormal and demonic.

Your joy, peace and destiny should not depend on how a negative person chooses to live his/her life. Why should you be angry that a dog barks, when it is natural for dogs to bark? Or wjy should the dark spots on leopards offend you, when leopards are known by that.

Please speak life to yourself - your soul. Study the word of God, recollect your old dreams and revive them. Bounce back, thank God the damage can still be remedied.

Had you cheating husband died in the process, would you have remained single and childless? Please reflect on these.

akpoguma1989:
At least I used condom what of you that have sex with your olosho girlfriend thinking she is clean

Any man or woman with multiple sex partners is a prostitute. Why one gets paid financially, the other gets paid emotionally.

Bros, you are also a prostitute!

Are you an illiterate? Once the vagina fluid (of unknown status) was in contact with your open wound, you stand a risk.

You should have pasted a plaster on the wound since you know the exercise will be erotically aggressive to the point of bursting your much treasured boil.

Their feud will spoil that chance of APC , if and only if, PDP still has a working structure in the state. With Iyamu now in APC, Obaseki should just port to PDP or any other party.

With degree of collateral damage inflicted by Obaseki and his co-travellers on APC, it is very obvious that Abuja people will not give Obaseki the ticket that he wants so badly. He and his deputy insulted the mediators several times and it seems they have abandoned him to his fate.

Since this is her character (attitudes she displays consistently over time), you may not be able to talk her out of it.

Although the scenario you painted deserved a serious analysis.

1. Unteachable or incorrigible persons are serious problems for themselves and their partners.

2.Since you said she cooked. Having spent sometime in the kitchen preparing your meals, why would you want her to go get fuel for the generating set with you?

3. Truth be told, it seems you both are tired of each other.

4. Sit her doing and reflect on where you are coming from, where you are now, and the chance of you both journeying together forever.

I rest my case.

Update the lies...

How much?

That's the new strategy they deploy. Thank your God you didn't force her, she could land you in trouble.

No. 7 to 10 are not fit for the exalted office. Where did you keep Akinwumi Adesina, the AfDP President?

Please keep quiet! Get enrolled for IPPIS abeg!

Inconsistently lazy people.

So no price tag? Or are they for free?

Will you keep quiet!

What you saw concerning Saraki becoming the President never came to pass. He didn't even with the party primary. Please don't bother to see anything again.

Nigeria will be free to be great again!

Falana is referring to the first term of Ayo Fayose and the victim was Dr Ayo Daramola. In fact, Chief Are Babalola took cover during the "reign".

This Gov. Obaseki is taking his stupidity, emptiness and thoughtlessness too far.

Your response is more voluminous than the questions we are trying to solve. You are more or less another problem to the op.

NwaAmaikpe:




You are such an ingrate.
Do you know how many of us that wish that our partners were cool with our exes.

You have the prospect of a 3some on a platter and here you are complaining about a gift from God.

But this does not add up.
If x+10 = u ≤ 40%

Where 10 is your present spouse,
x is your ex
While you are u.
And u is less than in an optimal state.

Then what is y?

Y is simply that you did your ex bad.
He was a great guy but you schemed him away for your present husband out of greed and an addiction for cheating.

I know this because,
You feel sooooo uncomfortable with your ex around. You feel an indescribable amount of guilt each time you see him and it feels like you are staring at Karma in human garb.

For your husband to be that nice to your ex means that
Your husband knew you were cheating on your ex with him. He knows your ex didn't deserve that wrong, this explains why he feels obliged to set him up on life.

So it is either that he is a man of great conscience or a man who needs your ex as an ally to know the true you and decipher all of your trickery for him to feel this indebted to your ex.

Or even better.
Your husband and your ex may be gay and your ex is using this as his best revenge.

But one thing is certain.
You were two-faced and bad to your ex....this is why the bible says that the wicked runs when NOTHING is chasing them.

Get over it, what will be, will be.
This is because I've just found out from your previous post that your ex isn't really an ex but your best and most loyal patron in your prostitution days.

You owe him, an agreement is an agreement.
Your husband is a proper gentleman so he should understand this too.
I don't think your husband will even mind because someone who brings home his wife's ex and someone who marries a hoe doesn't expect much out of marriage.

My only prayer is that your husband is forever able to meet his financial, emotional and sexual obligations because water will surely find it's level.

What do I even know, over to Lalasticlala and the other elders.

This is the Ghanaian's version!

Useless Police! No wonder they are jittery of Operation "Amotekun".

I don't really blame Terry because the useless could pull the trigger, kill the guys and plant fire- arms and drugs in their car.

PapaBaby:
Abaribe and FFK can never be crushed, they're two of a kind.

Yet Nnamdi Kanu went underground.

For FFK, leave that long throat. I remember his he was acting like a jelly fish when he was to be screened for ministerial appointment. Was it not Prof. Jibril Aminu & co that saved him.

SangoOlukosoOba:
Now you lack foresight and deep insight. His his wife not a judge at the supreme Court? Which time is she dancing to presently and who gives her orders?

If she can bail out APC, She can bail out herself husband or whoever deems fit.

Try to correlate things.

When I tell you ICC can never lay hands on Buhari, it's because Nigeria is a strong allied of Saudi Arabia who is presently in a hot romance with the USA.

Clap for yourself!

SangoOlukosoOba:
Hello!

As far as democracy is concerned in any Nation, The Judiciary will always be a tool of the ruling party. It's a norm with democracy.

Why do any administration swap the chief judge upon resumption? It's the play. That's just the way it is.

So Peter Odili, a staunch PDP chieftain, is now in APC.

Hmmm. Why are my people this gullibly ignorant and myopic?

ambu2:
Lesson: Don't mess with spouse of an influential judge. If you do, you have your a*se whooped. If Odinkalu appeals, it could get worse. #Dilemma

It was so evident that Odinkalu defamed Odili. As a professor that he claims to be, what evidence had he in support of his derogatory assertions?

He is fond of that. Let this serve as a lifetime lesson for him.

Senseless divisive attention seeker. How would you call Amotekun with host of Agbekoyas, OPC, core hunters a Christian security outfit.

Who made this shallow thinker a professor?

Anotekun must hear this

Ladylite:
... simply DATE your wife.....

By date I mean, treat her well, do things for her and be very nice to her as expected, buy her gifts, pamper her... She will give you sex.. I assure you.

Your wife is going through a major phase and you need to understand it and be there for her.

I hope this is clear

This is ridiculous! The OP has not displayed any act of irresponsibility whatsoever. If it would require additional pampering for the wife to do the needful, the woman is giving direct invitation to extramarital sexual relationships.


I rest my case.

kponkedenge:
Are Yoruba's suddenly angry about this type of statement from Miyetti Allah? I mean they caused all this by joining forces with the Fulani's to the detriment of the whole South in 2015.
Also for those of you think these people are not speaking the mind of the Buhari's administration, then you are probably sleeping.

One more thing: Tinubu has refused to comment on the issue because he is in a tight spot... If he supports it, he fears the backlash from the North and he can as well kiss his presidential bid goodbye......while if he doesn't support it, he risks the wrath of the entire South West, so he just wants to stay on the fence and let it play out itself.

To know a good leader is in tough times like this.... Tinubu has shown he isn't..... He is just all in it for himself.

It is unnecessary for Tinubu to talk. Let the southwest governors legalise this security operation at their respective state assemblies. Once the framework is well defined including justification, operations, functions, funding, structure, integration, limitations etc.

Once these are perfected, the coalition of S/W states has the legal framework to defend Operation Amotekun.

Truth be told, the mysterious death of some cattle in Osun and Ondo States still remains a rude shock to the primitively wicked cattle breeders.

This useless, slowpoke-like Timi is a mere attention seeker.

Were his lips soaked in acid? It's just a question.

Jobless idiot!

Is this a BBNaija extension?

What an ill-informed illiterate! You are too beautiful to openly display ignorance.

It was the appointment of federal ministers that took Buhari months to make not SGF, Chief of Staff, Special advisers.

No President or Governor needs the approval of legislature to approve SGF/SSG, CoS and special advisers.

Beremx:
Na so e suppose be. Not Buhari that took almost a year to appoint his aides.

Congratulations to Hope Uzodinma. Orlu deserves a massive development to compete with Owerri.

Ihedioha is indeed immature for the office. The 7-month temporary stay in office was characterized by childish traits.

Will you keep quiet? Intellectual shallowness is a great disease, though curable with an upgraded sense and mindset.

If you have a correct sense of history and current affairs, then you will know you just vomited trash.

Hate is in your DNA. God doesn't work and men think or imagine. If you continue this way, you will amount to nothing.

Just an advice!

conductor250:
If not Fraud Luggard, wetin this [s]illiterate habokee offspring that should be hawking fura at Mami Market be doing inside plane? [/s]Not even plane but presidential private jet.

Fraud Luggard, you shall continue burning in hell.

Her papa plane?

Make I no laugh? [s]Can Buhari's intellectual ability afford him a brand new car let alone a plane in his own name?[/s]

[s]If not for politics salary and looting, people like Buhari will be doing shoe maker or digging well for sensible people. [/s]Mugu