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Sorry Madam,
If he is broke and can't pay the bills you won't be happy either he will become a liability to you. You will hate him and want to run away from him after incessant quarrel

Now he is wealthy and he doesn't care

It is an irony of life

It is time to step up Madam, start with your looks and hair, not too much make up , then your wardrobe, tight fittng clothing that shows your shape. It could be turkish gown or local sewn to make you look younger. If there is no shape again please hit the gym.
Not forgetting you use good body spray and ensure even your hair cream has a good fragrance . Let your bedroom as well have a good fragrance that set the pace for romance. Take every opportunity to show him respect.Avoid quarrel and practise subtle seduction
He may not take notice immediately but preserve.
Then finally don't pray for him to be poor, pray that he should be blind to any other woman except you.


If things turns out positive, promise to contact me for reward

Hmm
In marriage the Golden rule for men," Don't marry her if you don't love her"
The Golden rule for women, " Don't marry him if you can't see anything in him that will make you respect him"

You broke the rule
Now you want pity

Now take a good look at the mother of your daughter, do you still see love not pity for her if not free her forever

Enculer2:
Is she disabled?

I don't think so, I believe she posted it for us to tell her to make the most of the situation

Did you go to the registry for your wedding?
Did you do traditional wedding?

If no to above then you are still single!

If yes to above sue him and he must pay you monthly salary and your child school fees till your child finish university

I don't talk much

arinpe16:
@baby124, He prays regularly and we have kids.
@pharmagba Did you read the post at all? He's the one telling me that I'm not marketable again. As per obedience and humility, don't judge please. You do not know me.
He doesn't set good example for me. He will pray, eat my food, have sex with me and still keep malice with me? Is that what the Qur'an says about religion? We've been together for 5 years and he didn't see it as a big deal. Why is it now that everything good is coming his way, he suddenly start seeing me as being a devil, not marketable and what not.
So, I'll have to pray for him to love me and do his right? Just imagine. He can't even correct me without threatening me with divorce. Is being divorced a disease?

As long as I never wish him bad and I'm trying, he should know I'll get there, but it takes time. So, i ask again, is divorce the answer?

Please pardon me if I have been tough on you.
I read very well.
You told us your only 'offence is not praying'.which to me is a minor issue and you can ajust if you so which for peace and unity.

If you truly want a sound advice put all the cards bare on the table.
Please give answers to this question
Are you respecting him?
Apart from the prayer what are the main thing he is always complaining of?
What are the bad examples he is setting apart from malice?
In what ways have you tried to make peace? What are is response?
When he threaten you with divorce, what was your response?
Do you ever really loved him or was it a marriage by pity?
Do you still love him?
What are the things you hate most about him?
What are the things you hate in your marriage?
Is an old lover coming back into your life?
Do you feel you've reached a point and you want to quit?

If you can sincerely answer these questions, then I may advise from a more informed standpoint.

arinpe16:
Good evening everyone. Please I need your advice.

My husband has been keeping malice with me because I don't pray regularly again (we're Muslims) and he's threatening to divorce me (we only did court wedding and yet to do Nikkah).

He's eats my food but doesn't talk to me. This has been going on for over a year now and it's getting worse. Can I tell his parents? They are strong Muslims and I'm afraid they may blame me more. He also doesn't give me money anymore. I'm tired of his stinginess and he's very insensitive. He believes I'm a devil since I don't pray even though things have changed for the better for him since we met.

He also doesn't believe I can get a husband since I'm close to 35. Please, I'm confused. I don't know what to do.

I need to be blunt with you since you asked for my advice

You are not wise at all.
Look at the reason you are giving, that you are not praying regularly

Praying to God is a test of humility. A great man once said, "if I want to humble a man, I ask him how long he prays"
It simply means you are full of pride and very disobedient wife. You are even considering your marketability when you eventually leaves his house.
If things continue like this let me tell you what will happen, he will definitely throw you out of his life, not only his house and he will get a better lady and live happily ever after and you may also get a another husband who will also throw you out after some time. Why? Simple. It is because you will display your rotten character.


My advice if you really want to make things work
Be humble to your husband, respect and obey him. It is not to much to pray even if it is 100times daily. Any woman that humbles herself and respect her husband especially if the man is Godly, will always find favour with him. In fact such men will go out of their ways to satisfy and make her happy but if you don't respect him forget about getting any dime from him.
You have wasted so much time, start the amendment today. Thank God he had not told his parent.

A word is enough for the wise

Boringdraw1:
So he can also keep means 2 in 1 talent unlike the short "Messiah" who has only play in one position and have continue to remain in one club and his worshippers sees him as a god filled with talent when someone has two in some cases five( like the legend himself GOAT).

I learnt Messi is good at saving freekicks

This is not true, they do opposite

Less heat for occupant?

You talk like a layman.
You tone indicate you don't like this government and you could tell us what you produce to get a better background
This administration has been investing in technology for agriculture and I believe the closure was an assessment of how far we have achieved in feeding ourselves. The increase in price indicate we still have have to increase our production
Let not politicise everything

Sanwo olu that could not hit the ground running
He seem to be overwhelmed by the postion as Lagos state governor or he obviously do not have a blue print or agenda

So sad, my beloved Lagos, even the flooding indicates that even the gods are weeping profusely on the ineptitude of the government of the day

Welcome to Nigeria.
99% of the problem is the state governors, pardon me to state that they are bunch of heartless hooligans.
They all hide under federal government and start perpetuating secret corruption. It high time Nigerian's start scrutinising their activity.
Nobody verifies how many project budgeted was completed with amount. It was only Fashola, ex gov of Lagos that was bold enough to put everything online for all to see with amount.

I think it high time poltical parties develop a technical and competency interview-like method of screening aspirants not godfatherism and money bags that we currently practice if indeed we want to develop as nation.

If it is only the responsibilities of his parent it is ok
But the worst is he make so much sacrifices that he may never recover to enjoy his own life

Good

Kudos EFCC , I know Nigeria knows what to do when it really want to work

Empredboy:
my dear my client is on life support as I type now since 3 weeks ago because his ginger has spoilt at Seme border worth #24m going to Mali, poultries in Badagry close to border whose customers are benins are crying because they have excess eggs. Now they are force to take it to Lagos on that bad Badagry expressway.

Please be quick to think outside the box
Find out how ginger can be preserved quickly and take immediate step
It is border closure today it could be accident or another situation tomorrow

You may be surprised it may not cost you N1m to preserve the ginger

Take action now, you don't have control over the border , take action on the one you have control over

paulchucks:
This border closure is killing businesses in Nigeria but govt don't know, they are protecting rice and killing one million businesses. like it or not our neighbouring countries buy 40% of what we produce go the border and see over a thousand trailers moving goods out of the country majority manufactured here even agricultural products
My customer from Niger Republic told me how they donated money for their friends who main trade is to buy orange from the south here and sell in Niger Republic but was cut out and the lorry load of oranges spoiled leaving him bankrupt this orange is an agricultural product also and is one among hundreds also suffering. Some companies are producing at 50%capacity now for lack of customers, the govt should have a rethink.

It time to start thinking outside the box
We got to set up an orange juice factory

chrisagyei:
You Nigerians are very funny oo.I already told you that GUTA already hate you and had just gotten the perfect opportunity to get all Nigerian competitors and traders out from Ghana. Remember that Ghana is already 30 million people and has the second largest economy in West Africa and higher GDP per capita than Nigeria. There're more than 4 million Nigerians living and working in Ghana together with their families. Ghana doesn't really produce anything for exports into West Africa except some few alcoholic companies. Now if these millions of Nigerians living in Ghana are frustrated and forced out of Ghana, your same people will be shouting ECOWAS and xenophobia. Now let's see if any Nigerian will shout ECOWAS again. Just this year,just 400 Nigerian shops and businesses were locked in just one spare parts town in another city called Kumasi alone and you people were all over the place. You wannabe giants were mocking our leaders that they're begging you. For them they always want peace just like the South African leaders try to make peace buh we the people of Ghana don't want to see you Nigerians in our country and don't even care or heard of any border closure .F**k peace. That's the honest situation on the ground .Seriously I love my country Ghana more than myself." God Bless our Homeland Ghana, And Make Her Great And Strong ".I hate to see my fellow brothers and sisters from Nigeria insult my nation Ghana.

Your president woke up from the slumber he had in Russia and this is the best( worst) he can do?
This is a good developmet, let all NigerIan in Ghana come home, it may be a little difficult now but they will be happier for it , we need all Nigerian to put our country back in perfect shape.
This action Ghana will regret it till eternity and about the border close just forget any reopening till 2023.
Its a good time to know that Ghanians are the smugglers

Lifestone:
Ecowas protocol do not support snuggling or trading in goods there were not manufactured in Ecowas. That is why a corridor is being created for legitimate goods from Ghana

Don't deceive yourself
Corridor ko, passage ni

Buhari has shut the border and there are cctv camera at all our borders, it is only TV those in aso rock are watching 24/7, besides all the keys are in .........
You can guess

You better watch it
Remember the song, ' Do your best and leave the rest....'
Don't commit because of a lady, if you pa another will take over with immediate alacrity

Once know a guy who went taking vega to show a lady, the next day his heart was beating rapidly he was having headache , he spent two days in the hospital. The lady he was preparing for didn't even show up to say to him on the hospital bed

Rubbiish:
Hello
Is this pharmacology very different from pharmacy

Yes.
People that study pharmacy are pharmacist. Before you become a pharmacist you must have conquered the five department : pharmacology, pharmacognosy, pharmaceutical technology, pharmaceutical chemistry and clinical pharmacy

Pharmacology is just one department and doesn't make one a pharmacist

Oblongata:
That artist wey draw them needs glasses

You said my mind
Na Ike for BBnja I dey see so

ManirBK:
May Allah makes it easy and make the establishememt a succesful one.
DOGO DAN DAURA IS WORKING NEXT LEVEL ASSURED!!!

What's your motivation for this picture?

Alaniyiokorausa:
When you people in power are making life more difficult for ordinary Nigerians, now parents hardly send enough feeding money for their kids at school and the children have to study, you also stole what does not belong to you,thief.

How could you ever justify criminal.
No reason can be accepted,
Let me tell you when I was in the university things were tough I have to be tougher I engaged in three occupation. I was selling fishes going from Epe to my institution environment, I was a barber , a clipper and all it accessories always in my bag and I was also taking some student jamb lessons.
In fact I was taking money home instead of collecting from home.

Bro it was tough, but crime was not an option.
I didn't have any girlfriend till I left university, although it has it own demerits but I was focused.
But nowadays, the craze for affluence to show off and get rich quick driving them to all manner of crime.

Final note: One may complain of many things not going right in Nigeria, but when you commit crime you will know the Nigerian Police knows how to work .I ve seen lots of youth waste away just because of just a little indiscretion by engaging in 'petty crime'

Stanolychib:
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Why?
Please give reasons

Their ladies are muscular like Arnold Swazenegger in his youth days

UCyril:
Why do most Igbo politician like complaining. Must we depend on govt even when it's very clear they don't want to develop the south east. Igbo leaders should start thinking. The 5 south east governors should come together to rebuilt Enugu international airport , work hand in hand with akwa ibom state to develop a seaport ( in fact invest in the project) and construct a railway from the seaport to Onitsha and Aba .then watch Lagos economy cripple in lest than 3months. Let's start thinking

Brilliant suggestion, but alas you ended by ".....lagos economy cripple. ."

Come off that mentality, rather have a mentality as "...overall increase the economy of Nigeria. ."

Writer is biased tried to elevate activities of Ekweremadu and south east governors between 2007 and 2009. What happened between 2009-2015, when Jonathan was in power and Ekweremadu still hold sway and their daughter, Stella was the minister of aviation? Could they not have pushed for it.
The writer(I don't want to generalise the SE) want to present case as if the other region don't like them or don't want their progress whereas the reverse is the case. Ops also presenting issue in the assumption that the other regions are scared of the south east. This is arrogance .
Lastly the writer is popagating falsehood . The fact that most importers of commodity ( NOT industrial goods) seems to be from the southeasterners they are not the consumers, their market is in Lagos not East and the fact that the zone is landlocked , makes Lagos to be the prefered choice as it is also close to the source of market

Free trade not the way to go for Nigeria
African government cannot be trusted, they can sabotage or compromise the security of Neighbouring country for personal gain.