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Just report to the authorities. Kapish!
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I am tired!
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Sometimes.
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Op,
Define 'decent'.
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Who be this one again? Where did she escape from?
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Ragdolls, quit it! Wtf?
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Do u need proof?
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[quote author=aloy/emeka link=topic=632281.msg7993507#msg7993507 date=1301180107][size=14pt]Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?[/size]


Font size:    Published 26/03/2011 15:35:00 Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

7 hours 16 minutes ago

According to the Pew Research Center’s analysis of recent US Census’s demographic data, one-in-seven new marriages in the US are interracial or interethnic.
This number is stunning especially considering the fact that until forty-four years ago, interracial liaisons were unlawful in 16 or so states. And even in states were they were not proscribed, they were frowned upon. At the very least, such relationships and encounters conflicted with the social mores of several enclaves. It sounds silly now, but really, it was only in June 1967 that the U.S. Supreme Court, in Loving v. Virginia, knocked down the Virginia law that forbade whites from marrying blacks. In the intervening years, however, America has become more diverse than any other country in the industrialized world.

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The data in question seem not to separate Africans from the African-Americans and the general non-white pool. Therefore, one is unable to make statistically valid deductions as to why Africans, in greater numbers, are attracted to and are marrying white women. To be clear: this essay does not make any scientific statement or conclusion. I have only taken the liberty to make inferences from my years of cursory observations in and around several enclaves across the United States. What’s more, I have friends and friends of friends who have dated, dating, have married or are currently married to white and Hispanic women and women of Asian background. This essay, then, looks at why African men are attracted to non-African women. I have used white women to denote all non-African women from the US, Latin America, Europe and elsewhere. The question here is simple: why are African men into white women? What’s the attraction?
First is the liberal attitude of many African men. After several years of living in the US, some seems to have come to the conclusion that African women are simply too raw, unrefined and conservative. The alternative then becomes women who, in their opinion, are stylish, sassy and spunky and nontraditional.  They seek women who are liberal and with expansive worldview that fits with their new orbit. Second is the issue of the proverbial American dream. That is to say that the African immigrants are not much different from other immigrants who come to the US in search of the American dream. America, after all, is the land of endless possibilities. To get their feet inside the American door, therefore, some believe they needed an agreeable native to help them through this process (without which the American dream may become very difficult to achieve).
The third factor revolves around the issue of compatibility and companionship. The room-mate phenomenon where you test-drive a relationship is not very common in Africa. Some men and women feel trapped by such reality. In a society where trial-and-error relationships are not very common, couples may be subjected to a life of anguish should things go awry. But in the US, one could test-drive a relationship without long term commitment. This kind of arrangement gives the Africans the opportunity to explore alternatives. And this, they cannot easily and readily do, with African women.

In the movies and in magazines, most white women are depicted as sensual, sexual and alluring; and as creatures to be taken. These images, and the messages they send have not escaped the mind of a typical African male. Once in the U.S, all he wants is what he has for so long desired. He itches to poke, to bite and to lick the once forbidden fruit. In other words, the untouchable become touchable. For many African men, once they taste the white honey, they may never go back to the blackberry basket. And the fifth reason is this:  for some Africans, the mind altering sex is a standalone reason to want the white woman. The argument, as some have posited, is that most African women are bad at sex. Even terrible! Most, I am told, just lay there -- motionless. White women, the argument goes, makes a man think of things he shouldn’t be thinking about; thoughts he shouldn’t be having, and fantasies he shouldn’t be floating in.

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This is pure crap. Black babes are better.
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What's that? Explain.
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Dude, face front. This is a private discussion. Thank you!
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LittleNerd:
so heres the deal my boy friend cheated on me with some random chick i aint eva met and i slapped him on the face , i mean id rather be dumped than cheated on , the nigga deserved it

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Hmmm.
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Hairs from ma balls? Wanna do it for me?
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190, did you open yaba left gate again?
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Wtf? I guess the OP does not know the real meaning of hot.
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O boy, see war. Of who's hotter! Wtf?
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Op,
Did you have sex with any of them?
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No, i aint telling. If i do, the intrigue will end.
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No. Why would i?
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Mamagee, you must be really ugly (No offense).
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Why is Nl a madhouse on weekends?
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sckipbanj:
am sckipbanj 4rm badagry,hello can i here 4rm u

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Sorry, we dont speak swahili here.
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Dude, are you really that bored?
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Its Chinese. Why ya denying yaself? It aint cool.
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yeah, and am Mandarian.
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Anna, ask Goldie to interpret for you. She's Ibo.

190, may your tongue glue to your upper pallete, cos of your blasphemy.
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MzDarkSkin:
[color=#0066ff]@phate lol. yes mr. mediator.
as for being good friends that is not the first time i have
heard the line but as far as she is concerned that would never happen.
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Aha, i think we are having progress, you stopped calling Ragdolls 'it' and called her 'she'. Now, thats the right way.

Lets try this little experiment. For the net 2 weeks, you'll be nice to her and she'll be nice to you. No name calling, No bad blood.

And i will be the arbitrator.

Deal?
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annawhite:
phate I'm sorry pls I dnt speak ibo neither do o understan the above line pls do me a favor and interpret what is written up there.



I b Efik abeg

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Do you use 'tufiakwa' in Efik? I was led to believe you understand Igbo. My bad if you dont understand, was jus tryna strike a chord of kinship.
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MsDarkskin, let bygones be bygones. One step to ending this is to stop the name-calling, you should try and refer to her as . Ragdolls which is her moniker here on Nl.

And the same goes for you too, Ragdolls. Be nice.

I believe you two can be great friends, with time. But first of all, you have to end this dispute.
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HaveSense1:
No, I think YOU need to wake up my good fellow. Wake up and smell the flowers, because if it were not for the CHANGING seasons, there wouldn't be any flowers. This world is CHANGING every day. Who said I would let the woman be the head of the family? Where in my post did you read that? Why are you making things up to further your own agenda? I said that I see NO PROBLEM with a woman proposing to a man. You guys and your weak manhood. So if a woman proposes, the man automatically loses his spot at the head of the household? That his manliness shrivels up and falls off as soon as she pops that question? Afraid that if a woman does something she doesn't suppose to, you cry foul like children.

Ridiculous.

I suggest you stop living under that pebble you call home and stop being a caveman.

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Its know obvious you are a phoking reeeetard. So i wont condescend to arguing ith you.

My suggestion to you is to change the 'm' in your name to 'f', and start wearing skirts.

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Okay ladies, you need to quash this, whatever it is. One of ya need to act matured and stop this stoopid back-and-fro. It is not nice.
Thank you!
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annawhite:
Dis phate is so so odd
Tufiakwa

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Nne, ke kwanu ife mmere iji akporo m mmo?


Iya, ok but the guy sounded as if it was a matter of life and death.
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