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doing it for her this time would give her the guts to do it herself the next time

am I the only one that sees photoshop in the picture?

too much oyibo film. chaii

WE SHOULDN'T ALL BE FEMINISTS
I'm sorry but this is getting out of hand. What are you fighting for exactly? You wanna be president? You want a timetable between you and your husband for who gets to cook when? You want to sit on high tables without just being your husband's escort? You want to be engineers?
Oh! But you can't kill cockroach. You're jumping on his new leather couch screaming "Baby, kill it before it flies!!!" And if he holds the door open for you, you walk right through as though you're Taylor freaking Swift! Me! I don't believe that what a man can do, a woman can do better (especially after tasting my Uncle's Egusi soup. Mehn! That soup was meannn). Where was I? Yes. If we could do better, God wouldn't waste his time moulding fine bearded men or round bellied daddies. We can't do everything better. Because we were created for different things. I for one, will not, gaan be dragging generator when a man is dia! Why do you now have muscle?
But the things a woman, can do, a real woman, all men put together cannot even collectively fathom it. Quote me anywhere. There is a reason God felt the need to complete creation by creating a woman.
I tell people " What a man can do, a woman doesn't need to do anymore".
So please, feminists, keep fighting for us. We'll need it some day. But I'll be right here being a woman.
#Girlpower #Manpower #ProudEngineer
By Jennifer Adaku Orji

bleaching is now so normal in Nigeria that nobody notices it anymore

abegii.. you know how many Naija girls go shave head if the guy is as rich as he looks? Naija girls fit enter leash, come be to shave ordinary head. #showmethemoney

that thing go dey suck more of their sense out

eightsin:
And you refused? Please link up asap karoall41@yahoo.com

the question na weda you sabi ....?

was thinking op was talking about Kanye's kid

RIPEnglish:
This is Humans trafficking, the people involve should be putted in jailed.

you rep your name 100%. I trowey cap for you

Child probably would've lived a hard life anyway. all things work together for good.

When you say photos, give us what we expect. not irrelevant things

JideSM:
Hi Phaytte, i'm truly sorry about this experience. I wish to inform you that i currently run a thread here called: https://www.nairaland.com/1379574/mtn-customer-care-thread/ where issues like these are being tendered for assistance. I will appreciate if you can send your mobile number to me via PM to enable me assist. Looking forward to hearing from you. Regards

would I get a refund?

eyah... he looks like a father. I pity his kid(s) if he has any

I'm writing this with a heavy heart. MTN has done this to me, not once, not even twice, and I know they are continuously doing it to many other users out there. it is annoying, and I am angry. so I've decided to narrate my ordeal, maybe you too would narrate yours, and maybe together we can all send them back to where they came from.
So I checked my account balance, and a whole #200 was missing (money I was gradually saving up to subscribe with).
I called them and what they told me after putting me on hold for about 20 minutes was that I am not getting a refund because it was deducted for game+, something I never subscribed for (and can never subscribe for even if I'm sleepwalking).
This thing has happened before in November last year (I have a screenshot to prove it). I called them and they assured me they would cancel the nonsense subscription even without a refund, I agreed. obviously, they lied.

something of this nature happened with my etisalat sim and when I called them, the sent me my money without many talks.
there are other networks and I don't even know the exact reason why I still use MTN.

I am contemplating breaking the sim card or grinding it.

in case you intend to get a new sim card, please don't buy MTN.

they bought him biscuits and sweet... guy dey flex, una dey vex.. awon haters

Nonsense... his mates dey use charity celebrate things

these things were done by Fashola...

go through all these trouble...? shebi they would beat me if I decide to not reply their messages nii?

I don't know if I was actually circumcised and the thought of it scares me..

FEMALE GENITAL MUTILATION
Defined in 1997 by the WHO,UNICEF and UNFPA as the "partial or total removal of the external female Instruments or other injury to the female genital organs for non-medical reasons."

Psychosocial and sexual aspects of female circumcision

S. Abdel-Azim

Abstract

Sexual behavior is a result of interaction of biology and psychology. Sexual excitement of the female can be triggered by stimulation of erotogenic areas; part of which is the clitoris. Female circumcision is done to minimize sexual desire and to preserve virginity. This procedure can lead to psychological trauma to the child; with anxiety, panic attacks and sense of humiliation. Cultural traditions and social pressures can affect as well the unexcised girl. Female circumcision can reduce female sexual response, and may lead to anorgasmia and even frigidity. This procedure is now prohibited by law in Egypt.

Introduction

Sex is one of the basic drives. Impairment of this drive/sexual functioning can have a profound effect on the persons’ quality of life and other aspects of functioning. Sexual behavior represents a very complex and interesting interaction of biology and psychology. Sexual excitement represents a complex interaction of central and peripheral nervous systems, modified by various psychological and physical factors [1]. Masters and Johnson [2] introduced the idea of human sexual response including excitement, orgasm and resolution phases. Later Kaplan [3] added the desire phase. The desire phase reflects motivations, drives and personality and is characterized by sexual fantasies and the desire to have sexual activity, and in the female is controlled mainly by androgens particularly testosterone secreted by the ovaries. Excitement phase is a result of sexual stimulation either physical on psychological. Sexual excitement in the female can be observed in a generalized bodily reaction of myotonia and vasocongestion of the clitoris which is enlarged together with the uterus, expansion and ballooning of the vagina and vaginal lubrication. The clitoris is heavily endowed with nerve endings responding the touch, its stimulation can trigger an orgasm. But orgasm in the female is a complex central nervous system function and the clitoris is only a small part of the structure responding to stimulation including the vaginal introitus, the anterior wall with endings responding to deep pressure which indicates that stimulation through the clitoris is a part of the organs contributing to the total response.

This can explain why women who have undergone clitoridectomy have been able to experience orgasm [4]. However, presence of a part of the clitoris and labia minora can lead to increased frequency of orgasm than complete excision. The vestibule of the vagina is also an important source of erotic stimulation as the labia minora or the clitoris [5]. This can be achieved through tactile stimulation by the male Instruments or body pressing against the labia minora, the clitoris and the vaginal vestibule. Other stimulation can occur through total body contact with partner, stimulation of levator ring muscles, stimulation of nerves lying on the perineal muscle mass (pelvic ring), end organs in the wall of the vagina itself and breast tissues. Orgasms can be triggered through the use of fantasy alone without sexual partner or any physical manipulation of self.

Female circumcision

This includes four types: the sunna circumcision which consists of removal of the prepuce of the clitoris only, preserving the clitoris itself; excision or reduction which means removal of the prepuce, the glans of the clitoris together with adjacent parts of labia minora or the whole of it including labia majora; the infibulation which is more complicated by suturing the vaginal introitus after excision leaving only small opening for the menses and urine.

Female circumcision is done to minimize sexual desire and to preserve virginity [6].

Psychological complications of female circumcision

Baasher [7] reported “it is quite obvious that the mere notion of surgical interference in highly sensitive genital organs constitutes a serious threat to the child and that the painful operation is a source of major physical as well as psychological trauma.

Anxiety, night mares with panic, subsequent sense of humiliation and being betrayed by her parents can be observed after circumcision. On the other hand, in a community with sufficient pressure put on the child to believe that her clitoris or genitals are dirty, dangerous or a source of irresistible temptation, she will feel relieved psychologically, if made like every female else. To be different produces as well anxiety and mental conflict. An unexcised non-infibulated girl is despised and made the target of ridicule and no one in the community will marry her.

Sexual complications of female circumcision

Excision of the clitoris and/or other sensitive parts of the female Instruments reduces the female sexual response, may lead to anorgasmia and even frigidity, cases of tight infibulations, where the husbands are unable to penetrate into the vagina, resort to anal intercourse or even used the uretheral meatus as an opening [8] and consummation of marriage may take several weeks [9]. The process of the infibulation is painful and may take a long time up to two years to complete the consummation during which women seek medical help for infertility.

The psychological and social impact of being sterile is profound because a woman's worth is usually measured by her fertility and being sterile can be a cause for a divorce [10].

On the other hand, some circumcised women report having satisfying sexual relations including sexual desire, pleasure and orgasm. Female genital mutilation does not eliminate sexual pleasure totally for every woman who undergoes the procedure, but it does reduce the likely of orgasm.

Conclusions

Circumcision of females or female genital mutation (FGM) is a cruel procedure, a cultural tradition, which deprives women of sexual satisfaction, exposes them to psychological and physical complications. It is now prohibited by law, but this is not sufficient to eradicate. Still we need more effort to change these cultural beliefs.

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(you know say plagiarism na serious offense. I'm telling you now it's not mine. #cntrlccntrlv)

this particular act is prevalent in Nigeria, especially the southern part. this is really serious and our grand mothers and unschooled mothers do not know the consequences attached to it. so please, spread the word in any way you can.
tell them that the days when total destruction of the genitals would prevent people from having sex are gone,this generation must find a way.. there is no point to it anymore. here, cost outweighs benefit so please, project is no longer feasible.

Liljeez:
Phaytte,ASUU didn't embark on a personal strike with the govt. ASUU is a subsidiary of NLC,alongside NUJ,NUC,NUT,NUPENG,etc...A strike by NLC affects all of this bodies,thats why

Hope you understand ??

thank you

not good.
no matter how much we try to deny it, people open blogs to get gists and entertainment, not to get educated

Economics. anybody can be an accountant... in Nigeria, an SSCE holder with an ICAN certificate is more valuable than a BSC holder in Accounting.. anybody can be a Chartered Accountant irrespective of your discipline, you just have to pass their(ICAN) exams.. but you have to go through the university to be a certified Economist. and An Economist is a Business Administrator also... it's just too many things in one.

I'm a student of the University of Benin and people have been sending all sorts of messages stating that the university is resuming lectures today following the suspension of the NLC strike (but ASUU is a different body right?). some of those messages have proven to be "old gists" about the 2013 strike, and some have not.
As much as I'm enjoying the strike, I don't want to miss a single lecture. so I'm here asking for clarity.
please help me with the real gist

Clear road

This one long o... The exam go be theory or obj?

timidapsin:
[size=14pt]Kids for that matter May God safe us, MyFantasies remember when your Mom used to send me away when we were younger? Just to avoid all this...
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God wll SAFE us o

The Lady in the picture in front of the coffin looks about 50... Lesson learnt though

Na my RANGE I take read the post so

wiringdpt:
Nigerian police and foolishness is like bread and beans

Like siamese twins

For 850k, I would accept a job that receiving insults is the main job..