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Family / Re: A Guy Impregnanted My 16 Years Old Sister. by Phaytte(f): 6:37am On Oct 31, 2017 |
doing it for her this time would give her the guts to do it herself the next time |
Crime / Re: 2 Men With 2 Human Wrists Arrested By Ogun State Police (Photo) by Phaytte(f): 11:55am On Sep 06, 2017 |
am I the only one that sees photoshop in the picture? |
Romance / Re: Ladies, Be Proud Of Your Bodycount! by Phaytte(f): 7:08pm On May 08, 2017 |
too much oyibo film.
chaii |
Nairaland / General / We Shouldn't All Be Feminists by Phaytte(f): 4:29pm On May 08, 2017 |
WE SHOULDN'T ALL BE FEMINISTS I'm sorry but this is getting out of hand. What are you fighting for exactly? You wanna be president? You want a timetable between you and your husband for who gets to cook when? You want to sit on high tables without just being your husband's escort? You want to be engineers? Oh! But you can't kill cockroach. You're jumping on his new leather couch screaming "Baby, kill it before it flies!!!" And if he holds the door open for you, you walk right through as though you're Taylor freaking Swift! Me! I don't believe that what a man can do, a woman can do better (especially after tasting my Uncle's Egusi soup. Mehn! That soup was meannn). Where was I? Yes. If we could do better, God wouldn't waste his time moulding fine bearded men or round bellied daddies. We can't do everything better. Because we were created for different things. I for one, will not, gaan be dragging generator when a man is dia! Why do you now have muscle? But the things a woman, can do, a real woman, all men put together cannot even collectively fathom it. Quote me anywhere. There is a reason God felt the need to complete creation by creating a woman. I tell people " What a man can do, a woman doesn't need to do anymore". So please, feminists, keep fighting for us. We'll need it some day. But I'll be right here being a woman. #Girlpower #Manpower #ProudEngineer By Jennifer Adaku Orji 1 Like |
Literature / Lady Says "We Shouldn't All Be Feminists" by Phaytte(f): 4:18pm On May 08, 2017 |
WE SHOULDN'T ALL BE FEMINISTS I'm sorry but this is getting out of hand. What are you fighting for exactly? You wanna be president? You want a timetable between you and your husband for who gets to cook when? You want to sit on high tables without just being your husband's escort? You want to be engineers? Oh! But you can't kill cockroach. You're jumping on his new leather couch screaming "Baby, kill it before it flies!!!" And if he holds the door open for you, you walk right through as though you're Taylor freaking Swift! Me! I don't believe that what a man can do, a woman can do better (especially after tasting my Uncle's Egusi soup. Mehn! That soup was meannn). Where was I? Yes. If we could do better, God wouldn't waste his time moulding fine bearded men or round bellied daddies. We can't do everything better. Because we were created for different things. I for one, will not, gaan be dragging generator when a man is dia! Why do you now have muscle? But the things a woman, can do, a real woman, all men put together cannot even collectively fathom it. Quote me anywhere. There is a reason God felt the need to complete creation by creating a woman. I tell people " What a man can do, a woman doesn't need to do anymore". So please, feminists, keep fighting for us. We'll need it some day. But I'll be right here being a woman. #Girlpower #Manpower #ProudEngineer By Jennifer Adaku Orji |
Phones / Re: Facebook User Shares Amazing Transformation Photo by Phaytte(f): 3:34pm On Jan 28, 2017 |
bleaching is now so normal in Nigeria that nobody notices it anymore |
Romance / Re: Bride Shaves Her Head At Her Wedding To Support Her Terminally Ill Groom by Phaytte(f): 11:31pm On Jan 13, 2017 |
abegii..
you know how many Naija girls go shave head if the guy is as rich as he looks?
Naija girls fit enter leash, come be to shave ordinary head.
#showmethemoney |
Politics / Re: The Skullcap Nnamdi Kanu & His Partners Wore To Court Today (Photos) by Phaytte(f): 7:44pm On Jan 10, 2017 |
that thing go dey suck more of their sense out |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Friend Offers Man N400k Monthly Job Which Involves Sleeping With Women In Italy by Phaytte(f): 4:22pm On Jan 10, 2017 |
eightsin:the question na weda you sabi ....? |
Politics / Re: African Devt Bank To Fund Agro-industrial Park For North West by Phaytte(f): 3:59pm On Jan 10, 2017 |
was thinking op was talking about Kanye's kid |
Travel / Re: Airport Official Catches Man Packaged As Yam Inside A Carton (video) by Phaytte(f): 6:39pm On Jan 09, 2017 |
RIPEnglish: you rep your name 100%. I trowey cap for you |
Crime / Re: New Born Baby Found Dead After Being Dumped & Abandoned In A Sewage.Graphic Pics by Phaytte(f): 3:21pm On Jan 09, 2017 |
Child probably would've lived a hard life anyway. all things work together for good. |
Crime / Re: Two Corpses Discovered In A Ditch Opposite A Hotel In Delta State. Photos by Phaytte(f): 3:09pm On Jan 09, 2017 |
When you say photos, give us what we expect. not irrelevant things |
Crime / Re: Mtn, Scam Network by Phaytte(f): 2:24pm On Jan 09, 2017 |
JideSM: would I get a refund? |
Crime / Re: Man Who Stole A Bag Of Rice, Made To Carry The Rice & A Block For Hours by Phaytte(f): 4:38am On Jan 09, 2017 |
eyah... he looks like a father.
I pity his kid(s) if he has any 1 Like |
Crime / Mtn, Scam Network by Phaytte(f): 2:42am On Jan 09, 2017 |
I'm writing this with a heavy heart. MTN has done this to me, not once, not even twice, and I know they are continuously doing it to many other users out there. it is annoying, and I am angry. so I've decided to narrate my ordeal, maybe you too would narrate yours, and maybe together we can all send them back to where they came from. So I checked my account balance, and a whole #200 was missing (money I was gradually saving up to subscribe with). I called them and what they told me after putting me on hold for about 20 minutes was that I am not getting a refund because it was deducted for game+, something I never subscribed for (and can never subscribe for even if I'm sleepwalking). This thing has happened before in November last year (I have a screenshot to prove it). I called them and they assured me they would cancel the nonsense subscription even without a refund, I agreed. obviously, they lied. something of this nature happened with my etisalat sim and when I called them, the sent me my money without many talks. there are other networks and I don't even know the exact reason why I still use MTN. I am contemplating breaking the sim card or grinding it. in case you intend to get a new sim card, please don't buy MTN.
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Culture / Re: A Child's Legs Buried In Benue Over His Inability To Walk As At When Due (Pics) by Phaytte(f): 4:00am On Dec 11, 2016 |
they bought him biscuits and sweet... guy dey flex, una dey vex.. awon haters |
Celebrities / Re: Flavour Celebrates Culture With Shirtless Photos by Phaytte(f): 1:21pm On Nov 08, 2016 |
Nonsense...
his mates dey use charity celebrate things |
Travel / Re: Molade Street Ajegunle, Now A Small London -residents by Phaytte(f): 7:25am On Aug 17, 2016 |
these things were done by Fashola... |
Phones / Re: See The Best Ways To Go Invisible On Whatsapp. by Phaytte(f): 7:08am On Aug 17, 2016 |
go through all these trouble...? shebi they would beat me if I decide to not reply their messages nii? 1 Like |
Culture / FGM Aka Female Circumcision Is Dangerous by Phaytte(f): 2:34am On Jun 04, 2016 |
I don't know if I was actually circumcised and the thought of it scares me.. FEMALE GENITAL MUTILATION Defined in 1997 by the WHO,UNICEF and UNFPA as the "partial or total removal of the external female Instruments or other injury to the female genital organs for non-medical reasons." Psychosocial and sexual aspects of female circumcision S. Abdel-Azim Abstract Sexual behavior is a result of interaction of biology and psychology. Sexual excitement of the female can be triggered by stimulation of erotogenic areas; part of which is the clitoris. Female circumcision is done to minimize sexual desire and to preserve virginity. This procedure can lead to psychological trauma to the child; with anxiety, panic attacks and sense of humiliation. Cultural traditions and social pressures can affect as well the unexcised girl. Female circumcision can reduce female sexual response, and may lead to anorgasmia and even frigidity. This procedure is now prohibited by law in Egypt. Introduction Sex is one of the basic drives. Impairment of this drive/sexual functioning can have a profound effect on the persons’ quality of life and other aspects of functioning. Sexual behavior represents a very complex and interesting interaction of biology and psychology. Sexual excitement represents a complex interaction of central and peripheral nervous systems, modified by various psychological and physical factors [1]. Masters and Johnson [2] introduced the idea of human sexual response including excitement, orgasm and resolution phases. Later Kaplan [3] added the desire phase. The desire phase reflects motivations, drives and personality and is characterized by sexual fantasies and the desire to have sexual activity, and in the female is controlled mainly by androgens particularly testosterone secreted by the ovaries. Excitement phase is a result of sexual stimulation either physical on psychological. Sexual excitement in the female can be observed in a generalized bodily reaction of myotonia and vasocongestion of the clitoris which is enlarged together with the uterus, expansion and ballooning of the vagina and vaginal lubrication. The clitoris is heavily endowed with nerve endings responding the touch, its stimulation can trigger an orgasm. But orgasm in the female is a complex central nervous system function and the clitoris is only a small part of the structure responding to stimulation including the vaginal introitus, the anterior wall with endings responding to deep pressure which indicates that stimulation through the clitoris is a part of the organs contributing to the total response. This can explain why women who have undergone clitoridectomy have been able to experience orgasm [4]. However, presence of a part of the clitoris and labia minora can lead to increased frequency of orgasm than complete excision. The vestibule of the vagina is also an important source of erotic stimulation as the labia minora or the clitoris [5]. This can be achieved through tactile stimulation by the male Instruments or body pressing against the labia minora, the clitoris and the vaginal vestibule. Other stimulation can occur through total body contact with partner, stimulation of levator ring muscles, stimulation of nerves lying on the perineal muscle mass (pelvic ring), end organs in the wall of the vagina itself and breast tissues. Orgasms can be triggered through the use of fantasy alone without sexual partner or any physical manipulation of self. Female circumcision This includes four types: the sunna circumcision which consists of removal of the prepuce of the clitoris only, preserving the clitoris itself; excision or reduction which means removal of the prepuce, the glans of the clitoris together with adjacent parts of labia minora or the whole of it including labia majora; the infibulation which is more complicated by suturing the vaginal introitus after excision leaving only small opening for the menses and urine. Female circumcision is done to minimize sexual desire and to preserve virginity [6]. Psychological complications of female circumcision Baasher [7] reported “it is quite obvious that the mere notion of surgical interference in highly sensitive genital organs constitutes a serious threat to the child and that the painful operation is a source of major physical as well as psychological trauma. Anxiety, night mares with panic, subsequent sense of humiliation and being betrayed by her parents can be observed after circumcision. On the other hand, in a community with sufficient pressure put on the child to believe that her clitoris or genitals are dirty, dangerous or a source of irresistible temptation, she will feel relieved psychologically, if made like every female else. To be different produces as well anxiety and mental conflict. An unexcised non-infibulated girl is despised and made the target of ridicule and no one in the community will marry her. Sexual complications of female circumcision Excision of the clitoris and/or other sensitive parts of the female Instruments reduces the female sexual response, may lead to anorgasmia and even frigidity, cases of tight infibulations, where the husbands are unable to penetrate into the vagina, resort to anal intercourse or even used the uretheral meatus as an opening [8] and consummation of marriage may take several weeks [9]. The process of the infibulation is painful and may take a long time up to two years to complete the consummation during which women seek medical help for infertility. The psychological and social impact of being sterile is profound because a woman's worth is usually measured by her fertility and being sterile can be a cause for a divorce [10]. On the other hand, some circumcised women report having satisfying sexual relations including sexual desire, pleasure and orgasm. Female genital mutilation does not eliminate sexual pleasure totally for every woman who undergoes the procedure, but it does reduce the likely of orgasm. Conclusions Circumcision of females or female genital mutation (FGM) is a cruel procedure, a cultural tradition, which deprives women of sexual satisfaction, exposes them to psychological and physical complications. It is now prohibited by law, but this is not sufficient to eradicate. Still we need more effort to change these cultural beliefs. gotten from file:///storage/sdcard0/Android/data/com.android.browser/snapshotpage/1465001423544/1465001423544_d161836d71f739ad16222c90b22bb614.html (you know say plagiarism na serious offense. I'm telling you now it's not mine. #cntrlccntrlv) this particular act is prevalent in Nigeria, especially the southern part. this is really serious and our grand mothers and unschooled mothers do not know the consequences attached to it. so please, spread the word in any way you can. tell them that the days when total destruction of the genitals would prevent people from having sex are gone,this generation must find a way.. there is no point to it anymore. here, cost outweighs benefit so please, project is no longer feasible. |
Education / Re: Uniben And ASUU Strike by Phaytte(f): 10:01am On May 24, 2016 |
Liljeez: thank you |
Webmasters / Re: Is This A Profitable Blogging Niche? by Phaytte(f): 8:03am On May 23, 2016 |
not good. no matter how much we try to deny it, people open blogs to get gists and entertainment, not to get educated |
Career / Re: Accounting, Economics, Bus Adm. Which Is More Relevant In Contemporary Nigeria? by Phaytte(f): 8:00am On May 23, 2016 |
Economics. anybody can be an accountant... in Nigeria, an SSCE holder with an ICAN certificate is more valuable than a BSC holder in Accounting.. anybody can be a Chartered Accountant irrespective of your discipline, you just have to pass their(ICAN) exams.. but you have to go through the university to be a certified Economist. and An Economist is a Business Administrator also... it's just too many things in one. 2 Likes |
Education / Uniben And ASUU Strike by Phaytte(f): 7:31am On May 23, 2016 |
I'm a student of the University of Benin and people have been sending all sorts of messages stating that the university is resuming lectures today following the suspension of the NLC strike (but ASUU is a different body right?). some of those messages have proven to be "old gists" about the 2013 strike, and some have not. As much as I'm enjoying the strike, I don't want to miss a single lecture. so I'm here asking for clarity. please help me with the real gist |
Sports / Re: Lady Arrives Kaduna Stadium In Beads For NGR Vs EGY M by Phaytte(f): 9:33pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
Clear road |
Food / Re: Snake Delicacies Refresh Our Skin– Nigeria’s Snake Eaters by Phaytte(f): 8:56pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
This one long o... The exam go be theory or obj? |
Family / Re: Watch How These Kids Danced At A Birthday Party (video) by Phaytte(f): 8:29pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
timidapsin: God wll SAFE us o 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Girl Beheaded By A Facebook Suitor In Minna, Niger State (Photos) by Phaytte(f): 1:58pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
The Lady in the picture in front of the coffin looks about 50... Lesson learnt though |
Religion / Re: The Misinterpretation Of The Palm Sunday by Phaytte(f): 8:22am On Mar 21, 2016 |
Na my RANGE I take read the post so 1 Like |
Education / Re: 8-Year-Old Pupil Arrested In Ogun For Reporting His Teacher by Phaytte(f): 3:24pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
wiringdpt: Like siamese twins |
Career / Re: You’ve A New Job & Your Salary Is 850k But Your Boss Insults You Too Much by Phaytte(f): 7:11pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
For 850k, I would accept a job that receiving insults is the main job.. 1 Like |
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