Christianity Etc › Re: Why I Stopped Closing My Eyes During Prayers. by phemmyfour: 2:49pm On Jan 29, 2023 |
Timagex: A long time ago, when I was still a very curious kid, i asked mum why people close eyes during prayers. She told me that, during prayers, an angel is always on patrol and the angel pokes the eyes of people who dare open their eyes!!! . I was greatly afraid. This created a sense of fear in me and I always close my eyes tightly during any form of prayer. I started suspecting all those prayer warriors who walk around during prayers maybe they were angels. 
One day, I needed to pay a certain fee, so, I came all the way from children church to adult church. There was an intense prayer session going on. I became afraid as there was no way to go in with my eyes closed. I peered and looked (maybe I will see the angel and dodge him) but, I didn't see anything. I rushed in, located my mum and she opened her purse to give me the money. She also asked me a few questions. She did all these with her eyes wide opened!! Lo and behold, nothing happened to her eyes and my eyes. I was even more surprised when I saw the pastor with his eyes wide open while praying and leading prayers!!! . Abomination!! I waited in vain for the angel to strike, nothing happened. I was so disappointed and confused.
I started opening my eyes during prayers to see what will happen. Nothing. The problem now was, there was no way to tell mummy of my discovery without telling her that I now open my eyes during prayers. My position was, I was either deceived or the angel forgot our church. 
Over 20 years ago and still smile any time I remember. . I'm not a consistent church goer these days tho....
Happy Sunday beautiful people. May God shine his light unto us.  Olodo It's not mandatory to close your eyes, it's only necessary to help your mind from going astray due to unnecessary distraction. If you ve trained and discipline yourself to that level, you can always pray while your eyes are opened. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Gay Son Who Dumped Homosexual Lifestyle Was Saved By His Mother's Prayer by phemmyfour: 2:43pm On Jan 29, 2023 |
shogsman: Hmm,i thought the pope said gay people were welcomed in thr church They have no part in the body of Christ |
Christianity Etc › Re: Is It A Sin To Give Offering And Tithe With Old Money? by phemmyfour: 2:37pm On Jan 29, 2023 |
Kingzy4real: 2 Corinthians 9:6 Each of you should give what you have decided in your heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.
From the above quotation, all I have is old money. So is it a Sin if I give it as an offering?? No, as at when it's giving...they were legal tender. It becomes a sin when they are no longer legal tender |
Christianity Etc › Re: How Mighty Is The Almighty God? by phemmyfour: 2:35pm On Jan 29, 2023 |
Righthussle: The christain Almighty God is so mighty that he needs 10 percent of the monthly income of Christains to do his "work".
PS. I am not a Christain neither am I a Muslim. I am not wired to have anything to do with religions that supports or once supported the killing of children, women and innocent people. Yet, you believe the topic is about christian God. First class Hypocrite |
Christianity Etc › Re: How Mighty Is The Almighty God? by phemmyfour: 2:33pm On Jan 29, 2023 |
Omooba77: How Mighty is the Almighty God? So Mighty |
Christianity Etc › Re: All Churches Should Close Before 9am Today To Enable Members Go To The Bank by phemmyfour: 2:32pm On Jan 29, 2023 |
satelliteDISH: Any Pastor, Reverend or church leaders who meant well for his members should round up church service before 9am to allow members to go and change their old naira notes in the bank. This is due to the fact that the closing date for changing of the old naira notes is 31st January, 2023. It's been extended... you are not up to date |
Romance › Re: What Happened To The Relationship You Were Building? by phemmyfour: 2:24pm On Jan 29, 2023 |
Stephen2324: What happened to the relationship you were building? No money to complete it |
Romance › Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by phemmyfour: 7:40pm On Jan 28, 2023 |
ibilawani: What is your greatest fear about love? Is it commitment, is it trust, is it infidelity or physical abuse? Or are you confident about relationships? Please I will like to know.
For me itnis infidelity. I don't want to be cheated on. What about you? commitment I get bored easily ....I might not find you interesting after a week |
Career › Re: Factory Worker Or Dispatch Rider by phemmyfour: 12:20pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
Whettodo: I have been working with a factory for 5 months now, I want to change to a dispatch rider's job there's not much if a difference in the pay..
Factory pays 34k dispatch rider pays 40k salary 10k for bike maintenance,fuel and data..
The factory job comes with the regular stress of the job at times stress is crazy most times it's normal
I don't have prior experience with a motorcycle. I deliver foods customer's can cancel and i pay for the food from my salary
Restaurant is new max of five deliveries in a day,have to be online for at least 15 hours a day..
At times there might be no orders in a day sit around all day or stay at home get ur order pick it up and deliver... You still get paid if you have no orders Get paid 25k two times a month
Should I stay with my factory job or become a dispatch rider for jumia or an ordinary delivery company
Ordinary company means more work but I'm cool with that.. Stay with factory work if you want to live long |
Sports › Re: Al-Ittihad Knock Cristiano Ronaldo And Al-Nassr Out Of The Saudi Super Cup by phemmyfour: 11:05am On Jan 27, 2023 |
seanwilliam: Ronaldo is finished When you fall to retire when ovation is loudest, that's what you get |
Food › Re: See The Food I Bought For N500 by phemmyfour: 10:57pm On Jan 26, 2023 |
Skyfornia: It's worth the amount
Rice N250 Egg N150 Spaghetti N100
Total N500 carbohydrates: 80% |
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Sam Adeyemi & His Wife Return To Nigeria After Two Years by phemmyfour: 6:14pm On Jan 26, 2023 |
uncleck: Fufu brain. Didn't you see how those countries made REALISTIC efforts to combat the virus and take care of their inhabitants? Whereas some palliative items in Nigeria are still held up in secret warehouses till now. It seems the government is now tired of manufacturing daily figures...  Ode! The calibre of Pastor Sam and his household does not need palliative to survive. 2. The virus killed more in US/Canada than in Nigeria back then E ma a lo brain yin once in a while |
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Sam Adeyemi & His Wife Return To Nigeria After Two Years by phemmyfour: 5:06pm On Jan 26, 2023 |
uncleck: So the COVID came and they abandoned their followers and ran away? I'm sure they were still contributing offerings and tithes to send them abroad. The God that made it possible for their children to school in the US could not help their sheep in Nigeria Indomie brain So, COVID didn't exist in US/Canada where dey were residing ? |
Politics › Re: The Bullion Vans Missed Their Way & Went To Tinubu House - Ayodele Adewale by phemmyfour: 3:54pm On Jan 26, 2023 |
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Health › Re: Can You Use This Toilet? (pics) by phemmyfour: 11:10am On Jan 26, 2023 |
VeryWickedGoat: 🤔🙁 Law of conservation of water  Water lost by wash hand basin = water gained by toilet tank |
Fashion › Re: Please, Is This Outfit I Got For My Birthday Too Short To Be Worn Outside? Pics by phemmyfour: 8:12pm On Jan 25, 2023 |
fadilaMaikiriki: Hello all!
I got this outfit for my birthday. I wanted to wear it that day. I just wanted to wear something different that day, so I got this brown leather outfit. Although, I tried the outfit on before I purchased it, but when I went out with it later that night, I was thinking it's too short. I didn't know it was going to be this short. I will go to the outlet where I got it later today or tomorrow. I would want to exchange it with another much longer outfit.
What do you think of the outfit? Isn't it too short to be worn outside? As a lady, can you comfortably wear this outside without feeling awkward in it? I want to know your opinions and what you think. And as a man, what comes to your mind when you see a lady putting this on and she walks pass you. What would you think of such a lady?
Please, I would like to know your opinions on this.
Thanks.
Attached below is a picture of the outfit; As a man , you look like a cheap slut. As a woman, you knew it was wrong. Yet you bought it. |
Business › Re: How I Pampered Myself After Collecting My Contribution Of 4 Months. by phemmyfour: 7:01pm On Jan 25, 2023 |
ahnie: So I got my share of our weekly contribution of four months.i decided to pamper myself with an iphone and a laptop.
This isoko bebe needs to pamper herself small,I intended doing something meaningful with the rest 300k left.
This are the evidence and dedication from the combination of my 3 hustles. It's not grace or on God,it was hardwork. N1.3M well spent |
Celebrities › Re: What Do Celebs Do To Their Clothes After Wearing Them Once by phemmyfour: 6:58pm On Jan 25, 2023 |
ResidentMUMU: Like, I don't just get it. These guys wear their clothes once and never again. Do they dispose them or what? Or these wears are some kind of partnership thing. I've thought about every concept and they just make no sense to me. Most of them are for marketing, not outright buy |
Nairaland General › Re: Men, Delete One Forever. by phemmyfour: 5:03pm On Jan 25, 2023 |
englishmart: If you were mandated to delete one of those options forever, which would it be? music |
Romance › Re: How Long Should A Girl Wait Before Asking Her Boyfriend For Money? by phemmyfour: 3:30pm On Jan 25, 2023 |
StrongAlphMale: Question: How long should a lady wait before asking the man she is in a relationship with for money?
My own Answer is: She should wait for as long as it takes her to get a job or business, and then she can give her ATM to the man and ask him to help her withdraw her money! As soon as they are comfortable with each other |
Celebrities › Re: Rosy Meurer Pounds Yam For Churchill, Says She Will Learn Anything To Please Him by phemmyfour: 3:28pm On Jan 25, 2023 |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: 300k Job In Lagos Or 120k Job In Nasarawa. by phemmyfour: 1:58pm On Jan 25, 2023 |
StonedLex: One of my friends is currently working in Nasarawa for 120k and he got a job opening for 300k in lekki.
He's finding it hard to choose one because he has not stayed in Lagos before.
Considering the cost of living of both states, which one do you think is okay?
How much is rent around lekki free zone? All all you do.....stay in Lagos |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Do You Have A Hustle Story? by phemmyfour: 1:55pm On Jan 25, 2023 |
Rubyjade: My first salary was 50k as a customer service rep.
I took the job hoping that I could save some money for my masters or wait till I get a job with my dream company.
Three months into starting work,
Someone from head office mentioned a coperative program where you could save money.
So I decided to remove 20k from my salary for saving every month and signed a direct debit and no access to the account in the first three months.
Every other month I worked to get additional bonuses to urgumemt my new lifestyle.
As a squatter in my parents house, i still had to pay bills like DStv & Nepa bills which was about 7k. (5k Nepa and 2k Dstv).
And then when salary increased to 70k, i started doing Ajo of 20k again.
Some of the things that helped me was the staff bus and free airtime. This meant I spent close to nothing on transport while my office was only #200 to and fro work for days were bus was not availabe.
At the end of two years, I had accumulated about 450k plus interest in dividend which amounted to about 50k.
I took that 50k and bought a masters form in Unilag and got an admission.
I had planned to use the remaining money to fund my school fees but my shift job wouldn't allow me attend school full time, so I deffered.
At the end of my first four years I had bought two brand new laptops twice, two televisions, a land in Sango Ota and one naija used car that I used to learn how to drive.
All these on a salary of 50k - 70k, all things been equal.
So it baffles me, when you say that you don't have money to save because you are only lying to your self and not me.
To build a culture of saving, You have to be
👉 Intentional: This is identifying you have to take steps to making yourself disciplined.
That is why you have apps like Microvestng available on your play store and iOS store to help you when you sign up to get started just like i did with the cooperative.
👉 Take advantage of direct debit or automated savings. Our automated savings feature allows you to directly debit my account just like I did with the cooperative.
👉 Take advantage of returns; After my cooperative in the cooperative, I was paid returns in December and felt like a king 👑 and with apps like Microvest you earn on your money while saving. Yes, you can get up to 20% P.A.
This is why I love what we do with Microvest.
P.S Do you have your hustle story, let me here in the comment section 👇 Not everyone is fortunate to have some factors that worked for you like: Living in your parent's house Enjoying free airtime and transport Cheap tfare from house to work So , don't critize others cos what works for you might not work for them |
Career › Re: Which Is More Important, The Course You Studied Or The Result You Came Out With? by phemmyfour: 1:50pm On Jan 25, 2023 |
HazardAwka: Is the Course you studied more important than the result you came out with?
For example: Mr A studied Medicine and came out with 3rd class degree.
Mr B studied Botany and came out with first class degree.
Does Mr A still have a higher chance of getting employed than Mr B? both...the results justify if you study well |
Education › Re: 75% Nigerian Children Can’t Read, Solve Maths – UNICEF by phemmyfour: 10:32am On Jan 25, 2023 |
Acidosis: Some of you will just sit in Lagos and be typing nonsense about Nigeria. Na Lagos be your problem |
Education › Re: Help Me Choose One Among These Courses (photo) by phemmyfour: 10:24am On Jan 25, 2023 |
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Education › Re: New Naira Notes Scarcity, See What My Son's School Sent To Us by phemmyfour: 7:32pm On Jan 24, 2023 |
Meektunz: Do you think they are right or just being unreasonable? What happened to bank transfer ....this is cashless policy |
Sports › Re: Lady Switched Off The TV At A Viewing Center & Got A Slap (Video) by phemmyfour: 7:29pm On Jan 24, 2023 |
Sheistoopretty: This joke/prank is too expensive All in the name of creating a content. Thank God she's alive to tell the story because no be Chelsea dey play |
Investment › Re: My Brother Is In Trouble Over Failed Online Business Transaction. by phemmyfour: 7:26pm On Jan 24, 2023 |
kennybabs1980: My younger brother (half brother) and his wife believes so much in online investments. I called him and advised him seriously against such phantom businesses last year July but he didn't take my advise. His wife even insulted me at a time because of the advise.
At that time he was into a particular one called Kala. He collected money from people to the tune of N9.6million in the name of trying to help them invest in Kala. The investment went under and he is now using family members to pressurize me to assist him especially to secure a loan from a particular coop society I belong to so that he can pay off four of the people he help to invest who are seriously troubling his life with police and thugs.
I am not willing to do this under any condition. I have told him to sell off our late dad's landed property if he can get a buyer but people are offering peanuts and two of our sisters (his own full sibs) are insisting on getting their own share immediately it is sold, one even said she didn't send him on online investment. If he can get buyer for the property, I can help talk to our other siblings but these two, no way!
How can I help this stobborn brother without hurting myself? The situation is hopeless, you LL get hurt standing for him in your cooperative. Allow him to learn from this foolish experience |
Celebrities › Re: Iyabo Ojo Unfollows Comedian Princess After Leaking Their Chat On Halima Abubaka by phemmyfour: 3:55pm On Jan 24, 2023 |
matrixme: no be Iyabo wey just get new lover be this? how did she get entangled with the Apostle Suleiman romance triangle or should I say pentagon?  you must be living in a cave |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: A Lecturing Job Outside Lagos Or 200k Job In Lagos? by phemmyfour: 3:43pm On Jan 24, 2023 |
Class01: So I had this conversation with someone and it seems we both have different opinions about it so we decided to seek for wider opinions.
Which will you go for 1) A lecturing job in a state college of education outside Lagos (salary: Normal naija lecturer package.)
2) A data analyst ( stock invoice) in Lagos which requires you to go to work Monday to Saturday. (Salary 200k)
Which will you pick and why? In all you do...stay in Lagos |
Celebrities › Re: Halima Abubakar Removed A Tattoo Of Apostle Suleman’s Name She Had - Friend by phemmyfour: 3:41pm On Jan 24, 2023 |
Naira20: Which kain useless lies this one dey talk? Even those who don't know where his Church is knows him as a Pastor.
Na you wey dey be socialite no know say na "Pastor"?You that have his personal phone number? Haba
Next time, look for a believable lie abeg.
For your next life, you no go do runs again. fish brain Suleiman wasn't popular until the Otobo incident. The joke is on you |