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Family › Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by phemmyfour: 3:32pm On Jan 24, 2023
Deeprooted:
After getting the job,he was posted to one northern state where he met the lady from the south west.

In less than 6 months, he told me someone wanted to say Hi to me when he called. I heard a lady's voice. He later introduced her to me as his fiancee.

Long story short. We went for wedding and all.

At the point of delivery which the doctor insisted on her having CS due to her medical condition, my brother insisted the wife will deliver via push. It was then the doctor made known to my brother " oga you're talking as if you're not aware of your wife's health"

Omo!!! Na there my brother come say he no Sabi ooo. It was discovered she's indeed SS. I asked my brother before we went for all the marriage rites of they're compatible health wise an he answered affirmative.


After the discovery, my brother left the wife in the hospital but my dad and I insisted he gets back to her till after everything.

It was when was after the successful surgery my brother told me that his wife brought the test result from another lab, reason being that he was busy when they were supposed to go for the test together.

My brother's mind is made up on divorce.

What will you advise my brother to do?
Divorce all the way
The foundation of the union was built on lies
Family › Re: Family Rejects Old Naira Notes As Bride Price In Niger by phemmyfour: 3:28pm On Jan 24, 2023
Jennyclay:
Why are we making life so hard for ourselves? Is it that they don't want the girl to get married undecided?

They should accept the old note, then go to the bank, open an account and make a deposit into the account before 31st of January. All these elders with coconut head sef! Mtcheeeww!

Is not as if the money would get to the bride's parent. The elders are only fighting for their selfish interest. After receiving the money, they would share it among themselves.

Nonsense!
They went ahead with the wedding.

Though the wedding was not postponed, guardians of the girl were said to have noted that with the CBN deadline of January 31, they were not ready to buy some things needed for the ceremony and that they did not have a bank account to deposit the money, hence their demand for the new notes.
Food › Re: How To Bake Soft & Fluffy Bread Rolls At Home With Your Pot (Photos & Video) by phemmyfour: 2:51pm On Jan 24, 2023
gloryhomemaker:
What a joy to make bread by yourself at home! In this well detailed step by step video on how to bake bread rolls at home, there's a comparison between baking bread rolls with the pot and baking with the oven. This is a beginner friendly video on baking your first bread.


Ingredients:

All purpose flour (4 1/2 cups, 675 g)
Sugar (210g)
Warm milk (200ml)
Warm water (200ml)
Yeast (2 teaspoons)
Soft butter (50g)
Salt (1 teaspoon)
Egg
Oil for greasing the pan
Egg and warm milk for egg wash


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EnHWDSHfw_A
Quite expensive
Christianity Etc › Re: Methodist Church Ordains Nkechi Nwosu, First Female Bishop In Nigeria (Photos) by phemmyfour: 2:49pm On Jan 24, 2023
God1000:
This is good, but why is she the first in this age and time? Is it that more women aren't aspiring to be bishops
It's more about the Church doctrine
Food › Re: See The Yam Tuber I Bought 3k Yesterday Afternoon. by phemmyfour: 2:46pm On Jan 24, 2023
ahnie:
I was taking a stroll yesterday when I saw this old mama selling this tubers of yam yesterday at cable point junction,close to cable market.

I priced #1400 per tubers but mama no gree shift grounds,she insisted it goes for #1500 per tuber,so I took 2 tubers.

When I m less busy I would use it to prepare ukodo,ripe plantain and meat/catfish meal as prepared by gloryhomemaker.
The first one has bad portion already. It should cost less than the other
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: How Best Do I Answer A Query? (Photo) by phemmyfour: 2:43pm On Jan 24, 2023
Chenult:
I was issued a query today at my workplace. Reason below

What do I do pls?
Acknowledge your error

State reasons if any

Promise that such error won't repeat itself, stating what you LL do differently going forward
Properties › Re: What Kind Of House Can I Build With 3m by phemmyfour: 11:43am On Jan 24, 2023
lavylilly:
What kind of house can I build with 3m
lolz

Nothing
Food › Re: Which Of These Is Your Least preferred? by phemmyfour: 8:00pm On Jan 23, 2023
mariahAngel:
Which of these fishes would you delete?
Which one is your most preferred?

Picture source: Instagram
Shawa...the name sef sound somehow
Health › Re: I Woke Up This Morning To See This On My Skin:photo Attached by phemmyfour: 7:54pm On Jan 23, 2023
handsomeyitayo:
Please what could someone call this? I didn't have razor blade close to me, neither sharp objects..and I slept on 3 seater lounge ..but I woke up now seeing this on my skin... please anyone experience this ...
lolz... check your fingernails. You did that to yourself
Celebrities › Re: Bambam Was Sexually Abused By A Nanny When She Was A Child by phemmyfour: 9:09am On Jan 23, 2023
TMSMedia:
BBNaija's BamBam Reveals She Was Sexually Abused By Her Nanny When She Was A Child

Big Brother Naija star, BamBam has disclosed that she was sexually abused as a child by her nanny and the experience affected her in so many ways, IGBERETV reports.

In a video shared on her Instagram handle, she explained that the abuse happened from the age of 2 till she was 8 and she couldn't confide in her parents because the nanny threatened her.

She said the abuse left her with trauma that she still has to deal with now that she is married.

She explained that the nanny used to make her suck her breasts and would use her fists to masturbate. She further stated that she was rapes a few times by men she dated in the past.

The business woman, who now has two daughters of her own, called on the authorities to have stricter laws and punishments for abusers.

Her Instagram post read;


https://www.instagram.com/tv/CnuyGUYvJqr/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link
Toilet sex must be consensual too
Romance › Re: People Mostly Talk Bad About Their Ex, But Tell Us One Good Thing About Your Ex? by phemmyfour: 8:41am On Jan 23, 2023
Stephen2324:
People mostly talk bad about their ex, but tell us one good thing about your ex?
She has a terrible handwriting
Food › Re: Meet My Low Budget Rice And Innocent Veggie Stew. by phemmyfour: 8:39am On Jan 23, 2023
ahnie:
I love food,was craving it so I arranged it to satisfy my voracious appetite.
Ingredients used!
Sachet tomato
Ginger n garlic
Onion
Knoor culinary
Lil veggies
Meat
Groundnut oil
Benny
Salt
Watch your calories
Sports › Re: Oshoala Leads Barca Femeni To Super Cup Win At Sociedad by phemmyfour: 7:16am On Jan 23, 2023
englishmart:
How did she lead them? Was she their captain?
I tire o. The way we construct English in this part of the world
Politics › Re: EKSG To Open More Markets To Stop Roadside Trading by phemmyfour: 7:09am On Jan 23, 2023
Greenscientist:
Impressive
Building market that masses won't be able to afford
Health › Re: How Can I Get Rid Of Mosquitoes? by phemmyfour: 7:07am On Jan 23, 2023
birchwood:
[b][/b]I’ve tried spraying insecticide so many times, I even leave my windows shut in this hot weather to keep the insecticide in after days. I don’t know what to do, there’s no standing water anywhere near my windows, it’s becoming unbearable and i might not sleep this night because of them. Please help me with solutions
You can't go wrong with Mosquito Net
Celebrities › Re: Halima Abubakar Shows Evidence Of How She Dated Apostle Suleman by phemmyfour: 8:52pm On Jan 22, 2023
GeneralPula:
Nonsense..

All those things she showed justified nothing..
sheepel
I don't expect you to believe
Christianity Etc › Re: What Happens If You Commit Suicide by phemmyfour: 5:01pm On Jan 22, 2023
AntiChristian:
It is about book before! If an idol worshiper Tells you his god told him to kill his enemies will you ask of proof when you already denounce idolatry?

Hypocrite!
The joke is on you. You were using same book to justify suicide killing before I box you into a corner. You are the real HYPOCRITE
Christianity Etc › Re: What Happens If You Commit Suicide by phemmyfour: 4:54pm On Jan 22, 2023
AntiChristian:
Just because you believe in the book doesn't mean everyone does!

What's physical? Where you present there?

Search for it as I'm not their fan!

They're similar to your Samson!
lol ..it's now about book....you are truly an Anti Christian
Christianity Etc › Re: What Happens If You Commit Suicide by phemmyfour: 4:51pm On Jan 22, 2023
AntiChristian:
Samson prayed before killing!
We saw evidence of answered prayers in growth of his hair . Boko have nothing to show
Christianity Etc › Re: What Happens If You Commit Suicide by phemmyfour: 4:39pm On Jan 22, 2023
AntiChristian:
Proof? Samson's proof would only be acceptable to you and your supporters!

Boko haram's proof would only be acceptable to them and their supporters!

Everyone would reject each other's proof! But it's hypocrisy if Samson is not a terrorist but Boko Haram is.
Samson's proof was physical and miraculous....show us Boko's proof
Christianity Etc › Re: What Happens If You Commit Suicide by phemmyfour: 4:38pm On Jan 22, 2023
AntiChristian:
Check their videos you'll see the proofs. I have rejected their proof just as i did that of Samson!
Samson's proof was evident in the growth of his hair. What was Boko's proof in the video you watched ?
Christianity Etc › Re: What Happens If You Commit Suicide by phemmyfour: 4:06pm On Jan 22, 2023
AntiChristian:
Since God granted one suicide with enemies after one thou shall not kill.

Why blame Boko Haram for dying with their enemies if they believe their God sent them too?
Boko should show us proof like Samson did
Christianity Etc › Re: Is Inter-religion Marriage A Sin? by phemmyfour: 3:33pm On Jan 22, 2023
Damminix:
No.
The second one is a personal declaration. It has nothing to do with a third party. It's like saying, as long as I live me and my family will be a member of this political party.

Doesn't make it a standard for everyone to follow.
The reality is, the Bible does not state anything against marrying outside the faith. In a perfect world, interfaith relationships shouldn't be a concern But most Nigerians were raised with an "US vs them religion ideologies and also about not being unequally yoked(which itself is an untrue interpretation of that verse).

However, it can work if the two concerned were educated differently.
Don't be spiritual illiterate . Read previous/next verses, especially verse 16

Then the people answered, “Far be it from us to forsake the Lord to serve other gods
Celebrities › Re: I Was Pregnant 3 Times For Apostle Suleman - Halima Abubakar by phemmyfour: 3:27pm On Jan 22, 2023
Pascalloyd:
did he force the ladies to open their legs for him to impregnate them huh
So you agreed that the allegation was true
Christianity Etc › Re: Is Inter-religion Marriage A Sin? by phemmyfour: 3:03pm On Jan 22, 2023
Damminix:
Y'all quote the scriptures without understanding the context. "Can two work together except they agree?" The verse didn't say "except they are similar" agreement has nothing to do with religion differences. Agreements happens regardless of differences. That's why two people from different homes coming from different perspectives and ideologies can come to terms in agreement on something. I don't need to share your faith before I agree with you on basic life decisions.
I quoted two scriptures, you only pick one that suits your narrative ... continue
Romance › Re: Sex In The Office: Myth Or Fact by phemmyfour: 2:23pm On Jan 22, 2023
Andyvilly:
Does sex in the office brings bad omen? My shop neighbour always disturb me for sex. Am realy scared. What do you think?
It's a myth.
TV/Movies › Re: Nudity As A Netflix Programming Norm In Nigeria by phemmyfour: 2:22pm On Jan 22, 2023
Looky:
Netflix have been trying to push their subltle nudity agenda into the Nigerian psyche through the movie industry.A time will come when everyone will see a naked actress in a movie as a normal thing.
Look at Anikulapo and the recent one starring Nancy Isime.Actresses can go to any length to get a lead role in a movie which includes going naked on set.What is happening to our high moral standard I Nigeria.
Is Netflix gradually eroding our culture.
Why are you blaming Netflix, they took their movies to them without any form of interference
Christianity Etc › Re: "GOAT" People Have No Place In The Kingdom Of God - Evangelist Mike Bamiloye by phemmyfour: 12:49pm On Jan 22, 2023
DonBenny77:
Oga face your own face, you no be assistant God.
The other day it was gamblers and paying thite.
It's better you write your own holy book
Even in Bible days, wẹ have talented n gifted people Daniel, Jubal etc

In Genesis 4:21, Jubal is described as 'the father of all who play stringed instruments and pipes'. He was the one who first created music that was played on instruments
Celebrities › Re: I Was Pregnant 3 Times For Apostle Suleman - Halima Abubakar by phemmyfour: 12:31pm On Jan 22, 2023
God1000:
Christian association of Nigeria CAN should as a matter of urgency suspend apostle Suleman for his numerous immoral behaviour.

Too many allegations of sexual indiscretion against him, and this is someone a lot of people listen to and call him servant of God.

The man is a big embarrassment to Christendom
He's not under CAN
Celebrities › Re: I Was Pregnant 3 Times For Apostle Suleman - Halima Abubakar by phemmyfour: 12:31pm On Jan 22, 2023
Pascalloyd:
Lying against a man of God has it's own consequences (KARMA)
So, he's the only MOG that's around...smh
Christianity Etc › Re: Are People Doing Polygamy Going To Hell Fire? by phemmyfour: 12:28pm On Jan 22, 2023
BluntTheApostle:
You wrote that the original plan of marriage is one man, one woman


So, I simply applied your logic that the original plan of God did not include women.


Shikena.
You typed too quick, go back to my post and get a better understanding
Christianity Etc › Re: Are People Doing Polygamy Going To Hell Fire? by phemmyfour: 12:23pm On Jan 22, 2023
BluntTheApostle:
Says who?


We might as well say that woman was never in the plan since God originally created only man.
When did God says that?
Is Gen 2:18 not God's plan?

The LORD God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.”

Show me where God said "one man, one woman isn't good enough"

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