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Mrfixitt:
You're a foolish and poor student of history. My initial comment that made you quote was that he won it at Milan but you said at Psg so stop changing the narrative. Next time be sure before you make stupid argument.

Mrfixitt:
You really have comprehension issue. He won the the world best player while already at Milan and not psg. That is the basis of our argument. Learn

ezenwajosh:
That is Igbo for you


The only tribe that gives women power in Africa

olisaEze:
Congrats Chimamanda, it’s a well deserved honor. Still doesn’t mean that women’s opinions will carry weight where men are talking in that village though. It’s a man’s world out here, I didn’t make it like that, we only met it that way!

Jeweltz:
We have been conditioned to believe that sex will keep a man glue and obsessed about you. No.

I read a thread yesterday of a man dating a single lady who's denying him sex, but the man doesn't still leave her. See that .

Men are wired differently. A man will beg you for sex for many days and immediately you open your leg, he run away after hitting it and stop giving you attention that you deserve. Before you open your leg at all, make sure he's obsessed and his brain programmed to the thought of you alone. This is not difficult provided you don't show him how much you love him. Make him do the chasing. Men like that won't leave you.

There was a guy who was on my case. I like him. But I know Nigerian men. They'll use you once they see you're in love with them. I hoard my love and I told him no sex. No amount of convincing worked. And he was always on his toes making sure he doesn't deviate from showing me love and care.

But still, most of our men are liars and could be getting the sex somewhere else.
That's why a woman should close her leg until you know that he will marry you. Don't fall for their lies

Afodot0022:
Good day naira landers and happy holiday. I am writing this base on the challenge am having in my marriage. Some of you might have known little about the issue i had previously cos i brought it to the forum.

It happened that my wife was having emotional affairs with another man which i knew through her chat.

Though family and pastor were involved and have tried everything to resolve the issue between us. I have decided to forgive and forget and also give her a second chance even though it was a difficult situation for me, I decided to let go cos of my two daughters and don't want them to share from a broken home.

Now the issue am still having is that my wife has promise to change and be a better person and also promise to cut any emotional tile with the man. But I wasn't confident with that, so i told her to block this guy on all social media and also delete his number so there wont be any communication between them cos i sense if they both keep in touch, they might go back to what they were doing before. She got angry when i told her this and she said she can't block the guy cos they have been friends for many years even before she got married to me.

She started dating the guy last year under my roof and her reason was that i pushed her to do such act cos i wasn't giving her enough attention and love which is totally a lie.

So house, pls just let me know if i did wrong by telling her to block the guy or i over did it. I just felt blocking him will be best for us cos i noticed my wife is not fully detached from this guy emotionally.

Pls if you are in my shoes, what will you do house. If you want to get more insight about what transpired, you can go to my details nairaland.

Pls mod, help me by doing the needful.

Candidlady:
congrats

if icome back to this life na still north igo choose

Goodmarlian:
When your rich uncle or friend refuse to give you that money you are asking for, don't blame them. Sometimes it is not their fault.

You see this Nigeria, once people notice you have little change they will never let you rest everybody will be asking you for favour both boys and girls. The more people you help the more others get the information and still come to you for financial assistance.

Take me for example, I am not rich I am just hustling inside campus. I run a POS business, a business I started with just 30k.

Because people see that I deal with cash, they believe I have a lot of money. There is no day someone doesn't ask me for one favour or the other. If it is not buy me food, it is I need tfare, can I get 5k ,10k ,15k. Ladies try so hard to manipulate me into doing their bidding. If I don't oblige, they call me stingy, akagum etc,it is just so annoying.

This 2023 I want to have very little but reasonable friends. In fact i don't even want to have a girlfriend so I can grow my business to the next level.

People will nearly beg you back into poverty, be wise, hide yourself.

Karen2024:
Two days before Christmas I called my bf and demanded he give me money to make hair for Christmas, he sent me 20k.

On new year's eve I called him and after exchange of pleasantries I asked what he's preparing for me as I would be coming over on the 1st, he angrily responded that he's preparing shits for me and he went further to call me a 'gold digger.'

Since then he has not been picking my calls neither did he reply my text messages. Should I keep trying or I should move on?

Johnthejohn:
Love is blind

Mrfixitt:
Wrong. He won it at Ac Milan after leaving Psg in the summer of same year

Mrfixitt:
Psg was not a big club in Europe then.

Jeweltz:
This guy has been all about virginity and virginity since we start talking. This is a guy that might've had uncountable sex with all sort of women in America o. Now he comes and he said he love his wife a Virgin. I only ever had about two sexual experience with men . Never seen a grown man obsessed about virginity like that

Yoighaman:


Na the very scam be that.

Called it Manipulation, Histrionics, and you wouldn't be far from the truth.

ibkayee:
Once you hear a man tell you ‘not to judge’, you know what time it is

Mrfixitt:
Okocha is the most talented African footballer ever but unfortunately he did not play in big clubs to Win laurels. Happy anniversary to them

Gistme12:
Mine is the year of increase. What is yours

justwise:
Ok , so when are you returning back to Nigeria?

Lade18:
Recently met this single lady of one. Been the one footing her bills and sending her daughter (5yrs old) to school. She told me She wouldn't let us have sex until she sees I'm committed and reality love her. Although, that's not the reason I'm talking care of her daughter, I just naturally love to spend for people I care about. Just recently, she's wanting to know how much I give my mom and why I'm the one sending her money when she has a shop and making her money.

Yesterday, she told me I don't love her enough. That, if I can open a shop for my mom , then I can do more for her. But I wasn't the one that opened the shop for her, I just supported her.

Now, we had sex for the first time last month and has been denying me sex since then. Yesterday, she came around and I initiated sex, she denied. She told me if we're ever gonna be together, I should learn how to be a man. In her world, being a man involve me cooking, laundry, take her out, and clean. I told her that's cool. But I don't know what a woman will be doing in a House if she's not working while I'm the one footing her bills. If I ask her this, she would get angry.

My fellow men, why are the requirements for sex getting on the increase these Days? Is that they way it's supposed to be?

okeysoninv:
end of era of Ronaldo next year he will retire

Zerofarm:
Hello Nairalander,

I need your suggestion and advice because I just acquired 7 hectares of land for plantain farming in ekiti which will be planted by February next year, the place is secured and free from bandits or herdsmen but everybody is telling me to do relocation instead of farming even though I’ve invested up to 4 million naira into this project because I love Agric….

Please which one is the best advice for me right now as I know how I can make it big by planting up to 10,000 suckers of plantain on this land and get the return in a year, is there market for large production of plantain?

Mods please help me to push this to front page as this is my only option of surviving

dominique:
What is worth doing is worth doing well, a player that has played in Europe should be able to do better than this considering what the funds are meant for. Thi 10k scholarship can't do anything for students in higher institution apart from feeding them for a couple of weeks. She should have just tagged it as giveaway not scholarship.

naptu2:
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doggedfighter:
Sometimes I wish we can bring back the dead.








I think about what this death has done to this family.


Death hurts.

MERCHANDISER:
Messi is far better than this pele.
I have watched all his videos on YouTube, nothing spectacular.
then wasn't technical and sophisticated as it is today.


Messi is the GOAT
Ronaldo de Lima is the Deputy GOAT

next in GOAT ranking are

Christaino Ronaldo
Maradona and Pele
Ronaldinho
Drogba
Henry
Iniesta
Benzema
Marcelo
Dani Alves

1Sharon:
This gene is not definitive. It only states it can increase your risk of being obese. Not that it CAUSES you to be obese.

Weight gain is simply due to a calorie surplus, if you eat too much you'll get fat. If you eat too little, you'll loose weight.

Nobody is above loosing or gaining weight.

Ishilove:
The only celebrity whose weight loss I trust is Lepacious Bose. Before our very eyes, she gradually lost weight and and has been able to maintain a certain healthy weight for years. All these people that disappear for 2 months and then come back radically slimmer are just deceiving themselves, not me.

1Sharon:
What is the name of the gene responsible for fatness?

mariahAngel:
Finally! Where he's appreciated ending his career.
The positive energy will do him a lot of good.
All I wish for him is to end his career on a happy note.

QuinModah:
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youngsahito:
Some Nigerians are very superstitious when it comes to Japa affairs. Some are afraid of being in an environment whose language they don’t understand while some are scared of the cost of living and some are uncomfortable about their safety in their new location.

Let’s talk, what scares you the most about relocating abroad?