₦airaland Forum

,.... goodluck waiting for Godot

MrAnony1: And so she goes the way of carefreewannabe.

It is becoming increasingly difficult to maintain my previous distinction between regular and radical feminists. . . . .but alas I am a man of faith.

GBAM!!!

bukatyne: Since it is an issue to the husband, it has automatically become an issue to her.

But i am serious...

Supply is not an issue

He may also be trying to enter a market where an established name has most of the market share

It is a business still.. morbid..yes... but still a business

greatgod2012: you no go kill me BB, abeg, i no fit laugh.

ok.... your post above is very clear

Good luck

babygirlfl: Agreed. We are saying the same thing

The supply is not an issue

Like any biz.. he may have issues with location, advertising, quality service and pricing..

greatgod2012: what of if he asked for tips to run his business well

He is not running his biz well

babygirlfl: You are right but when they loose their wife's trust, then what happens, how many times do women actually act on that.

Again how many times have a woman in Nigeria divorced her husband for cheating?

Infection- I agree with this that this is a consequence.

That is the womans choice
I believe when more women put their foot down and collect spousal seetlements due to adultery led divorce.. infidelity will reduce... (of course marriage rates will also reduce as no one wants to lose his assets for something like a fling)

The women have their choice to divorce

seems reasonable
The issue is the wife feels its not an issue

bukatyne: O Ok

I still maintain that the boy's name is changed.

bukatyne: Are you serious?

Did the wife name the son alone or is the second name just a coincidence?

The son should be rededicated and renamed

Noooooo this is my personal twist oo..
For cococandy stating that the middle name should be used, i now said what if the middle name of the child was also the middle name of the ex
GOBE!

beeevan: Do I have be a militant not to lend mine to any as a BBM chat pal?

LOL.. No... but i believe relationships with exes or external parties should be one of mutual respect if it has to be maintained
No nonsense chats etc..

freshdude2: Hmm, what an unfortunate situation. I'm sure the guy would be de-balled if he had done same. And these women love to scream 'double standards'.

Massive emasculation...
New Tip to emasculate ur man - Name your kids after your exes

divalishis: It's just so amazing How people feel they have the right to call me names, to point hands in self righteous anger. So How are you any different from my 'abusive' self?

You would rather see the cup as half empty than half full. You would rather fester in the details of the past than what is going on now. If men were God...I wonder what would happen.

Maybe you people should leave some of your studies on abuse and pore over the True meaning of being sadistic and vindictive.
#sigh

I went to your profile n noticed u joined 2010
You should be used to NL.
Pick the relevant posts and leave the rest

freshdude2: What is a man without ego?

What's she wearing?

Na the hubby I dey imagine
All these our militant females will never tolerate their hubby even keeping exes on BBM not to find out their daughter is named after one ex like that

Osanobua!!!

No food and sex for one month

What was your response

babygirlfl: @OP

The simple answer is because they can get away with it. There is no consequences for their actions.

There are consequences...

He loses the trust of his wife

He could get into a divorce mess

He could get infected

Godmystrength: the ghost ke? Look well o. Are you sure its not the ex for real flesh and blood life.

That's what the person in this story is contending with

Carry go....chop am...nothing dey happen

Iseee

5minsmadness...nice post

Leaflet let them start counselling

Does she have a job

Also I'm a bit concerned about her account that she is being beaten

Classic... insults...

I'm surprised she held out this long

The ghost of my wife's ex is sleeping in my bed

...new twist

His middle name is the ex middle name also

cococandy: Good.
The whole family changed because...
Good reason. Known reason.
And everyone understood and complied.

What are you going to tell a boy about his first name that won't sound funny?
That he was named after the mom's ex?

Whatever reason... My point is that changing names is not as complicated as you seem to be making it sound

These are the parents.... Not some random people

cococandy: Adults right?
Good

Not only adults... Even adolescents

You used a 15 year old example


I have people whose parents changes their surnames due to the old one having some idol init
Everyone complied

Good..

ERM..cococandy.....adults change names every time
Even surnames

Its not rocket science

MizMyColi: *****

@Pickabeau1 Thanks
I take it you had a nerdy mental image of me?

Yep

MzColi...pretty

U don't look nerdish

Idowuogbo: I wonder! Dodgy op

Lol...let him free the girl so she can meet someone else

baralatie: 1.financial goals.I.e expectations
2.education,projects, vacation. I.e
all these I have no problem with.

they are within the confines of financial discretion.

Ok

baralatie: how would you describe what i s financially compatible!

It means the spouses have an idea of their financial goals and have a common understanding on treatment of issues. Education, projects, vacation etc


What's your point

baralatie: define the boundaries of financial compatibility!

Your post is not clear
Boundary how?

Sambarry u too gbasky....

Eku orire
Eku inawo
ese party..Mogbo moya

baralatie: gbam!you are hitting it on the head,the about money is goals!goals!goals!
financial goals are a lot bigger and highly influential than you think.I have seen split up coz the level of financial goal disparity was so high insecurities set in.
when it is about money ,hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!

OK...whatever works for you however financial compatibility is key

More like single ladies who r friends with married women

Ok..

Three points in the bag