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Hahaha...someone noticed

Nobody says anything about the girls looking for the next payday and get fooled by tricks which have been in vogue since the 70s

Even Tales by Moonlight featured a story of a pompous lady who was fooled by a guy who borrowed all his body parts and returned them after marriage


Heck..u could see the tears in the kumbaya festival

It remained pictures of exes to be burned


Due diligence is important but ladies are carried away by bling...even some educated comfortable ones
They will even ditch the cool guys saying they r boring

baralatie: yeah!can you give your guy a breathing space if you know that he has an accumulation. savings account running in pounds sterling!

I don't have a guy but I expect my partner and myself to have financially compatible goals

Tallesty1: You are not sure yet, atleast the op didn't say so.


Do you know that serious commitment as you term it has many a times been mistaken for desperation? And I am sure you know that desperation turns men off.


She is also careless with words which is a turn of too.

I'm not trying to condem her thou, just telling you why she may never get to be my wife

Your call...
I am not assuming

He is playing games.his story is not consistent. What is d big deal in taking a woman you want to marry home.

Tallesty1: She said he is immature.

OK... She may not have used the exact words and it may have beeen said in anger rather than contempt which is rude..no one will deny that


We only have one side of the story

The story here is simple..
She wants serious commitment from the guy
The guy wan play small

baralatie: which page!
is it Facebook or yahoo or twitter!
this is money we are mentioning here.

OK..
Whatever floats your boat...

Negotiations are still the best method to settle

Nothing wrong in asking

Tallesty1: She is rude

What is rude about telling your boyfy you dont think he is ready to take the relationship to the next level

Its obvious

Tallesty1: Any woman that says that to me will never get to be my wife.
Girls should learn to control their tongues.


@Op, why haven't you taken her home?

Are you ready for marriage now?

s she forcing you? Cause I can detect that from ur post.

Be honest...... Do you wish to marry her?

Why do u say so...I believe she thinks he wants to play..she may not have been rude but just frank..

carefreewannabe: Of course I did. Now explain to me how the list proves your assertion that there are millions of paedophiles in the West.

Note that I am NOT saying that there are not millions of them. I just want you to prove your assertion.

The list you provided refers to sexual offense in general, not to paedophilia in particular.

When I get the time...I will

carefreewannabe: @bold

They do not.

how so

did u open d link

carefreewannabe: So for you a sex offender is automatically a paedophile, yes?

i knew u were going somewhere..it so gives u a high when u can prove something.. thats why i asked for your counterpoint

Unfortunately I dont have the time to still go back and forth with you

But if u still want to make yourself feel better.

Definition of sex offenders http://www.criminaljustice.ny.gov/nsor/sortab1.htm

You will see most of the crimes involves minors... acting on pedophilia is a crime just like storing pictures of child poorn which the internet has facilitated

if you had read my post with an open mind..

SAMBARRY: True

Yes... believe it..thats why i empathise with people who scream male hate
they have suffered great pain

SAMBARRY: True

Yes... believe it..thats why i empathise with people who scream male hate
they have suffered great pain and it colours their view of every male

SAMBARRY: I can't even leave wura with any of her uncles alone without me being there (my brothers) with the way things are turning up side down every day

No problem...

People's views are shaped by their experiences

carefreewannabe: If you don't have the time now, maybe you can find the time later to show me where you found the numbers you told us about.

To make it easy for you..

For the major western nations.. Find out the list of people on their sex offender registry

Tally it up

Clue: 750,000 registered sex offenders in the US alone.



You can do it yourself..

carefreewannabe: I have no counterpoint. Can you please show me the statistics ? I am very interested in this topic.

Which topic...

I don't have the time now.. You can use a search engine yourself

..

carefreewannabe: There is no back and forth. I just want to know where you got the numbers from.

Google..

Thats what I asked what is your counterpoint

carefreewannabe: X x

I'm not ready for back and forth with you like we did on the child custody thread..let's cut to the chase
What do you think so I can counter that promptly

Different posters..same opinions

Not different from what we see around this forum

All/Most/Lots of males are bad; my male family members are good.

EbolaParasite: Don't mind all the people that have been posting nonsense on this thread. Like i said earlier, most of the people that get shot by cops are not necessarily JESUS. Now that the robbery footage is released, can you all shut the Bleep up and stop looting.

Do you believe an unarmed man who raised his hands should be executed..even if he stole or not

beeevan: Lofty admitted what so many of them will never admit, a thought is different from the deed. A lot of them do think that way, mind you I used "A Lot", not all.



If a lot don't think that way, kids won't be molested on daily basis.

Your opinion

carefreewannabe: How did you arrive at these numbers again?

Which numbers

Damiso..well done
In the west the economy is driven by debt
Discipline is key but I feel the best option is for both of them to be on the same page

Hiding info from his wife means they r not on the same page

Nice thread

Please no front page

Nonso23: Ahhh!!!
How did I leave that out.
Of course he just fell into some hole and just started thrusting just by mistake.


When he says you are fat he is 'just' stating an observation.

If he tells you that your friend is cuter, sexier, more intelligent and appealing with formidable ikebe and boobsies. It is 'just' a harmless comparison

When he says you are looking too old for him, don't worry it is 'just' an assessment.

'Just' is a beautiful word.

It is a beautiful word...Lil
It is...

Nashville: Or when the man is making love to his wife and calls another woman's name; isn't that also just a name. In fact couples should never get angry anymore.
We need tough mature, secure people who never show emotions and can never be upset by what their partner does.

classic! LOL

Ujujoan: You dey find word for my mouth abi Na u know . . .

But seriously, he's had 2yrs+ to abuse her if he would, so I would say that makes him trustworthy!!!

No....


However Pedophilia has existed since time immemorial.
What has changed is the ease of dissemination of pedophilic content n the anonymity provided by online networks


They exist everywhere...n are in their millions in the west

What they have over us is the have sex offender register n quick prosecution

When you catch him cheating, its just that he rolled over and found his dck in some hole

Nonso23: Don't you just love some women in this section??

IT IS 'JUST' A NAME GUYS! CHILL

To the 'just' ladies:

Your birthday is not unique to you alone. It's just a date. Don't get pissed off if your husband totally just forgets it.

Your wedding anniversary is just a date.

Your parent's wedding anniversary is a mere date too.

His ex's nude photo on his phone is just a piece of fine art he happens to just admire.

His ex's phone number is just a mathematical mumbo jumbo of digits. Nothing more.
etc

'Just' simplifies a lot of issues we kill ourselves over
Whether we like it or not, certain sentiments bear heavier penalties than actual legal offenses.

In marriage, anything that hurts your partner enough to make him ignore you for two weeks is no longer a 'just' issue.
A name anywhere is not a 'just' matter. Immortalizing your dead ex in a living monument that happens to be the product of your love with your husband ( First Son ) is enough to ruin all the hardwork you've put into the marriage prior to the flop, especially for men who are very much in touch with their emotional side.

Madam should go and seek for ways to assuage his resentment for her due to the damage she has done. If I know the male psyche well enough he might 'just' have been weighing impact of a perfectly schemed counter strike against the importance of his marriage and children these past 2 weeks.

na today?

SAMBARRY:


so you still remember that yeye song

Struggling?

ok...

SAMBARRY: It's better for her to struggle with the kids than for her to leave her kids in unsafe hands for goodness sakes

this is annoying. It doesn't cost the man nothing to remarry and when he does the little girl will go through hell from her step mom.the hell she will go through id nothing compared to living in poverty with her own mom.if she goes to school sef thank God

many women hate their husband's ex kids no matter how much they pretend because it reminds them of their husbands ex and so they will visit the anger on the kids

Kay17: I'd assume that's all you have to say.

its your assumption... no crime against that

aisha2: No matter the origin I am against generalisation. If someone cheats he should be bold enough to own instead of hiding under "I do it and its not only me ALL men do it too" same way "I was caught stealing but I am not the only theif" we sing here. My point is individuals should take responsibility for their actions and own it instead of attempting to drag others into their mess

Having an idea of the origins will ensure the context is understood. one cant make statements without taking into cognisance the cultural nuances.

As more women get empowered, spousal settlement for divorces and child maintenance gets entrenched in our nation, indiscriminate sleeping around will be minimized. Its only a matter of time

It just does not excuse personal responsibility