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Feraz: LMAO! Of course....it's a 'just' for anything

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.just a post..

just a phone number even though the person calls at 11/12 in the night

Just a chat..

CAMNEWTON4PRES: Lol those people are too scared to vex their white masters.....don't expect anything from them


Yup you got it right, even in that city where they are the minority, they managed to dominate the judiciary system and the law enforcement probably to keep the black majority in check

To be honest this applies to africans also

The black head of multinational companies in Africa do not care for the black workers

CAMNEWTON4PRES: Emulate us .period
Stop throwing tantrums ..

LOL......

I agree with u on the movement
Moreover those who benefitted like oprah and jay z dont give a phock about the people theyleft behind

I agree with you 100 pc on how the whites roll.. same thing in Africa... networking, watch my back etc

They roll tight

CAMNEWTON4PRES:
The civil right movt is dead burried, they are too individualistic and many if not most are satisfied with what they have, after all they can know fck white girls and date white males


Lol I'm just pulling her legs .....


As for the ethnic census of the city, you see white are always aware of their surrounding, they constantly check if they are the majority or the minority ....they will try to control their environment , change the laws etc, write petitions ...BA on the other hands don't care and believe out of love the white massa are going to change and start treating them better ...

CAMNEWTON4PRES: That's where their black lobbies should get involved ...yup the law is harsh on BA

I agree with this.... discussing the civil rights movt is another issue entirely

Africa has it own issues too however

on u n khiaa..i will just observe ur banter

maclatunji

i dont get.. whats the issue
The writer seems to like the lifestyle

Being the first child of my family, my mother especially is on my neck to bring home a man and get married. The unfortunate thing, however, is that such is the last thing on my mind.

My cousin’s friend who also introduced me to the intimate preference has also become a shadow of herself.

Shadow how? HIV or lonely or ..

This is true

But do you know a black woman faces jail in NJ even though she has a registered gun
This should be a misdemeanour .. but guess what.,..shes black!

You cant divorce the system from this issue

http://www.foxnews.com/us/2014/07/16/honest-mistake-leads-to-philly-mother-facing-three-years-on-gun-charge/

A Philadelphia mother of two is facing three years in prison after she mistakenly entered New Jersey, where she was stopped for a traffic violation and found in possession of a handgun loaded with hollow-point bullets.

Shaneen Allen, 27, was pulled over in New Jersey’s Atlantic County after making an unsafe lane change in the early morning hours of Oct. 1. Allen then told the officer that she had the .380 Bersa Thunder handgun, as well as a concealed carry permit for Pennsylvania, unaware that her permit was not transferable to The Garden State.

“The gun charge was not proper to begin with at all,” her attorney, Evan Nappen, told FoxNews.com. “She made an honest mistake.”

Allen, who has no criminal record, was later charged with unlawful possession of a weapon and possession of hollow-point bullets. If convicted, the illegal possession of the handgun is a second-degree felony punishable by a mandatory minimum sentence of three years in prison.

CAMNEWTON4PRES: Look, BA should try to take advantage of the laws surrounding them..

Ask yourselves this how many BA own guns legally?

Do you know how many would b out of jail, if they got a license or registered their guns properly?

What are their senators doing?

How come in a 70% black city only 3 policemen are black, do you think the reverse would happen if white were the majority ?
Those people should stop dreaming about Africa and start getting involved in their country ...at least where they are the majority

LewsTherin: The arabs will say "me and my brother against our people, me and my people against the world" why should we be against anyone?
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Can you explain this proverb

CAMNEWTON4PRES: Am I lying?

Africans actually changed the perception others groups had on black people-black americans

We are family oriented ..they(BA ) recognize it themselves
We are school oriented actually the best immigrants
We have a culture
Etc

Instead of hating , they should emulate us ...

They are also family oriented.
School - some of the best minds in the world are black = Colin Powell, Ben Carson, Obama, belafonte etc
They also have a culture....

Emulation?... more like understand

When you cant even understand other, how will you unite

CAMNEWTON4PRES: But the segregation does not exist anymore, I know the biases etc but Africans have no reason to know or care about the segregation, we are not unaware of racism, we went through invasion and are constantly fighting with europeans, so they can not lecture us on racism nor dictate us the way we must react to it

Have u heard of micro aggression.. Yes nationwide segregation does not exist but the effects of 300+ years of slavery does just like in Africa which suffers from neo colonialism

We went through invasion, they also fought for freedom
We fought with europeans.. they also did

lecturing?.. it is we who seems to be lecturing them

CAMNEWTON4PRES: The only issue is the the first one
The second issue is not one at least not from us, the BA are expecting something from us, what I don't know, I believe they are looking to who to look down on , unfortunately for them africans, in the USA are well to do people, who don't take bs, when they see we are not interested by them , they start hating, or try to lump us in the we are all black bs, imagine one telling me that it is the white man who created my ethnic group/identity to divide us and conquer us ...

I think this is showed by the ignorant ones.. which happen to be majority however a lot of African immigrants are also ignorant of the Segregation history.. both ways

A lot of BAs are conscious of Africa and desire to know more of the continent

interesting

If this tale is true... i dont see any blame for your wifes friend

Worst case she did not encourage your ex wife to work on her marriage

The decision and the consequencs should be borne by your ex wife

This just highlights how treacherous her friend is.. no need for hatred

dotmanz: In fairness to God, I wnt deny that there were no issues she was acting on, but they were just too pertinent to argue. And she make those points in her insults and while trying to breed the fire of her troubles, she once mentioned that she goes about sitting around the neighbourhood so that she could hear enough of my gist, and she confirmed that I dnt spend as much money as I used to spend on my ex when we were dating, she said she heard that I payed her school fees.., I found out she made a bet with some friends to be the first to drive a Honda baby-boy car, she argued she must know what I do with the rest of my monthly income after giving her the upkeep allowances..
I view those points baseless and was hoping she would understand the etiquette of a house-wife with time.
I'm well convinced she's here reading these posts, I dnt want to mention names..
I'm going to add this so that women can learn, though I consider it a digression.
Just two weeks after she left, her closest friend, her supposed informant that feed her with those gist, came to my apartment at about 9pm, I came back late from work, I got home about 8pm. I was lining on the bed in the bedroom when I heard a knock on my door, I was surprised, I looked up the time, it was 8:45pm, I went across the livingroom to the main entrance, I peeped through the transparent window, it was her closest friend, the supposed informant. I was like 'E kale oh' that means 'good evening in Yoruba, she responded sluggishly. I said hope there is no problem, she said jokingly, are u not suppose to open the protector first, what if I'm being chased by something, I opened the main door, then the protector. She came in. She sat on a two-sitter seat, while I decided to seat alittle far from her due to my curiosity about her unusual visit at such odd hour.
She started by asking me, how was work and so on.. She said she actually saw me as I returned. I said really, that's nice
the talk started, 'as a matter of fact, I should have told you some things long ago, since when u were dating ur ex-girlfriend, but I didn't know how you were going to take it, and I never had the time to open up to u till ur wife came, I didn't want to make it look like I'm trying to break ur home. I really love you so much, I didn't tell u all these while because I was scared u might think I'm throwing myself at u, my friend was very impatient and she doesn't appreciate what she had, shey u know that me, I've known u for a long time before she came, I'm the one that knows how kind and how calm u are.. I waited patiently as she read her 'tonight @ 9', meanwhile my compound gate closes 10.pm and she knows, after the whole thing, I smiled and told her to come and go so, she doesn't get stocked in my flat, she started looking like DSTV decoder, acting funny, I said it repeatedly, she noticed I was getting irritated by her stupidity, she now sluggishly stood up and took two steps towards the door, i was after her to lock the door upon her departure, when she got to the door, she held the handle still without opening the door, she turned back at me and said, 'can u please kiss me?' At that time, all the hatred I had for her for feeding her friend with some stupid talks about me grew.. I shouted in loud voice, 'please I dnt have time for this, just open the door and move.. she shamefully left at about 9:48pm.
I was so surprised, It was like a movie to me, I kind of, ..could it be that this lady fed her friend with those talks about me to enable her have her way? Can a woman go a far as that.. I said life is a is wide range of experience and lessons. What do they gain destroying others to restructure their miserable lives?

BoboYekini: The original post is so self-entitled and essentially vapid( how ironic, seeing how she is evidently guilty of the sin she abhors) that I won't even deal.
P.S. One thing op has going for her is those luscious lips though ; would love to see them all pouty without that garish lipstick.

CAMNEWTON4PRES: Why are there so many trolls on Nl, Nl used to b a saner place ...what with the white supremacists popping left and right

LOL... actuallythere are three issues here

1. Issues of the black community in the West with overhandedness of the enforcement agencies/system - This should be condemned as it can happen to anyone. The focus is on murder as that has a meaure of finality. What of discriminaton, trumped up charges, rushed convictions and pre conviction forfeitures..

2.Issues of African immigrants with the Native blacks
This is what i dont get myself. An AA here has said this is being done by ignorant blacks

3. Issues of Africans in the diaspora with those back home
This s so annoying.. immediately they enter abroad, our people start pushing up their noises, looking down at those in Africa

Issues

CAMNEWTON4PRES: Make us
Africans in America are a blessing for you descendants of slaves ...you know have people you can look up to...

I guess you guys are trollin now

Feraz: Wow! I'm really surprised by some replies here. They all shout there's nothing wrong with the name. A man just found out that his first son has been named after his wife's first love and people say there's nothing wrong with it. Doesn't it imply that the wife is still wishing to belong to her first love? It's not like the child is the first love's. Who won't be pissed with that kinda thing? I guess it's cos the person angry is the man. I'm learning very fast!

So this is the family section!

Welcome

SAMBARRY: x x

You too gbasky...ma'am st janet

Well..i agree but i find it puzzling that theres still so much discrimination in this era
I will do well to ignore..

khiaa: Don't take that baboon seriously, just have fun playing with it.
This baboon is for entertaiment purposes only, now lets have fun feeding the baboon.

ok

No wahala

Godmystrength: Yes i remember my first post.
What i was asking is that going by all these, it means i have to consciously scrutinize all names and be sure that it is not an ex's name before i can name my child.

Whatever name people decide to name their child is their business so far they agree on it
My own here is that didn't the wife tell her hubby about the relationship and dead ex? Didn't she mentioned his name while talking about him? From this story, for the husband to just discover that the son is named after an ex it means she didn't tell him which i said is WRONG. because if she told him, when they were about naming the child, he would have known and objected if he wasn't happy with it.

Not giving your child a name you would have loved to because you've had an ex that goes by that name =
Giving your child a name because your ex goes by that name and you want to keep him remembered = WRONG

[size=5pt]But what i really need to get is that if you love a name so much and had determined in your heart to name your child, if you are then ''unfortunate'' to date someone with that name and it didn't work out between you two, then that is the end of the name in your dictionary??[/size]

SAMBARRY: I have done that sir

No ma... its still there ma.. the edo state is still there.. just unquote

You know what.. dont worry

You dont hate blacks?
yet u use words like black thing, ape

Your moniker is new hitler... yet you love blacks

neohitler: Oh keep quite,stupid angry black thing. I hate blacks like you that hates my kind.stupid Ape

SAMBARRY: ahan nawa o ;Dhow will I unquote you again. Human beings are so difficult to satisfy sha

The name of the state is in my post which you quoted

Modify and unquote https://www.nairaland.com/1857745/every-single-man-sick-paedophile/3#25493743

Sorry Ma'am

Godmystrength: What if she just loves the name?
If someone has some exes, does it means that their names are a no go area for the man/woman to name their child? i.e if i happen to have an ex (whether dead or alive) who is Stephen/Stella, it means i must never name any of my children that?
Did the woman tell the hubby that she named the child after her lover or he just got to find out about the lover's name and assumed that his child was named after him? So many unanswered questions.

Madam.. this was your first post... good you have clarified your position.. whatever it was

Godmystrength: Please don't get me wrong or put words that are not mine in my mouth o. It is the OP's friend/her hubby that have the problem and not me/my hubby so that is why i said she needs God's help. Even if i said it was not a biggie (i didn't say that anyway), it's not me that my hubby is not talking to for 2weeks and i am not her hubby. Meanwhile, my opinion is not going to solve her problem because her husband is not here to read it.

SAMBARRY:

You have to unquote me....

Never get high on your own supply

BishopMagic: From the Ten Crack Commandments

Seven: this rule is so underrated
Keep your family and business completely seperated
Money and blood don't mix like two d1cks and no b1tch
Find yourself in serious sh1t

dealslip: Kindly point out the particular verse in the bible where it was recorded that Mary was a little girl when she conceived by the miracle of the Holy Ghost. See God didn't impregnate her like the blasphemy you wrote above. The same God that instituted multiplication of man, in all His great wisdom can by pass the normal process of multiplication because he was the one that invented the natural process in the first place. Don't be blinded by religious sentiment. Read I Cor 7 then you will understand God's marriage timing.

It is not written in the bible but if you follow history...

Girls in those days were married off as early as 13,14...

Try and be objective in debating

PassingShot: It will be ignorance to associate this to religion only. I saw this live and direct in Agagbe, a remote village in Benue where they're predominantly Christians.

Islam hasn't specified a particular age for marriage and clearly states that the consent of the girl in question is a must before she can be married.

I agreed with this.

I am saying proponents of child mariage claim it is allowed religiously

Thats why my first question was this: Is this a cultural or religious issue

Gboliwe: so you sef be silent reader?

Yes na... oya update,,mbok

Chiamaka01: That would be my immediate reaction but afterwards, i'll get over it and realize that it's for the best but i won't stop looking for my birth parents.

Are u aware of the economics of the situation,.. that the birth parents are typically teens, poor and may not even be able provide a life for themselves not to talk of the child

beeevan: [url][/url]
If that's insecurity, accepted, am very very insecure. Which one is naming another man's child after an ex ?

Now you are skirting the issue

I said variants..... that means they are not exactly the same thing

I know Ola and Ade dont mean the same thing.... Segun is common

I dont know the specific name.. i used illustrations

Clara.. claris, ciara (not siure)
Stephen .. steve..
Stella.. estella, chavela


Why will she need Gods help with gobe,.,.. you just said it was not a biggie,,,just a name right?

Godmystrength: lol. But we don't what specific name it is now. Abi what if the name is like Reuben, Clara, Stephen, Stella etc, what variants do you have for them?
And mind you, Adesegun is not same as Olusegun. Some names have same means but you just love the sound of some than the other..


Anyway, wetin concern me? My son is not named after any ex so i gat no problem. God will help OP's friend sort out her gobe o

SAMBARRY: yes. it is like an interconnected chain.
Governor fashola said something I still hold till today but I will use my own interpretation



political leadership is not the sole responsibility of elected and unelected leaders because people both old and young make upa society and when the people who are meant to instill values in them are not, the wrong people will instill values in them , at the end of the day crime increases and it complicates the work of political leaders.so its like a cycle. If parents raise decent human beings and not animals that look like humans, that includes single parents/baby mamas etc, mischievous politicians will not see any youth to use for political violence or kidnapping

I understand what you say but you have not answered my question

You said mental illness or lack of mental soundness us responsible for immorality

I don't see the correlation

Are you saying a prostitute is suffering from mental illness

Some Women sha

Everything na just

Someone buys you a car, furnishes an apartment Just a friend

Someone names her child after a dead lover Just a name

Someone goes through heaven and earth for you Just one of my friends

Just a.. Just a

beeevan: It's not just a name oooo, i can't accept that. The poor man is probably so ooo disappointed, the reason he refused to speak for weeks. I can't see anything right about what she did.

Madam I tire.. and the initial comments . I was like..WTF
The insecurity line again