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I salute oo

audreybrian: @Ifysimple thank you sis.
Please my beloved nairalanders,my friend needs these advice as the relocation date is already near.So,pls just drop the advice you have and stop casting blames.No need for arguements as this is a very serious matter.Thanks.

Let her leave him if she can't live in his house in naija.

He does not deserve her...a man who dares to help his father's legacy which helped set him abroad when he had said they will live in obodo oyibo together.

Who does he think he is...

He will marry a lokito girl

Aisha2

That is not the origin of all men cheat lingo
It is a transition occasioned by traditional polygamy to Christian monogamy

Its not about weak minded men.

SAMBARRY: when the mother is alive?



the truth is that op married into a useless family. A family that sees nothing wrong in using the wife for money rituals.tufiaaaaakwa


am even suprised she has the heart to live her daughter in the hands of her mil exposed to a ritualist



so you do the training while they come 15years time to pick the boy.am sure by now you already know why he married you "baby making machine tins' which you are only useful for.he doesn't even see you as wise or grown enough to share his problems with (another loophole) if he thought you were that young why then did he marry you instead of his mother who is "wiser and older than you" (did you ask him)



Lastly are you sure this man married you properly. No be say na lagos marriage aka live in lovers.you just get belle and off you go to his house and turn yourself to his wife

Stop opening your eyes joor....u be jagaban?

People have been known to give up their kids for adoption.
She is struggling

Ujujoan: He's been tested and trusted.

Interesting...

Sadly she has so many deluded fans who egg her on; hailing every word she says as insightful and avantgarde.

Delusion

This

aisha2: You cant stop her, thats her choice. Simply tell her what you know and let her decide. Let her talk with him and the rest is left to them.
What ever she decides she gets to live with it not you.

..3 points in the bag

When will MUFC fans learn? First you blamed Rooney, then Moyes, then Woodward and now Van Gaal. Accept you aren't good enough!

I like to think that Pulis and Moyes are smiling smugly, watching the football and downing a couple of nice cold beers.

r231, Royal Roy, coogar

SAMBARRY: NO I WILL NOT

No b you..

Na so u dey spread fallacy up n down...

Why stop at the father?

He is male too Na....

SAMBARRY: Well all that arr bye products of mental instability. You don't have to walk the Street nakid to be mad. Some people are not normal however it's not obvious

This is a fallacy...u don jabo...

Mental illness and immorality have no direct correlation

Accept am

blueberryp: Carmen loves him too but she is scared of commitment. I think they will be good together.

I hear u

coogar

damn.... the ending was sad men

Audrey killed

Her father losing her memory..

So pissed off

So what do you mean by mental soundness

You said mental unsoundness causes immorality

SAMBARRY: A prostitute is suffering from love and attention she didn't get at home. No one made her feel needed or relevant and so her little brain told her those who told hershes sexy and hot and are ready to pay her for sex love her


a r@peest is suffering from an outcome of an animalistic father or an absentee father check the fathers of rapeest.they are either in jail or have become nuisances to everyone around him and the boy is looking for who to take out his frustration on

na u know ....

SAMBARRY: abi na gbeborun you wan do.you too like jissssttt.sheeeessshhh

as my friend 'kan...' will say

You should be sent for re education

Na u dey call me na...



I dey go now ...

SAMBARRY: wetin consain you. No be you talk say you wan go watch film? What are you still doing on nl?

Eugenics is a characteristic of racists and bigots

Not surprising

BadBoy25: you are ignorant. you are not good for black people and should be sterilized . In your mind , you think you are helping black people but you are only keeping black people down with your self pity and victim mentality . you refer to successful and intelligents black people as uncle tom and self hating because they would not settle for your mediocrity.

Thats life

You dont know what uve got till its gone

I hope she is in better place now

He may be lucky... he may get someone better or at least equal to his ex

MizMyColi:

The Guy took her for granted ehn, choi!

Me jus dey one corner dey feel for my friend and at the same time loathing the guy.

She met this other guy that became her miracle. After two weeks of radio silence, the guy came to look for her in our new hostel, cos we parked out of the former one.

Hian! O beibi has moved on

This happened about 7-8 years ago, till today, that guy still dey beg my friend.....
He lives abroad now and still contacts her.
Though not as intense as it used to be, but he's so convinced there's none like her
(Na lie joor - and No! Ayam not jealous )

Why do we always have to loose someone before realising their value and how we can't live without them?

Me, I don't make such mistakes. I'll only let go of a person if I feel like they're Smothering me so much, even at that, I'll still go looking for the person after a little while, except I never valued such person(s) to begin with.

Annoying is a state of emotion and is still better than ignorance which is a state of fact
I cant allow obvious untruths and lies to be pasted in the web for perpetuity

It will looks bad on this forum that no one called out your arse if no rebuttal was made

BadBoy25: you are annoying,period .

kay17 is such a twister

i wonder why u guys bother

she is an advocate of abortion n choice n believes personhood is at birth... no need for the long debate

Europe organised before industrialisation?


Guess the Crusades and witch hunts and beheadings were civilisation

Google is your friend - google the words feudalism, Goths, Barbarians, Vikings... or better still watch Vikings on History Channel

Trolls abound...

SAMBARRY: ok I have some movies I want to recommend for you


the diary of a tired black man
how to make money selling drugs
titanic 2
The other woman
enough

Thanks... will look for them.. any of them nollywood?
have u seen Mother of George

coogar: i have completed it months ago na.....it was way too short but it's good! bauer is in trouble though!

About to start episode 11 n 12 tonight... Bauer vs Chen

Ive enjoyed it so far

cococandy: Still the abuse of power I'm talking about here.
A male child will go to any level of education he wants to if his family can afford to.
Even the US or UK for western degrees and whatever else he wants to do.

The female child on the other hand is rarely given such opportunity except where the father is extremely kind.

Is this not a deliberate attempt to keep them subdued and subservient?
They believe she'll become corrupted enlightened and won't stay in 'her place'

I tire sha. I no fit kill myself for this matter even though it gives me a lot of concern.
Can't cry more than the nereaved joor.

You miss it totally

The literacy level in the North is abysmally poor for both genders... Damn..u did not know that
The children of the elite are those who go to the highest levels...

I'm sure you know el rufai daughter had 2 masters in the UK

Coco... Check your facts....

SAMBARRY: you too.an obvious fan of nollywood. By their fruits you shall know them

I don't need to watch nollywood to know of African traditional religion

Did you not read alawiye

OK...I'm off..have to finish 24

Coogar.have u seen season 9

tpia1: Is that what traditional religion teaches?

just asking.

They believe that the ancestors watch over the living..n need to be appeased with regular sacrifice

You should know that Na..

Sambarry..this your name reminds me of sanboribobo...yiba yiba sanboribobo..lol

cococandy: Forgive me. Lol

I know 18 is the minimum age just saying.

Not economic. There are poor people in the other regions too.
It's abuse of power pure and simple.

OK..however one can not deny the vast differences in per capita income n literacy levels between the north n south

Tragic considering they have ruled thus country for more than 33 years

rock that way means that some people are practitioners of traditional religion

tpia1: rock that way meaning the male ghost will start plotting against the wife's new husband while the female ghost will start clapping for the husband's new wife?

So how did the relationship pan out

MizMyColi: The Girl's one good natured soul, its almost like I can see right through her. Some Girls are so nice, so nice that they don't know how to be any less.

Y'know, I know a certain young girl - The first guy she ever loved, they lived in the same hostel then [I don't advise younger folks to date at such close proximity though]

On our way back from lectures @TheTime, She'd be racking her brain on what to cook for Daniel, and HIS FRIENDS of course. Personal Cook tins

She didn't care what anyone thought, still doesn't, though she learnt some lessons [Me I won't advise any young lady to tow that path - its for their own good]

Let me be clear here, I see no big deal in that act. Some Ladies can Love Sha!


That said, errmm........Mom might be somewhat jealous y'know, of course its normal
However, wisdom is profitable to direct. If her mother-in-law to be (hopefully) isn't cool with it, then she has to pipe low. Her boyfriend needs to understand that He's still under her authority and as such dance to her tune or go get a room. #HardTruth

tpia1: but you did not say that before.

That's why i said traditionally

Some rock that way...IFA things...

tpia1: so the male ghost is the one who will have issues with his wife humping someone?

I never said so..

Per Christian doctrine..ghosts don't exist

cococandy: xx

Madam dey learn to dey quote well Na..


Haba....


That's why I believe if more moderates speak out...this thing will become outdated

They will not give out their daughters so young..so with time it will trickle down....slowly n sadly

20?..I feel 18 is OK as a minimum age

Abuse of power?..,I think its mostly an economic issue