Family › Re: Banned By Antispam Bot by pickabeau1: 2:36pm On Jul 04, 2014 |
crackhaus: Use the 'Mail Mods' feature to send a mail to any of the mods in the section you were banned. This. with the link of the offending post  I thought u knew.. |
Christianity Etc › Re: What Are The Benefits Of Islam To Nigeria? by pickabeau1: 1:47pm On Jul 04, 2014 |
both are foreign.. |
TV/Movies › Re: Naruto Information by pickabeau1: 1:12pm On Jul 04, 2014 |
Tosyn007: Call him whatever, we are just tryna reiterate that he's not part of the sons that sealed Kaguya. Who said he was one of the sons that sealed her  |
Family › Re: I Nid Urgent Answers by pickabeau1: 1:11pm On Jul 04, 2014 |
Tragic story
Working hard is not always tantamount to financial success
Have u considering giving up the children for adoption.. |
Family › Re: Is She Crazy ?? by pickabeau1: 1:05pm On Jul 04, 2014 |
choi.. see mouth.. e big pass seat belt sef  |
Romance › Re: Every Man Wants To Sleep With Me.. by pickabeau1: 1:04pm On Jul 04, 2014 |
okpara ugo: Seriously yes.. Really sad |
Family › Re: Successful Career Women Can't Have It All - Pepsi CEO, Indra Nooyi by pickabeau1: 12:52pm On Jul 04, 2014 |
Godmystrength: thank God i even have. Some don't have o. na true u talk sha  |
Family › Re: Successful Career Women Can't Have It All - Pepsi CEO, Indra Nooyi by pickabeau1: 12:45pm On Jul 04, 2014 |
Godmystrength: you go wait tire na na mouth u just get dey bobo for us online  |
TV/Movies › Re: Naruto Information by pickabeau1: 12:44pm On Jul 04, 2014 |
Android o Machine oo Black rock The thing don talk say hin be pikin Na the third son be that  |
Family › Re: Successful Career Women Can't Have It All - Pepsi CEO, Indra Nooyi by pickabeau1: 12:43pm On Jul 04, 2014 |
Oya where d pics na  |
Culture › Re: Hierarchy Of Needs And Values - Cultural Perspective by pickabeau1: 12:24pm On Jul 04, 2014 |
I think HongKong will be upper right
You did not include the rich Arab states which are traditional too but not survival mode |
Romance › Re: Every Man Wants To Sleep With Me.. by pickabeau1: 12:20pm On Jul 04, 2014 |
terrible thing..its strictly a power game
We need to provide a safe environment for our women
Meanwhile the bastid will be hawking over his own daughter |
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Family › Re: Successful Career Women Can't Have It All - Pepsi CEO, Indra Nooyi by pickabeau1: 12:11pm On Jul 04, 2014 |
Godmystrength: are you one of the ''men''? No worry about that one Just upload the bakassi make we see Na mouth u just get.. Miss Balassi NL... oya carry goo Godmystrength: NO. A good husband is one who loves his wife like himself. Does a good wife need to love her hubby like herself or its not necessary |
Romance › Re: Can Someone Explain This Logic To Me? by pickabeau1: 11:58am On Jul 04, 2014 |
Put up the screenshot here or ADONBILIVIT  |
Family › Re: Successful Career Women Can't Have It All - Pepsi CEO, Indra Nooyi by pickabeau1: 11:56am On Jul 04, 2014 |
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Family › Re: Successful Career Women Can't Have It All - Pepsi CEO, Indra Nooyi by pickabeau1: 11:41am On Jul 04, 2014 |
Godmystrength: MEN, I SHAKE YANSH FOR ALL OF UNA Pics of u shaking your yansh or ADONBILIVIT  |
Romance › Re: He Stopped Loving Me When He Found A New Apartment. by pickabeau1: 11:33am On Jul 04, 2014 |
lindee: hahahahahahaha, u funny oh. my dear, its not all abt sex ok. ihv moved on.m jux trying to make people understand what i went through, for them to learn from my story and for them to advice me on how to become more wiser. thats all! My dear.. no one is too good to be dumped One of the most beautiful women in the world was beaten by her hubby.. Halle Berry Thats life.. Learn from the experience and while i do not agree with your family;s views as only u knows where the shoe pinches, learn to discern what they say in the future and see if they make sense If u dont agree,... nothing wrong in still making a choice of an Owerri man Also let the man put some work in the relationship too.. Takia |
Romance › Re: He Stopped Loving Me When He Found A New Apartment. by pickabeau1: 11:10am On Jul 04, 2014 |
it seems this girl is dik whipped When he takes u back and phocks u wella n DUMPS u again.. you will understand,, all this philosphy u been talking since  |
Family › Re: Is She Crazy ?? by pickabeau1: 10:41am On Jul 04, 2014 |
yes |
Culture › Re: I Hate What Feminism Has Become by pickabeau1: 10:40am On Jul 04, 2014 |
This is the age of equality IN ALL THINGS
Lets get with the program |
Family › Re: Banned By Antispam Bot by pickabeau1: 10:38am On Jul 04, 2014 |
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Romance › Re: He Stopped Loving Me When He Found A New Apartment. by pickabeau1: 10:36am On Jul 04, 2014 |
lindee: I see him every week. even bfor I started dis my small job.d fin here is dat I knew owerri guys flirts. but he was so exceptional. I Neva knew he had a bit of d flirty virus in him. which one be owerri there na.. Hes that no more into you Move on |
Culture › Re: Nigeria Girl Among Thousands Of Divorced Children by pickabeau1: 10:35am On Jul 04, 2014 |
the sly smile ---- perv alert  |
Family › Re: Are Nigerian Marriages In America On The Brink Of Extinction? by pickabeau1: 10:32am On Jul 04, 2014 |
Shouting Shallow praise on the pages of forums sounds laughable |
TV/Movies › Re: Naruto Information by pickabeau1: 10:28am On Jul 04, 2014 |
firestar: You implied that she had 3 sons...
I'm asking which page it was stated. what is your own point How many sons does she have |
TV/Movies › Re: Naruto Information by pickabeau1: 6:56am On Jul 04, 2014 |
firestar: Proof.
I like my food solid. So what is your belief so I know what proof u need |
Christianity Etc › Re: Why Are Laws That Has To Do With Money Are Always Retained By Pastors. by pickabeau1: 6:58pm On Jul 03, 2014 |
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Family › Re: Are Nigerian Marriages In America On The Brink Of Extinction? by pickabeau1: 6:54pm On Jul 03, 2014 |
can u clarify your post as i see a lot of contradictions therein.. whats the punch line afrolearn: Zboyd, we get it. It is good to hear these perspectives but we should also read more into what these articles are saying.
In Nigeria, we sometimes force unions that should not be. The man or woman that keeps straying should be left alone to stray and then settle down with the person they "really" want. Instead of giving the spouse the opportunity to contract a disease. The man or woman who keeps beating up their spouse should be sent to a mental asylum instead of elders forcing him to go back to his wife. When the spouse is beaten to death, those same elders will be crying foul. I am of the opinion that sincere marriages in the diaspora work. A good number of "failed" marriages are marriages of convenience. Do you know how many people get married for papers? Not to white girls o, to fellow Nigerians? Do you know how many men rush home to marry some girl they have not really interacted with and then expect her to come to the US and "conform"? Who even told us this works? If you will call leaving a cheating spouse or abusive spouse societal influence then so be it. Dr. Ndukwe is a researcher, he should look at the numbers properly. In the developed nations...some Nigerian marriages can not last because one spouse forgets that he/she (unfortunately usually he) is in a place that does not condone the maltreatment of a human being.
It is high time Nigerian men (because it is us that shout a lot) stop complaining about divorce rates and do what we can to move our homes forward. We are failing to be the heads, you should see how some African stores are filled with men sitting and idly making silly noises about nothing. I have counseled too some men who think "white girls are only for tasting", yet they have wives at home. We did a fellowship for married men at my Church and we spend time counseling each other on how to be better fathers and husbands. Our women are here working so hard to ensure their families have good lives and some of the men are doing their bid but all this whining we have going on is because our men are in a place where no one makes excuses for their behavior like it would be at home.
One more thing, at home divorce is not as rampant because it is still seen as a taboo. Instead of a divorce, the spouses live as roommates. The man might start a whole new life with another lady while the lady faces the children or starts seeing another man. But for the sake of "what people will say", they are still married. I am not sure how this is any better than what is happening outside the country.
I just feel we should look at why our homes are falling apart and stop trying to fly the "divorce is rampant in America because of societal influence". |
Family › Re: Are Nigerian Marriages In America On The Brink Of Extinction? by pickabeau1: 6:52pm On Jul 03, 2014 |
Another post from the poster that never stops giving... |
Family › Re: Successful Career Women Can't Have It All - Pepsi CEO, Indra Nooyi by pickabeau1: 6:46pm On Jul 03, 2014 |
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TV/Movies › Re: Naruto Information by pickabeau1: 6:44pm On Jul 03, 2014 |
firestar: 3? Where is it stated? in the manga please who recommneded the good crossover comic before the data loss |