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Some even like dating damaged men to further their sense of ego as they are working on "projects"


[quote author=oko-omoge]In my opinion, I think black African women
are retarding instead of progressing when
it comes to marital issues.

They learn the wrong things, I have observed
that educated Caucasians are very respectful
of their husbands. It blows me away to his
Successful Doctors,Engineers,dentist just
mention a few build a lovely home with their
husbands.

I think most Nigerian lady after watching
the so called real house of wives of this and that, pick all the bad stuffs.

My 2 cents,

The success of the children lies solely
with the mothers. Success is not just attending D'ivy colleges around the world , real success begins at home
with the right moulding/foundation.[/quote]

Maybe the devil does not want you to wed yet

which church is this...

#LookingforNewChurch

True and also in Vegas even the middle class can go and have his own trip

It caters to all peoples of all economic strata

This will be elitist

Jakumo: Hey, anything that looks like a snatch is what I wanna see ha ha. Let no snatch be eaten before its time, as the saying goes.

Anyway, jokes aside, if this place is going to be the 'Vegas of Nigeria, then the creators of this ambitious project should please bear in mind that Vegas boasts some of the most beautiful and racially diverse selections of "escorts" and hookers anywhere, and that this philosophy must be followed by Nigeria to the letter.

From a business standpoint, I wonder if this project, aimed at the idle rich and their jet-setting associates, will ever get much patronage in a contemporary Nigerian beach-front setting that is by definition open to sea-borne invasions of pirates, terrorists or kidnappers aboard powerful speedboats. If they are comptetent, the advice from security consultants hired by high maga-rich people residing or visiting Nigeria, would be to stay the phuck away from the waterfront, among other common-sense precautions.

This beach resort idea is unlikely to prove profitable in today's Nigeria. The Oracle has spoken.

Obsession primarily....


Had a super thanksgiving.... turkey things... so you never go back since... naIJA dey sweet you

You still dey east///4

Royal Roy: [size=16pt] Beautiful Sunday to you beautiful people.[/size]

Work and work and more work has kept this dude away for a while.

I can see new and newer members in here already. Hope y'all having maximum fun in here.


My thoughts for today.......


What will you tell a young lady who is super obsessed with her boyfriend ? To the point she is ready to steal her dad's hard earned cash just to give her boyfriend to buy a car? A girl who decided to claim she has been kidnapped just to raise money from her patents so the boyfriend can set up a business.


Meanwhile she only confessed this after she got caught with daddy's brief case filled with money.


Love , Obsession or Stupidity?

Everton is playing some good football at the moment

With patient dedicated buildup Arsenal will overcome

Kaiser does not do sentiments

750k euros for a champion league win

CFCfan: Nawa for Bayern!! They're just steam-rolling every team in Germany. Pelegrinni must be quaking in his boots now lol.

Bayern have 10 more Bundesliga matches to break Arsenal's EPL record. And they could easily go unbeaten this season in the league, UCL and the German cup.

I don't get


Do they get water break in Egypt or Emirates

All this long post....

Its pathetic really that some of you ladies on this section do not fail to descend into insults once you encounter a contrary view

Noted.....

Sal C: Are suspecting early signs of madness?

Nope... you said you recommended a psychologist.....I feel a psychiatrist is better

Sal C: Am in naija. Why do you ask?

I feel a psychiatrist is better placed to handle this issue

yellowpawpaw: Then let the future take care of itself.
It only needs ur love, support and prayer.

Back to my earlier posts.
I think I'm done.

No wahala.....nice debate

yellowpawpaw: And how did u c it as bad decicions for them.
I've seen where a gal is told not to marry from certain tribe by hour pple. To them its bad decision while to them its not. What r we really talking about.
Is the poster and his pple footing the bill?
Pls go back to the first page and read all the comments there.
U guys hv systematically changed tone.
Just like we said, bless and love them unconditionally, that's ur duty. Don't ever meddle even if its a prostitute.
It they throw missile ur way, simply duck. Its non of ur biz.

The consequences of a decision unfortunately are in the future and nobody knows
Saying it is none of your business is the issue

yellowpawpaw: BB, so with this ur theory, I should take it that everything u have been saying online is false?
If u can't believe anything I say online, why will I ever believe u?
I believe what I choose to believe, u hold on to ur own. Diff cultures and perspective about life. Its not hard to grasps.

Which theory are you referring to

yellowpawpaw: Nash did u ask me a question before?
Why that tone?


BB, so u r trying to show us the ideal thing while we r telling u d reality on ground.
Idealism is how its supposed to be in a man's world but d koko be say, some pple marry and will still marry a widow with children.
And there is nothing we can do about that.
Gat it?

My point is that saying it is none of my business is easy to say online but when the issue is close to home and ramifications of bad decisions can be costly you will get involved

yellowpawpaw: Pls u guys shouldn't quarrel.
Though at times I feel like smoldering somebody!

No one is quarrelling
Just a basic case of realism vs idealism

^^^^^

Well wat can I say…………

its easy to pontificate on hypothetical scenarios but when close to home the mouth sings a different tune

DoveQueen: I'v only met two of his distant cousins but they are not close by no contact with them too. I blame myself for not meeting his family before now but i didnt want to sound desperate i have alot running through my mind right now. Bad/worse thoughts

Consequences of not getting involved with one's potential in-laws

Modernism!

I think you are the side dish

Beginning of more good news

[quote author=Efemena_xy]Okay, back to sender 1000 times.

I don't do insults, but then again, what more can one expect from a person with low-level intelligence?

If you can't hold your ground in an argument without resorting to degoratory words then kindly shut your trap and don't bother quoting or responding to my posts.

Thank You![/quote]I don't understand this
Are you referring to me

I did not insult you

^^^^^
@efe

Hahaha... You are really funny today..

Now its witty Wednesday?

Life is not a debate but real situations
You deciding not to personalise the scenario just smacks of a lack of realism

Ewuro707: Thank you sir. Were dun wo loja but ko she bi lomo.

Later

Very apt

Efe...the proverb

It says a lunatic is good to view but not have close by

Figuratively its easy to pontificate on hypothetical scenarios but when close to home the mouth sings a different tune

In Africa
Maybe


Germany
Uruguay
Argentina

Also nice

^^^^ Laugh away....

Its also hilarious that all the e warriors are all hypothetical calling others twisted yet cannot answer a simple question of what they would do if it was their brother or son

NL ...

[quote author=Efemena_xy]I have no intention of answering personalized questions.
.[/quote]Just saw this
Its all hypothetical with you then

LOL

Ewuro707: Noticed a trend on here : Why does every discourse resort to Feminism, gender Equality , Battle of sexes etc?

Put yourselves in those hypothetic scenarios : what would you do if it were your Brother or Son ?

The Truth will set you free even tho it could be bitter to spill most times

Some have a rep to uphold

There was a female poster who advocated forgiveness for a woman who slapped her husband

This same poster n many here advocate dievorce when a man eyes his wife not to talk of slap

[quote author=Efemena_xy]I asked you a question. The least you can do is answer it, rather than get all emotional and turn it into a personal question of what will I do if my child were in that situation.

What did you mean by the statement that's how it is?

How what is?[/quote]I've answered you
Now it seems you are the one turning things
Its society
Its patriarchal
Its the way it is

No man likes to raise another's kids

Is that plain enough for you

[quote author=Efemena_xy]That's how what is?

Explain the bolded part of your sentence jare![/quote]If a woman wanted to marry a widower with kids my concerns will be primarily if she can cope with caring for another woman's kids aside the default of love, god fearing etc bla bla bla

A man?

Can you raise another mans kids

Few men can do it

Let me ask you

If your first son came to you that he wanted to mmarry a widow with 3 kids.. Wat will you say

Ypp your comment on widower with kids marrying a wife shows and corroborates what Nash is saying

Still a battle of the sexes issue

Yes it Is easier for a widower with 3 to marry a fresh wife than a widow with 3 to marry a fresh husband but that's how it is

CFCfan: Chei! See squad ohh

How market

Yes

Bro

We just chatting ooo

The matter Na just there...

Nice debate though

baralatie: Aha!what particular tradition.western europb,eastern europe,sub sahara africa,Nigerian?
Obviously 4rm ur comments wit op! we are dealing wit a tradition relating to western europe as 'roses' are not native flowers.

'now flowers are bought wit cash'.we are back to the problem which is the 'commercializatn of luv'
wit these mentality it one cannt be a lover of nature as the only tin involved is the destruction of the flower itself.
And it does nt reflect luv.it only assumes dat fantasy exist by projection.fantasy witout knowledge & discretion is folly!

But if u take time to plant,natuie & grow a flower.then u appreciate life.u understand what luv is and how it works!
This i doubt if op is willing to sacrifice for!

Like i said wen it comes to ppl and material acquisition.no two individual are the same.dont generalize a nigerian either male or female as ma...
There are gr8 guys out there! !