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Not sure I get what you were saying...

But 3rd party should be the last option

kulyie: So the last option is to involve the elders in your marital issh.why cant he tell his mother inlaw to teach her daughter how to do "cow girl style aka jokoleso'.smh.if you do not know how to handle your marriage without elders interference,you have no buisness with marriage

Wow


Your wife obbvoiusly does not get the level of financial discipline required

@chilli funny post as usual

I assume you don't have family in nigeria anymore or that you did not come through these same animals



@ypp.. One thing common to you and cc's post is that the man has good intentions and has involved the elders in his wife's case.

That may be wrong

His intent may be to get a new wife and why do we think he was not beating her before he bundled her off

The op has more info he does not want to share

True.. even customarily this is not right

The parents of the woman have suffered indignities on account of their daughter ..

kulyie: exactly.its illiterate women that this nonsense always happen to.i doubt whether she has a stable job with a stable income.i hardly hear of educated and empowered girls go through this disgusting indignities.

Thats why i pity this girls that their parents will tell,go to school and be sneaking out of school to see their boyfriends.thinking they are outsmarting their parents.before 17,they don turn them to apere ajase with children they dont know who their father is and at 21,their parents just push them into any semi illiterate man to marry so she doesnt turn liability in their house.


Shiooorrrr.aseni shey ara e

Hahahaha....

Tpia on point

@post
this is a throwback to the old days when women were chattel and really should have no place in this modern times
There is a customary dispute resolution process which the man should have followed that caters for the woman and the kids
If the inlaws decide to take him up and she marries someone else, is that his plan

Well.. this is the advantage of females being empowered in their own right

jajad: Actually, this was "Are we safe?"
Interesting example of a phrase completely losing its original meaning.

For example, in my time we used to say, "See your tum tum belle like scally wa wa!"
I have NO idea what that means.

Nice one...
Use of imagination
Helped a lot in boarding house where the pen was needed if there was no brawn

Built2last: Waka, shege...the n you stretch your 5 fingers towards that person while saying it.

Till date i've not understood the correlation between stretching the 5 fingers while saying warka or shege. cos yab na yab

It got so bad that sometimes hwne some says your papa!!, they still stretch fingers towards you.

can someone please explain.

Interestingly that gesture is despised globally

You mess all the fish for river Niger say awiseey

You sneeze put am for bread say Na Indian butter

Devil enter warri comot with slippers

Its not his fault he married from a not so rich family

The issue is that his wife is indulging her previous family to the deteriment of her current family

He needs to discuss the financial gols of the family with your wife

Institute a saving program

10 pc for your investment

30 pc for savings and emergencies

60 pc for expenses

Do not pay anyone except uve done this

Let her get a job and give her a project that all surplus funds will be diverted to so she does not become profligate

No gender has the monopoly of violence
Violence should never be justified

kulyie: nope

Good

Human emotions are human, not limited to a country, region or locale

In the same US, there are communities that beat their wives

Just last week they discovered a clan of 40 people that inbred amongst themselves

Why una alike to attack naija

God has done all he needs to do - He gave humans freewill

ONE POINT,,...

others dey meet olympiacos or zenit

na we come get big head face bayern...

Too early.. not impossible but we must reinforce

Giroud is the backup we need a 9

PocketEconomist: That one na male abuser.

lol... aka shenimal or she-animal

jk2013: @pickabeau, thanks for congratulating me in advance but I really do have loads of questions for you. Please from your experience, how long will it take to get the PER and will I get by email and by post? or will it be sent just by email?
Thanks

Email
Usually within a week from debit

Dont forget to check your spam

drmary: .Any man that lays his hand on a woman,be it a younger sister,girlfriend,colleague or wife is an animal.once u do that d woman is ever justified.

What do you call a woman that lays hands on a man, brother or male colleague/.//

kulyie: yes na.some people will be videoing the scene,some analyzing,some snapping pictures,infact that scene na free entertainment.na wetin dan foster go call ROAD SHOW

Well.... does that only happen in nigeria....

excellent efforts ...

Well done to the givers and the volunteers who made out time to present to the charities

Givers never lack!

Congrats

Expext your PER mail soon

[quote author=gcfr.com]That goal was a clear offside.[/quote]Zabaleta was not

Nice one. .

Yaya so strong...

Lol....Katherine n Stefan

Who put that fugly tat on Stefan...

Paternity fraud?
It gets messier.... You nay need to go to court but law courts here are rife with corruption....


Maybe you should cut your losses n move on

This thing will not end well

sandijey: People pray even when faced wiv death and they still die! It doesn't still stop others from praying! Am not saying she didn't pray, but we must all keep praying and seek the face of God.

That is good advice but people still face challenges
Your initial post seemed to say perhaps the young bride did not seek God's face; that is why she is a widow now
I dont think that is a sensitive thing to say considering it could happen to any one

Pastor Bimbo Odukoya died in a plane crash,,, does it mean she did not pray?

Now you are taking it too far,,, hate?! for fictitious characters..... abegiii

I said he has father issues.. you said the same thing..
Which point are you trying to make?





[quote author=ella.b]U hate klaus so much dat u don't even see d point of things.
When klaus was human,he was very afraid.very cuz of Mikael.
His mother that's supposed to protect him as her own child(even though he was for another man) dint do anything at all.instead she avoided him and allowed mikael to maltreat him for wat he dint do.
Was it klaus' fault that his mother cheated on her husband and gave birth to him?
Mikael dint treat him as a son,instead he made him feel like d "Ba.stard".
Its not klaus' fault that he's d way he is.
Even though I wish klaus would change a lil but he's a good Villain(yes,na me talk am.call me a klaus groupie lol).

Spare klaus all d abuse abeg.
Even d so called noble Elijah isn't perfect.[/quote]

Use the website below to calculate your score

http://www.cic.gc.ca/english/immigrate/skilled/language-testing.asp

Instrumet tech should be in NOC 2243..At the current trend of 15 or so a month you may make it as long as the cap of 5000 is not reached

The mistake you make is forgetting the rule of TVD

In TVD, vampires senses are heightened but they remain the same personality

For Kalu he is the deranged idiiot that wants his family's acceptance
Elijah retained his sense of honour and responsibility as the firstborn

bekka is looking for love and a father figure

davetwitzy: yes, they are both dumb, but caro is still very young. Rebekka on the other hand is app 1000years old. A fool at 40 is a fool forever, talk less of a fool at 1000.

sandijey: one of the reasons I would pray and listen to the voice of God concerning a life partner. Me and my husband must live long and none of us shall die an untimely death! The poor wife! Tsheeeeeeew rip!

Do you think that the partner of those who died untimely did not pray to God

Naaa


they are both dumb,,,,,

Just that karoline has relatively stable friends

becca has a dysfunctional brother
dont forget she is really a teen


[quote author=ella.b]Rebekah and Caroline are 2 different people.
VERY DIFFERENT

Caroline thinks before she jumps into any relationship.
Rebekah,not so much..if any guy tells becca "I love u",d babe no go waste time at all.She go ff am sharpaly.

So don't compare d two blondes together.
Becca is d definition of a Dumb Blond but caroline is a Blond With Sense.[/quote]