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Acidosis:
95% of small businesses globally fail in the first 5 years but we haven't seen any "business is a scam" thread.

By the way, there's no such thing as a "modern" marriage. You're either married traditionally as ordained or you're married by your own logical ideas. Marriages don't evolve. Love, trust, respect, and other ingredients that make marriages to work do not evolve. The only thing that evolved is your wedding dress and maybe the HD photoshoots. If you took that as having a modern marriage, then you simply played yourself and shot yourself on the foot.

That being said, I sympathize with you and I particularly love your courage to share your experiences. Now own up to your mistakes and leave the institution out of it. Like small businesses, marriage is not a scam. You were simply scammed because of your negligence or lack of foresight.

Aswearugaaad

You ended up saying nothing.

bjprodint1:
Are u ur mom's next of kin?dont u av other siblings cos it seems u are d only one fighting 4 properties.uncle,go and hustle so dat u can leave properties for ur wife.or is it ur mom's properties u want 2 leave 4 ur wife and kids?

Aswearugaaad

And why are you so certain he'll die before his wife? Women sef

JooEeL:
This writeup is a pain to the eye and causes unnecessary headache; has neither head nor tail.

The kind of immature posts I sometimes see on this forum makes me wonder what the outside world thinks when they stumble across such irritation.

After the whole claptrap, see how he rounds off the nonsense so flippantly and tangentially with easter and aza. And now incronguously ends it all with a laughing emoticon.

And this will make FP?

No standards at all? Just anything goes?!

Aswearugaaad

Na small remain I for say make thunder faya OP

Aswearugaaad

In software engineering, if you intend to be perfect on the first try, your code will never ship and your team mates will probably lose confidence in you. A job is never fully done as there'll be further iterations, so I'll do it as well as I can within the time constraints.

Adakintroy:
Properly closer. Than wealth.


Yes he said the spirit of the lord is upon me he has anioted me to bring good news to the poor. With wealth. He said is harder for the to enter the kingdom.

Aswearugaaad

Lol. I am speechless. Kai. My people truly perish for lack of knowledge

Adakintroy:
He wants that as option. Not a standard must. Salvation was his utmost. Thats why he turn them. back only God knows were this one money de come from?. Thats how you celebrate hushpuppy. Ur kind is slave to money. You will celebrate any money. To ur kind all money na money. I De my poverty lane with small cash. Am contended. Last time I check Godly content is great gain.

Aswearugaaad

I repeat: poverty is not a sign of piety.

Ok. Bye.

DanseMacabre:
Just switch to mastvrbation instead bro. Make you rest small.


**Modified: It's disheartening that majority of Nigerians claim to understand English, but sarcasm which is a critical component of the language always flies over their heads.

Aswearugaaad

Your sarcasm nor follow. And point of correction: Sarcasm is a universal thing not exclusive to your beloved English language.

So before you accuse us of not getting your sarcasm, look at yourself. Maybe you're not doing it right?

Adakintroy:
Talk to Christ today ask him why he did not want them in his kingdom.

Its not me. Its Christ Jesus you should attack. You misdirecting your fire.

Aswearugaaad

Chai. You need help! You need to get to know the Jesus you claim to serve because you've been brainwashed.

Your heavenly father wants you to prosper and walk in financial dominion. Anyone who tells you otherwise is a robber.

Adakintroy:
Money slave. Anyone weh oppose money you bring out your dagger.

Go fight jesus weh turn them back

Aswearugaaad

Lol. There's a natural law: you can't possess what you hate so I won't be surprised if you're in penury.

Anyway, poverty is not a sign of piety so change your mindset.

Adakintroy:
Jesus turn them back.

Behind that smile may be lot of sadness. Anyone trying too hard to be happy probably isn't. You don't throw parties to be happy. You just happy. Happiness is free.

Aswearugaaad

Just shaaraaap! It's his birthday so he can fụ́cking throw 47 parties if he so wishes.

Again, sit down and be quiet! Maybe if you look sad enough pesin fi help you.

Handsum64:
You see the crab mentality of the South.
Pull him down syndrome
What the North will never do

Aswearugaaad

God punish emotional blackmail. We only want competent hands abegi

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Mumu. They dey find you and your taaty kay crew for the Taraba thread to come and praise your darling daddy for being a useless waste of space.

. Paternity fraudsters should be handed jail terms equivalent to the age of the bastard child at the time the scam was uncovered.

saphiere:
I expected this. Once you engage them in an intelligent conversation they pick race.

Aswearugaaad

Ewu. Dey hype yourself. Who dash monkey banana?

Rest in peace, ma. God rest your soul.

Aswearugaaad

If you dey find love as a man, sorry o. My friend you better find a homely girl who respects your authority so you can live long. Respect over love any day, twice on a Thursday.

Ximenez:
Una no dey tire?
Hygiene is a personal stuff.
What does it have to do with marital status

Aswearugaaad

I taya o. Stụpid people confidently making stụpid assertions.

posty56:
just a day ago abi few , there's a topic created about pastors kpanshing their members ,this aged well, by the way that topic was not created to mock pastors ,it was created to raise awareness that some pastors are humans just like you and me,and not all men who truly chosen by God so beware who your girlfriend/wife calls pastor/ daddy .

I for like make them create one for imams to but s3un they fear Muslims

Aswearugaaad

Comrade abeg drop link to the thread. People need dey open eyes for these men cos the wolves plenty pass.

Pakute:
Nigerian women should learn from these happy people. They are finer, sexier, richer, more intelligent yet submissive and seem happy with each other sharing a man. Better to share a man as a married woman than share a pillow as an evening newspaper.

Aswearugaaad

Tell them.

Jennyclay:
Is a woman who's jobless you can threaten just like and not me my dear.

Aswearugaaad

Lol. They have lied to you, girlie.

Do you think your job will make you fulfilled? When you grow older, you'll have a family-shaped void in your heart and life which your job will fail to fill. At that point you'll realize that family is all that matters to you. Hopefully you've not sabotaged yourself by then.

You wan dey do cheating competition lol. Dunno why I'm even giving you this free advice sef

Jennyclay:
BETTER!!!!!!!!!!!

Aswearugaaad

Lol. Big mistake, girlie.

Jennyclay:
But men have every right to cheat abi? because men are Polygamous in nature abi? Bull crap. See if you cheat on me, I will cheat on you too.

Aswearugaaad

Then you'll find yourself in your father's house in less than 2secs while a younger, more beautiful woman replaces you.

dalass:
I'm done even answering this one

Aswearugaaad

I was only trying to help you unlearn some really damaging things you've learnt over time - things others are scared of telling you for fear of being labeled misogynists. Peace

dalass:
What's good for the goose is also good for the gander... How do you justify a man leaving the woman he 'loves' to sleep with any random lady he doesn't even care about I am right in saying men are that way, they just sleep around for what exactly

Yet with your childish mind, you would send a wife who only paid you back to the streets.... For your your mind oh... That's if you married a jobless poor lady that your type love to marry so you can treat them like poo and turn them to glorified house slaves

Aswearugaaad

Like I said earlier, your first mistake is thinking that men and women are the same.
Be a woman and quit trying to act like a man. If you fụck around, you're a slụt and no man's gonna keep you. But if you insist, Go get a cat and marry your job.

dalass:
A cheat will always cheat..... Most men are thIs way.... They love to talk dirty... I'm sure you self will have one or two former classmates or ex s on your contact who would be doing so to you.... Go ahead and talk dirty with the two and make sure he sees it.,. ... He'll know what it feels like too

Aswearugaaad

I always pity women girls like you. You think you have it all figured out but you don't know shịt.

Men and women don't show love the same way. You end it with a man who loves you because he slept with a girl he doesnt give a shịt about, only to end up with another man who's gonna do the same. Try that your advice at home and find your ass on the streets where you belong in less than 2secs.

talk2hb1:
I guess this is your own side of the story, rereading through your post it's like you are not doing something right or you are not listening to him either perhaps you guys are not being honest with each other. He wants something, talk to him from your Heart, let him express his desire. If you listen to him and he expresses his desires and fantasies negotiate with him, he is your husband you know him than anyone else. You should have his mumu button. He is not a cheat, he is just a wannabe

Aswearugaaad

She doesn't even kiss him when they have sex. You're not far from the truth, bruh. She's obviously a rigid, uptight and boring woman. Who doesn't kiss their husband during sex for Pete's fuc.king sake?

ThierryJay:
Obembet what's your source for what you put up there? [b]Lewy's goal tally is showing as 39 in your list yet he is fourth below CR and Ali who didnt score up to 39 [/b]goals.

This your "news" looks like one arrangee oluwole list

Aswearugaaad

If you had bothered to read the post, your question would have been answered. Always read before commenting. You guys eh

NwaAmaikpe:




Very ironic.

If she was blocking her followers, who then did she expect to pray for her?

If you like insult my papa, I will not block you; I will not even notice.
Because life is much more serious than to be vesting vengeance on social media.

Aswearugaaad

Please just shut it already! I enjoy and even look forward to your comments 99% of the time, but your whole take on this Chinelo death stinks.
I repeat, please shut it!

BirtherOfKings:
small boi wan handle big something
Leave her now if u know u can't handle her past and groom her into a better version of herself...someone better Dan u is waiting so take it as a privilege from GOD to be d one to lead her in the right path
If u are sleeping with her though, just know ur destiny has been turned to a menstrual rag
Discipline urself to stay away from fornication and show her there are still good men out there...can't handle it? Go away from. Ha

Aswearugaaad

Wrong. Except she successfully hides her past. Every self-respecting man would dump her slutty ass like hot coal when he finds out. God didn't create man to become captain save-a-hoe.

Guys, If a woman isn't a wife when you meet her, don't try to make her or you'll be sorry.

MadamVanessa:




Is there anyone both male and female that doesn't have a reckless past? personally, if I love , I love, I don't believe in the philosophy of digging one's past before settling down with the person; because to be very candid, there's nobody past that's palatable.

Na sex she had no be say she kill person, or no be say she give you disease. Na knack she knack, u been de knack too before u even meet am. The abortion she committed, even house wives of today , commit abortion too. So It's an old story.

Meeting you , means starting afresh with a new chapter. people with trust issue have the time of going back to dig at one's past and if look closely their past too may even be more messy.




Look for more justifiable reason to jappa after knacking the poor girl, don't come up with this childish and RECKLESS excuse.

Aswearugaaad

Men and women are not the same. You can't be hoeing around while we're working our asses off to get the bag, and you expect us to accept your cọck-sucking, dick-riding, instagram-ass-flaunting, arab-shịt-eating, chequered past? Hell no! Men wey don do their homework get options so deal with it.

A hoe isn't a wife, sorry.

Shokoloko:
The typical African parent is a bully. Children are beaten and tortured for no reason.
Children are beaten up for not understanding her schoolwork, Children are beaten up for getting sexually molested, Children are beaten up for crying from the previous beaten, Children are beaten up for not answering quickly enough, Children are beaten up for daring to have a different point of view.

In your example, how can a man and wife (two people) hit, tackle to the ground and beat the crap out of a 15 year old. Like 2 people to one person? Even if she was an adult and not their daughter, two people to one is an unfair situation.

What Nigerians and Africans refuse to learn is that violence destroys a country. See how all the violent countries are experiencing reduced GDP compared to those that are not. Africans will continue to create and breed monsters.

It will be very easy for a 15 year boy to rape and beat up a 6 year old child because he has been beaten to the point of trauma he feels its not a big deal, his mother's has beaten the house help to stupor, and his father has beaten his mother to stupor so violence is a part of life.

Aswearugaaad

Shebi you will not calm down to read and understand?

Tokskob2008:
Asians sabi eat rubbish...

Aswearugaaad

Yet they live longer than the rest of the world. Maybe we have a thing or 2 to learn from them?

Ammishaddai:
Bros , the conditions for divorce has been stipulated for in the bible and we dont need to debate this matter further .


See what the bible says in Matt 19:9 :

And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, [b]except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery[/b]


From the bolded , it is clear that divorce is impossible and no matter the condition or circumstances, a man or woman is not permitted to have a divorce, and even if he should have a divorce, he/she cannot marry because that will be judged as adultery.

Aswearugaaad

And how did you miss the "... except for sexual immorality" caveat? Doesn't it mean you could divorce and remarry if your partner were unfaithful?