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ubunja:
sure thing brae. Have a good one.

ubunja:
here's the text of it: it's by Tyler Durden. I found a copy on Reddit. This is the document that set me on the Red Pill road online. I opened it thinking it was an Illuminati secret sex society being discussed:

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/9e5pdr/tyler_durdens_secret_society/



"Secret Society"

A secret society exists. Around 52% of people on this earth are a part of it. Of that 52%, 50% are women, 2% are men. Of that 2%, 1% of those men are gay, the other 1% are players.

What I’m talking about is the sex secret society – and you are either IN or OUT .

SOME RULES OF THE SECRET SOCIETY:
1) Don’t talk about the secret society.
2) The priority of the secret society is to have perpetually good emotions in all members.
3) Create shrowds around the secret society, like “all men are dogs”. Hide the truth that women are far more likely to cheat than men.
4) If you are part of the secret society, you will never be denied anything at any point.
5) If you are not part of the secret society, you will scrap and beg for everything you get.
6) Communication in the secret society is less often verbal, and more often spoken through body language subcommunications, and verbal subcommunications that would only make sense to members. Any other way, and the 48% of men would pick up on it, and it would no longer be a secret.
7) At the first sign that someone who is not part of the secret society is possibly trying to pretend that he is, barate him with both love-rhetoric, and accusations of chauvinism and nit-witted-ness.
It’s OK to cheat on someone who is not a part of the secret society, so long as it is for the purpose of fulfilling the needs of someone who is, or if it to fulfill your own needs and it is with someone who is a part of the secret society. Sleeping with a rare guy from the secret society is no worse than grinding with a girlfriend at a club and making out with her. “It doesn’t count”.
9) Nobody judges eachother in the secret society. There is no such thing as a slut. A slut is only as slutty as people who are NOT in the secret society are aware of.
10) Secret society members COME FIRST. If someone in the society is not having fun with an interaction, it is cut off. Conversely, if a secret society male is with a non-secret- society male, and a secret society female (all females) decides she wants sex from the secret society male, the
friend of the female may have sex with the non-secret- society male, because EVERYONE in the interaction must feel good. However, if the non-secret-society male is blowing himself out so badly that he makes the female member feel very bad emotions, then the secret-society- male must face the consequences of bringing negative emotions into the equation, and lose out on his privilege for
sex in that interaction, until he ditches the non-secret- society male. Bear minimum requirements for non-secret- society males being grandfathered in with the male member, is that he not qualify himself or make anyone feel uncomfortable. Failing to meet those requirements, both are blown out.

WHAT IS THE SECRET SOCIETY?
Women are repressed by men, and so must look out for themselves. They will take care of:
1) Their own sexual needs.
2) The sexual needs of anyone in the secret society.
3) The sexual needs of the few males who make the secret society possible (“players”).
The secret society is what allows women to appear
wholesome and allows them to screen for a long term provider/emotional tampon. Women hold off to find the perfect boyfriend, while sleeping with a guy who is likely sleeping with all of their friends, and their friends friends. They also Bleep their gay boyfriends or jerk them off or give them head. They’re part of the secret society too, so they can’t be left out.

EYE WITNESS ACCOUNTS FROM SECRET SOCIETY INSIDERS
(based on dozens of interviews I did over the summer, with girls in London England, as well as some from my own experience as a player):
1) If you tell a girl that you’re gay, and that you want to “see what it feels like to be with a girl”, she’ll sleep with you. She won’t insist on using a condom either, unless you do. You’re part of the secret society, where condoms aren't necessary because they are logical entities and not emotionally relevant.
2) If you subcommunicate that you are a part of the secret society, and tell the friend of your target “I’m really lonely. My girlfriend cheated on me, and I need to revalidate myself tonight”, she’ll tell her friend to Bleep you. Her friend will realize from this that you are a part of the secret society, and she’ll Bleep you. Moreover, if the friend refuses, the ugly girl will offer you a Mouth Gig to help you out.
3) If you manage to verbally subcommunicate that you are a member (its still subcommunication, because the verbal ways you communicate it aren’t direct at all), the secret society members will gladly tell you all about their sexual exploits and adventures. As soon as you subcommunicate
that you desire romance, she will immediately retract all of her previous statements (and she’ll look completely congruent doing so), and downplay them that it was something she did just one time and that she’s looking for a relationship.PUA: “I love to go out and hook up. I hate it then girls try to run my life”.. HB: “Me too.. I hooked up with guys all last year.. My boyfriend tried to control me, but I do what I want.. My girlfriends all do it too.”PUA: "Really? Cause to be honest, I’ve always felt like I’m a romantic guy.. And girls always cheat on me.. I want to find a girl who won’t cheat.”HB: “I would never cheat. Guys are
dogs. I’m always loyal.”PUA: “But didn’t you say…”HB: “No, I said nothing.”PUA: “No, you said that you don’t let your boyfriend control you and you do what you want.”HB: “No, I didn’t mean that. I’m not a slut. I have no idea what you’re talking about, I didn’t say that.”
4) If you are a member, and say that you are really lonely and you need someone to snuggle and makeout with, all members of the secret society will agree to do so with you. If you are a girl, you have privilege to snuggle and kiss and sleep in the same bed as all other girls. If you are gay, you can do the same. If it escalates to sex, its an accident and
does not count. If you’re a player, and you make girls
around you emotional, and the friends are all in good
emotions about it, they sleep with you. No one is a slut in the secret society, because the secret society does not judge.
5) If a group of girls living together find a guy who is in the secret society, they will all Bleep him. They’ll recommend him as an honourary secret society member, and enjoy him. Meanwhile they may be in relationships with non-secret society members that they’ve fallen in love with, however this is not an issue because nobody in the secret society
judges and sex with people in the secret society does not count. If you are a secret society member now, but in the past enjoyed a romantic relationship, what you may not realize is the part that was left out of the romance novel story (due to rules no1&2 of the secret society code), which was that after you dropped her off your romantic star watching, a secret society member came by and bleeped the
shit out of her without a condom and gave her the money shot all over her face.
6) If a secret society male has a non member male friend, the friend of the girl who wants sex from the male member will have sex with the non-member even if she doesn’t like him. However, rules state that if if the non-member is “creepy/scary” (kinos too much, leans in too much, asks dumb questions, tries too hard to impress, overqualifies), then the male member will be expected to return either alone
or with another male member. Also, the male members must remember that positive emotions are always priority, and if he is alone he must still maintain the positive emotions of the female member who will not be getting sex, secret society rules not to be breached. Number 1 rule of
the secret society, outside of not talking about it, is that EVERYONE maintains GOOD emotions.

THE UNDERLYING MISUNDERSTOOD TRUTH OF THE SECRET SOCIETY:
The 49% of men who live outside of the secret society Don’t understand the mental model of attraction of people who are in the secret society.
Men view attraction in their MALE MENTAL MODELS. They believe that attraction is “sexual aggression”. They understand attraction as having a physical urge to have sex, and then mentally deciding that you will go after it. They try to seduce women by touching and grabbing them, and getting them very Hot. They try to seduce them in the
SAME WAY that a woman would do well seducing THEM. They try to seduce them as if they were seducing a Guy. This sometimes works, and the propaganda is spread – “this is how to get chicks”.
Secret society members will not fill them in, due to breach of the code.
What the secret society members are not telling you, is that they understand that most sex occurs when women are not sexually AGGRESSIVE, but sexually RECEPTIVE. They understand that for women to be ready for sex, they need not feel Hot, they need only feel EMOTIONAL. They understand that women are not logical, and that they are emotional. They understand that for women sex is not a big deal at all, and that its their LOGIC that puts the breaks
on it. They understand that most women are afraid of sex because they lack TRUST, and because their LOGIC is putting on the breaks. They disarm logic by making the women EMOTIONAL, so that their LOGIC (which is the BREAKS of emotion) becomes
disarmed, and at the same time maintain TRUST, so that the emotions generated won’t be interfered with. Then they simply have sex, because although the women are not WANTING sex, they are too EMOTIONAL to Decline sex. Then, once they BEGIN to have a physical interaction,the women become Hot and sexually aggressive as a result, and sex begins.
(NOTE: This is why girls must COCKBLOCK for each other. Because they know that clubs are emotionally charged environments, and that it wouldn’t take much for a guy to use her resulting sexual receptiveness to lay her. The guy may not be a guy that the girl would lay normally, were she feeling more logical, so the girls must look out for
eachother. Guys don’t need to do this because firstly, they will not be judged for sleeping around (no logic), secondly, they are sexually aggressive – not receptive – so their decisions will not be regretted later usually, and thirdly, because they do not need trust because they are not usually in any physical danger). They also understand that value + trust + attraction = sex (rough lazy model).
Value = being someone in the secret society (it can also be SO many other things, but being a member can in some cases be sufficient) Trust = not telegraphing interest. Attraction = increasing her buying temperature by making her emotional (emotionally aroused, not necessarily physically aroused.. the former will cause her to be too
illogical to prevent you from causing the latter, when she’s ready)

Don’t tell anyone about this. All knowledge will be denied and you will be ridiculed.

Tyler Durden's "Secret Society"




It's either you believe this or you don't. I believed it and my Game grew legs and wings. And my Miseducation "Game Of Emotions" treads on the same themes as the last parts on emotions and logic etc.

ubunja:
go search on Reddit

ubunja:
I lost it a long time ago. And it's a notoriously hard to find pdf because when you Google "Secret Sex Society" you get dozens of results not even related to it. The last time I got a link was on Reddit?? Can't remember.

ubunja:
sure thing. It was a pdf I downloaded online titled "The Secret Sex Society".

splendour7:
So I Have This Female Colleague In My Working Place,she Is Always Harsh Towards Me,she Bash Me At Any Little Provocation,when Ever We Are (i And My Other Colleagues) Chatting She Will Either Ridicle My Opinion Or Get Angry...(I'm friendly with other colleagues)
I Once Asked Her What The Problem Is But She Just Reluctantly Answered "nothing"...What Could Be The Reason For Such Behaviour??..


NB:She Dnt Behave Like That Towards Other Colleagues.

GraGra247:
Etinosa kind of apology - apologizing for letting the world know who you truly are without giving a crap.

Vibesking:
I've been reading a bunch of stuff here by people complaining that being an "introvert" has hampered their success in various instances.

Well, sorry about your negative experience and I do hope it gets better for y'all.

However, you should probably look inwardly to really determine the root cause of these setbacks. Cause I'm almost certain that it didn't occur because you're an introvert.

I'm a core introvert but I've got no issues with communicating or articulating my thoughts. When it comes to presentations or interviews, I've never fumbled. My audience tends to be very well impressed. Probably because of my diction and accent. Which comes from daily reading and consuming a lot of literary content. From hip-hop to American horror series. Include the News too.

In my former organisation (an international political entity), most of my colleagues were first grade extroverts and older than I am.

But when it came to representing the org in the international scale, I was the one being called. From giving a talk at a World Bank symposium with people from various countries in attendance, to being called to deliver lectures at conferences.

This also came with fast promotions as the management deemed me smart. (I turned them down cause I hated leadership and the stress it incurs). I like being in the background; pulling the stings. Plus I wasn't in for the long haul. All I needed was the experience. After getting it, I moved on.

Being an introvert never interfered. Though I resent public gatherings and small talks, but if there's something at stake and it's time to deliver, I do the work and get the job done.

It has nothing to do with your temperament but more about your internal image– how you see yourself.

Though my imaginations run wild and I'm a psychological wreck sometimes, I do not consider myself less than anyone. Cause I know everyone's messed up too but their fake asses are good at hiding it.

I keep a small cycle just to stay on the loop. I've got no cliques but a lot of acquaintances. I roll on my own. But when opportunities come, I'm the first to know.

So much so that I've attended closed gatherings that wasn't opened to the public which have had in attendance the governor of my state, top political guns, and leaders of industry. I've met with the Vice President, he's human and he's not really that tall. Plus he's humble too.

I hope you not getting the wrong message here. I ain't trying to paint a self-inflated picture of myself. I'm just trying to point out that being an introvert doesn't hinder you from excelling at your career or doing great things.

First, embrace who you are. But don't stop there. Develop yourself.

Read stuff that challenges how you think. Take online courses.

[b]Personally, I consume a lot of stuff on Psychology and stocism. It's funny what you discover. [/b]For parts, that the entire human race is motivated by vanity. And we're not creatures of logic but emotions.

Understanding this will make conversations a lot easier. You'd know what make people tick; what get them excited and aroused.

You'd discover that listening is more effective than talking when conversing with someone; showing you're interested in what they're saying is more effective than trying to prove a point or thinking of a response.

For those scared of approaching women or settling for less beautiful bitches, that's on you and has nothing to do with being an introvert.

For crying out loud, these folks are not gods.

Behind the smooth skin, lovely breasts, and gorgeous clothes are humans who are grossly insecure.

At this point, I'm tired of typing. I hope you got something from this shiity piece. Good luck to y'all.

HARDDON:
1. Change your mentality by reading this thread especially the aspect that dealt with online chats. You got no online aura nor flow.
You cut across desperate.

2. Change strategy. Stop hiding behind FB vail, go out there and let the world feel your heat.

Above all. Stop chasing. Stop asking out. Learn to enjoy being single as you burst their bubbles.
Not all of us are cut out for dates

SENSE PILL: Chase, they are wired to run. Set laid back, sendless and fun traps, they come in torrents.

Havent you heard?: You face loads of temptations when you decide to stay away? Stay Aloof? Go figure

pansophist:
baba historian, I promise

sinaj:

sinaj:
I love Kanye's Sunday service.

I wish there is a church like that in naija.