European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Fulham Vs Arsenal (1 - 1) On 8th December 2024 by placeofallure(f): 3:45pm On Dec 08, 2024 |
cletz991: Everybody must collect this weekend  We no go follow una collect nonsense. Arsenal for the win! |
Nairaland General › Re: Posting Your Achievements On Social Media, Yay Or Nay? by placeofallure(f): 3:21pm On Dec 08, 2024*. Modified: 5:08am On Dec 20, 2024 |
Basiljoe: Posting your achievements on social media like vacation trips, graduation pics, Job promotion, dinner dates, eating out in luxury restaurant's and others.
Do you think it's a wise or foolish decision?
Give logical reasons. I didn't even bother to read other people's comments here. It's not going to affect my opinion anyway. I used to post stuff online during the time of ignorance. I don't do that anymore. I posted last on my fb page around 2021. Why would anyone announce himself or herself? So that what can happen? My philosophy changed... Don't let them see you coming. That way, you go about your business quietly without being a disturbance to anyone and without anyone disturbing you. |
Romance › Re: Why Is It Usually Difficult To Get Over A First Love? by placeofallure(f): 11:29pm On Dec 06, 2024 |
OgunjimiFengxi: It's pathetic and quite unfortunate that most men end up with leftovers like you. I sympathise with your husband, cus he's clearly not your prime option. I know what your pain is. You and your likes don't like to hear that a woman is independent and makes her own money. She immediately becomes a threat to your chauvinistic depraved mental health. The person you are currently with is somebody's leftover, just like you are a leftover. You have not died. You still carry your mangled, overused, dilapidated, overstretched body about. So it's no big deal if many leftovers parade the streets. Deal with your issue and stop hiding under the facade of i am woke to exhibit your tomfoolery. You and your opinion are inconsequential as far I am concerned. Rádaràda! |
Romance › Re: Why Is It Usually Difficult To Get Over A First Love? by placeofallure(f): 11:18pm On Dec 06, 2024 |
Lordbinsmar: Epeelee maa
If you are that special, una ex no go use and dump una.
Persin wey no reach 1 wey dey form 100
 Thank you |
Romance › Re: Always In My Head?( Am I Alone In This)? by placeofallure(f): 10:37pm On Dec 06, 2024*. Modified: 5:10am On Dec 20, 2024 |
codedgalaxy: On a normal I see it as attributes of a great thinker, But one of my werey buddy jokingly said the other day that it might be sings of schizophrenia 😃 It's not just your friend. I think of schizophrenic tendencies too. In life, anything and everything should be done in moderation. |
Romance › Re: Why Is It Usually Difficult To Get Over A First Love? by placeofallure(f): 10:33pm On Dec 06, 2024 |
Lordbinsmar: U be snow white 
Craze dey worry una
 Well it may look like fairy tale to you, I got what I wanted. There is no crime in making a request and getting what you wished for. Go and make your own. |
Romance › Re: Lady In Tears As Boyfriend Dumps Her After Several Abortions, Disowned By Parent by placeofallure(f): 10:31pm On Dec 06, 2024 |
Zonefree: Please, what does it take to see a Nigerian girl with sound reasoning?
I pity the innocent man that will settle with this empty liability.
If Nigeria has a working government, this girl should be declared wanted. Having 10 abortions in the space of 6 months should be treated as an act of terrorism.
There's no much difference between this girl and Shekau. How is it even possible that one would be pregnant 10 times in 6 months? Iṣẹ ayé leleyii for sure. |
Romance › Re: Why Is It Usually Difficult To Get Over A First Love? by placeofallure(f): 10:26pm On Dec 06, 2024 |
Yugoslavia247: The husband wey u dey manage.
If not you for no dey cap the trash about first love.
You are a joke already.
Yiur husband for don discover am Thank you. You can help make him discover all he needs to discover. |
Romance › Re: Say All You Can, But Fat Girls Are Disgusting, Most Especially The Dark Ones. by placeofallure(f): 10:19pm On Dec 06, 2024 |
Silentgroper: Hereditary??
Lol are you saying being fat is a natural occurrence??
Like you just pop out of the womb and you're automatically fat ..
Abi explain how hereditary effects fatness ..
I said food is the primary source ...
Even the drugs/medication you take makes you hungry thereby eating more and getting ..
Then choice of food/ choice of dietary ..
You talk about inactivity .. Right, do not eat and still not be active and lets see how fat you'd get ..
Maybe you should go do some thorough research before you start calling someone else ignorant ..
No matter what you do , food still comes into that equation .. I'm not saying outrightly that food doesn't come into the equation. Binge eating can make somebody gain weight. Now, what will it cost you to make a lil fact checking on the things that make one fat apart from food? I don't like to exchange banter with people who are...I don't want to call you names. Don't just assume, be sure! Google is your friend. Before you come here beating your chest about things you know next to nothing about, take your time to verify . That's all! Wuruwuru to the answer! Dietitians, Nutritionists, Doctors in the house, help this guy out. And I insist genetics is a factor that determines your body mass. It is hereditary! |
Romance › Re: Why Is It Usually Difficult To Get Over A First Love? by placeofallure(f): 10:12pm On Dec 06, 2024 |
Zonefree: Sweet darling, if a man has to be all these to get your attention, what are you bringing to the table? Do you have golds adorned round your waist? Honestly, more than gold. I don't just have beauty; I have brains, too. I work, and I earn good money. My posts here will throw a little light on my personality. Reason why my husband doesn't joke with me. |
Romance › Re: Say All You Can, But Fat Girls Are Disgusting, Most Especially The Dark Ones. by placeofallure(f): 7:03pm On Dec 06, 2024 |
Dogalmighty17: Did you just say no one chooses to be fat? O yeah, someone forced the food up their anus right? Even the Bible calls them fat cows of Bashan. So is the Bible not nice? Getting fat and STAYING fat is a deliberate choice. Silentgroper: maybe they don't have foods with high calories .. You've just spoken out of ignorance. Go and do your research. It's not only food that makes people fat...For some, it's hereditary. For some, it's due to inactivity; for some, it's hormonal imbalance; for some, it's stress. For some, it's drugs and medication or even aging. I hate it when young people get lazy and refuse to research or fact find before displaying their retardation online. |
Family › Re: Gen Z Mother Cries Out: 'My Child Is Always Looking Up' (Photos) by placeofallure(f): 6:25pm On Dec 06, 2024 |
The baby is only looking up to Jesus, the author and finisher of her faith. |
Romance › Re: Why Is It Usually Difficult To Get Over A First Love? by placeofallure(f): 6:21pm On Dec 06, 2024 |
It's not like I've not gotten over my first love per se. 100% I've gotten over him, cause I was the one that broke his heart. The thing is he has succeeded in raising a standard through which I measure any other man coming afterwards.
First, you have to be tall, 6 feet and beyond.
You have to be kind and thoughtful and treat people with respect, not just me alone.
You have to be exceptionally caring and be a provider.
You need to have a sense of humour.
You should be a family oriented person.
You should speak good English, be handsome and be well put together.
I've looked constantly for these qualities because my first love had them all.
Why did I leave despite all these? Story for another day. |
Romance › Re: Why Are Girls Putting On Waist Beads To Have Sex? by placeofallure(f): 8:36pm On Dec 04, 2024*. Modified: 5:15am On Dec 20, 2024 |
Smitaro100: Pls ladies with pot belle have nothing to do with waist bead, its cool on curvy ladies with flat tommy.  This one doesn't know anything. Check out the comment below you. That's the doings of a man wey sabi  |
Romance › Re: Do People Pay Their Girl Friend Monthly???? by placeofallure(f): 5:03pm On Dec 03, 2024 |
Sirchiboy: Can you spend on your bf Why not? I don't want to sound immodest. If I tell you how much I have spent too, you'd open your mouth in awe. I'm not talking about boxers and singlets o! I'm talking money to execute projects...Anybody can give freely in a relationship. Just make sure you are doing it for the right reasons and with the right person. |
Romance › Re: Do People Pay Their Girl Friend Monthly???? by placeofallure(f): 4:41pm On Dec 03, 2024 |
Sirchiboy: I only hear it on internet but haven't really seen one Some do actually. I have been in a relationship like that. I get allowance for hairdo every week, I get pocket money every week and he buys clothes every now and then. He buys phones, as often as annually or less than. He buys air time and data too. The fantastic thing about it all is I never asked. I never asked him to, he just does it of his own volition. Any of the parties in a relationship can give generously. It must not be one-sided. For me there's no big deal. Find the right person and do your best - even if it means giving generously - to make it work. |
Celebrities › Re: How Poverty, Hunger Chased Me Into Comedy - Mr Odey Reveals by placeofallure(f): 3:41pm On Dec 03, 2024 |
Softmirror: I clicked to see if he started comedy last year. So Hunger and Poverty dey Nigeria in 2011?!🤔 Many of them don't like to admit that Tinubu is not the Genesis of Nigeria's woes. Hunger has been befriending Nigeria since amalgamation. |
Politics › Re: Do You Support The Tax Reform? If Yes Why? by placeofallure(f): 3:36pm On Dec 03, 2024 |
sboga: cant support anything t-pain brings. Shallowness |
Politics › Re: Governor Sanwo-Olu Signs Lagos Electricity Bill Into Law (Video) by placeofallure(f): 3:25pm On Dec 03, 2024 |
Lanretoye: They will call it a slum,people wey ordinary brt no fit reach in the next 20years talk less of railway.they will come here and post dust. They don’t have good things but when they see you have it,they feel bad and envy Na that "enviment" gangan go kill them! |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: West Ham Vs Arsenal (2 - 5) On 30th November 2024 by placeofallure(f): 3:19pm On Dec 03, 2024 |
OgaRico: A club that it fans claim that is a big club and for it 139yrs of existence it has won any European competition. Doesn't this fact alone seems like a curse to you? From all indications, you were brought up in a mannerless home, so I understand why you're okay with insulting people in every Convo you have. Thank you for your observations. |
Family › Re: Do You Remember This Electric Boiler by placeofallure(f): 3:18am On Dec 02, 2024 |
madridguy: The boiling ring burn many houses  Yes o. Our house that year. It happened on December 26, 1999. A day after Christmas and the house was totally, completely razed down. People donated clothes, household items, foot wears, food etc to us, even panties cause we all had only the clothes on us after the incident. My friends from school made light of the situation jokingly saying the house was not millennium compliant. Looking back, we can only thank God for His immense blessings. |
Nairaland General › Re: What Are The Habits You Want To Stop In 2025? by placeofallure(f): 2:45am On Dec 02, 2024 |
lavylilly: Congratulations on taking the first step towards mindful spending! Stopping impulse buying requires self-awareness, discipline, and strategies to overcome temptation. Here's a comprehensive guide to help you achieve your goal:
*Understanding Impulse Buying
1. Recognize your triggers: Identify the situations, emotions, or people that tend to make you impulse buy. 2. Be aware of marketing tactics: Retailers use various techniques to encourage impulse buying, such as strategic product placement, discounts, and limited-time offers.
Strategies to Stop Impulse Buying
1. Create a shopping list: Before heading to the store, make a list of the items you need to purchase. Stick to your list to avoid impulse buys. 2. Set a budget: Allocate a specific amount for shopping and stick to it. Use cash instead of credit cards to help you stay within your budget. 3. Practice delayed gratification: When you see something you want to buy impulsively, wait 24 hours before making a decision. This helps you determine if the purchase is something you truly need. 4. Use the 10-second rule: When you're about to make an impulse purchase, pause for 10 seconds and ask yourself if you really need the item. 5. Avoid shopping when emotional: Shopping can be an emotional experience, and buying on impulse can be a way to cope with stress, boredom, or other emotions. Try to shop when you're feeling calm and rational. 6. Remove shopping apps: Consider deleting shopping apps from your phone or moving them to a folder where they're harder to access. 7. Find alternative hobbies: Replace shopping with other activities that bring you joy, such as reading, exercise, or creative pursuits.
*Additional Tips
1. Keep yourself occupied: When you're in a store, try to focus on your shopping list and avoid browsing. 2. Use cashback and rewards apps: Apps like Ibotta, Fetch Rewards, or Rakuten can help you earn cashback or rewards on your purchases, making it easier to stick to your budget. 3. Consider a "one in, one out" policy: For every new item you bring into your home or workspace, get rid of an old one to maintain a balanced level of possessions.
Overcoming Impulse Buying Challenges
1. Be patient: Changing your spending habits takes time and effort. Don't be too hard on yourself if you slip up. 2. Celebrate small victories: Acknowledge and celebrate your successes, no matter how small they may seem. 3. Seek support: Share your struggles with a trusted friend or family member and ask for their support and encouragement.
Remember, breaking the habit of impulse buying is a process. With time, self-awareness, and the right strategies, you can develop healthier spending habits and achieve your financial goals. These tips are fire 🔥🔥 Thank you. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: West Ham Vs Arsenal (2 - 5) On 30th November 2024 by placeofallure(f): 2:41am On Dec 02, 2024 |
OgaRico: Hahahaha. There's no need for name calling lad. I stand by what I said and come end of the season, quote me when your average arsenal wins the league. Oh, before I forget, save your pity for yourself because you'd be needing it later as the season goes on and lastly, arsenal can not pull the Leicester stunt. arsenal is cursed. Sebi na you curse them. Otomopo master! |
Food › Re: 6 Famous Foods Lagosians Eat Frequently by placeofallure(f): 5:26pm On Dec 01, 2024 |
DeAnonymousGuy: Where ofada rice rank? The OP said "frequently eaten" Where will you see òfadà on the streets? It's no street food because it's not cheap...the offals, the egg, the dodo...no na! Don't go outside the syllabus. Street Food is the topic. |
Food › Re: 6 Famous Foods Lagosians Eat Frequently by placeofallure(f): 5:22pm On Dec 01, 2024 |
Zonefree: Ewa Agoyin and Agege bread remain undefeated. My favourite of the lot. I love beans Ehn! |
Nairaland General › Re: What Are The Habits You Want To Stop In 2025? by placeofallure(f): 5:15pm On Dec 01, 2024 |
I want to stop impulse buying. I have clothes I've not worn in years and I keep buying. Argh!
I've started to work on it. One of my hobbies is shopping. I go to the market every week and I'll just be buying-buying. What I do now is I try to be Cashless and Cardless. I'll be going to work, I'll leave with just #1k in my purse. Even people who will come and borrow money are not spared. I hope to do more towards saving in 2025. I've improved a bit, but it can be better. God help me. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: West Ham Vs Arsenal (2 - 5) On 30th November 2024 by placeofallure(f): 5:03pm On Dec 01, 2024 |
OgaRico: Even if 100 years is added to your current age, you won't see arsenal winning the league. Your great grand children are the ones that will see arsenal winning the league. Stop wasting your remaining hope. Wow! You must be God then. See how you talked like you wrote the script. I pity people like you. Your tears, anguish and pain will be premium when it happens. I don't know what gave you the guts, you know, the impudence but whatever it is, is a hoax - a sham, a mock-up! You're NO God! Didn't Leicester come again from nowhere to win the league? Rádaràda! |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: West Ham Vs Arsenal (2 - 5) On 30th November 2024 by placeofallure(f): 8:47pm On Nov 30, 2024 |
OgaRico: No mind the @Angelfrost guy or whatever him dey call himself. The guy view about Football sometimes go make you reason whether him really sabi much about the game. Does an apprentice coach like Arteta seems like who will out think Pep and win the league ahead of City? Even Klopp that has a better head to head record against Pep got tired of trying and trying over and over again without succeeding and he ran. Liverpool and Chelsea has a better chance of winning the league than arsenal. Just two wins and arsenal fans are feeling fly. Hiss. Just say you are envious. Be ready to relocate to another planet if and when it eventually happens. |
Romance › Re: Things Men Find Unattractive In Women. by placeofallure(f): 11:26am On Nov 28, 2024 |
chuksme: To be honest, I like a woman like you. you have said it all. If surely do as you said here. You are Queen to me. Thank you. It's kings who can recognize Queens. 🙏 |
Romance › Re: Things Men Find Unattractive In Women. by placeofallure(f): 12:17am On Nov 27, 2024 |
ravensckar: Loquaciousness!
Any lady that talks too much automatically pisses me off.
#Spits. I'm a woman, but me too. I dislike people who talk too much. I don't like painting my face. I'm still one of the few women who still use white powder. I have yet to see the reason why I will wear a wig whose worth is enough to pay rent for one year. I am definitely not a fan of beauty without brain. Not a fan of dressing tacky, it's not sexy believe me. Be moderate in everything, you may show a lil skin but don't throw yourself in people's faces. |
Family › Re: David Hundeyin Was Married To Oge Obi For 1 Month by placeofallure(f): 4:12am On Nov 25, 2024 |
emmy512: Did she find out he was...... As the rumours go? 
But seriously, what would e a couple break up in a month Poor judgement of each other or they had it planned from the onset. I honestly can't fathom it. |
Romance › Re: Why Men Prefer Their Side Chick To Their Wives. by placeofallure(f): 4:04am On Nov 25, 2024 |
Nnamdipapa: I tender my apologies then. I don't like fighting with women. It's fine. It's ok. Apology accepted but you will have to appease the gods  |