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I signed into my nairaland account to type this.

Because I understand how you feel. The vacuum. I lost a friend this year. And I realized how much I loved her after she died we weren't as close months leading up to her death. So I was left with guilt.

I used ho'oponopono ( check YouTube)

It's ok to cry and miss them. Talking about them with people who loved them also helps.

Understanding they are freer, and would want you smiling.

Dump that loser

kingzizzy:
Lol They laughed when it was IPOB. Now they are at the receiving end

wake tha fvck up nigga, you're still a fucking Nigerian this is as much as our problem as the rest of the fucking country, you think you safe calling your self biafra? E go clear for your eyes.

sonofthunder:
I really wish this could get real..... I'm ready to support.

it's as real as it fucking gets. As real as our woes. throw your support now.

Forget all this judgemental @zz sad men name calling you. Be absolutely shameless go for what you want. There are too many mediocre things in life and love shouldn't be one of them! I'm telling you this as I'd allow myself dive into the unknown with the most intense lover I've ever been with. Remember honey life's short,, live on the edge, taste life shamelessly.

Apply tea tree oil. It hurts but it is effective.

ruggedtimi:
The man funny Sha...put up satures like he has seen Satan and he knows how Satan looks

because you know what jesus looks like.

My father was scamed by a lawyer for a house he rented for four years, (the lawyer faked documents and lied the house was for sale) he spent almost 10 million on the house buying and refurbishing. After the 4years the landlady called from London that she did not sell the house that she wants he rent money, we find lawyer, lawyer don go Canada. My father had to pay rent again early this year, after his 10mill loss, she no even pity the man.

restore8:
In my 100l my experience with my landlord was a terrible one. It was a self contained apartment. There was no toilet in the house but he lied to my dad about it.

I decided to adapt to this situation without telling my parents at home. Since I was new, my dad decided that I should be going to their church- Deeper Life. I couldn't and that was were the problem started. My landlord started to see me as a sinner because I was going to CASOR.

A friend of mine got admission and he wanted us to leave that place. That was when I began to hate religion. This man started saying bad words about me. He did his best to destroy my reputation but God was so faithful.

Although, all these challenges made me become a better person, but there were still some painful lessons learnt. Because of him I stopped being religious and decided to seek God for myself.


I hate religion!

religion is a form of enslavement, seek God within .

You can check a child genotype, before you give birth to them, make enquiries so if the child is ss the pregnancy can be terminated before reaching full trimester, Goodluck.

He couldn't look into the camera. He is very guilty

Nuel4:
I always laugh whenever I see boys saying no means no etc. That's hypocrisy. Girls were told never to immediately accept a guy on a date, to be his girlfriend or have sex. Girls believed if you make sexual move and they agree immediately they will be considered cheap so they were told to always say no, stop etc it's the guy's duty to try and convince her into agreeing to sex. This has been the norm since the dawn of time. Girls liked it because they could form hard to get or guilt trap the guy afterwards. 99% of ladies reading this have told a guy to stop when they wanted him to continue and would mock the guy if he actually stopped. This led to a serious confusion, a young boy out there wouldn't know if a girl telling him to stop actually means he should stop or is telling him to try harder. This has hurt both boy and girls the mixed messages make it difficult for young boys to actually know when the girls truly want them to stop.

For generations, the notion that with women no means no and no means yes, yes means maybe maybe means try harder and try harder means yes etc was all over the place and women never fought against it they loved it because it made them look complicated which ended up confusing men.
You cannot teach people no means no and no means yes and yes means no and expect them not to be confused.

The truth is this, if we follow the line of no means no then every single man in the world who has ever had sex will be in jail. Even majority of girlfriends told their boyfriends no on the first attempt. It was a normal thing.


I'm not talking about the normal rape we all know about, as in forcefully penetrate a ladies intimidating her with dangerous weapons or a group of people holding her her forcefully having sex with her.

ladies that share their rape, know this difference. They know what they experienced, the sheer brutality of it that led to it staying in their memory for so long.

You are trying to enforce your plans on this relationship, dont be in such a hurry to be married and start popping, babies just coz it's how society has taught you how to live, make money, learn, relax, travel, drink water, loosen up and have fun.

I have a bad feeling about this, if that man can break down that door to keep his secret, he could harm you, if he considers you too much a problem, you better play dumb until you know what you're up against, be careful and tell someone you can trust.

Chatflick:
I want to use this opportunity to thank PHCN for their good work. They are doing well

PS: Someone should please recommend a very good android game that will keep me away from the internet cause I'm tired of buying data please

read book, read Robert Greene books

Descorts:
what are you saying? Did you read my post at all??
I'm no lover boy, but people like me fall for these scam once in our life time. I will handle this so well believe me

you aren't handling it well, you'll be fine las las, you go love again, continue the circle of breaking hearts, it's your destiny to give other women sense, spread the heartache, we will all have a fair share. This is were your significance to humanity lies.

Mishael42019:
I’m here to put judgement upon them quickly. Him and many of his like on this forum their cup is filled

He should bookmark this thread. Unless he repented genuinely on Christ he’ll never know peace. Misfortune will Never departed from him.

If this didn’t come to pass in his life shortly he should quote me I’ll know am not called.

If I be a man of God!

jesus army! Your curses mean nothing, your god doesn't recognize you, your mouth is dry and empty and full of lies. Yall are best known for your noise making, you are terminally insignificant, to humanity and to yourself.

Kylekent59:


I read on one thread on how a nurse advised her fellow nurses not to work if there are no protective kits.

See people that said they are ready to fight the virus ooo.

Ogun kill you there, the nurses and doctors exposed to the virus aren't they vulnerable humans with loved one and families, both my parents are medical personnel and I would never want them risking their lives to save anyone.

vickero:
Hello guys please I am in SA currently .I arrived here 10 days ago but from the look of things I would not be done until friday and my visa expires on Tuesday.Any advice or guidance on how to extend my visa to cover me till Friday if that is even possible?

I need you help with a package, pls pls am desperate if coming to Nigeria.

Nonkala:
SO I applied wt my son for SA visa and was refused on the ground of previously deported when have never been to SA or deported from another country so it’s a false accusation.
I sent an email asking for a proof dat I ve been deported and was asked to reapply wt d mail I sent.
I replied telling them I can never reapply and if dey don’t look into my first application, dey wld hear from my lawyer if dey don’t do the right thing.

Pls What’s ur opinion on this

what courier pls?

FrLukas:
World Cancer Day.

Radiotherapy and Chemotherapy will NOT cure your cancer, neither will surgery.

Let your loved ones who have that illness know that Chemotherapy drugs are carcinogenic in nature i.e cancer causing drugs.

They kill cancer cells in one spot only to create cancer cells in other organs.

Both Chemotherapy and radiotherapy destroy your body's immunity and ability to heal itself.

Be forewarned.

Cancer is a multi-billion dollar industry, where both big pharma and doctors are cashing out big time.

Look for a naturopathic doctor to help you instead.

Cancer cells cannot survive in an alkaline environment. #FactsOnly

Please, if you are a medical doctor or your take home pay depends on how many chemotherapy drugs you or your hospital sells to cancer patients, don't quote me.

I preach brother, they don't know the only proven way to cure cancer is flooding your body with Alkalinity, cancer is caused by the acidity in our bodies, chemotherapy is almost a definitive way to die, and the machines used to check for cancer deposit radiation in the system which also causes cancer.

Buy sage to cleanse the atmosphere or burn rosemary. Buy a new broom sprinkle salt and dirt from a churchyard, in every room, sweep it out through the back door. This will banish all negatives, and malevolent spirits.

I know a man that can help with your fertility problems, he's helped so many people, he's a physician and quite affordable, but resides in Nigeria. There's been so many testimonies of him helping couples procreate. If that's what you and your husband would want.

It's everywhere bro, my dad's brother was kidnapped and he is a recent retired police superintendent. The police did not get involved, ransom was paid for him to be released. He was tortured and hung upside down, the other victims that were kidnapped with him were killed, cos their families could not make the ransom.

You put your decision to end your life on nairaland as a cry for help, you want to be saved, you want to be talked out of killing yourself.

I believe we get to end our lives if we so please, but I also know that the feeling of emptiness doesn't go after death, you still remain who you were and are after death,

Death is the stripping away of your flesh and ego. Seeing life on a much bigger scale.

Except you are terminally ill and suffering, it's very pointless killing yourself.

Death is coming for us all in due time, so why not just live life without social structure, forget the illusion of what you see, the flamboyance. It is very empty and fickle.

Do shadow work and recognize your fears, dont suppress your anger, pain or whatever emotions, let you madness out and grow from your darkness.

Blessed be brother...

cocolacec:
Are you a listener of Dr Sebi vidoes?

I follow his teachings and alot other herbalist, that have cured themselves of multiple diseases

I'd advise on the underlying health issues, stop all medications, change your diet from acidic to completely Akaline, drink spring water only (gossy) consume Akaline fruits, get herbs rich in iron like.
Sarsaparilla
Irish moss
Bladderwack
Burdock
Nettle
Chaparral
There's a legit page on Facebook "fast on herb (SA)" they are in southafrica but it can be shipped down, nature is the only way to heal your body. Peace.

white3663:
Op quick question.
How do you express yourself in public, I mean do you talk about your beliefs publicly, like in conversations?

I openly speak and share my beliefs in public and I watch people stare at me like I am insane or doomed to eternal damnation. Speaking about my beliefs is a beacon for my tribe, my brothers and sisters, and to scare away the normal.

Hakate
Goddess of magic, queen of witchcraft, the night and moon, guardian of the cross roads.

HADES & PERSEPHONE

Hades Greek God of the underworld.

Persephone wife of Hades, daughter of Demeter, God daughter of Hekate. Queen of the underworld and Goddesses of spring.

Portal of life.

God of pain