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[quote author=mondi_cheeks]what can u tell about their character judging from what u see?[/quote]Everything, ppl just look like their personality. I am judgmental and proud!

When you meet a killer you can see it in their face, their, walk their eyes. how often have you seen a hardcore criminal that looked friendly and approachable? ppl need to stop BSing, its a 6th sense we are all born with

I think you can tell just about everything u need 2 know about a person just by looking at them.

Your physical appearance shapes the individual you become.

@ Everyone who is able to think logically, The patriarchal system balaces out.

Women trade control and freedom for physical safety and stability, while men trade physical safety for control and access to reproduction. When females were seen as inferior but it was like a child to an adult, not a human to an animal. less capable than men but yet still more valuable and worthy of chivalry. This is why men gave their lives for women in the titanic disaster. From the female perspective patriarchy is like a controlling boyfriend, not this evil oppressor like feminists like to portray. There are some societies were this system works out unfairly to females but the United States is not one of them.

[quote author=*Kails*]whether i got the statistics for raape right or wrong, the point is for women it is much higher than for men. there are far more precautions we have to take on a daily basis. And if my 1/4 stats are based on college campuses that makes the situation MUCH WORSE, as not even on school grounds are we safe! [/quote]Ok. W/e im not going to argue about this anymore. You will believe what you want

But again, about the r.ape statistic.. its not 1/4 women on college campuses its less than 1/14 read the article ffs. How on earth could a rational person manage to misunderstand what i posted like this? The fact that you guys would believe a stat like that yet we know dozens of women in real life who have never been raped explains why i cant discuss anything will yall.

... along with other things.

Now lemme leave before i get annoyed. peace

stillwater: Onila must be so Americanised to think Nigerian girls place such priority on dark skin . People like Ramsey Noah got much rave from women than RMD or Pat Attah back then in Nigeria, let alone a real White man, lol .

I really hate it how black women like onila openly lie about stuff that is so obvious in everyday life.

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]why didn't u get her love portion so she can love u by force?[/quote]lost interest na

how so? our pain comes naturally. we don't have to be socked, sh0t, stabbed; etc to feel it. every month, in fact just about everyday a woman experiences natural pain. he didn't specifically say how men were strong but if we are talking ENDURING PAIN on a regular basis, unless the man has a disease with similar side effects, women take this one! we take our medicine or whatever and we cope with it. that's strength.

With the exception of periods any sort of pain is usually inflicted by an outside force be it disease, circumstances, yourself or another person. When you make a statment as broad as:

"COLLECTIVELY women endure more emotional and physical pain than men.

the only way a man is stronger than women is through physical labor/muscle mass."

this you have to look at the big picture. Perhaps women can handle pain better, but to suggest that they collectively experience more physical pain is super innaccurate. It is very much the opposite

Man gets hurt by ONE chick it's "fck these bytches!!! i'll treat them all like h0es"...
and that one guy often times will end up bringing pain and heartache to many women. it happens both ways, but tell me i am lying when i say that way is most common.

Well if you want the honest truth i thought this went the other way around. There aren't many guys who become bitter after just one rejection, that sort of thing happens after a life time of bad experiences. Just like with women. Haha, but if you are talking about these internet tough guys, these dudes aren't mean 'for the sake of getting revenge' they are dominant because they think it makes them more successful with women. Its the 'nice guy, bad boy syndrome'. But besides all that, have you considered all the men who have lost millions to women in divorces and pay child support to children they never see? The vast majority of those who kill themselves after relationships end are male, and most relationships are actually ended by women. Love is an equal exchange of pain, men think they are hurt more and women think they are hurt more. The reality is somewhere in the middle.

and women go through the same thing men do as far as break ups, losing loved ones; etc. but the everyday stress of being a woman, not being able to walk down the street without some jerk bag holding his c0ck and trying to holla, having a 1/4 chance of being raaped, enduring sexism, enduring pressure from OTHER women and having to dehumanize yourself to live up to society's standards...it's a lot for a woman to deal with. Trust me. We are in NO WAY superior, but when it comes to dealing with bullish there is no comparison.

All of this is legit except for the bolded. The 1 out of 4 rape stat is extremely false. Its actually a statistic for college r.ape and assault done in 1985, the real figure should be around 1/14 and even that is mainly 'party rape' basically 2 drunk adults having secx (is that really r.ape?) or Rufilin drugging or forced sex with the help of alcohol. The sort of r.ape you are thinking (dark alley) is a rare crime in developed countries, i think around 1% of r.ape in colleges. It is actually the stat that is making you paranoid outside at night. http://aspiringeconomist.com/index.php/2009/09/11/rape-statistics-1-in-4/

About the sexism, have you noticed that they are both perks and negatives associated with being a particular gender? it tends to balance out

The only men I CAN HONESTLY SAY, have it almost as hard as woman are black men. You have a higher chance of being profiled and even killed just walking down the street, not only by racists but by your own kind.

Lets theoretically say that black women have it harder than black men, If you believe that i'm not going to argue with you. But do you honestly think white women have it harder than black men? or even white men? There are some ethnic groups were often women do have a harder time, many parts of the 3rd world for example. But to make a statement as broad as "collectively women endure more pain then men" is untrue

zumbigbo: Move to Brasil. 3 women per guy. Wahala no dey for chicas.

And they have big booties too.

The strength difference is around 30% starting at puberty. Its because of testosterone which basically makes men retain muscles mass even if we are not doing anything, so i guess thats kinda like cheating... but
[quote author=*Kails*]

EXPERIENCE PERIOD PAIN, CRAMPS, BLOATING, AND CARRYING A CHILD...
then you can talk about strength lol.

COLLECTIVELY women endure more emotional and physical pain than men.

the only way a man is stronger than women is through physical labor/muscle mass.[/quote]comments like this are very divorced from reality.

You know, pregnancy and periods are not the only source of physical pain in the world. If you want to see male pain look at the Vietnam war men, loosing arms and legs, getting burned alive, world war 2, Suicide rates, murder, workplace fatalities etc. And don't even forget all the times unfortunate males have been hit in the nutz...

As for the emotional strength... men loose loved ones, loose jobs, ruin relationships, get rejected at the same rate as women, so i don't know where you would come to this conclusion. Just because someone doesn't show their emotions doesn't mean they don't feel them.

Awesome post lastpage, but i don't think the ladies will be able to understand it.

larrymoore: why now? Why now?

Graphy: are we disturbn u?

haha im joking. carry on abeg

@ larrymoore & Graphy: Shut the hell up.

The alpha male is a bully... i don't know where ppl get this idea that the alpha is supposed to be this nice chivalrous individual. If you look at wild animals, like lions, the alpha simply lets the females do all the hunting while he chills, basically like a P.I.M.P. This is a lion who dominates and kills weaker males while procreating with numerous women, until a younger stronger male kills him. This whole idea of the "alpha" in humans is simply a way to explain the primal attraction many women have towards men who display negative and aggressive characteristics.

Antivirus sums up why i hate black ppl.

HQ: On the 12th Day of Christmas, Nairaland gave to me:

12 Shocking Stories
11 Followed Topics
10 Folks who bashed me
9 Interviews I missed
8 Brand-New Stalkers
7 Threads on Virgins
6 Unread PMs
FAAIIVVEE New Replies. . .
4 Lovely Posts
3 Contests
2 e-Fights

. . .and a creep who just wants to BAN me!!! (PYguru, take time!)

nice!

11. you read the list.
12. you attempt to learn from the list/avoid the behaviors.

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=141063891&page=1 (this is where he originally got the link from)


The alpha male is not supposed to be a 'good person'. The human eqivalent of an alpha male is a P.I.M.P

cap28: Still whining huh! its obvious you've been let down ad nauseam by various women - perhaps you need to do a little soul searching.

are you one of those weak men who seek out trophy girlfriends in order to prop up your fragile ego - remember that in order to retain a trophy girlfriend you must have money and status and at least two of the following :

good looks
sense of humour
caring attitude

dont ever delude yourself into thinking that a trophy woman in the western world will bother with you if you dont have any of the above.

maybe your real problem is that you are focusing on superficial and fake women who quite frankly prefer men with status and money.

if you are living in a delusional world like sagamite you can carry on chasing shadows but if you want to be happy in life you need to go for women with a similar outlook on life as yourself.

You need to stop being bitter and learn to study women, men who care about women are not manginas they are smart and decent men who know what is important - would you call mark zuckerberg a mangina ? a young man who married his harvard class mate who is not exactly a beauty queen? why didnt he kick her to the kerb and look for a playboy centrefold ?
imagine if your dad had the attitude you are exhibiting on this forum how many women of your mum's generation would be married? do you think men of that generation did not chase women and show them chivalry and respect?

You actually are starting to sound alot like Mrs Chima. Its funny how you are accusing men of being 'hurt' by women, but you sound exactly like a woman who has been hurt by men. Your female relatives have subconsciously imparted the angry black woman belief system on you and now your are acting it out. Anyway, like i said earlier i have no problems with women in real life, i have an awesome girlfriend who is smart interesting and everything else. Beautiful too, But she is not a trophy. I would't want a trophy, a trophy wife is a parasite that doesn't contribute anything to your life but sex.

But the fact of the matter is many women are displaying behavior that is disfunctional and people have the right to call them out.

The difference between me and you is, when i look at a bitter angry black woman i don't see my mother, i see a disgrace to her. Of course i respect and admire what Zuckerburg did, but the thing men like you don't understand is that not every woman deserves our respect, just as not every man deserves theirs. If this concept is too much for you you might as well put your balls and your logic on the shelf.

A study was done on this several years ago in England. They found that mothers took much longer to respond to the crying of male children than females ones, and also that male children are told to 'stop crying' etc more frequently. This makes them learn from an early age that crying is not a viable way for males to get sympathy or support. So they stop doing it

I think its possible to get really really angry at Nigerian women in general without ever being emotionally hurt by one in real life. The internet alone turned me from a dude who used to 'praise black women' into a man who is absolutely dissapointed with them. Once you get enough information you will realize that they are not victims and are just as bad as the men are, if not worse.

As for what cap28 was saying, it has some truth to it but its not the rule. The worst i have ever been 'hurt' by a women was being put in the friend-zone in highschool. I haven't been put through the tribulations most of these other men have. The key factor is information, when you look at the dating scene with a developed sense of logic and reasoning skills it will annoy you. Any intelligent man looking at this post should be angry, in the OP's mind its ok for multiple men to show her love with gifts and money while she disregards their feelings and emotions. Basically she wants us to treat her like a diamond while she treats us like dirt. Does that seem fair to you?

Thats the problem with manginas, they have a female belief system and thought process while still having masculine chivalry. That is how blatantly unfair laws like the child support system got passed

and cap28, have you ever wondered why so many of our Nigerian brothers are angry? I bet ur single mother never told you that

See if u can convince her to give you head.

seconded

pc guru: no need for the name calling, its possible to express a point without being a jackass

alright, but u called me a jackass so we are even.

shymexx: Love, that's my gift from the maker... hence, why the only two chics I've ever been with never cared about my money... They loved the way I spent my money on buying expensive toys and designers for myself, and they probably spent more on me than I did on them...

Left the dating scene for a year, got back into it a couple of weeks ago; took a chic to a restaurant, and she offered to pay for her meal - true story... I'm not just really on it for now - got so many things to focus on in the new...

I smell bs from afar and my cognitive skills are top-notch...

lol Is livialives a golddigger?

No ones fighting anymore.. dont be a punk.

YES, kill them all! Then kill all the people with Aids. Africans like to complain alot but when they see a good solution like this they wont accept it.

pc guru: ^^ Most Epic comment ever.

damnit. Than abominable sexkillz hid the "most epic comment ever."

What did the comment say?

[size=13pt]Nigerian men: 1 Gold diggers: 30,000 [/size]

Chopurmoni i think i saw you on Ghettogaggers.com

Dont be like these guys


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1SsEAq4-p2w

shymexx: Onila sold her virginity on gumtree for 50p...

shes still an anal virgin tho