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^ that's a great idea. But I'm just wondering how? There's a difference between God and a pastor you know.

kandiikane:
pleep my picture is up wey yours? You said if I put my own you go put your own

I did say that didn't I. well okay, if 3 of my friends put up a picture then I will. So that's 2 more to go

IF I HAD GIVEN THIS FIRST MILLION TO GOD AS MY FIRSTFRUIT, I WOULD HAVE SEALED, SIGNED & DELIVERED MYSELF INTO THE REALM OF OPERATING IN MILLIONS THAT

God or to a pastor?

maybe charity would be safer

I don't know why everyone is trying to portray the OP like he's against African Americans. He might be, but his topic has some truth to it.
Black people are ethnically diverse, but we are homogenized into one category. Which kinda downplays the existence of various African immigrants in the u.s

Great post I agree with you 100%

there is nothing racist in those pictures, the props and theme is actually pretty cool.

however the problem is the 'all black servant staff' thats just absurd , who would humiliate themselves like that?

lol kandiikane

ojdollars:
@SarahMaria , I pity that Nigerian Man who even got married to you in the first Place. Reading your Post, I could sense how you really treat that our Snr Bros (Your Nice and Loving Husband) over there, because you were the one who perhaps cleaned him up, you now think you can control him, insult him, be very very rude to him like we already know you white people for. I know very well that you are doing thinsg unpleasing to the man, and moreover it's now cleared that your Husband love you very much, not for the papers, that was why He was even bold enough to say "I am going out with my Kids and my Kids Mom". You should be grateful you met a good Nigerian who has not even carry his children and run, leaving you in your house. Speaking from the word of God, Ephesians 5:21-32, 1 Timothy 2:11 - 12. The World English Bible Explained it this way "A woman should quietly learn from others with entire submissiveness" .  One quote that is very c'mon, it says the constant thing is life is changes and what brought about this changes is challenges. If you refuse to change, you end up in chains. God blesses those who are not listening to non-spiritually minded people, if you have a problem, consult with your pastor or your group co-ordinator in church.

You have step your boundary, you have no right to check your husbands phone, emails, facebook which is just a creative imagination stuff, nairaland account or post or anything. You have no right at all SarahMaria. You have to respect your husband, submit yourself totally to him, don't compare him to others, don't talk back at him, when he is angry, keep quiet, whenever he scold you, just keep calm. Always ask him what he wants, always prepare a good meal for him, give him good sex, good reason for him to rush home, we all from this part of the world knows the kind of up-bringing and legacy that parents and guardians in the EU, NA, SA, AS, AU Continent has bequeathed to their folks, their kids. You don't treat him low because He is a Nigerian, He is 10times better than any other man out there. Alwaus discuss issues with him, you guys suspect anyone with a black skin for everything they do and in everyway they act.

ADVICE: You should live an examplary life so your kids can learn from you, if you not born again yet, then look for a Bible believing Church around and ask them to lead you to Christ, cause a life without Christ is full of Crisis too. And because you are beautiful doesn't mean you shouldn't be dutiful. Be close to Jesus, a woman who prays all the time hardly curse, insult and engage in fighting. Mrs.SarahMaria, from your post, you seem very controlling really, and it seems that you know that no man can tolerate you the way your Husband is that's why you don't want a Divorce, change your attitude or you end up in chains.

CONCLUSION:  I know that I might not have given the best advice that you really looking for, but take out the SENSE from all the NON-SENSE I have been able to put up in writing to you via this Forum, then you would be amazed at how things would turn around for you in your Home. God Bless you.

With all due respect man, shut up. The only reason she is so suspicious is because so many people have been telling her horror stories about Nigerian men. who can blame her for being worried?


Edit: you actually have a very important point, I apologize.

hmm, this little Indian girl in preschool. We used to sneak up on the loft during naptime, until the teachers figured out what was going on and split us up 

^hahaha! I would feel so dirty after something like that.

^ mmmmm,

This whole campaign was a silly mistake for the U.s. It's becomming hard to remember the last time the America won a war.

Seun:
Does anyone else suffer from the 'too many ideas' problem? I find myself constantly researching new & interesting business ideas. I tend to get really excited, learning all I can, as if I actually plan to implement them.

However, once I feel I know everything I need to know about an idea, and I'm 100% convinced it's going to work, everything ends there. I really don't have much time to spend on another project: Nairaland is a full-time gig.

I can't stop working on new ideas because it's the most fun thing I do, but I'd really like to find a way to try out all of them in the next few years, because there will be many more in the future. What should I do?

YES! im exactly the same. I've lost track of al the ideas I've had cattle ranch, brick factory, paint factory, snail farm, import-export, natural gas, solid minerals etc. lol

So what ideas have you had, more websites?

i'll yet ya know after in 5 yrs

^^ I wonder why the word hoe is only used to describe women then?

Araboy:
Lol what happened to your hottie Africa1 or just Nigerian guys can't help themselves

^ lol, you dont really think I'm going to email the OP do you? He is a male 419er and his name is Jenkins Ayeko! 

Can you guys just stop commenting? Next time I'll hear one of u complaining about threads like this.

Don't leave inciting comments and it will go away, just tell efulefu to stop making dumb topics and move on. It's really not that hard.

^ what's that?

Araboy:
@ Pleep Are you looking for sugar baby 

chai! You got me!

do not worry AT ALL. 

My dad calls my mother 'eka' which means literally mother (of the children)
and my mom calls my dad 'Oko' which means the same. I know it's sounds wierd but those are their pet names. Haha even  I was a little confused when I learned the translation.

Saramaria there is  absolutly nothing to be worried about, it's completly normal 

HOLY SH[i]I[/i]T. lol!

hey, how old are you? just curious

I appreciate all the insightfull comments on this topic its been very interesting

I want to point out some of the negative effects of Education without industrialization and reiterate how industrialization will bring political stability to Nigeria.

I had an Epiphany today. I realized that the reason the protests and revolutions in the middle east were unable to pick up in Sub-Saharan Africa is because of a lack of a middle class. The middle class has historically been the demographic that pushes for political change. The Rich are oblivious and the poor are scared, and do not have a sense of their own worth.

Poor people in Nigeria act like middle class people with consumerism etc. This is because of education. (I think education has caused the over-materialism and consumerism that is characteristic of Nigerian society) But under the surface most still have the mentality of a poor person. Accepting the status quo I.e 'suffering and smiling'. And are not taken seriously by the elites in power. This is a characteristic of poor people around the world and is the #1 reason Nigeria is not moving forward. Political corruption is just a red herring.

Industrialization is the only way to create a middle class as DaLover pointed out. Thus it is even more imperative to enter this stage and fix our problems of political stability and create the middle class that will make Nigeria great. I really belive that once we become industrialized all our other problems will melt away. So we should stop worrying about them and focus single-mindedly on making Nigeria an industrialized nation. What do you guys think?

^ why?

Alright, w/e floats your boat. Do u not like being liked?

[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=715253.msg8736716#msg8736716 date=1310947725]^^God will deliver you from s.tupid questions.[/quote]Its not a stupid question. I'm a tpia fan, your witty & interesting

Efulefu I don't think anyone appreciates your silly threads, white or black.

Your just making things worse.

Great thread! 

Would definatly delete mama gee, she is very pointless and annoying.
I would delete the dumb part of 190 (70%) and keep the funny part haha.
And I would delete satani and perhaps . . .
@op why do u wanna delete tpia?