₦airaland Forum

SirWere:
One thing I fail to understand about the whole biafran- Nigerian schism is simple :

Why not call a referendum and decide to split ways rather than engage in protests that may lead another useless wastage of lives

That's a good idea. But our elected representatives are busy fighting over "other" no progressive things. Its a pity that they don't understand that they are public servants and not the other way. God help Nigeria!!!!

Good morning, Please how much will it cost to clear via RORO- (Grimaldi) a 2006 Lexus GS 300, 2007 Nissan Xterra and 2007 Volkswagen Passat. Thank you.

Uteghe:
Nnamdi Kanu can't get bail. Terrorism is not a bailable offence.

Terrorism and Treason are two different things. The man has not been convicted of both. So he can be bailed!!!

REIIGN:
7 degree's? LOL


Can Dino defend those degree's?

How exact do you defend your degrees?

Elparaiso:
These hoes ain't loyal.

The only loyal women on earth are your mum and sisters.

Why should they be loyal? Have you every heard garbage in garbage out. How you treat them is how they will eventually treat you.

If only safe abortions was legal in Nigeria, this would not have happened. Its time for the government to wake up!! We need legalization of abortion now!!!

Despite stories of killings and violence, students still join this cult group.its hightime the government introduces stiffer penalties for offending cult members caught.

cruchenuti:
So OP should just give up hun ?

Did you read the part where I mentioned " if he was unable to solve the problems"?

Well, I hope they have real hard evidence. Maybe a name or a serial number. Otherwise, it will be the case of unknown soldier or people dressing as soldiers.
May God help us all!!!

Qudos to them. But can this contraption work on a farm for 2 hours straight? It's hightime government and big corporations start investing seriously in our youths

amokeme:
But really after 4years... got me thinking, what does she really want?

Exactly. Even after a DNA test confirm that Davido is not the father. Is it now a crime to have consensual sex with a woman now? Abi was she rapped by Davido? Other than that, my conclusion is she wants money.

Why is the lady still insisting that the baby belongs to Davido even after the DNA test confirmes otherwise.? I don't want to believe that it is the current economic situation that is responsible for it

dadavivo:
I don't get it how davido, wizkid and others will be fcking girls without condoms. Is there cure for HIV?

Hahahaha. Maybe they test for HIV and other STD before anything!!!

If ones papers are in order does not give one the right to confront the police. People should avoid direct confrontation with police and members of the armed forces. It is common sense to know that are not properly trained, they are not well paid and work under very bad condition. So why do people still confront them? If they ask for bribe and you don't want to give them, politely turn down the request or better still tell them that tell them you really dont have anything on you and that the next you are passing, you will give them something in a polite way.
People should remember that we don't have cameras everywhere in the country to monitor activities of this men!!!

iwatch:
nonsense....talks.

I don't think he understands what defamation of character can do to an individual or an organization. She published a story without facts. What is the basis of boko haram and Naira devaluation comparison? We have specific laws for all crimes in Nigeria. What is wrong is wrong!!!

VeniJu:
That ascertion is wrong... If the wife has nothing special, he wouldn't have married her.
Does it mean other men who cheats everywhere is due to their wives lacking something?
One day, your wife will cheat on you. And when she's caught, just remind yourself that the man has got something which you don't have.

People marry for several reasons. For name, status, pregnancy. Some marry just because of society deems it so.

TheNewAgeFarmer:
This woman should stop wasting her money on nonsense publicity. Let her organize her home instead!.

She obviously does not understand that it cannot never be "fire for fire" in Nigerian relationship. Most Nigerian men would not tolerate this kind of behavior. I wish her the best of luck!!!

NwamaziNwaAro:
Why are sidechicks always ugly

Hahahaha. I think they do the needful better than the main ones. Besides they are open to all forms of experiments. No stories!!!!

helpforever:
I saw a post about a woman complaining that her sister married an impotent man. I smiled, the man probably knew he had an issue and still went ahead and married. I also have this issue and its really bothering me for over 5 years. Mine is complicated and I think its spiritual.

It all started in 2011 when I was 20 and was ready to have sex. I went to a popular brothel in Lagos with a friend to try it out.
Though I was very nervous because I was a virgin and my heart was beating very fast.

We actually went in and two women approached us. A young woman of about 28 and one of about 40.

I am my other virgin friend had eye on the one of about 28 cause she was very beautiful. My friend immediately held on to her. The other one of 40 now held on to me that I should carry her lets go do it. I angrily said "You be my mama mate na", she got angry and left.

Then the younger one said, if I and my friend wants, we can take turns with her.

We left for her room. I entered first and was very nervous and sluggish even in removing my cloth.

She said, "e be like say u be virgin...so na me go disvrigin" you. She started touching my di*k, but it didn't get hard.

Time started to waste and I got tired and asked her to refund my money. She started shouting that its not possible, that the fact that my dick did not rise is none of her business. I asked that my friend should use the money and attempt, she said no. that he must bring his own money.

We left the building and started the arguments outside. Other prostitutes came to her aid and started asking what was wrong. She explained to them that I tried to have sex with her and my thing did not rise and now I want my money back, they started shouting and said its not possible that we should better get out of her.

At one corner, the older woman of about 40 that I earlier rejected started giving me the "ntoor" look and was saying "You see your life"

I got very scared and left for home immediately.

I tried to watch porn to see if it will get up, I can't really remember if it did.

Long and short, I have not been able to have sex since then. I have not even had sex in my life. I have never tried to have sex with a real girl before, so I won't embarrass myself. I have never had a girlfriend. Though girls keep flocking around me, since I am doing well both academically and business wise, but I never attempt to have sex with them and they keep wondering whats wrong with me. One of the unilag girls that seduced me and I did nothing concluded that I was impotent because she feels no man in the world would have resisted her seduction since she was very hot.

I have tried to have sex 3 more times, with prostitutes, but still same thing happens. No erection

In 2012, I spent the whole year going to church everyday. Nothing happened. I have stopped now and accepted my fate.

Only my best friend knows about this, he keeps saying its not a spiritual condition but medical condition due to the fact that I started
masturbating right since I was 17.

He says I might have had the issue right before the prostitute encounter. Sometimes he says that it is a psychological condition.

But the thing is, how can a young boy of 20 then have Erectile dysfunction due to masturbation.
Many young boys masturbate and nothing happened to them.

I was sad for a while, but now it seems I have accepted my fate. This issue have made me focus on my studies and business and now, at 26. I have finished my BSC, and my MSC

Whenever I am Hot, I masturbate and I think that has worsened my issue. I have been masturbating since 2011 when this happened

Lots of order thing happens in between that confuses me. Like 2 years after the prostitute encounter, when I was in my 3rd year, one beautiful edo girl who really loved me was making out with me and flirting around me and I got a rock solid erection 100%. Very hard. Also, in 2014. A girl who liked me came to my house and she was flirting with me, though she didn't plan on having sex with me. Only the flirting alone made me hard. The erection was 70% hard. But then, those are the only occurrences.

Whenever I watch porn, I get semi erection - say about 60% hard.

Whenever I jerk my joystick, it gets hard - about 80% and within minutes, it deflates again.

Lot of different things have happened along the line which is too much to type. Long and short, I don't get erections when I wakeup again. I used to before all this issues.

Or is it the excess sugar I take, or the belly fat I have gotten due to the way I eat carelessly and spend on myself. (Since I don't have any woman to cater for) that is the cause.

Is it spiritual, medical or psychological?

Is it due to masturbation? Is it an infection?

Because I can remember in late 2012 or early 2013. When I tried to urinate, I had and felt a sharp pain.

I happened for about 2 days and stopped by itself.

I am getting older and my mother is already reminding me about marriage. I don't think I will marry until this issue is resolved. I can't
subject any woman to emotional pain.

At some point, I thought I was gay, but I am in no way attracted to men. But I am attracted to women. I tried watch transgender porn to confirm if I was gay (since I couldn't stand real gay porn). I actually got aroused and had a mild erection. But come on, transgenders are women who just have a joystick.

I have put up my issues on a foreign site (because other people who have put up their problems on nairaland gets abused, mocked, insulted and bullied) and I was advised by the whites to see a doctor and counselor. They didn't even understand what I meant by spiritual issue. But they have been very concerned and helpful

I don't need to see any counselor because my case would confuse who ever I tell.

I have been living in pains. No sex life and no real social life. I keep falling out with female friend because I don't make any move towards them.

I keep falling out with male friends, because they keep wondering "why this their guy no dey nack woman like them". They feel I am weird because they 100% know I am not gay and wonder why a normal guy will be avoiding women like this.

I hope my issue is resolved.

But if its not, I would live the rest of my life like this. Probably keep on masturbating and never get married.

It might actually be my excessive masturbation that might be the cause of this. I don't really know. Only God knows.

I am depressed. But suicide is not an option for me. God forbid.

What you need to understand is that life does not revolve only on sex and been married. The hard truth is if you cannot solve your erection problems, I think what you need to do is to structure your life on other important things other than sex and marriage. I must confess it won't be easy but you really don't have an option. Wish you all the best.

Wow!!! What road is he going to drive the car on?

neoclassical:
I woke up this morning with the news that FCSC has shortlisted lists of successful candidates in the ongoing recruitment exercise by the Commission in various Federal Ministries.

Succinctly, I have a friend who studied Business Administration with 3rd Class, while I have Msc and Bsc (2.1) all in Economics. Both of us applied for the same position (SGL 09) in the Ministry of Trade & Investment. Perhaps, to my greatest perplexity, this guy's name was shortlisted while mine was conspicuously missing. Just a few minutes ago he opened up to me that the father made "some calls" on his behalf prior to this time.

For your information, we are of the same age bracket, applied for same position, from the same State. So what criteria could have been used to disqualify someone with Msc and Bsc (2.1) and someone with a 3rd Class was selected.

Holding other factors constant, I am so happy for him and I am so expectant that mine is coming. But this has kept me in an awe position, as the whole scenario depicts lack of correlation between merit and success in this entity called Nigeria.

WHAT A COUNTRY? So help us God!

Hahahaha. Now you know why "brain drain" is so prevalent in Nigeria. The country never uses the best brains to solve it's domestic problems. A country where electrical engineers rely on electricians to solve domestics lightning problems, where civil engineers don't have a clue about road designs and construction. The list is endless. No country can make progress on mediocrity.

Kaduna again? The state is gradually become the hotbed for religious clashes. It would be wise for the governor to proscribed alĺ religious activities.

Go on Davido!!!! Sue their ass!!! Reporting with facts and evidence is plain fake news!!!.

Since you are already in school, my advice is for you to finish first, then go and pursue an aviation career.

Hahahaha!! I wonder why all the ladies i slept with and dumped have not come forward to accuse me. Maybe they are waiting for me to become a billionaire.!!!

This is the more reason why this "danfo buses" need to be banned in Lagos. Everywhere from Ajah, Oshodi, Abule-Egba, Okoko, this so called danfo buses leave a trail of death and destruction. The drivers are not trained, they are always angry, break traffic rules at the slightest traffic and most importantly have no value for human life. Everyone knows that when you approach or drive around "built up" areas you need to slow down and be very careful. I hope the bus driver gets the justice he deserves

mekonglobal:
Someone Paid The Money And The Killer Has To Deliver.. Goodjob! Rip To The Dead Though.

Your statement of "Good job" is not right sounds. It seems you are encouraging assassinations.

Hahahaha. The punishment for kidnapping in Lagos is death!!. I hope he gets the rope and not bullet!!!

i just hope he gets the justice he deserves. Not sure if it is death sentence in Kaduna!!!

This is real good news

Hmmmm. Loss of job.