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ogunvic41:
Question not clear sir...

The right back break light won't go off, even when car is off.

Please what could possibly be the reason for one of the break light on .. Both when engine is runnung and off



Cc: Gazzuzz, Ogunvic

Windflower:
Waow,so because sex and relationship is relative then a girl must give sex if he demands for it especially when she is not a virgin. Now my questions
* A man that doesn't have self control,is that one a man
* A man that allows his dick control him,is he worthy being called a man
* will giving out the cookie guarantee that the man would never leave or cheat on his girl
* If she eventually gives him,does it guarantee that she did it because she truly love him or she did it out of coercion
* Does having sex in a relationship guarantee its would lead to marriage
I must say am not surprised with your opinion,especially now when a 16year old girl would have sex and flaunt it on Facebook. Everyone is all about sex now but please stop misleading people,sex/lovemaking should be mutual,it should be because u feel connected to your partner and not just because you want to ease your sex drive.

I never asked her to give her sex if he does not deceive it, let's be honest with ourselves. The basic problem with Africa is life start at 30 while for the white folks, life start at 20. If they have been together for a year and there is still doubt about him playing games on her, please how long does it take to be crystal clear he meant well. Here is a man of 37 years going through life without sex for a year now, when will he be able to get one? That's up to both of them. My saying if she is not attracted to him, if he does not love him, if he is dating the man because he doesn't have option, that's so unfair. My sister age is what? Is she getting younger and won't live to see 37 someday, should the man kill himself because he's 37?

Please let her not waste his time or both of them should not waste each other time, define the relationship and rest the case somewhere.

savvy12:
I have dated him for more than a year.
I met him early last year when my dad was admitted in the hospital.
yeah,I was in relationship with him when I was dating the other guy because I was having some doubts about him.
The primary reason for refusing him sex is because I'm a virgin.I didn't say it here initially cos I know people will call me all sorts of name becos I'm a virgin at 27.
what have I offered him? our relationship was never boring.we discuss everyday and encourage each other.
He said he likes me and plans to marry me.But I told him to wait small.

I'm not judging you Sis, if you have the intention of keeping your body till d special night good luck. I tried to, but couldn't make it and I even regret trying to hold on for long (I realise one can't accumulate sex). Pls don't get me wrong, I'm not asking you to live a wayward life or give in to what you don't want to, all I'm saying is some things are needless.

Now if you are having some doubts, communication they say is the key, why can't both of you sit down and talk things out. Its your man for all it worth, you should understand is truth and lies by now and from the outcome, you should be able to know your stand. About age? I've seen couples with 10/15 years difference and live happily ever after, it's all about individual interest and for me that's is not a case as long as we share similar moral value, interest, and our physic align to some extent.

The Canadian to me right now is a side guy, trend with caution. The only hope you are leaning on here is what he told you, because in the real scheme of things you don't know anything about him, not even how he smells. Most time, things don't come easy as appear, it may take years raging from 5 b4 you can live as couples.

CHRISTIAN71:
My dear, from your write up, the contributions of people and your replies, it's obvious this is a script and it's not real and you are not involved in this relationship. But if you are, these are my views.
If you are true to yourself and responsible, you will not be in two relationship.
For God sake the issue of sex in a relationship is relative to most persons and you should not blame him for asking for sex after months of the relationship and you are at fault for accepting him after he begged for a comeback. When will ladies understand that when a guy says he want sex he meant it? That is not to say a guy can't be in a relationship without sex, I have been in a relationship without sex, that was when I was on my masters program at uniben, trust me when I say it takes alot of self discipline and maturity.
You said you are a Virgin. My dear you are not chatting with you friends on Facebook or whatsapp, this is a forum with large followers. A Virgin is naturally reserved, a Virgin will not get involved with multiple partners.
My dear don't be deceived distances relationship in Nigeria is difficult to keep, talkless of relationship of different countries. You don't know that young man
My submission and conclusion is this
End the relationship with both guys
Get good relationship books, read them and understand them, get yourself engaged with something.
When you are mature emotionally, the right guy will come, by then you must have known that every relationship must be defined at a point and issues of sex or no sex are things you discuss very early and it should be defined.
Have a wonderful day.

I'm so much loving this post. Relationship should be define from the onset and chaning of goal post should be with great understanding. I still can't figure out, how they have been in and out of a relationship for a year and yet to come in terms with sexual issues.

Windflower:
First of all,you have to be firm when making decisions, when you knew the man was odd and you don't even feel attracted to him,you shouldn't have agreed to date him. Do not be surprised that the man is married with kids and if you are not careful,he might even rape you.
I think its high time you start realising your worth,stop allowing the age factor weigh you down or worry if you would meet another kind of guy. I believe there is someone out there for you. I could remember when my relationship ended with my ex,its was something I could still hang on to but I said no and moved on,even when people looked at me like a fool for leaving a man they believe to be good,cos their believe was I might never meet someone as good as him,but of what's use is a good man when he can't keep our affairs personal,running to the mother at any slight quarrel. I have my self worth and I walked away without regretting or worrying that I was going to be single. Let the man go,focus on the abroad guy but be wise when doing soo cos you don't know what is going on over there. People say love is blind but its the people who are in love that are blind,not love itself. Never accept anything in a relationship if you know u won't compromise in marriage.

I beg to differ ma, you don't know the man in question and I can feel some level of personal agenda in your post. Peace

You've really drove yourself to point of destruction, you can only get away unhurt if luck is by your side.

Few questions to ask...
How long have you been dating the doctor? If you are not crystal clear about his age, search for his original BC.
Were you in relationship with doctor when you started the initial move with the Canadian guy? If yes! That's pure evil and greed.
Ever since you've been in relationship with the doctor, what have you offered to make the relationship worth it while? If nothing! He have the right to demand for sex (let the almighty be the judge). Let's stop acting as if these things are new, majority of the people these days don't stay in relationship without sex and if he have been with you for more than 5 months without sex and you are not a virgin, pls give it to him. The guy that disvirgin you does not have 2 head.
Is the Canadian guy aware of your relationship with him? Be honest with yourself, if the Canadian guy ask for sex next year, what will you do? Talk him out of it or start feeling all he want is sex?

Sex in relationship is relative, there most be a reason for you to say no and please dating someone outside the country is a very tedious thing, in fact what commitment have you been seeing from the Canadian, that makes you thing he's the best bet for you? Just use your head well and don't let your emotions sway you.

ogunvic41:
Drop ur contact and let's talk on phone... U will come back to this thread to thank me...I have seen best drivers of UBER failed on HP... The guy who mentored me on UBER was UBER driver of the week three times 187k,180k, and 170k recently... He failed on HP, the car was collected...tell me how u gonna meet up that week u lost the two front shocks... How will u meet up when ur top gasket get blown,cars aren't new... I met a man who took HP of 9m for a brand new nissan primera 2016... He has paid over 1.5m the car was collected from him...if u can make 100k weekly u should be able to save money to buy your own car...GET A CAR FOR HP AND IN MONTHS TO COME PROOF ME WRONG...
MY OPINION I STAND TO BE CORRECTED... I LOVE UBER DRIVERS AND I WANT THEM TO PROGRESS...
LETS KEEP LAGOS MOVING....
AM PROUD TO BE A DRIVER...

Let me take this chance to acknowledge someone I so much admire in the person of Mr Ogunvic, I'll Neva forget the Saturday morning you called me and we spoke for 30 mins, while putting me through on certain things, may your heart keep finding joy and peace, in as much as no sacrifice is a waste.
Some thing struck me about this post and I'll like to add my little cent, drivers stop wearing big shoes, especially when you don't have what it takes to service HP. Here you take a car of 9M, even if you pay 40k weekly, from my rough estimation it will take 4 yrs to end the deal (almost impossible). Please drivers should learnt to start small and don't go beyond anything 3M on HP. Like you said, for any serious driver rantel is the best, but they lack savings habit... For a determined driver, saving 30k weekly under rantel shouldn't be a problem and BTW the space of 9 to 10 months, he should be able to get his own car. But you can force people to see, you can never force them to think.

Oga ogunvic I still long to see you someday, since we live close and probably work with you in light of sharing idea. All the best boss

Opiosko:
How much can I get a good Corolla 04? any suggestions or tips?

Thanks in advance.

Just as Mrsage said... But naija used depend on who is selling and you have to be very careful, it comes cheap, but at the end you may end up spending more, so avoid problematic cars and another better way is going for cars that have not been worked on irrespective of if it sounds good.

Make sure you don't carry the driver along regarding the cost of buying, just make sure the car is in good and sharp state to serve it purpose.

I once try keke business it did not last 3 months, before the story went sour. Feel free to contact me and let talk more

I don't have the intention of commenting before, but I can't help it when you mention relative, that's number one mistake (Decision/Emotions). Again intention and reality are not the same, I'm sure that same keke, he's complaining about, he also beg the owner for it.

I'll advise you to dash the man 50k and save yourself the stress of trying to save 12k weekly for the next 20 months, that's if you don't have constant stories in-between. The best advice is for you to get a car (probably corolla 04) and put it on uber/ taxify.

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rosieluv:
I lyk the fair ones

Can albino lyk me fill d registration form? In d male eyes all fair nah fair

rosieluv:
I lyk the fair ones

Can albino lyk me fill d registration form? In d male eyes all fair nah fair

Nice job u r doing out here... keep it up.

banmee:
The way you people think is just amazing. Smh. So that 5 seconds it takes to take a picture is now neglect?

Bros nothing personal, just playing ard and beside who told u it was 5 seconds? considerating d once she won't lyk. Abeg nothing serious ooo

kceewhyte:
guy children wahala too much is she Carry her now, she will say put me down vice versa

lol... True talk

see d way she neglect her daughter... all 4 pix!

Layo... Much respect Eldee, its not easy put those big names together. #Kaabo, 2shotz, freestyle, Sasha P #TrybesFamily

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femi4:
This is the second time Kcee is having a split.First it was Presh and now Harrysong. He's got some issues too.

Which issue? it is normal for artist to go their separate ways and mind e money shot videos for Presh after their break up. The problem between him and Presh is pure ego, just as same btw 2face nd BFN.

cirmuell:
What can I say, the sh¡t you made me do just to prove you are an _idiot. Been sitting on the fence about the mmm sh¡t, your royal dumbness made me change my mind right here on this thread. Anyway, thanks for the entertainment. Remember, check the moniker before you quote next time. I wish you sweet dreams nightmares.

Done with you.

It ain't worth it brother, life is way to short for d mix emotions.




#MyApology #WhiteFlag

cirmuell:
If your silly ass have any prove at all, you'll upload it without me asking. Either way, I don't give a sh¡t. I've pointed that out countless time but I guess your brain is too blocked to comprehend. Of course, your time is not free, you need to go convince more mumus like you to join mmm.


And your silly self had to tag me a g*y, I give up on you. your dumbness no be here old_fool.

Your Nightmare right here.
www.nairaland.com/attachments/4752228_image_jpeg9f360c5ab7736510df54c882e9dbf188

https://www.nairaland.com/3577963/anxiety-mmm-again-removes-gh

https://www.nairaland.com/3577085/surge-ponzi-schemes-more-likely

https://www.nairaland.com/3578346/nigerians-lament-twitter-over-mmm

Why do I have to prove anything to you? You careless, but still have to dig anything mmm?



#EatShitTimeKeeper

cirmuell:
Yeah right! Coming from someone who spend most of his time online defending an hopeless scheme.

Rather than waste your time hoping you'll make a living out mavrowarever, I suggest you get your_ass back into the four walls of a class room to at least learn how to string sentences together. This is a new year woodboi, be wise. You've been on here for far too long to still be exhibiting this kinda dumb attitudes online

lol... Told ya I gat paid and u'r scared to ask 4 prove, I must have scared d hell outer ya. Son! feel free ard me and don't tell me sh*t about classroom and sentences, when u can't put yourz togerther. If you think my time is that free, go take a course on how to walk and chew gum at the same time.





Quit starin @ my profile fagot, I don't do g*y sh*t #EatShit

cirmuell:
Ode iyalaya ni werey, just continue praying and hope more mumu put their money into that ish so you can survive. It's very obvious your life is a living hell without mmm money. Telling someone to go get a life when you don't even have one

Well I have your time #douchebag

Babababa re arindin, Olori ebi yin asiere, Baba re alailopolo, iwo omo ale... won fi iwo ati iran di aja ogun last ni.

Mind I got paid and check my post about mmm and the greed that comes with it. keep dreaming about the money and type shit about how you rake millions online, it is so easy until reality set in for your fogat a*s name taken in place of f*ol. I ain't gat nothing on mmm and whatever, if that makes you mad, then you''ll b mad forever.


#Olori awon omo ale #EatShit

rokiatu:
The two above me like I care. Infact I am the ugliest woman alive.

Now how does this affect you? Are u the one sleeping with me?

I am so Godamn ugly infact hideous now what? if anything I should be the one affected since am the one carrying the burden of been so Godamn ugly. LOL

please explain the SLEEPING part better, I am not Honda_standing. what do you mean by that?