₦airaland Forum

azzima:
I have noticed a new trend with Nigerians. Nigerians seem to be now bitter with Buhari trying to recover our money from these looters. It must be the sore losers. Someone is trying to collect back your stolen money and you are here getting mad. Some Nigerians are cursed

seunmsg:
Great news! The long awaited fight against corruption is slowly gathering storm. Everybody that participated in one way or the other to mismanage Nigeria's resources must be ready to give account of their action. No sacred cow will be spared in this fight.

tiffanny:
Dubai is not a racist country if am asked but all I know is that their was a misunderstanding and the managements made it up to the victim and even apologies to the lady

scarr:
U don't expect a bank in lekki to employ you when you stay in iyana iba.......its just common sense

kamez:
if I hear..


go and ask baba suwe if he has received the one that NDLEA was asked to pay him.


nobody is paying anybody a dime

philGeo:
Your Mother is corrupt simple, you are lucky that you enjoy small, your mother is lucky not in China, nah different news we for dey read now, i hope this is how our Government will be doing from now, PUT THEM IN JAIL TILL THEY ARE DEATH. No case.

treese:
Hello you all. I am his wife.but I am indeed glad he came here to pour his heart out. He doesn't like communicating with me that much, once he is upset u dont wanna be around me. You will pity me, he treats me unfair, he removes his ring at will and says he had a bad day and so it his wedding ring that caused it. You can take a look tru my profile. You would see just a little of my complaints. But now i get where the problem is. Funny enough I didn't know he had this topic here already cos I am not much of a nairaland person so if he didn't make front topic I won't have seen it. And it was even God that drew my attention here cos even front topic I don't read that much. Very very glad I did. Now o am not a cheating wife and would never ever till I die cheat. I would rather walk away. You see d gentle man who put this topic down, he doesn't talk much to me. If anything goes wrong with us, I could be talking for 3mins he will just increase the volume of his phone and start playing music. He can agree how any times in a day I ask him why he hates me so much. Cos he acts as such. Let me analyse the instances that made him think am cheating. My EX who was the first man I probably ever loved. Myself and my husband has had plenty issues on exes his exes sef just disappeared completely like a year back. My ex probably called me and we had a very clean and open convo. I tot to myself this is wrong jor. So I told him, my ex called me and he has always bin calling which is true. But very clean convo. He has Like 3kids now and is happily married. The day i told my hubby my ex called me. He was just there like whatever, and I rem telling him that day you never get jealous of me. U should even ask me questions or something. If I keep talking without bin asked questions then something is wrong with me. God knows I felt hurt that he was neutral. And that night my husband decide to have phone intimacy with an old female friend to get back at me. I rem that Sunday Wen I saw it. I cried. I felt hurt d moment he said that's for Kipling in touch with ur ex. And i asked him why he didnt allow us talk about it immediately, sometimes thats all we need just talk to us and show u care, till date i always feel my husvand is t worrird ablut losing me, instead he pays me back. And i dont think it should that way, sometimes communicatikn is all u need and u would just find d truth in d detail. I cang coynt how many incriminatikng stiffs i have fpynd on his phone, me i cant kip quiet for too long i tell him sharp sharp and sometimes it isnt what i think, but if i decide to keep.quiet and pay him back i would only be hurting us more, so back to my ex, Then we went out, we spoke about it and it all got cleared, but I guess it didn't. Secondly he spoke about me removing my ring. Now this is me also.when I find out hubby always removes his ring often and blame it on bad days I join him. Right now none of us Is wearing a rjng; he as removed it again and thrown it away claiming another bad day and I joined in cos I don't undestand that ish again. Now the third case of cheating. He said o saved my ex's number yeah that's true and that becos I didn't want my husband to think otherwise cos I actually think he knows the guys number or have it saved somewhere. This guy is helping my lil brother gt a job with an oil firm. He is only helping.
When my husband saw this I felt so bad so so bad and I wish I had discussed it with him. But I tot he would pay me back painfully again so I decide to keep it away from him. The third blame is me cooking for a guy on the estate. The guy is a friend I met quiet alright. But God sees my heart I cooked it out of helping. His wife is overseas and d guy claimed to be broke, then also there was fuel scarcity he said he couldn't get fuel to buy. So he wanted me to help him with food. That faithful day, my husband's friend who also lives on the estate was home, my nanny and my two kids, so I asked him to give his opinion,and he said why not that the guy is an easy going person on the estate and for him to ask for food he must be In a bad state. We had some left over rice at home and I told hy nanny to go and give him. When my hubby came back that day I Had to find a way to explain to him. I wasnt too sure of his response, but to a certain extent d man i know and the way he has bin treating me I tot he will say no big deal. But I got otherwise instantly I knew I had messed up, but how to fix it became a problem. He has called my dad on this matter. That old man is another man I fear the most after God. Tho I was scared of wat he will do to me. But I was rather glad. Cos I wanted to be free and be trusted again. The matter on ground is something that I know can ruin my home but now that he as spoken I believe and hope he learns to trust me. Now I understand d reason for the mean treatments. He doesn't like visiting marriage counselors, so smtimes we end our matters and issues arguing and no resolution. Am saying it world wide now. I am not cheating on my husband. I love him than anything else in the world. Appreciate him and would always honour him. His changes and behaviour towards me recently sort of got me changing to, but now I see where it's all coming from. God bless u nairaland at least he spoke here. But seriously, dear Nairalander's you can't give concluding opinions on a journey of 3years based on 650 words. U don't av any idea wat we both av bin Tru to just conclude that he divorces a woman u know nothing about based on the short story u heard. I am a woman who would do anything g to keep her home. I took steps that I had no clue I would regret. Now he doesn't trust me no one knows how that feels. Even when I go out for business he picks d lie from d truth and this hasn't bin making me go what I deserve. I hope and pray God fixes this for me.

fabiano09:
God knows i cant take dt shiit,d minute i find out my wife cooks for another man,an ex for dt matter without my permission,am throwing her out,straight up! Its abominable,as a Rasta its an insult.

repogirl:
Yes, I said i was married and my husband doesnt have time to snoop through my phone or accuse why I am not wearing my ring, why?

Mutual trust garnered from frequent communication. If you dont have a certain trust and dependency in marriage, that marriage is a sham.

IAmTobore:
I don't think the banks are safe anymore. Well, I wish everyone can use banks the way I use them. For transactions only. And after that, I withdraw all my cash!

Gulbis:
akwa ibom people are gullible .you have been played.

TippyTop:
Do we have a govt in Nigeria?

Every nairaland topic is filled with more killings by boko haram.
The NASS should impeach this dullardinnnhooo before he runs Nigeria aground.

Redeem church bombed: https://www.nairaland.com/2428612/breaking-news-bomb-explosion-redeemed#35509884

odams4life:
Change is here!!!
Baba plsssssss try and visit Immigration service,prisons,customs etc with such.

fejicruz:
Baba, I am an ardent supporter of change. Pls let the change reflect in ur appointments. I do not want to believe that you are ethnocentric. Because if you are, I will be waiting for you in 2019 with my PVC to bring about another change again.

fejicruz:
Baba, I am an ardent supporter of change. Pls let the change reflect in ur appointments. I do not want to believe that you are ethnocentric. Because if you are, I will be waiting for you in 2019 with my PVC to bring about another change again.

ohenhen1:
The appointments so far are minor. The INEC and DSS appointments are temporary. We have too many people on this site that are too emotional. All this uproar is not necessary. Each state will produce at least one minister. Nigeria is a federalism. Who cares about Northerners getting inconsequential posts? As a Lagosian, all I care about is who will be

The Presidency
Minister of Finance
Minister of Petroleum
Minister of Transportation
Minister of Trade and Commerce
Minister of Agriculture
Minister of Education
Minister of Healthcare
Foreign Minister
Minister of Defense
Minister of Works
Minister of Environment
Minister of Communication
Attorney General
Minister of Power
INEC chairman
DG of Sports
COAS
SGF
EFCC chairman
FIRS boss
NSA

All of the other posts are irrelevant to me. I don't care if it is a Northerner or Southerner, as long we choose the best candidate based on merit.

NaLaugh:
I live, work and own a business in the U.S. As far as i know, there is no legislation which expressly dictates "courtesy" interactions between employee and customer. Employee protection laws exist, but do not apply in this case. Customer protection laws exist, but have nothing to do with courtesy - just the right to get/demand the product/service you have paid/agreed upon.

Of course, harrasment laws would limit certain actions, and litigation is the order of the day here, so people have to behave or be sued.

That said, quality customer service is the biggest focus of most businesses because as i mentioned earlier, the free market takes care of itself.
Nigeria still has a long road ahead before customer service becomes a priority, but consumers have a major role to play in demanding the quality service they deserve.

It's simple, if you visit Iya Basira on your lunch break, and she treats you like shite, don't return. Soon enough she'll be replaced by someone who can retain customers by being a courteous human being.

LeOstrich:
Look at this fool.

The CBN does not generate wealth for the Nation but manages what the country generates.

Since over 90% of forex, which by the way is used to shore the naira, is derived from oil sales and given the fact that oil prices are low and our main market (US) has boycotted our oil, it is thus no brainier to expect our forex reserves will drop.

And coupled with the fact we virtually import everything then it is expected that the naira will be in serious pressure.


But I don't expect you to understand since fools like you are so beclouded with tribal sentiments and igbophobia to see beyond the tribe of the current CBN governor.

Why not ask yourself what you lot have done to increase our export base and reduce our dependence on imports.

If you even had any sense you will know that Buhari's emergence as President was on the behest of western govts which by and large are controlled by private corporations .

The economist author never provided an alternative to shoring up the naira but rather hinged his argument against the ban of non essential commodities like Rice, Sardines and toothpicks. The author goes on to mock us as not capable of feeding our selves.

I want you to read on how the then US president, Bill Clinton ruined the Haitian economy by forcing US rice which where banned in Japan and China unto the Haitian market and the devastating impact it caused that nation.

fx45:
Fool! You remember when this same El-Rufai told Nigerians that he hasnt been able to find a job for his daughter more than one year after graduation. If he had such a company, why couldnt he employ her in his phantom construction company. You people take Nigerians for fools.... Maybe that's what they are. Thank God I'm not a Nigerian!

dustydee:

As long as they were legally acquired then no problem. How did the paper arrive at the value? All he is required to do is to declare his assets and not value the assets for example the cost of a two bedroom house in Asokoro varies and the job of the CCB is to confirm that he indeed owns the said property.

LadyBoss1:
Hey peeps
Lolz ok so yes i went on a lunch date thing today with a guy i was introduce to by a mutual friend, we've seen each other before but there was no spark so i didnt really entertain it.

Anyway as you all know i'm single and have been for a while now... We decided to meet a place close to me so i can get back to work on time .

Ok we ordered food , had light convo just general stuff

Now the issue
Ok oh this guy orders wine i had a little bit but im not really a wine drinker anyway , and then the guy kept saying
"Why dont you drink some "?
"Have some more wine are you shy"
I told him no like its bloody lunch time who gets wasted at lunch
And he said to me he thought i was a classy chic, but he thought WRONG!

After he said that i felt insulted just killed the mood , but didnt say anything just told him i have to go and would call him later.


Please lol how is that unclassy? this is why i dont bother going on yeye date so annoying .. Anyway thats the end of him (history) he can go find a wine drinker somewhere else or do u think i am over reacting? Dont get guys

Demoladoc:
You have been protesting peacefully for years and nothing is being done. Unless the people take matters into their hands this is the kind of things you will continue to see.

How can you drive on this road and not want to stone the governor?

MY GOD!!!!!

Demoladoc:
That is why South Africa is far ahead of Nigeria. This kind of things will never happen in SA. The people would have rioted and stoned the Governors car or burnt down the local government office for not fixing the roads.

NIGERIANS ARE IDIOTS AND FOOLS!!!!!! How can you allow this?


You are right. Instead of protesting, many would be busy praising the incompetent leaders. You will get some people claiming that Fashola was the best governor. We get the leadership we deserve.

UNBELIEVABLE!!!!!!

steffans:
We easily label whites Racists..
But we are worst racists to ourselfs here in 9ja..
anything someone does.. it must be attached with sentiments/region or religion.
SAD!!!!


What is actually holding us together as a Nation

Duletion:
Why in the blue hell would buhari do that, is he the anti-Christ? I'm not ibo but that's an outright plot to infest the southeast and south south with his foot soldiers called boko haram.

huangcheng:
If Nigeria wasn't a banana republic where heroes are sacrificed on the alter of politics, Ihejirika would be commended not condemned.