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Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by Cutehector(m): 9:26am On Mar 20, 2021
Lovely
Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by tensazangetsu20(m): 9:31am On Mar 20, 2021
Jaqenhghar:

BS. Dont expect the best then. As you dey you expect one Ariana Grande lookalike to walk up to you and start asking you out.
Fact is you are most likely to have a Gaboure Sidibe walk up to you.

Oya go ahead. Call me SIMP
Until you get arrested for sexual harassment and sent to prison. Continue.
Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by investorMK(m): 9:31am On Mar 20, 2021
TonyeBarcanista:
Personally, I don't appreciate it. I like doing the wooing myself irrespective of the outcome.

If you woo me as a girl, I'll respectfully turn you down. If I ever had attraction towards you before, it becomes lost.

....
Just like me...

if u woo me I can only accept because of sex that's if am sexual attracted to d girl in particular

I don't really like girls that toast guys because most of them are not that pretty and smart
Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by Biyonce(f): 9:32am On Mar 20, 2021
To each his own, whatever
Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by franchasng: 9:33am On Mar 20, 2021
Back in secondary school it's girls that woo guys most times, but after they tear eyes and realize that pussy is a money making shop, they rather die than woo a guy they fancy.



They start wooing guys again when they have passed the age of 35 and still single. Life of females sha

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Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by Nobody: 9:35am On Mar 20, 2021
Each to their own
Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by Majesty33(m): 9:36am On Mar 20, 2021
Well, I dislike it when a lady woe me, although several ladies have done that, but I turned them down and we became good friends.
Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by lecturer50(m): 9:36am On Mar 20, 2021
JaneYave:
Why will I? I haven't seen any man that will make me develop such guts.

The same way men don't see you good and beautiful enough to marry you.

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Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by kriss27(m): 9:36am On Mar 20, 2021
Mamarockzie:
After work today, I and few friends decided to do TGIF at the shrine(Fela Shrine), nothing really spectacular about it but we just needed somewhere/ something different from our movies, clubbing and the modern settings.

While we were having our different talks, a very pretty lady walked up to us and asked to see a colleague of mine(a guy). They went afar and when he got back, we asked to know what transpired. He actually didn't want to open up but we're all Gees (Lols).

So he told us the Lady wooed him(like seriously) and with all sincerity, he already liked her for that. I remembered walking up to a guy back then in school to tell him he was cute. But in all sincerity I don't think I have that boldness anymore.

Another (a guy) said he consider it more, preferable and he wished it was immensely more common. And my gee concluded that if the lady is serious about it, he would date her and respect her more.

Honestly, I admired the lady's courage and I think you should go for whatever makes you happy after all, .most guys ends up been turned down, so as a lady also be prepared to handle rejection too.
Please does fela shrine looks now? Is still bubbling? Can have your contact?
Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by biggy26: 9:36am On Mar 20, 2021
Favouredhero:
I have actually experienced this, several times and I definitely have soft spot for such ladies. I have never outrightly turned down a lady that walked up to me and expressed her interest in me, whereas I always respect them.
Men are not heartless.grin
Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by fotadmowmend(m): 9:37am On Mar 20, 2021
There is nothing bad in it at all...
The only problem is that ladies do find it embarrassing to get no as a response
Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by Pharaoh4rin(m): 9:39am On Mar 20, 2021
brainmax2000:
Pls are you a lesbian?homosexual?bisexual?

the same men you complain of is who you will still marry, and your father still falls into this category

I see your trying to front a counter perspective like misogyny but honestly its apalling,degrading and dishonorable to hear this from a woman. Its one thing to be a feminist & another to be whatever it is your trynna be..

To even top it all assuming your now a virgin, this totally discredits whatever your trynna stand for..bcus you have absolutely no taste in men and ur toxically bashing them.
am sure evn those so called redpilled guys have sex once in a while

She's uncivilized and her local content is high.

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Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by redcliff: 9:40am On Mar 20, 2021
chiommy123:
I can't try such. I no need anybody insult in future

But you fit turn down a guy wey come meet you, how does that make you feel?
Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by sun123: 9:40am On Mar 20, 2021
Spending123:
If you're not ready for heartbreak, if you're not ready to block and unblock at least three times a day, if you're not ready to cry at least four times a day, please avoid relationship.....A wise is enough for a word, oh sorry, enough is a wise for the word.


mad people everywhere���
Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 9:42am On Mar 20, 2021
addexx:


Don't you think a girl who woos you against all odds truly likes you? It depends on how you guys are viewing this thing. Some girls are just go getters. They know what they want and go after it.

Just like I earlier said, such bold approach is commendable but will be respectfully turned down. I spot the woman I desire and woo her, not the other way round. This however may work for some others but NEVER me.

They find a beautiful relationship or they move while you're still there calculating how cheap they seem. It doesn't reduce them rather it exposes your flawed reasoning.
This one is their business my brother not mine
Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by OBALOLA55(m): 9:42am On Mar 20, 2021
chiommy123:
I can't try such. I no need anybody insult in future
THATS HOW AUNTY CHIOMA CLOCKED 40 WITHOUT HUSBAND wink
Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by Celense(m): 9:43am On Mar 20, 2021
kingsceedon:
My people make una see another Buhari wey surface for Lagos today, na Taxi driver him be, people gather dey snap am picture
how true is this information?
Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by TemmyDayo50(m): 9:44am On Mar 20, 2021
Spending123:
If you're not ready for heartbreak, if you're not ready to block and unblock at least three times a day, if you're not ready to cry at least four times a day, please avoid relationship.....A wise is enough for a word, oh sorry, enough is a wise for the word.

You can't live and Nigeria and not get confused with words... Pele bro grin
Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by Mamarockzie(f): 9:44am On Mar 20, 2021
kriss27:
Please does fela shrine looks now? Is still bubbling? Can have your contact?

Still a fun place, with different caliber of weed smokers(Lols) and of course ladies buying and selling.
Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by Preciousallure(m): 9:45am On Mar 20, 2021
Not bad actually, but most gals aint expert. Outgoing gals are the only ones capable of that wink But when rejection comes, the guy is in trouble. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned angry angry angry

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Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by femi4: 9:47am On Mar 20, 2021
chiommy123:
I can't try such. I no need anybody insult in future
Naija girls mentality...you need to travel out more
Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by nnamdico82: 9:48am On Mar 20, 2021
Lori Iro, na low self esteem dey worry you, you must be bold to confront any lady or else Oyo na your Case
tensazangetsu20:
In this world now, if a guy makes the first move he's a simp o. grin

You can even get arrested for sexual harassment and misogyny sef.
Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by Lovexme(m): 9:49am On Mar 20, 2021
Mamarockzie:


Still a fun place, with different caliber of weed smokers(Lols) and of course ladies buying and selling.
My office is just around the shrine, but I've never brought myself to go chill in the place.

I only go buy food at Olaoluwa once once, and that's as far as I go around there.
Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by DSC7: 9:49am On Mar 20, 2021
Nothing new jareh.....

Me self have many application letters on my table to approve.....

Girls wey i don toast never reach plenty...
Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by femi4: 9:52am On Mar 20, 2021
TonyeBarcanista:

Just like I earlier said, such bold approach is commendable but will be respectfully turned down. I spot the woman I desire and woo her, not the other way round. This however may work for some others but NEVER me.

This one is their business my brother not mine
What If the one you desire come to you first before you make your move.

Being stereotype will only make you lose good people when it comes to relationship
Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by drlateef: 9:53am On Mar 20, 2021
Spending123:
If you're not ready for heartbreak, if you're not ready to block and unblock at least three times a day, if you're not ready to cry at least four times a day, please avoid relationship.....A wise is enough for a word, oh sorry, enough is a wise for the word.



That game is not for faint hearted.
Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by DSC7: 9:53am On Mar 20, 2021
Preciousallure:
Not bad actually, but most gals aint expert. Outgoing gals are the only ones capable of that wink But when rejection comes, the guy is in trouble. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned angry angry angry


Wowwww...been there before,She told me point blank that i have no power to end the relationship because na she toast me so she have the final say...omo see gobe....


Na everyday i dey fast nd pray make she just see who go marry her make i rest....


I passed thru hell......

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Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by samwillyco1(m): 9:54am On Mar 20, 2021
Good
Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by samwillyco1(m): 9:59am On Mar 20, 2021
chiommy123:
I can't try such. I no need anybody insult in future

grin grin grin
Fear fear girl, go for what makes you happy
Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by Maliqcious: 9:59am On Mar 20, 2021
chiommy123:
I can't try such. I no need anybody insult in future
na your problem be that. pretty girls are winning take note
Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 10:00am On Mar 20, 2021
femi4:
What If the one you desire come to you first before you make your move.
If I see a girl that catches my desire, I don't hesitate nor beat about the bush. I go straight to the point. But if peradventure she asks me first, I immediately lose interest and turn down the request.

Being stereotype will only make you lose good people when it comes to relationship
This isn't my problem bro

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Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by PrimadonnaO(f): 10:01am On Mar 20, 2021
I won't do it.
I can tell you you look good... that's not wooing... that's paying you a compliment.

I can clearly tell you the things that I admire about you... that's not wooing either... it's a frank expression.

But to be the one expressing romantic interest, and wanting to start a relationship, nahh nahh.

I still continue to believe it is in a man's nature to go for what he wants. So if I've been there, and you didn't come for me, then you don't want me. So why should I try to make you want me? If you want me but you're too afraid to approach me, oga stay there.

The thing about a woman not making the first move is not about him turning you down. It's that even when he's receptive, high chance he's only being polite. Y'all will probably end up as mere f*ck buddies or he'll never be fully committed in that relationship. So what's the point? Except you're really up for a friends with benefit kinda relationship.

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