It's not a must for someone to remember your birthday.even you self can forget (likely when you are face with overwhelmed duty).you can accuse her of any other thing.
I don't knw y some guys ll just allow girls to be riding dem like horses oga pay her back in her own coin if she thinks she is too big for u treat her like a piece of trash too.
MISSCONGENIALITY: You dickheads with this your NIGERIAN GIRLS mentality. Is that you dates all Nigerian girl or you are just dumb to know that all Nigerian girls can't be like your passed girls. When you attract the same kind of girls, try and reexamine yourself maybe you are the problem.
keep consoling your gender with the lame "all girls ain't the same"
meanwhile, please if you wanna quote me next time,try to be sensible and tangible with your comment
londonbanks: It's not just the fact that she forgot, it's that she's not invested in what we have. I've taken her out on a couple of dates where the majority of the time she was on her phone and not being receptive to my feelings even though I asked her politely to put it away.
Whenever she wants something from me she uses words like "baby" but soons as I send her money it's crickets from then on. Anytime I text her during the day to see how her day is she doesnt reply back and even when she does its "good" or "okay", quick short answers and doesnt reciprocate by asking about mines.
The birthday was the last straw because I had texted her few days ago and she completely ignored me until the day after apologising but only because hers is coming up in a few weeks and probably doesnt want to burn that bridge. She'll forget my birthday but will post on her stories constantly about other people wishing them theirs. It's clear at this point that she's been using me for money and doesn't care about me. Its always the ones you least expect.
Anyways I appreciate anyone who took the time to read this, your input will be greatly appreciated.
Sex can never be a compensation for being used.on a normal he can get all the sex he wants but not love and trust.na people like you naira Marley take sing awon girls lor ma sett tia up,a won boys lor ma fuc e up.the girls will everly use sex to sett you up and the boys will finish the deal, pervert
Do you even know the meaning of the word "Pervert" you dunce?
Wisdom. Though I do not consider it only a Nigerian Girl Problem. You will not understand the level of wisdom in your statement. Or Perhaps you do.
IF ONLY OUR YOUNG MEN SPENT THIER TIME CHASING THEIR BUSINESS, CAREERS, VOCATION/TRADE, PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT, etc. Transmutate all this sexual energy into another worthwhile venture. IF ONLY THEY REALIZE THE FOLLY IN THIS OPPOSITE SEXGIRLFRIEND/LOVER THING. DO NOT BE TOO ATTACHED TO ANY HUMAN BEING. Especially a woman who adds no value to aspects of your life like Business, Career, Vocation, Skill Acquisition, Self Development, and LIFES PURPOSE.
TO ME ANY RELATIONSHIP THAT IS NOT LEADING TO MARRIAGE IS FOR SEXUAL PURPOSES. The so called WE ARE DATING. What the hell is DATING? Please you are simply enjoying each others sexuality. So, simply Enjoy it. Why spend time, effort, heartbreak, money, energy etc on such a useless relationship? Have the sex and quickly go back to focusing on yourself. Go back to chasing your life's purpose. Or you avoid it and fully focus.
PLEASE TO ANY LISTENING YOUNG GUN OUT THERE: Be not deceived:
1. Put yourself first. Yourself first and no one else. 2. Then focus on your dependents. Yes. Old/Aged Parents Relatives that cant work anymore. 3. Then focus on Young kids (relatives/kids of relatives) too young to cater for themselves. 4. Then think of the less priviledged in the society, etc.
IT IS AFTER ALL THESE ARE TAKEN CARE OF THAT YOU CAN ADD A WOMAN TO THE LIST of life's troubles.
And when you add a woman, be no deceived that she loves you for who you are. She loves you because of one selfish reason or another that suits her taste in a man. Just as you also see some selfish reasons that suit your taste in a woman. In the end, WE ARE USING EACH OTHER. SO BE WISE.
Wisdom. Though I do not consider it only a Nigerian Girl Problem. You will not understand the level of wisdom in your statement. Or Perhaps you do.
IF ONLY OUR YOUNG MEN SPENT THIER TIME CHASING THEIR BUSINESS, CAREERS, VOCATION/TRADE, PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT, etc. Transmutate all this sexual energy into another worthwhile venture. IF ONLY THEY REALIZE THE FOLLY IN THIS OPPOSITE SEXGIRLFRIEND/LOVER THING. DO NOT BE TOO ATTACHED TO ANY HUMAN BEING. Especially a woman who adds no value to aspects of your life like Business, Career, Vocation, Skill Acquisition, Self Development, and LIFES PURPOSE.
TO ME ANY RELATIONSHIP THAT IS NOT LEADING TO MARRIAGE IS FOR SEXUAL PURPOSES. The so called WE ARE DATING. What the hell is DATING? Please you are simply enjoying each others sexuality. So, simply Enjoy it. Why spend time, effort, heartbreak, money, energy etc on such a useless relationship? Have the sex and quickly go back to focusing on yourself. Go back to chasing your life's purpose. Or you avoid it and fully focus.
PLEASE TO ANY LISTENING YOUNG GUN OUT THERE: Be not deceived:
1. Put yourself first. Yourself first and no one else. 2. Then focus on your dependents. Yes. Old/Aged Parents Relatives that cant work anymore. 3. Then focus on Young kids (relatives/kids of relatives) too young to cater for themselves. 4. Then think of the less priviledged in the society, etc.
IT IS AFTER ALL THESE ARE TAKEN CARE OF THAT YOU CAN ADD A WOMAN TO THE LIST of life's troubles.
And when you add a woman, be no deceived that she loves you for who you are. She loves you because of one selfish reason or another that suits her taste in a man. Just as you also see some selfish reasons that suit your taste in a woman. In the end, WE ARE USING EACH OTHER. SO BE WISE.
londonbanks: It's not just the fact that she forgot, it's that she's not invested in what we have. I've taken her out on a couple of dates where the majority of the time she was on her phone and not being receptive to my feelings even though I asked her politely to put it away.
Whenever she wants something from me she uses words like "baby" but soons as I send her money it's crickets from then on. Anytime I text her during the day to see how her day is she doesnt reply back and even when she does its "good" or "okay", quick short answers and doesnt reciprocate by asking about mines.
The birthday was the last straw because I had texted her few days ago and she completely ignored me until the day after apologising but only because hers is coming up in a few weeks and probably doesnt want to burn that bridge. She'll forget my birthday but will post on her stories constantly about other people wishing them theirs. It's clear at this point that she's been using me for money and doesn't care about me. Its always the ones you least expect.
Anyways I appreciate anyone who took the time to read this, your input will be greatly appreciated.
stupid useless simp. have u spent on ur mama or papa? fooolish boys of nowadays. smart girl..let her ruin u, u will have sense by force
Kriss216: The time, money and energy you invested in a Nigerian girl would be best if you channel them in a poultry business!
There's nothing significant in dating a Nigerian girl. Allow sanity to reign in your life, stay away from Nigerian girls!
Who en go Marry Las Las? Japanese girl? Unku, if you don't know how to dish out advice, read and waka pass. Nigerian girls this, Nigerian girls that...
londonbanks: It's not just the fact that she forgot, it's that she's not invested in what we have. I've taken her out on a couple of dates where the majority of the time she was on her phone and not being receptive to my feelings even though I asked her politely to put it away.
Whenever she wants something from me she uses words like "baby" but soons as I send her money it's crickets from then on. Anytime I text her during the day to see how her day is she doesnt reply back and even when she does its "good" or "okay", quick short answers and doesnt reciprocate by asking about mines.
The birthday was the last straw because I had texted her few days ago and she completely ignored me until the day after apologising but only because hers is coming up in a few weeks and probably doesnt want to burn that bridge. She'll forget my birthday but will post on her stories constantly about other people wishing them theirs. It's clear at this point that she's been using me for money and doesn't care about me. Its always the ones you least expect.
Anyways I appreciate anyone who took the time to read this, your input will be greatly appreciated.
She doesn't want you, don't waste your time. Dump her asap!
Kriss216: The time, money and energy you invested in a Nigerian girl would be best if you channel them in a poultry business!
There's nothing significant in dating a Nigerian girl. Allow sanity to reign in your life, stay away from Nigerian girls!
Bro, you're harsh o. Why would you choose a poultry business over Nigerian girls? Just hope they didn't read this because they'll come after you in flocks.
It's very simple to know know a lady that cares about you. .. If I were you I will only call her whenever I want dick and pay her off. That's the best option bro.Stop burdring yourself unnecessarily.
You probably don't want to leave her because you have spent a lot of money and resources on her. There's something called Sunk Cost in economics, it's the money spent on a project that fails to deliver results. Good business owners usually end such projects without minding how much has been spent. No matter the amount of money you have spent on her, dump her immediately. In life we win some and lose some.
londonbanks: It's not just the fact that she forgot, it's that she's not invested in what we have. I've taken her out on a couple of dates where the majority of the time she was on her phone and not being receptive to my feelings even though I asked her politely to put it away.
Whenever she wants something from me she uses words like "baby" but soons as I send her money it's crickets from then on. Anytime I text her during the day to see how her day is she doesnt reply back and even when she does its "good" or "okay", quick short answers and doesnt reciprocate by asking about mines.
The birthday was the last straw because I had texted her few days ago and she completely ignored me until the day after apologising but only because hers is coming up in a few weeks and probably doesnt want to burn that bridge. She'll forget my birthday but will post on her stories constantly about other people wishing them theirs. It's clear at this point that she's been using me for money and doesn't care about me. Its always the ones you least expect.
Anyways I appreciate anyone who took the time to read this, your input will be greatly appreciated.
YOU ARE VISIBLY SEEING THE RED LIGHT OF DANGER NOW,YOU BETTER LEAVE HER,HER HEART IS NOT AFTER YOU,SHE JUST WANT TO USE TO SUPPORT HER MINISTRY. PLEASE BREAK THE NONSENSE BETWEEN U TOO,BECAUSE THAT IS NOT A RELATIONSHIP. A GOOD RELATIONSHIP IS SYMBIOTIC NOT PARASITIC IN NATURE.
She was NEVER your girlfriend in the first place. She's either in it for the money and gifts, or she dey use you pass time. Just move on. Don't be bitter about girls too! There's lot of good one's out there.
my guy, just leave that girl if you know that your sanity and work is worth something to u. in school we were taught about parasite and saprofite, and from all indication she is a parasite
londonbanks: It's not just the fact that she forgot, it's that she's not invested in what we have. I've taken her out on a couple of dates where the majority of the time she was on her phone and not being receptive to my feelings even though I asked her politely to put it away.
Whenever she wants something from me she uses words like "baby" but soons as I send her money it's crickets from then on. Anytime I text her during the day to see how her day is she doesnt reply back and even when she does its "good" or "okay", quick short answers and doesnt reciprocate by asking about mines.
The birthday was the last straw because I had texted her few days ago and she completely ignored me until the day after apologising but only because hers is coming up in a few weeks and probably doesnt want to burn that bridge. She'll forget my birthday but will post on her stories constantly about other people wishing them theirs. It's clear at this point that she's been using me for money and doesn't care about me. Its always the ones you least expect.
Anyways I appreciate anyone who took the time to read this, your input will be greatly appreciated.
omaclarry: Bros let me help you: Call her, tell her how bad u felt, accept her apology, continue showing her love, plan her upcoming birthday, be the major sponsor, tell her you hav everytin sorted out for the d-day, help her invite friends even make enquiries for lounge to use.. make her happy.
on that day call ur guys, fyn better noisy bar hangout with them put ur phone for silence and allow the universe fight for you.
Most times you dont need to show ur pain and retaliate immidiately cos she will already be prepared for ur worse, but follow my advice nd watch her pain
You see this post here, I will support it with 3 crates of Heineken I promise you. If in PH, DM me address of your hang out with your guys abeg.
londonbanks: Anytime I text her during the day to see how her day is she doesnt reply back and even when she does its "good" or "okay", quick short answers and doesnt reciprocate by asking about mines.
I moved on from one such last week. She uses same answers as yours, ignores my calls and never acknowledges missing them. Always posting only on her snapchat status and when I asked her to define my stand with her she blanked me outrightly. So I moved on and I ask you to do the same for your peace of mind.
jubundi: Bruh , Dont just move on ohhh. My advice is this. To really get back at her, go and find one of her close friends and date her. That thing dey pain ladies I swear
Best, her Sister or Cousin (absent love)... and spend lavishly on her, no matter the cost. I swear, that's what I'd do.
All these girls have at least 7 serious boyfriends at any point in time. Don't ever take them serious. Don't just quit the relationship, its too early. Her birthday is coming, she will do anything humanly possible to please you so you can spend so much on that day. At this stage, she will give you any styles of sex 2 to 3 days to her birthday, just collect it and wait till that day of the birthday before telling her you forgot or maybe you don't have money. The relationship will end naturally. All these girls are used to dumping men and recycling men/guys, breaking up with her just laidat will pain you more because of how involved you have been with her
