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Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by londonbanks(m): 8:54pm On Mar 28
Trey195:
Bros no vex o her name start with C?

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Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by Alcatel17: 8:56pm On Mar 28
londonbanks:
It's not just the fact that she forgot, it's that she's not invested in what we have. I've taken her out on a couple of dates where the majority of the time she was on her phone and not being receptive to my feelings even though I asked her politely to put it away.

Whenever she wants something from me she uses words like "baby" but soons as I send her money it's crickets from then on. Anytime I text her during the day to see how her day is she doesnt reply back and even when she does its "good" or "okay", quick short answers and doesnt reciprocate by asking about mines.

The birthday was the last straw because I had texted her few days ago and she completely ignored me until the day after apologising but only because hers is coming up in a few weeks and probably doesnt want to burn that bridge. She'll forget my birthday but will post on her stories constantly about other people wishing them theirs. It's clear at this point that she's been using me for money and doesn't care about me. Its always the ones you least expect.

Anyways I appreciate anyone who took the time to read this, your input will be greatly appreciated.

If u b my bro...I go quickly use u do blood money...u be Tueh!
Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by Akuruoulo(m): 8:57pm On Mar 28
DaddyRochie1642:
Oga so you don't know you were dating yourself all along grin grin grin
WHY U COME GIVE AM THIS KIND INJURY ?
Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by Tilykay(m): 8:58pm On Mar 28
londonbanks:
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Honestly, so true. I really wanted to give her the benefit of the doubt but nah im way past all the red flags that i shouldn't have ignored in the first place. It was a waste of my time and chances are she's probably gonna have a good laugh with her friends about how she swindled money out of me. Thanks for the advice, i really appreciate you taking the time. cool

Don't worry, everyone gets to learn at some point.. it's normal..
Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by cyndylove64(f): 8:59pm On Mar 28
londonbanks:



Nah but close. I'm starting to think that what people in the comment section have been saying is true that she does in fact have another guy that she's seeing and where he falls short financially i step in. Sex with her isnt even worth it. She's no different than a street call girl.
Lol. am a lady,I will advise you like I will to my brothers,block her ,bar her line from calling you,take time to heal, don't jump into any relationship for now.heal your heart.have fun etc then move on .just forget about her.she is not worth your time or attention

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Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by oluspicy: 9:00pm On Mar 28
'Dating a Nigerian lady is like taking care of an orphan.'

I've said this before.

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Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by londonbanks(m): 9:10pm On Mar 28
LucemFerre:
Sometimes real and serious love makes someone forget some things. Don’t judge her by that. Just hold on. One day you’d get to understand that she loves the hell out of you.
So, just keep up the flow going, eh.


Oh please, If someone truly loved you, they wouldnt do to you the things that would hurt them if they were done by you. Hypergamy women are incapable of love, they only love you for what you can do for them and how you make them feel. They are Nonreciprocal to anything that doesnt give them financial gain. Love isn't hard to spot. I'm judging her based on everything that i've seen from her
Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by LucemFerre: 9:17pm On Mar 28
londonbanks:



Oh please, If someone truly loved you, they wouldnt do to you the things that would hurt them if they were done by you. Hypergamy women are incapable of love, they only love you for what you can do for them and how you make them feel. They are Nonreciprocal to anything that doesnt give them financial gain. Love isn't hard to spot. I'm judging her based on everything that i've seen from her

Ohhhh... look who came around.
I was being sarcastic. And you obviously know what you’re supposed to do.
You’re welcome

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Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by londonbanks(m): 9:20pm On Mar 28
cyndylove64:

Lol. am a lady,I will advise you like I will to my brothers,block her ,bar her line from calling you,take time to heal, don't jump into any relationship for now.heal your heart.have fun etc then move on .just forget about her.she is not worth your time or attention


Thank you big sis, I'm glad you see it too. I've already have, It will be a long time before i jump into anything serious. She was never worth my time. The sad thing and i know im gonna get a lot of hate comment, people calling me a simp and mumu but one time i asked her to make a list of all the things that i could do to make her feel loved, special, appreciated because she was always moody, sad, unenthused whenever we hung out and she just plainly ignored it. I knew then and there that i had made a huge mistake and it was only a matter of time.

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Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by cyndylove64(f): 9:24pm On Mar 28
londonbanks:



Thank you big sis, I'm glad you see it too. I've already have, It will be a long time before i jump into anything serious. She was never worth my time. The sad thing and i know im gonna get a lot of hate comment, people calling me a simp and mumu but one time i asked her to make a list of all the things that i could do to make her feel loved, special, appreciated because she was always moody, sad, unenthused whenever we hung out and she just plainly ignored it. I knew then and there that i had made a huge mistake and it was only a matter of time.
People calling you simp,mumu etc are among the categories of simp,mumu etc.ignore them.
I must say u really tried,if am a guy I would have dumped her long ago.anyway be happy and u are my big bro oooo just take ur time don't go and do love love again at least for now
Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by londonbanks(m): 9:29pm On Mar 28
cyndylove64:

People calling you simp,mumu etc are among the categories of simp,mumu etc.ignore them.
I must say u really tried,if am a guy I would have dumped her long ago.anyway be happy and u are my big bro oooo just take ur time don't go and do love love again at least for now


I really appreciate the advice. Trust me, i learned my lesson, the hard way! I wish you nothing but the best, thanks for taking the time to comment big sis cool
Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by Kira622(f): 9:30pm On Mar 28
Why are u men always like dz...what were u expecting from someone that is not independent, that is not a working class.

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Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by cyndylove64(f): 9:31pm On Mar 28
londonbanks:



I really appreciate the advice. Trust me, i learned my lesson, the hard way! I wish you nothing but the best, thanks for taking the time to comment big sis cool
Smiles,wishing you the best and success.
Goodnight
Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by londonbanks(m): 9:45pm On Mar 28
Kira622:
Why are u men always like dz...what were u expecting from someone that is not independent, that is not a working class.

It was a poor lapse in judgment. Only dealing with financially independent women from now.
Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by Kira622(f): 9:46pm On Mar 28
Bro Dere are beta gals out Dere. M nt saying M gud. Bt at least i hv gud frnds, seen gud ones. beta 1s dey
Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by donem: 10:31pm On Mar 28
AsapTeddy:
Which kind simp be this....
grin lol even all those construction workers are bewildered.
Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by Lostchild(m): 10:40pm On Mar 28
Why you dey complain?
Na we go tell you what to do?
Na we go tell you say your girl na fake?

Since you no know what to do, then continue
Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by Nobody: 10:40pm On Mar 28
TriCee:
wanted to like your post a thousand times...

I sight you bro..

We move!
Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by obainojazz(m): 10:44pm On Mar 28
londonbanks:
It's not just the fact that she forgot, it's that she's not invested in what we have. I've taken her out on a couple of dates where the majority of the time she was on her phone and not being receptive to my feelings even though I asked her politely to put it away.

Whenever she wants something from me she uses words like "baby" but soons as I send her money it's crickets from then on. Anytime I text her during the day to see how her day is she doesnt reply back and even when she does its "good" or "okay", quick short answers and doesnt reciprocate by asking about mines.

The birthday was the last straw because I had texted her few days ago and she completely ignored me until the day after apologising but only because hers is coming up in a few weeks and probably doesnt want to burn that bridge. She'll forget my birthday but will post on her stories constantly about other people wishing them theirs. It's clear at this point that she's been using me for money and doesn't care about me. Its always the ones you least expect.

Anyways I appreciate anyone who took the time to read this, your input will be greatly appreciated.
shocked
Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by Mrlouis: 11:14pm On Mar 28
Kriss216:
The time, money and energy you invested in a Nigerian girl would be best if you channel them in a poultry business!


There's nothing significant in dating a Nigerian girl. Allow sanity to reign in your life, stay away from Nigerian girls!

SOME OF THOSE LYING IN THE GRAVE WILL WISH THEY HAD KNOWN THIS WHILST ON EARTH
Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by izzyybothe17: 11:24pm On Mar 28
londonbanks:
It's not just the fact that she forgot, it's that she's not invested in what we have. I've taken her out on a couple of dates where the majority of the time she was on her phone and not being receptive to my feelings even though I asked her politely to put it away.

Whenever she wants something from me she uses words like "baby" but soons as I send her money it's crickets from then on. Anytime I text her during the day to see how her day is she doesnt reply back and even when she does its "good" or "okay", quick short answers and doesnt reciprocate by asking about mines.

The birthday was the last straw because I had texted her few days ago and she completely ignored me until the day after apologising but only because hers is coming up in a few weeks and probably doesnt want to burn that bridge. She'll forget my birthday but will post on her stories constantly about other people wishing them theirs. It's clear at this point that she's been using me for money and doesn't care about me. Its always the ones you least expect.

Anyways I appreciate anyone who took the time to read this, your input will be greatly appreciated.

It’s a really nice thing you’re able to figure things out yourself instead of waiting on others to tell you . You’re in a parasitic relationship and she’s just using you for her moneytary backup . Do this , on her birthday , don’t post her too and give out no gift. Come back and tell me Wetin she go do

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Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by Coolgent: 11:38pm On Mar 28
londonbanks:
It's not just the fact that she forgot, it's that she's not invested in what we have. I've taken her out on a couple of dates where the majority of the time she was on her phone and not being receptive to my feelings even though I asked her politely to put it away.

Whenever she wants something from me she uses words like "baby" but soons as I send her money it's crickets from then on. Anytime I text her during the day to see how her day is she doesnt reply back and even when she does its "good" or "okay", quick short answers and doesnt reciprocate by asking about mines.

The birthday was the last straw because I had texted her few days ago and she completely ignored me until the day after apologising but only because hers is coming up in a few weeks and probably doesnt want to burn that bridge. She'll forget my birthday but will post on her stories constantly about other people wishing them theirs. It's clear at this point that she's been using me for money and doesn't care about me. Its always the ones you least expect.

Anyways I appreciate anyone who took the time to read this, your input will be greatly appreciated.
Dump that gold digger before she suck you dry.
I rather spend the rest of my life as a single man than to date that parasite, i knew her type
Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by 9tailskid(m): 11:49pm On Mar 28
Duplexxx:
Many girls do that carry on the relationship with her but try to look for more serious one

You be real SIMP. Like SIMP wey nor get rival
Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by Emperor88(m): 11:55pm On Mar 28
Send her money before she even gets to ask...shebi you no get sense ni
Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by friendl: 12:23am On Mar 29
Bet she is from mbaise
Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by mabebe1(f): 12:38am On Mar 29
Kriss216:
The time, money and energy you invested in a Nigerian girl would be best if you channel them in a poultry business!


There's nothing significant in dating a Nigerian girl. Allow sanity to reign in your life, stay away from Nigerian girls!
Apostle must hear of it..... grin grin grin grin
Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by efavour: 1:18am On Mar 29
Godada:
angry

Seriously, you should channel this energy into a business to avoid stories that touch. How can you be invested in a girl that's not invested in you? That's a surefire way to heartbreak.

Better ditch that girl and find something to do with your spare time.
gbamest
Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by Duplexxx: 6:05am On Mar 29
Make you kak there and shot ur smelling mount
Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by Heathrow44: 6:43am On Mar 29
aroundtheearth:
If you had read his post and not only the title, you would know it's not just about her forgetting his birthday. Learn to read before commenting.




That hsbydiamond, did he fail school?? Even look at the DM that popular post he has turned upside down! The problem we av isnt in illiterates but educated illiterates those ones are more deadly
Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by Heathrow44: 6:49am On Mar 29
offset67:
you are stupid




Did u fail school?
Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by Heathrow44: 6:51am On Mar 29
londonbanks:



I dey tell you hahaha. She knew because how do you forget the day before but suddenly remember the next day ? She's always posting pictures of her friends on her stories wishing them a happy birthday. I'm just gonna block her. She showed her true colors. I hope no one takes offence to this but dating a Nigerian girl is not worth the mental strife. I've dated enough of them at this point to come to that harsh conclusion. Even the church going ones are no exception.



Nigerian girls play a lot of emotional games and hide and seeks with their victims, they care more about the attention u give them more than actually reciprocating their feelings
Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by franciskaine(m): 7:40am On Mar 29
londonbanks:



Trust me, I wont tempted to go back, you can believe that! I would look more patheric that i already do. She wouldn't respect me as a man if went back to her. This was the straw that broke the camels back. I even asked her a while back if there was something that i did to make her always be unenthused whenever we were together and she just shook her head nonchalantly . I have been putting up with her shit for months that i couldnt overlook this one. She invested nothing, zero, nada, into what he had! I've never once ever gotten a call or a text from her just to check up on me. I was never a priority just an ATM that she could run to. The only pain i would feel is if i did what she did to me to a nice girl that genuinely cared about me, that would hurt me worst. Again thank you bro, i needed this heart to heart. cool I appreciate everything you laid down

Bros, you dey try óò.

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