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londonbanks:
You don't understand, this girl had been ignoring my calls, texts and treating me like i was disposable leading up to my birthday. Its not so much about the day its an indication of where i stand with her. If i had done even half of the things that she had done to me we wouldnt even be still together. So what, I'm supposed to just let her walk all over me, treat me like shit, manipulate me for financial gain because thats what a real man is supposed to take from a women ? My parents would never do what she did to me so dont drag them into it. Relationship involves mutual and reciprocal actions, its 50/50, its give and take. Life is too short, i'm not gonna waste my time and money chasing someone who dont feel the same way about me emotionally just so i can feel like a man by society's standards. You wouldnt put up with it for as long as i have.

So much pain in this post. If this is how you engage in meaningless rambling with your supposed girlfriends, then you have bigger problems in your hand and only you alone know what that is.

I think your problem is beyond unreturned affection from a woman. You have much bigger problems which you need to address before you venture into relationships.

The way you type alone is enough to freak a lady out.

My advice to you is stop chasing arm candies and if you must do, then pay for the service and enjoy the ride. Life is simple. But people like you complicate it because they want to bend the basic rules of life.

Let me give you a hint. If you are not fine, stop chasing fine girls except you want them to keep using you for your resources.

Kelgabriel5:
abi na pure water

Yes nahh,before him go drink am finish. Him head go full with sense well well.

londonbanks:
It's not just the fact that she forgot, it's that she's not invested in what we have. I've taken her out on a couple of dates where the majority of the time she was on her phone and not being receptive to my feelings even though I asked her politely to put it away.

Whenever she wants something from me she uses words like "baby" but soons as I send her money it's crickets from then on. Anytime I text her during the day to see how her day is she doesnt reply back and even when she does its "good" or "okay", quick short answers and doesnt reciprocate by asking about mines.

The birthday was the last straw because I had texted her few days ago and she completely ignored me until the day after apologising but only because hers is coming up in a few weeks and probably doesnt want to burn that bridge. She'll forget my birthday but will post on her stories constantly about other people wishing them theirs. It's clear at this point that she's been using me for money and doesn't care about me. Its always the ones you least expect.

Anyways I appreciate anyone who took the time to read this, your input will be greatly appreciated.

I read it and fully understood everything, please let go of her, do this and have rest of mind, thank GOD you saw the signs from the onset.....

Only collect money, but can't ordinarily remember your birthday, my brother o wrong gan!

Even banks that only collect just about 0.1% of our income never forget our birthday.

You showed her you have the money.

gameboy727:
OP, is her name Ella/Ehi by any chance?


Same thing a certain friend of mine is going through with his babe. Me just advice am make him blank the babe.

Nah but close. I'm starting to think that what people in the comment section have been saying is true that she does in fact have another guy that she's seeing and where he falls short financially i step in. Sex with her isnt even worth it. She's no different than a street call girl.

I've been there

start d change from not supporting her bday and see her reaction cos it's obvious u are just a vomiting Money making machine for her....... sorry bros but d earlier d better for u to take up d pieces of ur assembled love together and try elsewhere.... Goodluck

londonbanks:
It's not just the fact that she forgot, it's that she's not invested in what we have. I've taken her out on a couple of dates where the majority of the time she was on her phone and not being receptive to my feelings even though I asked her politely to put it away.

Whenever she wants something from me she uses words like "baby" but soons as I send her money it's crickets from then on. Anytime I text her during the day to see how her day is she doesnt reply back and even when she does its "good" or "okay", quick short answers and doesnt reciprocate by asking about mines.

The birthday was the last straw because I had texted her few days ago and she completely ignored me until the day after apologising but only because hers is coming up in a few weeks and probably doesnt want to burn that bridge. She'll forget my birthday but will post on her stories constantly about other people wishing them theirs. It's clear at this point that she's been using me for money and doesn't care about me. Its always the ones you least expect.

Anyways I appreciate anyone who took the time to read this, your input will be greatly appreciated.

you are stupid

McLizbae:
Only collect money, but can't ordinarily remember your birthday, my brother o wrong gan!

Even banks that only collect just about 0.1% of our income never forget our birthday.

I dey tell you hahaha. She knew because how do you forget the day before but suddenly remember the next day ? She's always posting pictures of her friends on her stories wishing them a happy birthday. I'm just gonna block her. She showed her true colors. I hope no one takes offence to this but dating a Nigerian girl is not worth the mental strife. I've dated enough of them at this point to come to that harsh conclusion. Even the church going ones are no exception.

londonbanks:
I dey tell you hahaha. She knew because how do you forget the day before but suddenly remember the next day ? She's always posting pictures of her friends on her stories wishing them a happy birthday. I'm just gonna block her. She showed her true colors. I hope no one takes offence to this but dating a Nigerian girl is not worth the mental strife. I've dated enough of them at this point to come to that harsh conclusion. Even the church going ones are no exception.

Oga do her send-off na, on her bday...

;-)

londonbanks:
It's not just the fact that she forgot, it's that she's not invested in what we have. I've taken her out on a couple of dates where the majority of the time she was on her phone and not being receptive to my feelings even though I asked her politely to put it away.

Whenever she wants something from me she uses words like "baby" but soons as I send her money it's crickets from then on. Anytime I text her during the day to see how her day is she doesnt reply back and even when she does its "good" or "okay", quick short answers and doesnt reciprocate by asking about mines.

The birthday was the last straw because I had texted her few days ago and she completely ignored me until the day after apologising but only because hers is coming up in a few weeks and probably doesnt want to burn that bridge. She'll forget my birthday but will post on her stories constantly about other people wishing them theirs. It's clear at this point that she's been using me for money and doesn't care about me. Its always the ones you least expect.

Anyways I appreciate anyone who took the time to read this, your input will be greatly appreciated.

londonbanks:
Nah but close. I'm starting to think that what people in the comment section have been saying is true that she does in fact have another guy that she's seeing and where he falls short financially i step in. Sex with her isnt even worth it. She's no different than a street call girl.

Close eh? She dey Jos?


Obviously she has another guy and she's just using you to cater for her needs. God help us all.

Skullano:
Yes nahh,before him go drink am finish. Him head go full with sense well well.

lol

Curvinus:
So much pain in this post. If this is how you engage in meaningless rambling with your supposed girlfriends, then you have bigger problems in your hand and only you alone know what that is.

I think your problem is beyond unreturned affection from a woman. You have much bigger problems which you need to address before you venture into relationships.

The way you type alone is enough to freak a lady out.

My advice to you is stop chasing arm candies and if you must do, then pay for the service and enjoy the ride. Life is simple. But people like you complicate it because they want to bend the basic rules of life.

Let me give you a hint. If you are not fine, stop chasing fine girls except you want them to keep using you for your resources.

So let me get this straight, a relationship between a girl and guy should be contractual so as long as the girl is benefiting but the second a guy puts his foot down he has underlining problems ? I'm only telling you what she did, im not making any of it up. I forgave her countless times but instead she saw it as carte blanche to walk all over me. If anything she's the one with manipulative tendencies and borderline personality disorder. One instance we were in a grocery store and i was at the counter paying for food and she just snapped the money i was counting right out of my hands and started counting it because she thought i wasn't counting it fast enough. Thats just one of the many psychotic behaviors that she displayed while we were going out. It blows my mind how you can defend someone like this. If i did that to her wouldnt i be the asshole in this situation. The majority of people here are calling me a simp, mumu because i fell for her but now because im choosing to exit the relationship i need psychiatric help ?

londonbanks:
It's not just the fact that she forgot, it's that she's not invested in what we have. I've taken her out on a couple of dates where the majority of the time she was on her phone and not being receptive to my feelings even though I asked her politely to put it away.

Whenever she wants something from me she uses words like "baby" but soons as I send her money it's crickets from then on. Anytime I text her during the day to see how her day is she doesnt reply back and even when she does its "good" or "okay", quick short answers and doesnt reciprocate by asking about mines.

The birthday was the last straw because I had texted her few days ago and she completely ignored me until the day after apologising but only because hers is coming up in a few weeks and probably doesnt want to burn that bridge. She'll forget my birthday but will post on her stories constantly about other people wishing them theirs. It's clear at this point that she's been using me for money and doesn't care about me. Its always the ones you least expect.

Anyways I appreciate anyone who took the time to read this, your input will be greatly appreciated.

It's obvious she is a schemer, you may end up becoming her meal ticket

londonbanks:
So let me get this straight, a relationship between a girl and guy should be contractual so as long as the girl is benefiting but the second a guy puts his foot down he has underlining problems ? I'm only telling you what she did, im not making any of it up. I forgave her countless times but instead she saw it as carte blanche to walk all over me. If anything she's the one with manipulative tendencies and borderline personality disorder. One instance we were in a grocery store and i was at the counter paying for food and she just snapped the money i was counting right out of my hands and started counting it because she thought i wasn't counting it fast enough. Thats just one of the many psychotic behaviors that she displayed while we were going out. It blows my mind how you can defend someone like this. If i did that to her wouldnt i be the asshole in this situation. The majority of people here are calling me a simp, mumu because i fell for her but now because im choosing to exit the relationship i need psychiatric help ?

Forget about that girl for your own sanity and peace of mind.

You’re wasting your time on a Nigerian female. She’s shown you WHO she is, why would you stay around and be mistreated and disrespected?
Either you have low self esteem or you just enjoy being a doormat.
I say leave her alone and work on yourself, focus on your goals. You’ll thank yourself for doing that.

Grow up son

londonbanks:
It's not just the fact that she forgot, it's that she's not invested in what we have. I've taken her out on a couple of dates where the majority of the time she was on her phone and not being receptive to my feelings even though I asked her politely to put it away.

Whenever she wants something from me she uses words like "baby" but soons as I send her money it's crickets from then on. Anytime I text her during the day to see how her day is she doesnt reply back and even when she does its "good" or "okay", quick short answers and doesnt reciprocate by asking about mines.

The birthday was the last straw because I had texted her few days ago and she completely ignored me until the day after apologising but only because hers is coming up in a few weeks and probably doesnt want to burn that bridge. She'll forget my birthday but will post on her stories constantly about other people wishing them theirs. It's clear at this point that she's been using me for money and doesn't care about me. Its always the ones you least expect.

Anyways I appreciate anyone who took the time to read this, your input will be greatly appreciated.

Happy2020:
You’re wasting your time on a Nigerian female. She’s shown you WHO she is, why would you stay around and be mistreated and disrespected?
Either you have low self esteem or you just enjoy being a doormat.
I say leave her alone and work on yourself, focus on your goals. You’ll thank yourself for doing that.

Not at all, i wanted to give her the benefit of the doubt because of what she's been through in life but now i realize that only reinforces her behavior. I've moved on, it was a huge mistake. You live and learn.

Unfortunately so.

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga so you don't know you were dating yourself all along

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
I hope you've already banged her, if not then go back and complete the task before you sign out!

Exactly my assertions. Perfect way to sign out without any regrets.

omaclarry:
Bros let me help you: Call her, tell her how bad u felt, accept her apology, continue showing her love, plan her upcoming birthday, be the major sponsor, tell her you hav everytin sorted out for the d-day, help her invite friends even make enquiries for lounge to use.. make her happy.

on that day call ur guys, fyn better noisy bar hangout with them put ur phone for silence and allow the universe fight for you.

Most times you dont need to show ur pain and retaliate immidiately cos she will already be prepared for ur worse, but follow my advice nd watch her pain

OP, if you really need advice, this is it right here. Go extra miles even

gameboy727:
Close eh? She dey Jos?


Obviously she has another guy and she's just using you to cater for her needs. God help us all.

No Its not Jos but yea she was using me. I guess he had the personality and i had the finances. Nigerian women are cunning as Bleep

chijokz:
Exactly my assertions. Perfect way to sign out without any regrets.

Please, thinking with my dick is what got me in this predicament in the first place. He can have her stank pussy

lucky999:
stop expecting love from a woman who is not your mother. stop seeing girls as something so special.
A beautiful woman is another man play thing..
just call her and ask her why she forget your birthday, expect nonsense excuse from her, smile. if you need s3x invite her, if she ask for money if you no get tell her you no get. if she stop giving you s3x leave her and move!

we move!

wanted to like your post a thousand times...

Kriss216:
The time, money and energy you invested in a Nigerian girl would be best if you channel them in a poultry business!


There's nothing significant in dating a Nigerian girl. Allow sanity to reign in your life, stay away from Nigerian girls!

...bro women are use less... juss gimmme her nomba & let me help u talk to her sir

Na wa o! Naija babes una see una lives...

MrCork1:
...bro women are use less... juss gimmme her nomba & let me help u talk to her sir

So you can show her this, you wish haha. She's not worth your time man

londonbanks:
So you can show her this haha. She's not worth your time man, she has the mental acuity of a child.

Bros no vex o her name start with C?

Sometimes real and serious love makes someone forget some things. Don’t judge her by that. Just hold on. One day you’d get to understand that she loves the hell out of you.
So, just keep up the flow going, eh.