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Re: This Dream My Fiancee's Mother Had Is Bothering My Fiancee And I. by format9798(m): 11:29pm On Mar 30, 2021
Though, the dream could mean a lot. But it shouldn't be tied down to just the negative aspect. Do u know it could also mean reducing her burden, either partially or completely depending on the kind of haircut she had in the dream.
U and ur fiance should concentrate on fasting and praying for clearer revelation from God. Then, wait for God to reveal his intention for both of u.

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Re: This Dream My Fiancee's Mother Had Is Bothering My Fiancee And I. by DoubleFingers: 11:47pm On Mar 30, 2021
Salt06:

That's good. if your fiancé holds same conviction then you can fast and pray in agreement and undo the plans of the enemy

Yea. Thanks.

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Re: This Dream My Fiancee's Mother Had Is Bothering My Fiancee And I. by hollah123: 11:55pm On Mar 30, 2021
Mustiboy:


Bullshīt.

Honestly, where did you people come from? undecided
guy that is just the reality,in most tribes in Nigeria when a woman is widowed the first thing they do is to cut her hair. Ask your self,if not something bad what will make someone preparing for marriage cut her hair?many of u always want to form woke n seriously it's annoying.

If u are truly of age n not all these small boys,u will understand that cutting a woman's hair is something bad,it's either being widowed or madness....b4 u argue ask elders around

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Re: This Dream My Fiancee's Mother Had Is Bothering My Fiancee And I. by WoundedLamb: 12:07am On Mar 31, 2021
Is your fiancée's father dead? If so, was her mother's hair cut after her husband's death? Have they had any other major ceremony since the man's funeral? Has the woman given out any of her daughters since then? I'm asking cause the human brain stays active by playing the tricks on us when we aren't actively thinking. It's possible the thought of a marriage ceremony brought back the memories of her husband's funeral. It's also possible the thought of giving out her child made her recall the last time she gave up a loved one.

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Re: This Dream My Fiancee's Mother Had Is Bothering My Fiancee And I. by ChefDominiq(m): 1:29am On Mar 31, 2021
I read your content.
God can not necessarily come down to speak to you that's why He gave His Holy Spirit to guide us on every life decisions

Proverbs 18:22. It says, “He who finds a wife finds a good thing, And obtains favor from the Lord”
You found a good wife, and you are convinced she's Why can't you do the needful. To be sincere not all man of God saw there wife in dreams before getting to marriage...that aside.

Proverbs 31:10-11 reminds us: “An excellent wife who can find? She is far more precious than jewels. The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain. She does him good, and not harm, all the days of her life.”

There are many dreams from the gate of hell, it's all depends on what you believe. I was told many things by prophet and parents before I married my wife, Today we are happy together than the approved weddings and loved one in our families.

It all fall back to the foundation and understanding you both have as couple before the journey.

Sometimes, dreams tell of a future event. When you have a dream that plays out in real life:
Coincidence
Bad memory
An unconscious linking of known information
But sometimes, dreams can motivate you to act a certain way, thus changing the future.

Often, it happens because of:
Stress, conflict, and fear
Trauma
Emotional problems
Medication or drug use
Illness

Most of it all, IT ALL ABOUT WHAT YOU BELIEVE

When a man finds a wife he obtains favor from the Lord. She is his blessing. She is the love of his life.

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Re: This Dream My Fiancee's Mother Had Is Bothering My Fiancee And I. by thatsleepboy1: 1:39am On Mar 31, 2021
DoubleFingers:
N/B:
And help send it to front page for more response.
Thanks.

OP contact Nutella, righteousness2 for prayers they'll help you.
Re: This Dream My Fiancee's Mother Had Is Bothering My Fiancee And I. by SweetCunt97(f): 2:06am On Mar 31, 2021
DoubleFingers:


Hmm!

Sure, we won't live for ever. But nobody wants to die young.

Thanks for your input, though.
pastor Adeboye says a conscious dream is stronger than unconscious dream. Whenever u have a dream, simply consciously go back and counter it.
Re: This Dream My Fiancee's Mother Had Is Bothering My Fiancee And I. by dochenaj: 4:56am On Mar 31, 2021
DoubleFingers:
N/B: This could be a bit lengthy, but please, read to the end.

I have been making preparations since late last year to settle down with my fiancee. I intend going to collect the marriage list this coming April to kick start the marriage processes.

My girl and I are very compatible in almost all ramifications you can think of. Honestly, she's the perfect definition of a supportive wife, well mannered and loyal to the core, just to say a few.

We now lived in different states, but we've known ourselves and have been seeing/dating each other in the same city between December 2016 and September 2019. I even made her to redeploy during her NYSC in 2018, to be close to me because of my intentions for her.

As usual, we've been praying and trying to seek the face of God to get divine revelation.

So on the 9th of this month (March), my fiancee and her mum visited a priest for normal pre marriage talk/counseling. The priest of course asked my girl some questions about me, which she answered sincerely. The priest then advised my girl and her mum to put everything in God's hand and be praying about it.

About a week later (around 16th or so), my fiancée's mother had a dream where my fiancée's hair was cut in the dream. In trying to understand the dream, my fiancee then called her cousin who is a Reverend, and the cousin told her that the dream is a bad dream, that it means "someone is trying to take her glory."

That dream compelled my fiancee and her mum to have two days midnight prayer (19th and 20th precisely) to cancel any bad dream.

Reaching today, my girl and her mum visited the priest again, to let him know about the dream. The priest then asked my girl about her understand of the dream. My girl said it means "widowhood." But my girl's mum was having a different understanding.

In summary, the priest then asked my girl if she had gotten a divine revelation, as to whether we're meant to be husband and wife. My girl said no has not.
Personally, I've fasted and prayed severally to God to show me reasons not to marry my fiancee, but I'm yet to see reasons not to.

Honestly, apart from divine validation which I'm yet to get, I'm yet to see reasons why I shouldn't marry my fiancee. And my girl have been worried since this afternoon, thereby getting me worried also.

Now my questions are:

1.) What does it mean for someone's hair to be cut in a dream?

2.) Is it 100% compulsory that one must get a divine validation to have a peaceful and happy marriage?

Please, your honest contributions will be appreciated.

Mods, please help a brother if this piece isn't in the right section.

And help send it to front page for more response.

Thanks.
She saw her hair get cut in the dream. She should just go to the salon and get a haircut.

Instead of waiting for her dream to be fulfilled figuratively, she should take charge and fulfill it literally.

Dreams 99% of the time don't really mean anything beyond a movie in your head. But however when you believe in the dream, you give it life and then it can take hold of your mind and rob you of your peace.

They have prayed against the dream and it's negative connotations. They should believe God heard that prayer and answered it.

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Re: This Dream My Fiancee's Mother Had Is Bothering My Fiancee And I. by ubola: 5:56am On Mar 31, 2021
OP, the devil fights against good fortune. The Biblical Sampson fought and killed the lion that confronted him, and it was on his way to marry according to the book of judges. That means every marriage has a lion to be dealt with. What interests me most is that you and your woman can pray. I had similar experiences 10 years ago when preparing to marry. Two weeks to the date, I dreamt where I was about to be joined to a short and dark lady whereas my fiancee was fair and average.At the point of exchanging vows with her I excused the Pastor in the dream, that I should goan explain to my fiancee that am marrying another person in her stead. The dream pastor granted my request and gave me 10 minutes to do that. As I left the place in the dream I saw soldiers moving in to burn down the place, I cried and woke up. I refused to tell anyone cause my step -sister was the one living with me at the time,and on several occasions had playfully told my fiancee why she's considering marrying someone like me who doesn't have money instead of her ex who's rich and still pestering her. B4 this time, someone I never knew told me inside a bus that there's a monitoring spirit in my house that will never allow me to marry except I send her packing physically. Now after the dream, that morning my fiancee came and started fighting me, kinda fighting we used bottle and threw knife at each other over a little misunderstanding we had the previous night before she left. In the process she broke some of the drinks that was meant to be taken to her family, neighbors had to call in the police. At the station, she told me to call off the marriage that she wasn't interested anymore. The Bible says the canal mind doesn't understand things of the spirit, I moved from the station, packed the remaining items into my car and proceeded to their village without informing her. I told her mother everything that happened. thank God today we've been together for a decade and very successful. Op kill that lion.

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Re: This Dream My Fiancee's Mother Had Is Bothering My Fiancee And I. by ubola: 6:22am On Mar 31, 2021
Continuation : After the marriage, I and my wife had a serious accident that almost claimed our lives but not for God. The first quarter of our marriage was characterized by nightmares until we decided to send her packing. The day she moved to dad's place we started having sweet dreams and plans for our future. This my half sister jokingly said that the accident was supposed to take our lives that there was a mistake some where. She began telling people that we won't last as husband and wife that am under a spell. Five years after, she got married and didn't bother to inform us because the fiance was rich. Two years after the marriage, her husband started calling me to come and settle them that he caught her with a man in their matrimonial bed. As am typing the marriage is broken with 2 children shes feigning for alone.

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Re: This Dream My Fiancee's Mother Had Is Bothering My Fiancee And I. by DoubleFingers: 6:39am On Mar 31, 2021
WoundedLamb:
Is your fiancée's father dead? If so, was her mother's hair cut after her husband's death? Have they had any other major ceremony since the man's funeral? Has the woman given out any of her daughters since then? I'm asking cause the human brain stays active by playing the tricks on us when we aren't actively thinking. It's possible the thought of a marriage ceremony brought back the memories of her husband's funeral. It's also possible the thought of giving out her child made her recall the last time she gave up a loved one.

@WoundedLamb,
Yes, my fiancée's dad is late for over a decade, but I don't know if her mum cut her hair immediately after the father's death. But presently, her mum is on low cut (maybe, because, she loves low cut).

No major ceremony, because my fiancee is the first child and her other sisters are still young.
Re: This Dream My Fiancee's Mother Had Is Bothering My Fiancee And I. by DoubleFingers: 6:44am On Mar 31, 2021
format9798:
Though, the dream could mean a lot. But it shouldn't be tied down to just the negative aspect. Do u know it could also mean reducing her burden, either partially or completely depending on the kind of haircut she had in the dream.
U and ur fiance should concentrate on fasting and praying for clearer revelation from God. Then, wait for God to reveal his intention for both of u.
Hmm!

Thanks for your input.
Re: This Dream My Fiancee's Mother Had Is Bothering My Fiancee And I. by DoubleFingers: 6:50am On Mar 31, 2021
ChefDominiq:
I read your content.
God can not necessarily come down to speak to you that's why He gave His Holy Spirit to guide us on every life decisions

Proverbs 18:22. It says, “He who finds a wife finds a good thing, And obtains favor from the Lord”
You found a good wife, and you are convinced she's Why can't you do the needful. To be sincere not all man of God saw there wife in dreams before getting to marriage...that aside.

Proverbs 31:10-11 reminds us: “An excellent wife who can find? She is far more precious than jewels. The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain. She does him good, and not harm, all the days of her life.”

There are many dreams from the gate of hell, it's all depends on what you believe. I was told many things by prophet and parents before I married my wife, Today we are happy together than the approved weddings and loved one in our families.

It all fall back to the foundation and understanding you both have as couple before the journey.

Sometimes, dreams tell of a future event. When you have a dream that plays out in real life:
Coincidence
Bad memory
An unconscious linking of known information
But sometimes, dreams can motivate you to act a certain way, thus changing the future.

Often, it happens because of:
Stress, conflict, and fear
Trauma
Emotional problems
Medication or drug use
Illness

Most of it all, IT ALL ABOUT WHAT YOU BELIEVE

When a man finds a wife he obtains favor from the Lord. She is his blessing. She is the love of his life.

Insightful.

Thank you, ChefDominiq.
Re: This Dream My Fiancee's Mother Had Is Bothering My Fiancee And I. by DoubleFingers: 6:52am On Mar 31, 2021
thatsleepboy1:


OP contact Nutella, righteousness2 for prayers they'll help you.

@thatsleepboy, who are these people you mentioned?
Re: This Dream My Fiancee's Mother Had Is Bothering My Fiancee And I. by DoubleFingers: 6:59am On Mar 31, 2021
ubola:
OP, the devil fights against good fortune. The Biblical Sampson fought and killed the lion that confronted him, and it was on his way to marry according to the book of judges. That means every marriage has a lion to be dealt with. What interests me most is that you and your woman can pray. I had similar experiences 10 years ago when preparing to marry. Two weeks to the date, I dreamt where I was about to be joined to a short and dark lady whereas my fiancee was fair and average.At the point of exchanging vows with her I excused the Pastor in the dream, that I should goan explain to my fiancee that am marrying another person in her stead. The dream pastor granted my request and gave me 10 minutes to do that. As I left the place in the dream I saw soldiers moving in to burn down the place, I cried and woke up. I refused to tell anyone cause my step -sister was the one living with me at the time,and on several occasions had playfully told my fiancee why she's considering marrying someone like me who doesn't have money instead of her ex who's rich and still pestering her. B4 this time, someone I never knew told me inside a bus that there's a monitoring spirit in my house that will never allow me to marry except I send her packing physically. Now after the dream, that morning my fiancee came and started fighting me, kinda fighting we used bottle and threw knife at each other over a little misunderstanding we had the previous night before she left. In the process she broke some of the drinks that was meant to be taken to her family, neighbors had to call in the police. At the station, she told me to call off the marriage that she wasn't interested anymore. The Bible says the canal mind doesn't understand things of the spirit, I moved from the station, packed the remaining items into my car and proceeded to their village without informing her. I told her mother everything that happened. thank God today we've been together for a decade and very successful. Op kill that lion.

Wow!

Thank God for you.

I think you have some points here.

Thanks.
Re: This Dream My Fiancee's Mother Had Is Bothering My Fiancee And I. by DoubleFingers: 7:09am On Mar 31, 2021
ubola:
Continuation : After the marriage, I and my wife had a serious accident that almost claimed our lives but not for God. The first quarter of our marriage was characterized by nightmares until we decided to send her packing. The day she moved to dad's place we started having sweet dreams and plans for our future. This my half sister jokingly said that the accident was supposed to take our lives that there was a mistake some where. She began telling people that we won't last as husband and wife that am under a spell. Five years after, she got married and didn't bother to inform us because the fiance was rich. Two years after the marriage, her husband started calling me to come and settle them that he caught her with a man in their matrimonial bed. As am typing the marriage is broken with 2 children shes feigning for alone.

Na wao!

Honestly, I feel dreams could have a lot of connotations.

I guite agree with your initial post where you said there's a lion we need to kill. And truly, there's somebody that has been disturbing my fiancee and her mother, making life/things unbearable for them.
That person has been trying to come between my fiancée's family and any good thing that is coming their way.

I appreciate your input.

Thanks.
Re: This Dream My Fiancee's Mother Had Is Bothering My Fiancee And I. by abeniagbon(m): 7:17am On Mar 31, 2021
DoubleFingers:
N/B: This could be a bit lengthy, but please, read to the end.

I have been making preparations since late last year to settle down with my fiancee. I intend going to collect the marriage list this coming April to kick start the marriage processes.

My girl and I are very compatible in almost all ramifications you can think of. Honestly, she's the perfect definition of a supportive wife, well mannered and loyal to the core, just to say a few.

We now lived in different states, but we've known ourselves and have been seeing/dating each other in the same city between December 2016 and September 2019. I even made her to redeploy during her NYSC in 2018, to be close to me because of my intentions for her.

As usual, we've been praying and trying to seek the face of God to get divine revelation.

So on the 9th of this month (March), my fiancee and her mum visited a priest for normal pre marriage talk/counseling. The priest of course asked my girl some questions about me, which she answered sincerely. The priest then advised my girl and her mum to put everything in God's hand and be praying about it.

About a week later (around 16th or so), my fiancée's mother had a dream where my fiancée's hair was cut in the dream. In trying to understand the dream, my fiancee then called her cousin who is a Reverend, and the cousin told her that the dream is a bad dream, that it means "someone is trying to take her glory."

That dream compelled my fiancee and her mum to have two days midnight prayer (19th and 20th precisely) to cancel any bad dream.

Reaching today, my girl and her mum visited the priest again, to let him know about the dream. The priest then asked my girl about her understand of the dream. My girl said it means "widowhood." But my girl's mum was having a different understanding.

In summary, the priest then asked my girl if she had gotten a divine revelation, as to whether we're meant to be husband and wife. My girl said no has not.
Personally, I've fasted and prayed severally to God to show me reasons not to marry my fiancee, but I'm yet to see reasons not to.

Honestly, apart from divine validation which I'm yet to get, I'm yet to see reasons why I shouldn't marry my fiancee. And my girl have been worried since this afternoon, thereby getting me worried also.

Now my questions are:

1.) What does it mean for someone's hair to be cut in a dream?

2.) Is it 100% compulsory that one must get a divine validation to have a peaceful and happy marriage?

Please, your honest contributions will be appreciated.

Mods, please help a brother if this piece isn't in the right section.

And help send it to front page for more response.

Thanks.

All this one doesn't follow in marriage... marrying a too religious family self dey confusing. but I don't see any reason why you shouldn't marry the lady. It all depends on the wife to be family cos her mother might change attitude to you due to the cause of this dream and why her mother was too concerned about the affair of her daughter by dreaming for her...

what are her passed dream be like...? you should ask your girl.

all you need is peace of mind. and a good job that can pay your bills.
Re: This Dream My Fiancee's Mother Had Is Bothering My Fiancee And I. by Refinedbeing(m): 7:19am On Mar 31, 2021
Over religious OP. grin I pity una. Life is for living, dey dere dey deceive unaself with illusions. grin

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Re: This Dream My Fiancee's Mother Had Is Bothering My Fiancee And I. by DoubleFingers: 7:24am On Mar 31, 2021
Refinedbeing:
Over religious OP. grin I pity una. Life is for living, dey dere dey deceive unaself with illusions. grin

Lol

@Redifinedbeing, I'm never over religious. Personally, whenever I have a nonsense dream, I just wake up and counter such dream.

Just that I became a bit worried when my woman was crying over the phone yesterday when talking with her.

My brother, trying to understand or unravel that dream doesn't make me over religious na! Or does it?
Re: This Dream My Fiancee's Mother Had Is Bothering My Fiancee And I. by DoubleFingers: 7:33am On Mar 31, 2021
abeniagbon:


All this one doesn't follow in marriage... marrying a too religious family self dey confusing. but I don't see any reason why you shouldn't marry the lady. It all depends on the wife to be family cos her mother might change attitude to you due to the cause of this dream and why her mother was too concerned about the affair of her daughter by dreaming for her...

what are her passed dream be like...? you should ask your girl.

all you need is peace of mind. and a good job that can pay your bills.

@abeniagbon,

There's a difference between a prayerful family and a religious family.

My girl's mum is only a prayerful woman and not the too religious type like you said.

To the best of my knowledge, I don't think she (my fiancee) has had any negative dream about the two of us. I'll still ask her, though.

If it is peace of mind, trust me, she gives me peace and rest of mind.
More so, I have a good job that gives me plenty of time for myself.

My woman is done with schooling, though no suiting job yet, but she has a skill that is fetching her small small money for her upkeep.

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Re: This Dream My Fiancee's Mother Had Is Bothering My Fiancee And I. by Refinedbeing(m): 8:34am On Mar 31, 2021
DoubleFingers:


Lol

@Redifinedbeing, I'm never over religious. Personally, whenever I have a nonsense dream, I just wake up and counter such dream.

Just that I became a bit worried when my woman was crying over the phone yesterday when talking with her.

My brother, trying to understand or unravel that dream doesn't make me over religious na! Or does it?
Don't get things complicated. That's what religious and too much of it can easily do to you.
Re: This Dream My Fiancee's Mother Had Is Bothering My Fiancee And I. by femi4: 8:41am On Mar 31, 2021
DoubleFingers:
N/B: This could be a bit lengthy, but please, read to the end.

I have been making preparations since late last year to settle down with my fiancee. I intend going to collect the marriage list this coming April to kick start the marriage processes.

My girl and I are very compatible in almost all ramifications you can think of. Honestly, she's the perfect definition of a supportive wife, well mannered and loyal to the core, just to say a few.

We now lived in different states, but we've known ourselves and have been seeing/dating each other in the same city between December 2016 and September 2019. I even made her to redeploy during her NYSC in 2018, to be close to me because of my intentions for her.

As usual, we've been praying and trying to seek the face of God to get divine revelation.

So on the 9th of this month (March), my fiancee and her mum visited a priest for normal pre marriage talk/counseling. The priest of course asked my girl some questions about me, which she answered sincerely. The priest then advised my girl and her mum to put everything in God's hand and be praying about it.

About a week later (around 16th or so), my fiancée's mother had a dream where my fiancée's hair was cut in the dream. In trying to understand the dream, my fiancee then called her cousin who is a Reverend, and the cousin told her that the dream is a bad dream, that it means "someone is trying to take her glory."

That dream compelled my fiancee and her mum to have two days midnight prayer (19th and 20th precisely) to cancel any bad dream.

Reaching today, my girl and her mum visited the priest again, to let him know about the dream. The priest then asked my girl about her understand of the dream. My girl said it means "widowhood." But my girl's mum was having a different understanding.

In summary, the priest then asked my girl if she had gotten a divine revelation, as to whether we're meant to be husband and wife. My girl said no has not.
Personally, I've fasted and prayed severally to God to show me reasons not to marry my fiancee, but I'm yet to see reasons not to.

Honestly, apart from divine validation which I'm yet to get, I'm yet to see reasons why I shouldn't marry my fiancee. And my girl have been worried since this afternoon, thereby getting me worried also.

Now my questions are:

1.) What does it mean for someone's hair to be cut in a dream?

2.) Is it 100% compulsory that one must get a divine validation to have a peaceful and happy marriage?

Please, your honest contributions will be appreciated.

Mods, please help a brother if this piece isn't in the right section.

And help send it to front page for more response.

Thanks.
Nonsense!

OP, you are the first priest of your life.For every info from God by any priest, there should be confirmation from you too . Any revelation that's contrary to the word God is bullshit!

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Re: This Dream My Fiancee's Mother Had Is Bothering My Fiancee And I. by abeniagbon(m): 8:44am On Mar 31, 2021
DoubleFingers:


@abeniagbon,

There's a difference between a prayerful family and a religious family.

My girl's mum is only a prayerful woman and not the too religious type like you said.

To the best of my knowledge, I don't think she (my fiancee) has had any negative dream about the two of us. I'll still ask her, though.

If it is peace of mind, trust me, she gives me peace and rest of mind.
More so, I have a good job that gives me plenty of time for myself.

My woman is done with schooling, though no suiting job yet, but she has a skill that is fetching her small small money for her upkeep.

I guess your girl is in her 23 years of age... I have similar stuff before I skip marrying to yoruba tribe assuming she is in her 28 and 35 years of age her parent won't be saying this...lolz

this is usually a norm thing for age of that bracket cos they mostly depend on parent to lead them. when I want to get I met my wife in December and pay her bride price in February and we had a court wedding in April

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Re: This Dream My Fiancee's Mother Had Is Bothering My Fiancee And I. by DoubleFingers: 9:24am On Mar 31, 2021
femi4:
Nonsense!

OP, you are the first priest of your life.For every info from God by any priest, there should be confirmation from you too . Any revelation that's contrary to the word God is bullshit!

Hmm!

It's all good.

Thank you.
Re: This Dream My Fiancee's Mother Had Is Bothering My Fiancee And I. by DoubleFingers: 9:41am On Mar 31, 2021
abeniagbon:


I guess your girl is in her 23 years of age... I have similar stuff before I skip marrying to yoruba tribe assuming she is in her 28 and 35 years of age her parent won't be saying this...lolz

this is usually a norm thing for age of that bracket cos they mostly depend on parent to lead them. when I want to get I met my wife in December and pay her bride price in February and we had a court wedding in April

@bold,
My girl is 26 plus. She'll be 27 years in some couple of months.

My fiancee hardly depends on her parents for anything. You won't believe that it's even the mum that is giving my fiancee mind, encouraging her that if we (my fiancee and I) are both convinced, that all will surely go well.

It's just that natural love she has for her mum, nothing else. Maybe, because, her father is no more.
Re: This Dream My Fiancee's Mother Had Is Bothering My Fiancee And I. by juman(m): 10:50am On Mar 31, 2021
You are troubling your mind for nothing.
Anyway sha, the priest get money to feed his family from the customers like you.

I make all kinds of dreams.
Good, bad and ugly dreams.

When you wake up from bad dreams, make some little prayer to cast it away.
Life continues.

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Re: This Dream My Fiancee's Mother Had Is Bothering My Fiancee And I. by lordally(m): 11:12am On Mar 31, 2021
Yusufisraelj:
@DoubleFingers

There are three ways to know the will of God:

1. Peace of mind

2. Divine revelation (personally)

3. The place of the prophetic

But understand this every African family once had altars that were erected to the allegiance of spirits besides that of Christ, on accepting Christ it does not automatically drive them out bkos a covenant cannot be cast instead certain activities as prescribed in scriptures would have to be carried out. Most people don't settle this part of the equation.

Hence sometimes anything good that is coming into a family those spirits will fight it by bringing false dreams or revelation.

I'll advice you listen to Apostle Joshua Selman message on the mystery of deliverance part 1 to 4



To your second question the answer is NO a capital one, there are people whom God showed their spouses and ended up with a divorce, that's bkos while they've done well with their spiritual life, but never attended to their finances diligently, expressing love to each other in appropriate ways, establishing a place of understanding each other, learning the art of love making and great sex to satisfy each other and lasty how to manage the interference of third parties in the union.

THE WISE ONE HAS SPOKEN!!!

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Re: This Dream My Fiancee's Mother Had Is Bothering My Fiancee And I. by 1F30M4(f): 11:40am On Mar 31, 2021
I can't say I'm overly religious but I definitely believe in God; He is supreme

While I understand there may be cause for worry esp now your fiancèe is already freaking out.. My 2cents is this, I do not think your mother-in-law's dream has anything to do with your marriage plans with her daughter.. No evil shall befall you & yours, may God in His infinite goodness forbid it..

She(you as well) however should be very careful in all her(your) dealings henceforth if she(you) isn't(aren't) already.. We do not know all our enemies but they know us, they're lurking around everywhere we go, some even live among us & will stop at nothing to destroy our happiness, peace & lives in general.. Guard your love, peace & happiness jealously, arm yourselves with prayers, visit the Blessed Sacrament occasionally, pay attention to your gut feelings & always stand for the truth even when all odds are against you.

I wish you & yours all the best.. Happy Easter in advance!
Re: This Dream My Fiancee's Mother Had Is Bothering My Fiancee And I. by Foodqueen(f): 12:00pm On Mar 31, 2021
I really don't read much meanings to dreams.

Sometimes anxieties makes us dream alot.

Pray and go about your life.

God will perfect the rest.

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Re: This Dream My Fiancee's Mother Had Is Bothering My Fiancee And I. by Holuu(m): 12:15pm On Mar 31, 2021
DoubleFingers:
N/B: This could be a bit lengthy, but please, read to the end.

I have been making preparations since late last year to settle down with my fiancee. I intend going to collect the marriage list this coming April to kick start the marriage processes.

My girl and I are very compatible in almost all ramifications you can think of. Honestly, she's the perfect definition of a supportive wife, well mannered and loyal to the core, just to say a few.

We now lived in different states, but we've known ourselves and have been seeing/dating each other in the same city between December 2016 and September 2019. I even made her to redeploy during her NYSC in 2018, to be close to me because of my intentions for her.

As usual, we've been praying and trying to seek the face of God to get divine revelation.

So on the 9th of this month (March), my fiancee and her mum visited a priest for normal pre marriage talk/counseling. The priest of course asked my girl some questions about me, which she answered sincerely. The priest then advised my girl and her mum to put everything in God's hand and be praying about it.

About a week later (around 16th or so), my fiancée's mother had a dream where my fiancée's hair was cut in the dream. In trying to understand the dream, my fiancee then called her cousin who is a Reverend, and the cousin told her that the dream is a bad dream, that it means "someone is trying to take her glory."

That dream compelled my fiancee and her mum to have two days midnight prayer (19th and 20th precisely) to cancel any bad dream.

Reaching today, my girl and her mum visited the priest again, to let him know about the dream. The priest then asked my girl about her understand of the dream. My girl said it means "widowhood." But my girl's mum was having a different understanding.

In summary, the priest then asked my girl if she had gotten a divine revelation, as to whether we're meant to be husband and wife. My girl said no has not.
Personally, I've fasted and prayed severally to God to show me reasons not to marry my fiancee, but I'm yet to see reasons not to.

Honestly, apart from divine validation which I'm yet to get, I'm yet to see reasons why I shouldn't marry my fiancee. And my girl have been worried since this afternoon, thereby getting me worried also.

Now my questions are:

1.) What does it mean for someone's hair to be cut in a dream?

2.) Is it 100% compulsory that one must get a divine validation to have a peaceful and happy marriage?

Please, your honest contributions will be appreciated.

Mods, please help a brother if this piece isn't in the right section.

And help send it to front page for more response.

Thanks.
The meaning of the dream is just to make her run mad.
Re: This Dream My Fiancee's Mother Had Is Bothering My Fiancee And I. by DoubleFingers: 12:21pm On Mar 31, 2021
1F30M4:
I can't say I'm overly religious but I definitely believe in God; He is supreme

While I understand there may be cause for worry esp now your fiancèe is already freaking out.. My 2cents is this, I do not think your mother-in-law's dream has anything to do with your marriage plans with her daughter.. No evil shall befall you & yours, may God in His infinite goodness forbid it..

She(you as well) however should be very careful in all her(your) dealings henceforth if she(you) isn't(aren't) already.. We do not know all our enemies but they know us, they're lurking around everywhere we go, some even live among us & will stop at nothing to destroy our happiness, peace & lives in general.. Guard your love, peace & happiness jealously, arm yourselves with prayers, visit the Blessed Sacrament occasionally, pay attention to your gut feelings & always stand for the truth even when all odds are against you.

I wish you & yours all the best.. Happy Easter in advance!

@1F30M4,

Thank you very much.

I appreciate.

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Re: This Dream My Fiancee's Mother Had Is Bothering My Fiancee And I. by DoubleFingers: 12:22pm On Mar 31, 2021
Foodqueen:
I really don't read much meanings to dreams.

Sometimes anxieties makes us dream alot.

Pray and go about your life.

God will perfect the rest.

@Foodqueen,

Thank you.
I like your name.

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