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Re: I Transferred All My Salary To My Husband- Nigerian Lady by BarrElChapo(m): 1:41am On Apr 04, 2021
lanjum:
What's special about that. I can do more than that just that I don't have salary to transfer

Then STFU cos she has the salary and infact transferred. If only you'd share in another person's testimony maybe you'd taste and testify too. Selah
Re: I Transferred All My Salary To My Husband- Nigerian Lady by observanc1: 1:43am On Apr 04, 2021
EzeBitcoin:
Real woman. You're a rare breed.
Much Love Baby. Never stop doing good, your man will definitely surprise you.
do u believe that twitter story? Dont ever believe anything that comes out of twitter
Re: I Transferred All My Salary To My Husband- Nigerian Lady by nerd004: 1:44am On Apr 04, 2021
SanctifiedSista:
That's someone that sees marraige as a partnership. May GOD open d eyes of many married couples today. Some, it's from their background of poverty and mistrust so they can't do something like this.

My online store is now open. See d link in my signature

Are u sure u are not one of them? cos 99.99% of ladies both married & singled feel entitled to their partners money
Re: I Transferred All My Salary To My Husband- Nigerian Lady by urchman23: 1:45am On Apr 04, 2021
Na God fearing lady
Re: I Transferred All My Salary To My Husband- Nigerian Lady by LordErrk: 1:56am On Apr 04, 2021
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Re: I Transferred All My Salary To My Husband- Nigerian Lady by saajus: 2:00am On Apr 04, 2021
Real Queens support their husbands. Real Kings support their wives.

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Re: I Transferred All My Salary To My Husband- Nigerian Lady by Jimmy231: 2:07am On Apr 04, 2021
wumi2017:
Amazing and Rare,, that's how it should be.i mean our Kings are trying so hard...... grin grin ;Dthat's one of us association of good women of Nigeria ibadan Chapter grin grin....May God bless me beyond my expectations to be this type of woman when am married....... anyways get ur quality and affordable shoes from Wunmi's Collection
Come marry me
Re: I Transferred All My Salary To My Husband- Nigerian Lady by Happy2020: 2:13am On Apr 04, 2021
First of all, this shouldn’t be front page news. This is only news because it’s Nigeria , the land of fake marriages. Marriages where the woman is using the man for poverty a alleviation scheme 95% of the time. A land where women are selfish with their coins and see helping their husband, their partner as something to be broadcasted out to the entire country.
If you only knew and could see outside of your little box you live in that in other countries, relationships are actually real partnerships, there’s actually real love and friendship and commitment and loyalty in relationships and marriages.

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Re: I Transferred All My Salary To My Husband- Nigerian Lady by juman(m): 2:14am On Apr 04, 2021
What she described is planning together of their home to work well.
This suppose to be normal thing in all homes.
Nothing extraordinary about it.
Re: I Transferred All My Salary To My Husband- Nigerian Lady by constyo: 2:16am On Apr 04, 2021
I If you don't help your man who will??
Re: I Transferred All My Salary To My Husband- Nigerian Lady by juman(m): 2:16am On Apr 04, 2021
Many fake stories on social media.
Many attention seekers.
Re: I Transferred All My Salary To My Husband- Nigerian Lady by stayclearofme: 2:30am On Apr 04, 2021
You support you husband come dey announce am for the whole world. Rubbish!

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Re: I Transferred All My Salary To My Husband- Nigerian Lady by stayclearofme: 2:31am On Apr 04, 2021
KossyKiss97:
Thats something some of us have been doing long before now, its not news!

We dey support our husbands no be today.

Helping to pay my children's school or lesson fees is not an achievement, I have done it severally, and by God's grace,I will continue if I have the opportunity.
God bless you. Don't mind the woman.
Re: I Transferred All My Salary To My Husband- Nigerian Lady by KossyKiss97(f): 2:40am On Apr 04, 2021
stayclearofme:

God bless you. Don't mind the woman.

I tire for the post too grin
Re: I Transferred All My Salary To My Husband- Nigerian Lady by bewla(m): 3:14am On Apr 04, 2021
EzeBitcoin:
Real woman. You're a rare breed.
Much Love Baby. Never stop doing good, your man will definitely surprise you.
Amen

the surprise I pray not by abundance of is duty for you alone o
and taking new mistress o



Amen
Re: I Transferred All My Salary To My Husband- Nigerian Lady by Mrscarter(f): 3:37am On Apr 04, 2021
wwwihy:
#Copied


My salary came yesterday and immediately I received alert, I rushed to my husband and asked him how much he needs me to contribute after informing him that my salary has been paid. Oga thought I was joking and mentioned a figure thinking I was going to contest because it was

Almost all my salary, I just carried my phone and transferred it to him. It was doing him like film, I then went ahead to pay the salary of our children's lesson teacher so that he would stop thinking about it. That's when I realized that he was doing so much without complaining.

He sees it like his duty and even when the financial burden is too much, he struggles to pay without asking me. He was so surprised and happy, I know that my money is just a fraction of what he brings but he felt like I gave him millions. I then told him that I am putting in the effort to make more money so that I can still reduce his stress. He didn't marry a responsibility, he married an helper and he should be feeling more relaxed than when he was single. I have never felt entitled to anybody's pocket and I won't do that with my husband. Omo, oga went to the market without even telling me, stocked up the home. Cooked and served me o, this small support has gone a long way to settle silent quarrels that I didn't even know about. I will keep working harder and doing my best, men also need support, they are not superman.

https://mobile.twitter.com/jagzangel/status/1377989341801250816


N this is how marraige should be.
Making life as easy as possible for each other and in turn it brings less stress n less stress equals happier husband happier wife happier marraige smiley
Having a happy marraige n partner who loves you and beautiful healthy kids a comfortable home and food on the table is a perfect life in my eyes.
Re: I Transferred All My Salary To My Husband- Nigerian Lady by pacespot(m): 3:42am On Apr 04, 2021
So what is she trying to gain by sharing this on social media, marriage must be really stressful in Nigeria? You no do good, den go talk, you do good, den go bring am to social media

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Re: I Transferred All My Salary To My Husband- Nigerian Lady by CoolAmbience(m): 3:48am On Apr 04, 2021
Kriss216:

The number of good women in Nigeria is not up to 8. They're are not that much to form an association.

Please verify the association you belong before they scam you.



You welcome.


You are correct....na just 8 dem dey.

Na my wife make dem 8.

She dey try wella.

God, thank you for not 'gifting' me a demonic feminist for a wife....someone with incurable spirit of entitlement, and who is equally lazy and bereft of any ideas that could enhance a domestic economy. Someone who spends like a 'mumu' with no thinking faculty.

My life for don dey on perpetual 'spiral reverse' (whatever that means....). Lol.

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Re: I Transferred All My Salary To My Husband- Nigerian Lady by gbagyiza: 4:08am On Apr 04, 2021
EzeBitcoin:
Real woman. You're a rare breed.
Much Love Baby. Never stop doing good, your man will surprise you.

I applaud her sense of reasoning although it came late but you did the right thing. Honestly, I don't know when u started working but you should have started this earlier than now. If women will support the effort of their husbands in this manner, a lot of families quarrel n misunderstanding will varnish.
Re: I Transferred All My Salary To My Husband- Nigerian Lady by SanctifiedSista(f): 4:36am On Apr 04, 2021
nerd004:


Are u sure u are not one of them? cos 99.99% of ladies both married & singled feel entitled to their partners money
I am entitled to my husband money and vice versa
Re: I Transferred All My Salary To My Husband- Nigerian Lady by DAramis: 4:47am On Apr 04, 2021
He didn't marry a responsibility, he married a helper and he should be feeling more relaxed than when he was single.

This is the singular reason to know a woman with a working brain. She summarised the whole write up with this two statement.
Re: I Transferred All My Salary To My Husband- Nigerian Lady by DAramis: 4:54am On Apr 04, 2021
Some women up on this thread are claiming they support their husbands just because they pay one or two term school fees while convinently avoiding the part that she said She transferred 90% of her salary to her husband.

When you start doing that, maybe you can comfortably have a say in the discussion.
Re: I Transferred All My Salary To My Husband- Nigerian Lady by iragbmite: 5:07am On Apr 04, 2021
Definitely the OP is not Yibooo, greed would not allow that in them.
Re: I Transferred All My Salary To My Husband- Nigerian Lady by femi4: 5:28am On Apr 04, 2021
OscarJaden:
A relationship should be 'I water you,you water me,we grow together


Not I water you,I water you,I still dey water you
Till water no dey again grin
Re: I Transferred All My Salary To My Husband- Nigerian Lady by femi4: 5:31am On Apr 04, 2021
DAramis:
Some women up on this thread are claiming they support their husbands just because they pay one or two term school fees while convinently avoiding the part that she said She transferred 90% of her salary to her husband.

When you start doing that, maybe you can comfortably have a say in the discussion.
She did it without being forced...
If you demand for it, she won't give you. A good woman will like to see your EFFORT before putting her money on the table. You ve to earn that financial trust

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Re: I Transferred All My Salary To My Husband- Nigerian Lady by Cadamlk: 5:31am On Apr 04, 2021
DaddyRochie1642:
Alot of people think that the way to a man's heart is through "Food", Men nowadays know how to cook so well that they're ready to put a "Strong Challenge" when it comes to kitchen matters.

But there's another way to a Man's Heart that's been Neglected for ages.
Another way to a Man's Heart is by being a "Pillar Of Support" to that man.

I can assure you that a Man never forgets who Supported him when he needed it the most and I say this without Remorse.
This is deep.
Re: I Transferred All My Salary To My Husband- Nigerian Lady by Akuruoulo(m): 5:32am On Apr 04, 2021
GOD PLZ BLESS ME WITH THIS KIND HELPER/WIFE. GOD NA BEG I DEY BEG
Re: I Transferred All My Salary To My Husband- Nigerian Lady by Kingstanding: 5:33am On Apr 04, 2021
EzeBitcoin:
Real woman. You're a rare breed.
Much Love Baby. Never stop doing good, your man will definitely surprise you.
. I'm not surprised with what she did to her husband. I m talking from experience, Nigeria's women are one of the best women in the world but the problem of our men is that they want the best from a woman they don't value and treating well the answer is capital NO. Treat Nigeria's woman we'll be honest with her treat her the way you will treat your mother and see that 75% of our women are wonderfully wonderful. For me I did not regret of marrying my woman. If I do good I feel good and if I do bad I feel bad that's the way I live my life with everyone.

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Re: I Transferred All My Salary To My Husband- Nigerian Lady by Akuruoulo(m): 5:34am On Apr 04, 2021
Enoch07:
with this I can comfortably say "the future is female"
Oga go and sitdan abeg . HAPPY EASTER
Re: I Transferred All My Salary To My Husband- Nigerian Lady by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 5:35am On Apr 04, 2021
dollytino4real:
u do dis kind thing 4 my husband, one year he will not go work again!! I buys things 4 house but is capital letter NO 4 me to give him cash at hand, far-far-foul
So you get husband?

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