Greystone:


I was just like you about 10 years ago.

I don't know who I pity more; foolish present You or my 10 year old former foolish self

NwaAmaikpe:





Verily, verily I say unto you, only the sight of a happily derailing brother graciously strolling into the Simp's Legion of Gloom will make NwaAmaikpe toss an overload of global assignments and run to their aid.

It is so sad that in your lineage, neighborhood, work environment and amongst your everyday acquaintances; you'be been unfortunate not to have anyone train you up in the ways of men.

For men only two rules exist; Rule #1 and the Golden rule.
Rule #1: "Trust no one till you've verified".

And

Golden Rule: "No matter the amount of your verifications, never trust a female".

There's an even a peculiar one for Nigerian ladies.

"NEVER EVER TRUST A WOMAN IN A NIGERIAN TERTIARY INSTITUTION" (Triple emphasis on Never Ever')

You my brother have broken the 1st rule, the golden rule and the peculiar rule with a huge smile on your face.
Of all the girls in the world to choose to commit your heart to, why go for an undergraduate?
Those fickle minded broads aren't ready for commitment but just attention thrills, infatuation whims and a race on the fast lane.

Take it or leave it, half the time you've kissed that girl, you've been licking the remnant of one diseased lecturer's semen she has been gulping to scale through in school or that of a lodgemate whose room she goes to charge her phone to chat with you.

To answer your questions.

Yes, it is normal for an attention-deficient, undecided whorre to have so many men in their DM, because that is what they do for a living, get high off flatters and spread their legs for the man with the best tongue.
Sad still, these type of girls get fvcked for free while their pharmacist boyfriend recommends cocktail of drugs to treat infections she claims to have gotten from the hostel toilet.

No committed girlfriend/wife encourages needless Social media communications with men because they know that inspite of all the detours, any man who chats up a woman is ultimately headed to one direction.

Should you play along?
No! Stop playing because you've been playing yourself all along. You need urgent help but my fear is that you are utterly unhelpable and have been condemned by the devil to be a SIMP on earth.
If a grown ass worker like yourself will let a teen in on your secrets, your passwords and worse even; be swayed by her manipulative tears, then I have no words for you and I take back my rants.

fati2001:


love her more.

Havesomesense:
If you are not fvcking her well, I mean making her cvm. She's gonna cheat on you.

To make a girl loyal you need to be great in sex and also great in mind games.

fati2001:


love her more.

bigpicture001:
....guy, just go on with the relationship, there is no good girl flirt wise anywhere in d world...

If my holy supposedly good no sex relationship girl could suddenly remove her last seen history and whitened her two marks lines on watsapp, everybody can cheat......

Plz guy duck as may pussies as you can.. Even when your married. No girl is worth your faithfulness ND goodness.. Just don't care about whether she cheats or not... Always use a rubber...

Don't worry yourself about ladies, they are all the same!

elisha820:


What should I do?

bercarray:
oga still insist you want to go through her phone ask for her password, if she finally gives you then it's okay , but if she doesn't then oga it's enough to call a relationship, but before u do f**k and f**k her real good. Then leave her and find someone else. But if u think u should continue the relationship with u guys keeping secrets, then plenty of tears awaits u to be shed o



by the way, who's is this guy on top of me for this easter Sunday?

Havesomesense:
If you are not fvcking her well, I mean making her cvm. She's gonna cheat on you.

To make a girl loyal you need to be great in sex and also great in mind games.

seyz91:

Greystone:


I was just like you about 10 years ago.

I don't know who I pity more; foolish present You or my 10 year old former foolish self

omotola90:
that's not really the solution you know.... Prayer is the key.... Say no to pre-marital sex, never engage in such act... Be close to God... There are sane youths in this country

elisha820:


What should I do?

bigpicture001:
....guy, just go on with the relationship, there is no good girl flirt wise anywhere in d world...

If my holy supposedly good no sex relationship girl could suddenly remove her last seen history and whitened her two marks lines on watsapp, everybody can cheat......

Plz guy duck as may pussies as you can.. Even when your married. [s]No girl is worth your faithfulness ND goodness.. Just don't care about whether she cheats or not... Always use a rubber...

Don't worry yourself about ladies, they are all the same![/s]

NwaAmaikpe:





Verily, verily I say unto you, only the sight of a happily derailing brother graciously strolling into the Simp's Legion of Gloom will make NwaAmaikpe toss an overload of global assignments and run to their aid.

It is so sad that in your lineage, neighborhood, work environment and amongst your everyday acquaintances; you'be been unfortunate not to have anyone train you up in the ways of men.

For men only two rules exist; Rule #1 and the Golden rule.
Rule #1: "Trust no one till you've verified".

And

Golden Rule: "No matter the amount of your verifications, never trust a female".

There's an even a peculiar one for Nigerian ladies.

"NEVER EVER TRUST A WOMAN IN A NIGERIAN TERTIARY INSTITUTION" (Triple emphasis on Never Ever')

You my brother have broken the 1st rule, the golden rule and the peculiar rule with a huge smile on your face.
Of all the girls in the world to choose to commit your heart to, why go for an undergraduate?
Those fickle minded broads aren't ready for commitment but just attention thrills, infatuation whims and a race on the fast lane.

Take it or leave it, half the time you've kissed that girl, you've been licking the remnant of one diseased lecturer's semen she has been gulping to scale through in school or that of a lodgemate whose room she goes to charge her phone to chat with you.

To answer your questions.

Yes, it is normal for an attention-deficient, undecided whorre to have so many men in their DM, because that is what they do for a living, get high off flatters and spread their legs for the man with the best tongue.
Sad still, these type of girls get fvcked for free while their pharmacist boyfriend recommends cocktail of drugs to treat infections she claims to have gotten from the hostel toilet.

No committed girlfriend/wife encourages needless Social media communications with men because they know that inspite of all the detours, any man who chats up a woman is ultimately headed to one direction.

Should you play along?
No! Stop playing because you've been playing yourself all along. You need urgent help but my fear is that you are utterly unhelpable and have been condemned by the devil to be a SIMP on earth.
If a grown ass worker like yourself will let a teen in on your secrets, your passwords and worse even; be swayed by her manipulative tears, then I have no words for you and I take back my rants.

bigpicture001:
....guy, just go on with the relationship, there is no good girl flirt wise anywhere in d world...

If my holy supposedly good no sex relationship girl could suddenly remove her last seen history and whitened her two marks lines on watsapp, everybody can cheat......

Plz guy duck as may pussies as you can.. Even when your married. No girl is worth your faithfulness ND goodness.. Just don't care about whether she cheats or not... Always use a rubber...

Don't worry yourself about ladies, they are all the same!

omotola90:
follow his advice at your peril

MISSCONGENIALITY:
It is not the solution but it's not stopping anytime. Pre-marital sex has been there, it will be there when we are gone. Ladies should not open their legs for men because they promised them marriage. Most men use that to gain access to the lady's Jerusalem.

bigpicture001:
....guy, just go on with the relationship, there is no good girl flirt wise anywhere in d world...

If my holy supposedly good no sex relationship girl could suddenly remove her last seen history and whitened her two marks lines on watsapp, everybody can cheat......

Plz guy duck as may pussies as you can.. Even when your married. No girl is worth your faithfulness ND goodness.. Just don't care about whether she cheats or not... Always use a rubber...

Don't worry yourself about ladies, they are all the same!

Judgesledge:
on this, he's spot on, no room for emotions where sound judgement is needed bro

danietohbadt:
The babe is playing you, you too play her.

It's as simple as that.

Haven't you heard?

NIGERIAN GIRLS ARE USELESS.

DaddyRochie1642:
Love still dey shack this one

Tomorrow na you'll start Weeping and gnashing your teeth saying this girl "Used Jazz on me".... How can the girl know your password and have Unrestricted access to your phone and Privacy and she'll deny you access to hers with Idiotic excuses.

Oga are you not a Man that knows what he wants, I believe you have goals and priorities that you wish to accomplish in this Life, So why is it difficult for you to Let that girl know that you're not here to "Play games", why is it difficult for you to Express yourself and let her know with a serious tone in your voice that you will not tolerate such behavior and excuses from her.


Oga it is your type that finally gets married and start lamenting "I Made a Horrible Mistake by Marrying this Woman", meanwhile it is your Fault from the beginning because you failed to set Boundaries and stamp your Authority as a man that knows what he wants.

People won't like to hear this and I personally dont give a FÚCK, nowadays, Respect is what makes a Relationship last longer and Stronger especially when the Respect is Mutual, Love is just secondary.

If that girl had a good Percentage of Respect for you, she won't have the guts to go through your phone and your Privacy and start giving excuses when you want to go through hers.

You're seeing the "Red Flags" now and you're forming gentleman, your eyes go soon Clear

DaddyRochie1642:
Love still dey shack this one

Tomorrow na you'll start Weeping and gnashing your teeth saying this girl "Used Jazz on me".... How can the girl know your password and have Unrestricted access to your phone and Privacy and she'll deny you access to hers with Idiotic excuses.

Oga are you not a Man that knows what he wants, I believe you have goals and priorities that you wish to accomplish in this Life, So why is it difficult for you to Let that girl know that you're not here to "Play games", why is it difficult for you to Express yourself and let her know with a serious tone in your voice that you will not tolerate such behavior and excuses from her.


Oga it is your type that finally gets married and start lamenting "I Made a Horrible Mistake by Marrying this Woman", meanwhile it is your Fault from the beginning because you failed to set Boundaries and stamp your Authority as a man that knows what he wants.

People won't like to hear this and I personally dont give a FÚCK, nowadays, Respect is what makes a Relationship last longer and Stronger especially when the Respect is Mutual, Love is just secondary.

If that girl had a good Percentage of Respect for you, she won't have the guts to go through your phone and your Privacy and start giving excuses when you want to go through hers.

You're seeing the "Red Flags" now and you're forming gentleman, your eyes go soon Clear