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iamyemiakins:
When I realised she saved my number with Honourable, I no know the constituency wey I represent

SaintAlbert53:
Thanks bro, People's got lot of experiences.. I have experienced mine and its left for me to let it eat me up or just accept it and move on..

kkinternet:
Lol..when she said can we be friends?? After 5 years in a relationship....Damn

RexTramadol1:
Omolewa it may not be well with her again





After my tfare, she just ghosted me online
At least you learn small from daughters of Jezebel now



I kept wondering where I was wrong.

SaintAlbert53:
Lol yea exactly. Bro, let me tell you something, when this all happened i was in my finals in school, she was already a graduate two years ahead of me. She just couldn't wait for me to finish, serve and then get a better job to start a better family. She wanted the best for herself, you know all those plans when preparing to go to camp thingy.
She played her role the best way to her, she isn't regretting letting me go bro. No one wants to associate with a destitute, but soon i am very much sure she'd regret it in no time.
I can never in my life hurt her or pay her back in return lolz.

uniqueboi1:
E dn tey NYSC dae chop people GFs o

Oyerinde16:
Everyone in the area knew me with this babe, we were the toast of town, many guys that approached d babe before me, but were turned down de beef me, until i began to notice guys were talking behind, not letting me know whats up, one day i visit club meet my babe de drink beer with anoda guy... she sha introduced me as friends, omo i wan sink, i sha browse steady for like 2 months Dec 25th 2015 was the parting browsing, she married the other guy 6 months later....

sapphiere:
I reject it for you lalasticlala. No power will make you breakup. Go in prayer sir.
Any power planning to scatter your home will not succeed IJN.
Divorce is not your portion IJN Amen.

AlphamaleTech1:
I caught her receiving Doggy from another I never thought it was over...but when she started screaming the guys name instead of mine, I knew I had to give up.

SaintAlbert53:
it's a great lesson learnt, she was the best girl in the world, she never loved anyone else but me, she was damn faithful to me before she left for service, but i could see the anxiety in her when she was preparing to leave for camp.
She actually got there and the kind of friends she rolled with there immediately were slayers who didn't come to play but to cash out..
Do you know i can't love anymore..? I see ladies as my fellow guys now honestly, no matter the beauty or the mesmerizing charming attributes in them, I end up breaking the heart of all the ladies that comes my way now. The fall so much in love with me after a week of meeting me, then i become scared and zoom I don start to dey ignore all of the girl's calls or messages. I don't have any soft spot for women anymore and I honestly hate this, it's destroying my life.

SaintAlbert53:
it's a great lesson learnt, she was the best girl in the world, she never loved anyone else but me, she was damn faithful to me before she left for service, but i could see the anxiety in her when she was preparing to leave for camp.
She actually got there and the kind of friends she rolled with there immediately were slayers who didn't come to play but to cash out..
Do you know i can't love anymore..? I see ladies as my fellow guys now honestly, no matter the beauty or the mesmerizing charming attributes in them, I end up breaking the heart of all the ladies that comes my way now. The fall so much in love with me after a week of meeting me, then i become scared and zoom I don start to dey ignore all of the girl's calls or messages. I don't have any soft spot for women anymore and I honestly hate this, it's destroying my life.

lalasticlala:
What's the coldest way you found out your relationship was over?

CutieMya:
He stopped calling me that was in October even when I called but he picked once but later we both didn't communicate since then. This year february he called to apologize that he was sorry for everything that he knows he has offended me not until March his wedding was announced in Church that was how it all ended after three years of waiting....Well, life goes on and I hope for a better life.

Petriaa:
Do you know me before I'm sure you mistake me for someone else.

CutieMya:
He stopped calling me that was in October even when I called but he picked once but later he both didn't communicate since then. This year february he called to apologize that he was sorry for everything that he knows he has offended me not until March his wedding was announced in Church that was how it all ended after three years of waiting....Well, life goes on and I hope for a better life.

lalasticlala:
Thanks dear. It's not about my home just a topic for discussion.

The Future is Female

Nonexistent:
Brother mi, I dey smoke my weed and just dey reason your comment. I don't do married women so in this case, I will do everything to fucck his daughter or sister silly and make sure he finds out.

1stHooligan:
She went for NYSC and never looked back. I don't much blame her but I hope she never finds what she's looking for.

She left with a part of me I am trying to get back

Otunbalai:
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I like the sound of that....

extol1:
well just tell us your own version. hope you are good

SaintAlbert53:
Lol yea exactly. Bro, let me tell you something, when this all happened i was in my finals in school, she was already a graduate two years ahead of me. She just couldn't wait for me to finish, serve and then get a better job to start a better family. She wanted the best for herself, you know all those plans when preparing to go to camp thingy.
She played her role the best way to her, she isn't regretting letting me go bro. No one wants to associate with a destitute, but soon i am very much sure she'd regret it in no time.
I can never in my life hurt her or pay her back in return lolz.

spiceadole:
I was 22.
3rd year in medical school.
I had my first boyfriend.
He was about 32,a resident doctor in the university teaching hospital.

I thought I had found love... Finally.

He started pressurising me for sex barely a week we started dating.
I wasn't ready.. I was a virgin and wanted to maintain myself that way till after wedding.

3 months later, I thought he was for real.. and I gave in.

I grew to love and adore him.
Spent my little spare time in his house, cooking and cleaning.

I spent Christmas and New year with him..He drove me to the airport that morning and I travelled home to my parents.

Next thing,he stopped picking my calls,or calling me.
He barely responded to my messages.

He gave excuses as being too busy at work.
I returned from home and he wouldn't see me ..
Continued same way for about 2 weeks.

Then,I visited him unannounced .

He told me he was no longer interested.

He never loved me...He was sorry for everything.

That his friends made him place a bet about sleeping with me since I was too reserved and proving to be too decent,not involved with anybody within university and hospital environs.

He went on to say he was supposed to show them videos of our knackings and my nude pix...but he found out I was indeed decent and didn't do it.

He had somebody he wanted to marry from his tribe(Yoruba).


That broke me!

That I didn't commit suicide was a miracle.

It took me 4 years before I had another relationship , after graduation...and I made sure
Sex was never involved.

Instead,I watched porn and masturbated in my closet to relieve sexual tension.


I dated 2 more guys .. Got married to the last one(a colleague too) and we relocated to the UK.

Wherever you are,I hold nothing against you,ADEKUNLE

I am thankful your act shaped me.
You people are not called DEMONS for no reasons.
I learnt how to close my legs and place value on my body.

spiceadole:
I was 22.
3rd year in medical school.
I had my first boyfriend.
He was about 32,a resident doctor in the university teaching hospital.

I thought I had found love... Finally.

He started pressurising me for sex barely a week we started dating.
I wasn't ready.. I was a virgin and wanted to maintain myself that way till after wedding.

3 months later, I thought he was for real.. and I gave in.

I grew to love and adore him.
Spent my little spare time in his house, cooking and cleaning.

I spent Christmas and New year with him..He drove me to the airport that morning and I travelled home to my parents.

Next thing,he stopped picking my calls,or calling me.
He barely responded to my messages.

He gave excuses as being too busy at work.
I returned from home and he wouldn't see me ..
Continued same way for about 2 weeks.

Then,I visited him unannounced .

He told me he was no longer interested.

He never loved me...He was sorry for everything.

That his friends made him place a bet about sleeping with me since I was too reserved and proving to be too decent,not involved with anybody within university and hospital environs.

He went on to say he was supposed to show them videos of our knackings and my nude pix...but he found out I was indeed decent and didn't do it.

He had somebody he wanted to marry from his tribe(Yoruba).


That broke me!

That I didn't commit suicide was a miracle.

It took me 4 years before I had another relationship , after graduation...and I made sure
Sex was never involved.

Instead,I watched porn and masturbated in my closet to relieve sexual tension.


I dated 2 more guys .. Got married to the last one(a colleague too) and we relocated to the UK.

Wherever you are,I hold nothing against you,ADEKUNLE

I am thankful your act shaped me.
You people are not called DEMONS for no reasons.
I learnt how to close my legs and place value on my body.

Leetika:
Met this girl in Abuja whilst serving. She was serving too..well she claimed she was a virgin and we should not do anything sexual.. I agreed . I would ask her to kiss me at least , she wouldn’t . She just didn’t wanna do anything sexual. But she is so quick to ask for money . Like I turned to her father. Money for hair , money for pad , money for data money for everything walahi..minus other embarrassing thing I did for love. I sha noticed that there’s no way this girl loves me. She is just in it to drain me. . She even asked me for iPhone 12 me that just finished serving. Struggling to get on my feet. We fought on this request. She told me to touch my savings so I can buy her the phone.. I said she should chill so I get money from another source as I can’t touch my savings .

Everyone told me this girl was using me sha but I still stayed. Anyways 2weeks ago she was in my house and one way or the other I found out she was sleeping with one of her bosses where she was working as a corper. I wish I can mention the name of the company cos the foolish married man is here on Nairaland also .

This evil soul told me she was going for a work trip to Enugu last December , said it was her job people taking her there and it’s by flight. And I should send her money to buy stuffs. I did but I wasn’t comfortable With it. I did not know they went to knack my girl in Enugu.. and I went to pick her back from the airport after dem don knack her.. the so called virgin wasn’t a virgin after all . I broke up . I put it to her that she cheated but this girl swore with her life that she didn’t for some reasons I could not show her my evidence.

I got nothing against u .. but u got a habit of chasing corpers posted in your office. How your wife doesn’t know u re cheating on her baffles me. I don let the girl go . Chop her. Na small thing make me change my mind do wetin my guys wan do u and that girl together. The. U know the debt is paid

CutieMya:
He stopped calling me that was in October even when I called but he picked once but later he both didn't communicate since then. This year february he called to apologize that he was sorry for everything that he knows he has offended me not until March his wedding was announced in Church that was how it all ended after three years of waiting....Well, life goes on and I hope for a better life.

SaintAlbert53:
Honestly, it isn't a Joke. This whole shit turned me into a Playboy automatically and a masturbator which i have been affected negatively. I know because i don't Love anymore.

SaintAlbert53:
pretty right sir. Thank God it happened earlier.
She was in the church, a devoted protocol and also a prayer warrior. She never had the chance to explore actually, she was the best girl in the world, she became wild when she left for camp. She actually got what she must have been praying for, to be free and live her life to the fullest. My brother one of the lessons i actually learnt from it is that MONEY rules.
If you ain't bouyant financially to settle the enormous wants of your woman, another man will penetrate into her with the so called money.

CutieMya:
He stopped calling me that was in October even when I called but he picked once but later he both didn't communicate since then. This year february he called to apologize that he was sorry for everything that he knows he has offended me not until March his wedding was announced in Church that was how it all ended after three years of waiting....Well, life goes on and I hope for a better life.

placeofallure:
No experiences to share. Never been heartbroken, I always do the leaving.

iamyemiakins:
When I realised she saved my number with Honourable, I no know the constituency wey I represent

josite:
i am mr arinze. are the corpers in issue adults?,i didnt even know u so i could not have intended to hurt you in any way.since my wife has not got to know about my escapades,why dont u give the info to her.if the adult corpers are not complaining ,who are u to complain.