Fedric:
I noticed that my girl friend doesn't like to come over anymore. Of late she Dosen't pick my calls often, she picked after 20 times .

I called her plenty times yesterday but she didn't pick my call giving me silly excuses that she left her phone at home while going out.

She repeated the same thing today and her excuse was that she went to an office and she can't pick the call. She later say she have to submit the phone to the security officers at the gate and that's the law of the institute .

I never see this kind of excuses and when I talk to my sister, she was like she might have gone to a man house and don't wanna pick .

The main issue with her is she believes I complain too much and she also raises voice at me any time I told her an issue I don't like.

I'm seriously tired and I am having different thoughts .

I wanted to marry her but her attitude keeps preventing me from making such move.

I feel bad right now and I needed an advice .

I feel so bad that my thought right now is to pretend, use her, dump her and make her feel regretful of making me go through emotional pain.

Should I just let her go and I should go on my who way?

Or should I just free her and start doing as if she don't exist in my life again .

I'm not happy right now and I feel so bad .


Advice please.

bruh, this same story line exactly line mine ���.... olohun

how well do you knack her.
you seem to be too gentle, stop apologising too much

Fedric:
Lot of things has happen where I start begging her after telling her what I don't like she is doing .


I'm a gentle guy and I like people to treat me cool and likewise will I do so but she has made me a complain master and she still make me feel bad after raising my complaint .


I'm not happy right now as I feel she is seeing someone else and also the fact that she don't respect me as I want .


At list playing maturity and saying sorry when ever you go wrong is what I ask for

do what is in ur mind

alizma:

If you want to leave happily with a woman, learn how to ride monocycle because you are going to need that knowledge at the beginning of your relationship. Go back when she want to, forward when she want to and even stand still at times and before you know it, you will be in control of the monocycle.
Women can be funny at times. So I will advise you stop calling, let her do the calling when she is free. If she does give you a call pick it and thereafter, recharge her line and wait for to call again while you take the responsibility of the bill until she starts complaining that you don't call.

My dear take a bottle of Origin on me abeg. You've spoken as a true elder

Oga girl wey genuinely love u no go do all these things. Find someone who does to avoid heartache. You’ll know when someone genuinely loved you

jaxxy:


What I notice here with the limited information is u sound and seem very needy and clingy, give people/HER space to breathe. Ure not even married to her Ure probably choking her and not everyone likes it and responds well to it.

Give her space and time to miss u if she actually likes u. If she doesn’t like u then don’t force urself to marry her or u will regret it.

There's need for closure and emotional security in any healthy relationship. He deserves to have it. She's deliberately not interested in being accountable. The Op isn't the one with issues here abeg you.


Whatever condition the OP is was brought about by the actions and Inactions of the girlfriend.


The OP isn't clingy or needy. The girl isn't in love with him and has grown tired of the relationship



Cc Fedric

WoundedLamb:
OP, you come across as a very gentle person. I do hope your lady sees this. Otherwise, just move on cause it takes two to tango.

Bro peace of mind in marriage matters more than any other things... If deep down inside you, u know u wouldn't have peace of mind if you marry this girl, please walk away...

Experience has shown me that any lady who doesn't use the simple word am sorry is one who is a proud person.... And trust me it is a guarantee that all marriages will face a test of fire and brimstone.... In period like that her or your am sorry will make a whole lots of sense...

Again, in ur complain, u didn't mention any thing ah did to u aside not picking your calls twice.. That us not enough to say someone is misbehaving..... But the info ur hiding from her maybe the reason ur not shown love.. Women are wired to llove ONLY progressive males....

My best advice is u give it some time again

Inspiration007:
As I open the thread; even before reading. I don all ready know the solution to your problem.

I recommend 2 sachets of redpill. Take all at once!!

Ohh nooo....come on bro that will be sucide...

Let him just start with two dose at a time....

OP get ur fuking ass to the romance section and ask for Ubunja or Hardon Redpill chemist..tell anyone you see among them that i sent you...

You can ask for my account number later....

BluDesk:



There's need for closure and emotional security in any healthy relationship. He deserves to have it. She's deliberately not interested in being accountable. The Op isn't the one with issues here abeg you.


Whatever condition the OP is was brought about by the actions and I actions of the girlfriend.


The OP isn't clingy or needy. The girl isn't in lovewoth him and has grown tired of the relationship



Cc Fedric

If sm1 isn’t in love with u there’s a way u act and they will fall in love with u and there’s how u act they will think u don’t have sense. People respond to how u act. Love is not magic it work by actions, inactions and responses. Nobody owes u love or anything just like that or automatically. It’s happens by a combination of the RIGHT actions.

Even if u want closure that’s not how u get it. I can send a text and ask whatever u want.


He doesn’t have sense.

1.) First Look inwards, are there things you do she does not like? If yes, try your best to stop it.
2.) Do you satisfy her sexually? Do you provide for her needs? Do you sit her down and talk to her many a time?
3.) Are you the type that is always not serious? If yes, change ur ways with her. These girls like attention.
4.) Do you sit her down and both of you discuss business , her life plans and all? U know sex_ isnt everything?
5.) Try to change your background a bit -> change your way on how you run success, travel out go some places, if you have to, let her hear about your success.
6.) Try and observe Privacy with her. Sometimes take her out, both of you should go places together. If possible , stage a west african tour, both of you should go somewhere spend few days and come home (I am looking forward to this again with gf)

If you have done these 6 things , and her misbehavior is top notch, nwanne , let her go. Life no be something way them day use gamble. If them tell me say today i go roll with Naija, East african girls (Rwanda, Ethiopia, Tanzanian ) and others, I no sure say i fit believe am. I remember when i used to date one girl way her and her family swear say them go kill me. I black finish, come see me na only head i get . Vein everywhere.

Na so so beg i day beg. Girl go cheat, I go kneel down day beg, kneel down in front of everybody for Eatry, This girl just day use me catch trips. her friends will tell her to leave me alone say i no reach, the surprising thing is, those her friends married their boyfriends as at that time and had kids with them. Her own different, one day she even go call her guy, the guy came with 5 other boys , they seized my phone that day and wanted to beat me up.
Fast forward to now, as i left her , na so her life day. She tells me she made mistakes and all, i just pray for her. Funny even the man she later married , left her alone with kids to carry on. Aunty just be shadow of herself now.

What i'm saying is, if you have shown her Love in diverse ways and she still no wan get sense , Leave her make she day. Focus on developing yourself. Life no hard.

I'm very sure that you love her more than she love you. Whenever she comes around, you seems to forget her misdemeanor and move ahead.

Listen my son,
THE POWER OF RELATIONSHIP LIES WITH THE ONE THAT CARE LESS.

Your highest weapon at the moment is ur borne identity. Keep ur riches away from her knowledge; you'll thank yourself for doing that later.

Meanwhile, try by all means not to call her for two days, no matter the temptation. Even if she calls, don't complain again. Start to care less and see the magic. She's on a discovery channel for another guy

jaxxy:


If sm1 isn’t in love with u there’s a way u act and they will fall in love with u and there’s how u act they will think u don’t have sense. People respond to how u act. Love is not magic it work by actions, inactions and responses. Nobody owes u love or anything just like that or automatically. It’s happens by a combination of the RIGHT actions.

Even if u want closure that’s not how u get it. I can send a text and ask whatever u want.


He doesn’t have sense.

Smiles. You're. Mixing issues.


The OP may have need for closure doesn't mean te lady here isn't irresponsible. I know the number of ladies in relationships I would have fvcked pulling this same stunts... The lady is playing games. My own sisters are all married. I have four. And none treat their. Men that way.


You're a man you know when a woman is playing games.

3RNEST:

life no balance, and if u check someone dey trip for the guy too... him sef go dey ignore the babe.

am telling you

Fedric:
I'm serious bro

am here for u I can replace her

Fedric:
I noticed that my girl friend doesn't like to come over anymore. Of late she Dosen't pick my calls often, she picked after 20 times .

I called her plenty times yesterday but she didn't pick my call giving me silly excuses that she left her phone at home while going out.

She repeated the same thing today and her excuse was that she went to an office and she can't pick the call. She later say she have to submit the phone to the security officers at the gate and that's the law of the institute .

I never see this kind of excuses and when I talk to my sister, she was like she might have gone to a man house and don't wanna pick .

The main issue with her is she believes I complain too much and she also raises voice at me any time I told her an issue I don't like.

I'm seriously tired and I am having different thoughts .

I wanted to marry her but her attitude keeps preventing me from making such move.

I feel bad right now and I needed an advice .

I feel so bad that my thought right now is to pretend, use her, dump her and make her feel regretful of making me go through emotional pain.

Should I just let her go and I should go on my who way?

Or should I just free her and start doing as if she don't exist in my life again .

I'm not happy right now and I feel so bad .


Advice please.

You just a weak man, your post have all signs of a weak man...

Instead of you to focus on making money, even if you have a job you think it's enough to settle down...

Some of your guys disgust me, very very weak man.... You need approval to follow through with your weak emotional state of mind.

Nawah ooo.......notin person no go c here.....this one too na news ? If everybody begin talk how der girlfriends dey misbehave here nairaland page go full oooo

What'sapp 09017224883 if you are crazy and slutty girl for sweet orgasm play with no strings attached

BluDesk:






Smiles. You're. Mixing issues.


The OP may have need for closure doesn't mean te lady here isn't irresponsible. I know the number of ladies in relationships I would have fvcked pulling this same stunts... The lady is playing games. My own sisters are all married. I have four. And none treat their. Men that way.


You're a man you know when a woman is playing games.

Yes I know when a lady is playing games and men play games also bt there is Smtn we call reasonable behavior and reaction. If she’s playing games and expect him to play smarter not this cry baby moves I’m seeing.

Sm women even like guys who can outsmart them. He shud play his cards right not this Mumu behavior I’m seeing.

Have some dignity and respect pls.

FashionCookie:
Women are bad...Women are bad. So who are these people still dating Them? Everyday na one cry-cry story or the other. Join your redpill brothers.

Na so. Leave hypocrisy address the issue at hand. Is the girlfriend acting as an olosho or not.


Birds of same feather dey say flock together

Princessogaraya:
leave her alone,I don't know why we girls don't love who love us

she will realize what she did,it will be too late for her.

many of us have ignore someone that loves us but when will meet those bad guy we will now wish to go back but no way again

Thank you for speaking the truth irrespective of gender. May God satisfy you with your own crown

Fedric:



Do you know if I needed her attention and help at that moment ?

Why will she see my 20 miss call and not call back.

How on earth would you call someone 20 good times when it's not an emergency?! Maximum, 2 times.

jaxxy:


Yes I know when a lady is playing games and men play games also bt there is Smtn we call reasonable behavior and reaction. If she’s playing games and expect him to play smarter not this cry baby moves I’m seeing.

Sm women even like guys who can outsmart them. He shud play his cards right not this Mumu behavior I’m seeing.

Have some dignity and respect pls.

What dignity. Am. I the one
Let's address issues one by one first

Tell him she's playing games. Simple as ABC


The longest I miss anyone is 3 days. Babes flock around me. Crying and begging asking me to open my heart. For where?


Anybody man or woman, break my heart, 3 days I feel pain, after that, I'm gone. No time.

HalpyBee:

How on earth would you call someone 20 good times when it's not an emergency?! Maximum, 2 times.

It is like checking your account balance 20 times

Maybe it will change

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Fedric:
Lot of things has happen where I start begging her after telling her what I don't like she is doing .


I'm a gentle guy and I like people to treat me cool and likewise will I do so but she has made me a complain master and she still make me feel bad after raising my complaint .


I'm not happy right now as I feel she is seeing someone else and also the fact that she don't respect me as I want .


At list playing maturity and saying sorry when ever you go wrong is what I ask for

Wanted to give my own advice but after reading this nonsense you wrote I decided against it.

Guy your girlfriend is not the problem. You are the problem and honestly I don't blame her.

Your weakness as a man is sooo visible that even the blind can see it.

Just look at the nonsense you wrote up there. You begged her for what exactly ?

You are a gentle guy and expect people to treat you accordingly as in how ?

Guy you are not just a simp, but a Chronic pathological SIMP.

Fedric:
I'm just not happy .

Please read my post and place your advice . Will do much appreciate every input .


I just have to make this post short

i have very solid advice for you but there is no need.
why? because you will never accept the advice. you have chained your whole mind to a bringer of pain and sorrow and you
have been blinded. there is nothing much that can be done for you till you remove the cloth from your eyes.

you might be as rich as solomon or as poor as a rat, it doesnt matter. what matters is..
ARE YOU TIRED OF CHIDISH GAMES OR NOT?
as for now, i dont think you are tired. keep eating her dog shiet till you are sure your stomach is full.

Fedric:


I'm ready to get married .

I am rich but no one knows this and I didn't show her . Building my second house but I told her I am working as a factory guy for now and pretty tired .



I'm an internet marketer

Find a way to let her know how comfortable you are, then if she starts liking you just dump her immediately!

Thank me later!

SweetCunt97:
A man shouldn't be too emotional or gummy gummy, your affection will be taken for granted. Simply stop calling or complaining. Those things you used to do, stop it all and watch if she'll come around.

Hypocrite. First call the girl and olosho before you call him names. Eediot

SimplyFacts:
My Ex once complained that I've stopped calling & sending love texts like I used to do. I just told her that only Bleep-boys/play-boys do that regularly,,, weytin dey my mind pass sitting down to compose love texts up&dan




Some already mentioned on Lala's thread that it's enough to go round.

O de ba olugbon, o mu mo 'ra ni oo.

Take heart in advance.

So,
Simplyfacts, Yoruba ti e ni e!

Ma fi imun fun fere danwo!

Fedric:
I noticed that my girl friend doesn't like to come over anymore. Of late she Dosen't pick my calls often, she picked after 20 times .

I called her plenty times yesterday but she didn't pick my call giving me silly excuses that she left her phone at home while going out.

She repeated the same thing today and her excuse was that she went to an office and she can't pick the call. She later say she have to submit the phone to the security officers at the gate and that's the law of the institute .

I never see this kind of excuses and when I talk to my sister, she was like she might have gone to a man house and don't wanna pick .

The main issue with her is she believes I complain too much and she also raises voice at me any time I told her an issue I don't like.

I'm seriously tired and I am having different thoughts .

I wanted to marry her but her attitude keeps preventing me from making such move.

I feel bad right now and I needed an advice .

I feel so bad that my thought right now is to pretend, use her, dump her and make her feel regretful of making me go through emotional pain.

Should I just let her go and I should go on my who way?

Or should I just free her and start doing as if she don't exist in my life again .

I'm not happy right now and I feel so bad .


Advice please.

You called her 20 times in a row? wow!

Aaaaarghmed:
guy na wa for you o,you too meek o,why wud you call a woman 20missed calls.i call my babe highest 2 missed calls.i love myself so much because I always act sendless,for instance if me and my babe dey talk for phone and she gets angry and cut my call,I dont get angry or vex and call back.i simply dont call till the next day ,I never ever apologize when am not at fault.i am in charge and she knows it.i have being this way right from time,I dont even read all these red pill books or things but as a man I know how to be a king in my own lane,and I cannot take nonsense from a woman

real nigga!! this is me

dalass:


What's the emergency bro? Calling someone over 20 times

Like is she in charge of the working functions of your lungs?

Ladies don't like whining guys abeg.... You're certainly complaining too much over basically everything of which she's explained herself...

I hope you have a job?/At work, some have no liberty to receive calls... Take am easy oh

Another ranter on the loose. Before you address his insecurities, speak about the hooked wasting his time, then you can balance truths.



Smh

Fedric:


I'm ready to get married .

I am rich but no one knows this and I didn't show her . Building my second house but I told her I am working as a factory guy for now and pretty tired .

I'm an internet marketer

At first I didn't want to comment on your post but the fact that u kept your status from her, I love that.
Bro kindly let the lady go. She sees u not fit to carry her, so let her go. The right one will come. I don't want to hear a topic

My wife is never satisfied after every thing I do to her

My wife is always demanding.





Pls let the lady go, she doesn't worth you.
And don't because of desperation show her your wealth, she will come back but later opt out again