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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by TheRealestGuy(m): 3:27pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
emmaodet: Lol. You are actually doing the exact opposite of facing your fear. Emotional bonding and love is a natural human need and no amount of avoidance can change that. You see, in all meaningful relationships, vulnerability is always key. Of course being a pragmatist is great. Have boundaries and all that. And surely no one can be expected to be 100% loyal or trustworthy. Even you yourself are not. These are facts of life. However, going through life avoiding vulnerability means you're actually weak and unable to embrace your fears. Find someone who shares same values and outlook to life and share your life with them, no matter how long/short it lasts. Life is meaningless and monotonous without love and emotional bonds my guy. We all need love. 4 Likes |
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Willy123(m): 3:33pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
[color=#006600][/color] lalasticlala:After aborting my pregnancy..l still went to her sister's wedding that she have given me an Iv earlier on hoping to still patch up things with her....she was surprised to see me and my friend. When we about to leave she was seeing us off only for the guy (guy that had dump her before and came back) just order her to stop and come back. It was then l know is over. 1 Like |
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Nobody: 3:42pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
Hassanmaye:One of the things a young man shouldn't be doing if he wants to live long and be successful in life. 2 Likes |
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Youngpo413: 3:47pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
SaintAlbert53:true true you no get sense,with this mentality,those hôes will continue to do you strong thing.....SIMPle man. 3 Likes |
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by luminouz(m): 3:48pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
TheRealestGuy: Who is the idealist here now? I just gave you a real life scenario and you dey tell me I should get real. What's more real than what I have said. Whoever will cheat will cheat, long distance or not. That's the real deal nigha. You don't want your fiancée to go to serve far from you because you fear she will fall. To have that fear(that's not precaution) means you have already lost her. You don't think you are good enough,man enough, worthy enough for her to stick with you,despite being in camp or doing NYSC. There are girls who would, that yours let you down didn't mean all other girls WOULD lose their discipline. Witha guy like me, my gf knows that my fear is never if she cheats or not, she knows once I detect any misbehaviour,I simply upgrade to the next beautiful babe on my list. She knows I have options. So if she fuqs up,I won't start crying and wailing, I will simply get another girl. Once a woman knows you fear losing her or such BS, you are telling her you don't have options and that makes you undesirable to her. A woman whose man is desirable by other women is always quick to stay in line,so as not to lose him. I'm telling you real shiit hommie. Tested and trusted stuff. My personal experience. N.B: what dafuq are you on about people who don't want to drink avoid bars and such? How does that tie to relationships stuffs about long distance or NYSC? Are the bars far away or the men fuqin their drinks? You on some weird shiit nigga. 4 Likes |
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by TheRealestGuy(m): 3:52pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
luminouz: You clearly do not understand how an analogy works. Also, your head is so deep in your ass you think redpill has made you figure out women. I laugh at your naivete. 3 Likes |
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by luminouz(m): 3:59pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
TheRealestGuy: Forgive me darling!! Bye Felicia 2 Likes |
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by MsAnne(f): 5:30pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
My own breakfast was served through a text message, the message sef shock me� 1 Like |
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by MrMacinterchi1: 5:45pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
1stHooligan:Bros, you are holding yourself in bondage . Free her, and free yourself. Do it for your sake. |
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by MrMacinterchi1: 5:52pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
SaintAlbert53:I'm just laughing out loud here Lol |
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Nobody: 5:58pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
luminouz:The campaign for redpill(cult) is real.Mr Churchill go and eat shit |
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Zontrident: 6:09pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
Hmm this comment section Is interesting oh for me that is a 200lv virgin fear Don grip me oh be like I go forget relationship mata till I graduate start de earn and settle down, but I'm afraid I'll be inexperienced nd I won't know how to act in a relationship |
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by AmuRubber(m): 6:12pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
SaintAlbert53: He is a nephew, not a niece. A niece is a female. 1 Like |
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by MrMacinterchi1: 6:19pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
extol1:it's allowed to read comments nah. Free the girl. |
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by MrMacinterchi1: 6:25pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
Aksnoopy:Lol to your last line. 1 Like |
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Hassanmaye(m): 6:32pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
Nonexistent:I will take this advice serious, but do you have proof? |
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by luminouz(m): 7:04pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
Warrgidanairala:K 1 Like |
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Nobody: 7:29pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
Hassanmaye:I have heard stories but my own cousin and two of his friends are all the proof that I need. Today, three of them are working as hard as lionesses and eating as hyenas eat leftovers. 1 Like |
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by felzokugo(m): 8:02pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
pyyxxaro:Even ur pidgin english bad. Na wa oo. 1 Like |
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by spiceadole: 8:03pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
Karleb: I'm glad it did. I don't but I am not crazy about it. I can always masturbate |
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Gentlebuka(m): 8:03pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
SaintAlbert53: I hope you will do the things I say even if they sound stupid to you. So this is what i did that enabled me to quit: I stopped watching porn or anything that can trigger an arousal. I did this because back then, I would only masturbate if I watched porn or looked at sexual images. So naturally, I had to quit porn so I can quit masturbation. I even avoid checking out girls' profile pictures or checking girls out in real life. No sexual thoughts, no sex-related chats with anyone. I rarely sleep facing down, its either sideways or on my back. So basically, you have to avoid your triggers completely and at all costs Secondly, you can opt for Hypnosis. A Hypnotherapist will typically hypnotise you to stop masturbating and trust me, you will never masturbate again in your life, ever. Don't take my word for it, you can try it. For this process, this monicker @Gofuckyourself can help you. He is a Hypnotherapist. A nairalander too. Lastly, I use 528 Hz frequency audio to heal my brain. 528 Hz is a healing frequency that can restore one's DNA to its original condition, thereby restoring your brain to its original condition too. As you might know, addictions mess with the brain so even after your addiction has stopped, you still have to allow your brain to heal. Depending on how long you've been addicted and how many times you've tried to quit but eventually came back to the habit, this could take time. 528 Hz frequency audios accelerate the healing process. If you have doubts about this, you can search this on google: "528 Hz frequency". You can find and download the frequency audio on youtube. The particular 528 Hz frequency audio I use on youtube goes with this title: "528 Hz Solfeggio Frequency DNA Healing Activation Pure Miracle Tone". Secondly, if you've been masturbating for long, you need to heal your kidney too because expelling semen too often messes with one's kidney big time, and the kidney is a very important part of the body (if you notice that your eyesight is not clear enough, kinda brownish or any other color that you consider not to be the ideal, that's a sign that your kidney is messed up). For healing the kidney, this frequency audio works very well, but you have to follow the instructions on the Youtube web page where you will download it from very strictly. The title of the audio is this: "Kidney Regeneration (Energetically Programmed Audio)". You'll find it on youtube. Don't use for too long. Just use for as long as it takes to get ur kidney back into order. No more than 3x per day for the Kidney regeneration audio. Alternatively, you can use healing affirmations to heal your brain and kidney. They can heal extremely fast if they work for you. For this process, you need to repeat this 20 times to yourself everyday: "My brain is safely and extremely quickly being in perfect health" (this one is for healing the brain). "My kidney is safely and extremely quickly being in perfect health" (this one is for healing the kidney). If there is anything else that needs healing in your body, you can use a general body healing affirmation like this one instead: "My whole body is safely and extremely quickly being in perfect health". Or use it alongside the other ones. Don't use for too long. Just use for as long it takes to achieve perfect health. In summary: I recommend you consult a hypnotherapist like @Gofuckyourself to hypnotise you to stop masturbating. Secondly, use a healing affirmation to heal your body, or use the 528 Hz and Kidney Regeneration frequency audios if the affirmations do not work for you. Am available for any questions you might have. I just want to save a lot of people from this mess because I've been there before and I know what I went through. Note: if you quit this eventually, never go back because if you do, the effect becomes 10 times the previous one. Pro tip: join the Nofap subreddit on Reddit or visit the website called Nofap and see you are not alone in this, plus tips on how to stay clean completely. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by kurlz(f): 9:27pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
SaintAlbert53: Don't worry, don't force it. It will come naturally when you meet the right person. But open your eyes be sure its mutual. 1 Like |
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Nobody: 10:04pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
pyyxxaro:Guy you don mad aje you no get respect for our mod 1 Like |
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Nobody: 10:06pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
LagBae:TF 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Nobody: 10:08pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
Lala the babe don left you lol I no blame am cause you too na soso snakes you go dey chop everyday. Snake thread you go don push am to FP shey dem use snake do you nii |
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Youngpo413: 10:14pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
spiceadole:atleast you are sincere... |
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Uwaomaokey(m): 1:23am On Apr 08, 2021 |
Zontrident: If you are a guy have fun, if you are girl have fun still, when you graduate, your experiences will shape you and also, more than half of your fun days should be Uni days, still focus on your aca play oh. 1 Like |
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Gentlebuka(m): 5:04am On Apr 08, 2021 |
spiceadole: If you get addicted, na sorry be your case. Your story go change. The guy was very wrong, what he did to you. Infact, if a man did that to my sister, i wont be happy at all. However, i think that you've got to understand that masturbation is very addicting and not easy to be free from. If no one has ever told you the consequences of getting addicted to something, especially something as sweet as that, you've got to find them for yourself before it gets too late. Checkout Nofap on google and see what people are going through as a result of being addicted. I know you might not be addicted yet, but you've got to apply caution and know what you are dealing with. Since you now have a husband, I'd advice you quit completely. This time around, you do not have any excuse not to. Even if you do, trust me, you won't think twice before quitting if you get addicted eventually and the consequences set in as a result. By that time, you will abandon every excuse you have. Anything done too much always has its side effects. 1 Like |
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by NACE13: 6:29am On Apr 08, 2021 |
Fiscus105: This one happened so fast. Just less than a day after seeing me for the first time in many months. I swear, I didn't see that coming. After few years, I realized she probably did it on purpose to size my manliness and I fell for it by begging her even when she was the one clearly at fault. That was a "see finish" move, and that's how most females behave. A good guy or simp will fall for it but 'bad guys' won't GAF 1 Like |
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by spiceadole: 6:36am On Apr 08, 2021 |
Gentlebuka: I rather get addicted to masturbation than have sex with a guy I'm not married to. Masturbation over premarital sex and adultery. Thank you for your preaching. |
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Hassanmaye(m): 9:32am On Apr 08, 2021 |
Nonexistent:They are miserably poor |
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