ogashman:
get her preggy only if you have the resources to cater for the baby.



most times what these girls say in the morning is not usually what they say in the afternoon.



mouth don dey sweet her as she dey tell u to get her pregnant as if she has everything figured out.. but na same girl no go allow u rest when she finally get the belle.

Shey, you no read when he say he no get anything?

Once you start asking this kind of question it means you are begging to entertain the thought.

What is wrong with you Young man

Iya yio je monamona si e Lara....asearugward

Papertrails:
Please nairalanders I need your advice on something that has been bothering me for sometime now.

I am a young graduate who graduated from the university almost two years ago and am done with my youth service too but am still trying to get a job or put up something maybe a business that will be fetching me money considering the situation of our country in terms of availability of jobs.

Then there's is this girl I have been dating for three years and everything has been going well but recently she has been really disturbing me to come and see her people or get her pregnant, am someone that will do everything within my power to make sure my kids don't pass through the hardship I have passed through being someone that wasn't born with a silver spoon, and another thing is that I really love this girl.
Am really confused and don't know what to do.

japa.
If she is telling you to not worry that God will provide what you will use to take care of the child na Lori iro so u better japa

more and more of our beloved NL script writers are landing on the FP

Career / Since I Was Unable To Do Betting I Have Discovered My Writing Skills.....
by Papertrails. 5 posts & 220 views. 8:38pm On Apr 16, 2020 (Papertrails)

Bigredmachine:


It's just as if am you and you are me... Same story same condition... Don't know why this girl would want to put me in a tight condition all in the name of love

Well if I can advise us both... Try and get anything doing that would fetch you money... Just go out and hustle hard

Personal experience, you have to have a savings or income flow of some sort.
Esp for the sake of the child, that's if your partner is not the demanding type.
Otherwise she just feels there's no need to beat around the bush or wait for wealth, start a commitment now.

Pikin wey dem back no know say journey far

tell her to wait

Papertrails:


God forbid and I forbid it too.

Are you sure she's not already pregnant the pregnant and looking for a father for the baby. You think that kind girl has sense to see down the road the stress of what she is suggesting. You better break up with her if you don't want to see crazy. Just tell her you need to focus on yourself and break up. Some girls get bad luck. Maybe na why you never see job self

Papertrails:
Please nairalanders I need your advice on something that has been bothering me for sometime now.

I am a young graduate who graduated from the university almost two years ago and am done with my youth service too but am still trying to get a job or put up something maybe a business that will be fetching me money considering the situation of our country in terms of availability of jobs.

Then there's is this girl I have been dating for three years and everything has been going well but recently she has been really disturbing me to come and see her people or get her pregnant, am someone that will do everything within my power to make sure my kids don't pass through the hardship I have passed through being someone that wasn't born with a silver spoon, and another thing is that I really love this girl.
Am really confused and don't know what to do.

Run for her ooo
Talking from experience ooo
God no go shame you oo

Stop complaining, just send her to me.

[quote author=Papertrails post=100608949]Please nairalanders I need your advice on something that has been bothering me for sometime now.

I am a young graduate who graduated from the university almost two years ago and am done with my youth service too but am still trying to get a job or put up something maybe a business that will be fetching me money considering the situation of our country in terms of availability of jobs.

Then there's is this girl I have been dating for three years and everything has been going well but recently she has been really disturbing me to come and see her people or get her pregnant, am someone that will do everything within my power to make sure my kids don't pass through the hardship I have passed through being someone that wasn't born with a silver spoon, and another thing is that I really love this girl.
Am really confused and don't know what to do.

....dont be confuse...she trayin to trap u...truss me. Thats wot women do now, they trap u..My advise, tellllllha to get lost. If she trap u, it simply mean u cant get no more women. truss me, if u dont yansh her, sDO NOT MAKE THAT MISTAKE...SIR. ONCE U GET HER PRESGGGNAT, U WILL BE FORCE TO MARRRY HER..STAY AWAY IF U DO NOT WANT BAD LUCK IN YOR LIFE...HER PLAN IS TO TRAP U & TRUSS ME, U WILL REGRET EVER SMASHIN AM.!!((((REAL TALK)))

playapayaski:
Get her d fvck pregnant if u really want her in your life.. things don't always work out the way we plan but no matter what, we adapt. Wrong advice it might seem but wish I got my ex preg years ago, now I get d money I nor see better person. Choose wisely, if u don't want her then don't but if u genuinely want her then go ahead so long u have done your homework that she's not being self-centered.. four years time I'd look back and be happy u took that risk. Money ain't everything son

And in your small mind you think if you had gotten her pregnant before you got something doing ...the energy and concentration you channelled towards your economic pursuit would have been without obstacles.


Just like John Snow ...You know nothing

The lady might see more than what the guy is seeing. ... I had a similar experience...when my then gf told me we should get married after our NYSC, I objected to it.....after some few months later, she brought her wedding IV with another man....

Op the ball is in your court, for me, I regretted not settling down with her because all other ladies I met thereafter were not as good as the lady...I'm still regretting it till date. ..

I think you answered you own question. You´re not ready. Don´t have a baby with her. Be careful not to get her pregnant, don´t just trust her with that.

you seem to be a boy,just wait a little and become a man then you will no whattsap,at the moment never allow vagina people sink your ass into early poorverty you are too young to be wasted early in life

Drsnives:

Continue forbidding
What has been written is written.. I just wish you a safe landing

But brother, I see tears

This I have seen

A brother is puting his cards on the table seeking reasonable imput but here you are foreseeing teers, he said it's not his portion, are you forcing it down his throat, na you write? must you copy copy falsephrophet? As for the brother it's a simple decision you know your life journey, you know how you want to raise your children and you love her, is either she trust you and help you get there or she move on, if she push u in this first step she will push u all the way cus you will always faced choices and decisions to make in the marriage. she's a woman they are emotional creature driven by desires not reason. its good to take risk but a calculated one, its good to have faith as long as u work to support it. They say a bird sing sweetly when there's nothing inside the mouth. She's singing sweetly now.... Man-know-thy-self

[quote author=Papertrails post=100608949]Please nairalanders I need your advice on something that has been bothering me for sometime now.

I am a young graduate who graduated from the university almost two years ago and am done with my youth service too but am still trying to get a job or put up something maybe a business that will be fetching me money considering the situation of our country in terms of availability of jobs.

Then there's is this girl I have been dating for three years and everything has been going well but recently she has been really disturbing me to come and see her people or get her pregnant, am someone that will do everything within my power to make sure my kids don't pass through the hardship I have passed through being someone that wasn't born with a silver spoon, and another thing is that I really love this girl.
Am really confused and don't know what to do.


bros allow her notin is happening god dey,na d mistake we do does years our kids for do big well well

You will definitely put yourself under intense pressure, if you agree to her demands. Yrs back, I had girlfriend who mounted pressure on me to marry her. Though I loved her, but I was not ready for marriage then. I told her to be patient a little, the next thing I heard was that she had moved in with someone else. Bros, pls be wise.

Drsnives:
I foresee the girl pressuring you till all your defenses are down
I foresee her manipulating you to get her pregnant.
I foresee the misery and agony in the family


This I have seen

why ur eyes no dey ever good vision bro

Tolexandre:
How old is she?

Late twenties...

She is desperate and will kill you before your time

Then RUN for your life...

Papertrails:
Please nairalanders I need your advice on something that has been bothering me for sometime now.

I am a young graduate who graduated from the university almost two years ago and am done with my youth service too but am still trying to get a job or put up something maybe a business that will be fetching me money considering the situation of our country in terms of availability of jobs.

Then there's is this girl I have been dating for three years and everything has been going well but recently she has been really disturbing me to come and see her people or get her pregnant, am someone that will do everything within my power to make sure my kids don't pass through the hardship I have passed through being someone that wasn't born with a silver spoon, and another thing is that I really love this girl.
Am really confused and don't know what to do.

U can go see her people bt don’t get her pregnant without the means to takecare of 3mouths. Is she working?

OkunrinMeta:



Are you sure she's not already pregnant the pregnant and looking for a father for the baby. You think that kind girl has sense to see down the road the stress of what she is suggesting. You better break up with her if you don't want to see crazy. Just tell her you need to focus on yourself and break up. Some girls get bad luck. Maybe na why you never see job self

A Aaaa

Jesslove:

I think you answered you own question. You´re not ready. Don´t have a baby with her. Be careful not to get her pregnant, don´t just trust her with that.

^^^^ther u goo..see one of them Gold digger. So u adviseing the boy to pregnate the babe..abi? so she can trap a young man wit milk teeth..abi?
The boy clealy say he aint ready but then u tryin to trick him. sad.
its women like u that are responsble for men turning to gay becoz they scared to date women. All u people do is trap person (smh)

bigpicture001:
Wish it was me and my ex.... Would have gladly obliged... But d gal is still in a fantasy world

My broda plan ur life ooo.. babies dey heaven plenty even if it take u anoder 2 years to achieve ur goals In life

Papertrails:
Please nairalanders I need your advice on something that has been bothering me for sometime now.

I am a young graduate who graduated from the university almost two years ago and am done with my youth service too but am still trying to get a job or put up something maybe a business that will be fetching me money considering the situation of our country in terms of availability of jobs.

Then there's is this girl I have been dating for three years and everything has been going well but recently she has been really disturbing me to come and see her people or get her pregnant, am someone that will do everything within my power to make sure my kids don't pass through the hardship I have passed through being someone that wasn't born with a silver spoon, and another thing is that I really love this girl.
Am really confused and don't know what to do.

Bro's try get little Sense

What is she doing for a living?

Is her background Rich ?

Finally, since you love her and you don't want to lose her see her parents they may help you to secure a good JOB or start a business

SweetCunt97:
She's freaking selfish! Money for pampers, cloths, baby wipe, baby bed and materials can she provide?

My question too

danietohbadt:
Na wah for you oooo.
You no get job,
You no get money,
And you one become father.

I pity you.

Just talk to the girl and make her understand the situation of things.

Cos in the end, there's always a difference between pikin and baby.

Use your head oga.
There's no erection for a poor man

i swear ur last line correct die...when am broke i can never even think of having an erection not to say someone jobless