Eval123:
Please I need advice.

I am a young guy age 28 currently in my final year hoping to graduate this year by God's grace. Am in a relationship in with a gal I love so much and the love keeps growing day by the day.

She is 30 years old and just graduated this year but she is talking of waiting for me so we can serve together. The thing now is that I wish to get married to her but am not ready now. But she says she can wait for me if only I won't disappoint her.

Now am confused, if she waits for me for 5 years she would be 35 by then and am not sure if it's right getting married to someone 2 years older than me and someone at the age of 35 or above.. to add to it, she doesn't look her age, even if someone sees us, they won't believe she is my senior..

Pls am really confused, have never dated someone who understands me like she do.. Note: she never knew my age, she thought we were age mate cause of my voters card she saw which doesn't carry my real age.

do not marry a girl that's older than you.

In theory it's all nice and many of these unrealistic fools here will tell you as an exposed person and well educated person, an older woman in relationship didn't matter.

Well after few years in marriage you will realise that an older wife isn't suitable to a younger man

Weathered:
no wonder some of your advice reek of social complexity from a skewed individual.

Yours that is not skewed, we thank God.

EmekaBlue:
I made this comment because one I wan marry who is 33 or maybe more as women too lie with their age dey do one kind attitude like she is doing me a favour. I go soon change my mind go for a younger one make she dey old dey go

Hahahahahahahahaha. I Don know say one single good Emeka no dey. Lol

Eval123:
Please I need advice.

I am a young guy age 28 currently in my final year hoping to graduate this year by God's grace. Am in a relationship in with a gal I love so much and the love keeps growing day by the day.

She is 30 years old and just graduated this year but she is talking of waiting for me so we can serve together. The thing now is that I wish to get married to her but am not ready now. But she says she can wait for me if only I won't disappoint her.

Now am confused, if she waits for me for 5 years she would be 35 by then and am not sure if it's right getting married to someone 2 years older than me and someone at the age of 35 or above.. to add to it, she doesn't look her age, even if someone sees us, they won't believe she is my senior..

Pls am really confused, have never dated someone who understands me like she do.. Note: she never knew my age, she thought we were age mate cause of my voters card she saw which doesn't carry my real age.

You're 28 hoping to graduate this year. She is 30 just graduated, you love her and the love is growing everyday. You wish to get married to her, but not ready.she is talking of waiting for you to serve together if you will not disappoint her. If she wait for you, she will be 35, you will be 28. But you are not sure if it is right getting married to someone that is 2yrs older than you and someone at age of 35. And she doesn't look her age.
WHEN YOU STARTED DATING HER, ARE YOU THE SAME AGE WITH HER?
YOU ARE NOT ORDINARILY CNFUSED but YOU ARE PRACTICALLY and THEORITICALLY CONFUSED. Don't worry, I will tell her your plans for her.

Liposure:
omo you really grandfathered this girl

Lolss,,,Coincidentally her watsapp message popped up while i was typing dat post....


There is nothing as good as understanding each other...

Had it been i was ready then we would have ended up as couple but God knows why....


Better babes dey jst dat dey are rare......

EmekaBlue:
I made this comment because one I wan marry who is 33 or maybe more as women too lie with their age dey do one kind attitude like she is doing me a favour. I go soon change my mind go for a younger one make she dey old dey go

You sound very immature. Please if you want to leave her, please do, make way for better person. Make God no use you punish her.

It's a big lie from her, she is not ready to wait for you, she is only using having you around her as an opportunity to play permutations, the moment she is able to get a man that is fully ready and she love him , she will tell you she cannot wait again as age may not be on her side if she waits. Is like you are a small simp, be smart as most girls are smart too Mr.waiter.

BluDesk:



Hahahahahahahahaha. I Don know say one single good Emeka no dey. Lol

wetin Emeka Dem do...We are good people

Nwachi22:


You sound very immature. Please if you want to leave her, please do, make way for better person. Make God no use you punish her.

There is nothing like sounding immature here...
How can I introduce you to my parents and do a lot for u but all you do is keep giving me attitude and wanting me to always be begging u at what age are u?! She thinks she is still sweet 16 abi...with her aunty milf deflated body I'm even managing compared to the sweet ones in d uni I touch sometimes

lekki1444:
you are just a weak man. she loves you sooo muchh and you love her sooo much, so what exactly are you looking for in life ? you are already 28 ogbeni and the truth is that at 28 your time is very short in this life. lets say you will make it to 70 years abi ? thats only 42 years for you between now and possible death but you are here still looking for some utopia called job and money. let me tell you something brother ? there are no utopias or happiness out there in this world. your life as it is is short. what you need to do is take this woman who loves you and whom you love so much ? borrow money from friends or relatives of hers or yours and use the money to pay one years rent, both of you move in, marry her lowkey ceremony , and both of you just love each other and try to figure the money part out. i am sure you will both make it. and try not to have more than 2 kids while you are figuring it out. this is the best advice you will ever get in the matter. you aint no spring chicken my nigga . dont go out there looking for waterfalls. unless your parents are rich and connected the chances of you making it big in this world of today is very slim and if you do ? you will be in your late fifties to early sixties. unless of course you are a scammer but that comes with its own karma. so just marry this woman who loves you so muchhhh. how many women will promise to wait 5 years for a broke guy ? THATS TRUE LOVE. DONT THROW IT AWAY. DONT LISTEN TO ALL THE CHILDREN ON THE FORUM. THIS IS THE ADVICE YOU NEED

Thank you Elder for this wonderful counsel.

BluDesk:




Thank you Elder for this wonderful counsel.

Thank you

tunary:
This is the best advice here I see

Thank you

plan to marry her in two years time. You can engage her during your service year. If you lose her, you may never get another like her.

Eval123:
Please I need advice.

I am a young guy age 28 currently in my final year hoping to graduate this year by God's grace. Am in a relationship in with a gal I love so much and the love keeps growing day by the day.

She is 30 years old and just graduated this year but she is talking of waiting for me so we can serve together. The thing now is that I wish to get married to her but am not ready now. But she says she can wait for me if only I won't disappoint her.

Now am confused, if she waits for me for 5 years she would be 35 by then and am not sure if it's right getting married to someone 2 years older than me and someone at the age of 35 or above.. to add to it, she doesn't look her age, even if someone sees us, they won't believe she is my senior..

Pls am really confused, have never dated someone who understands me like she do.. Note: she never knew my age, she thought we were age mate cause of my voters card she saw which doesn't carry my real age.

Guy, forget age. If she makes you feel the way no other lady does, Please wife her or you may regret it.

Many people look at stupid variables to decide who to be with except the right one....

Benzemma:
You're 28 hoping to graduate this year. She is 30 just graduated, you love her and the love is growing everyday. You wish to get married to her, but not ready.she is talking of waiting for you to serve together if you will not disappoint her. If she wait for you, she will be 35, you will be 28. But you are not sure if it is right getting married to someone that is 2yrs older than you and someone at age of 35. And she doesn't look her age.
WHEN YOU STARTED DATING HER, ARE YOU THE SAME AGE WITH HER?
YOU ARE NOT ORDINARILY CNFUSED but YOU ARE PRACTICALLY and THEORITICALLY CONFUSED. Don't worry, I will tell her your plans for her.

Do you know her

Firstly you tell her your age, secondly you tell her how long you want to wait b4 marriage.
Thirdly,serving together will make you a father bliv me, you can't avoid it.
My contribution and thought.

If you trust she believes in you and she loves you from the depth of her heart why don't you make sure she is pregnant for you (pregnant for you not someone else) then wait for her reaction afterwards if she loves you like you said she would handle somethings on her own before you are stable
Note after this don't betray her trust

A witch spotted

Qatar2022:
You will die Young if you don't leave that woman

Eval123:
Please I need advice.

I am a young guy age 28 currently in my final year hoping to graduate this year by God's grace. Am in a relationship in with a gal I love so much and the love keeps growing day by the day.

She is 30 years old and just graduated this year but she is talking of waiting for me so we can serve together. The thing now is that I wish to get married to her but am not ready now. But she says she can wait for me if only I won't disappoint her.

Now am confused, if she waits for me for 5 years she would be 35 by then and am not sure if it's right getting married to someone 2 years older than me and someone at the age of 35 or above.. to add to it, she doesn't look her age, even if someone sees us, they won't believe she is my senior..

Pls am really confused, have never dated someone who understands me like she do.. Note: she never knew my age, she thought we were age mate cause of my voters card she saw which doesn't carry my real age.

Hello bro, go with your heart.

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My thoughts:

2 years age difference either way means nothing. You are both in the same age bracket.

Marriage is about friendship, companionship and support. You can get married but put off having kids for 5 years. Love will make you very focused early in your career and You will even save money when you are not eating out and dating several girls.

Finally, your family situation is important. Do you have responsibilities e.g expectations to support younger siblings and parents. If not, you are very lucky and have the flexibility to do what's right by you.

Good luck!

You can't get a decision here. You will only do what you think is best for you. But don't keep the lady waiting longer than a day if you have 1% doubt in your mind.

Qatar2022:
You will die Young if you don't leave that woman

Why

Don't worry about it... in time you will be even. Ehmmm.... I was told my neighbour fell in love with his wife since he was 12 years old. She was his class teacher and 24 at the time.... twice his age. He married ber 12 years later at age 24 while she was 36.... but by now the age gap reduced from twice as old to just two-thirds as old. They recently migrated ... he was 48 and she 60 years old..... already four fifths her age. I'm almost sure by the time he retires they would be age mates... he may even be older. So my advice is to go ahead and make her your wife... after all... it's only two years age difference... you'll catch up with her real soon.

Yes 35 years is not the most appropriate age for a woman to get married if it can be avoided. What about her fertility window and his own tastes and preferences?

Ajibade123:
I am so disappointed that you are educated and you still take age as a big deal
so 35 years old is bad for a female to get married??

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Eval123:

she is a good gal, I know almost everything about her past. so not everyone is a bitch

Let her go please , niggas have giving u the best advice.

If you don't, it'll end in premium tears

Cutehector:
The best ladies to date are older ladies, the younger ones are just witches.

You are experienced
The undiluted truth

Hassanmaye:

Why

She knows everything more than you but she hid it , go and marry a girl you had upper hand at