lekki1444:
you are just a weak man. she loves you sooo muchh and you love her sooo much, so what exactly are you looking for in life ? you are already 28 ogbeni and the truth is that at 28 your time is very short in this life. lets say you will make it to 70 years abi ? thats only 42 years for you between now and possible death but you are here still looking for some utopia called job and money. let me tell you something brother ? there are no utopias or happiness out there in this world. your life as it is is short. what you need to do is take this woman who loves you and whom you love so much ? borrow money from friends or relatives of hers or yours and use the money to pay one years rent, both of you move in, marry her lowkey ceremony , and both of you just love each other and try to figure the money part out. i am sure you will both make it. and try not to have more than 2 kids while you are figuring it out. this is the best advice you will ever get in the matter. you aint no spring chicken my nigga . dont go out there looking for waterfalls. unless your parents are rich and connected the chances of you making it big in this world of today is very slim and if you do ? you will be in your late fifties to early sixties. unless of course you are a scammer but that comes with its own karma. so just marry this woman who loves you so muchhhh. how many women will promise to wait 5 years for a broke guy ? THATS TRUE LOVE. DONT THROW IT AWAY. DONT LISTEN TO ALL THE CHILDREN ON THE FORUM. THIS IS THE ADVICE YOU NEED

Eval123:
Please I need advice.

I am a young guy age 28 currently in my final year hoping to graduate this year by God's grace. Am in a relationship in with a gal I love so much and the love keeps growing day by the day.

She is 30 years old and just graduated this year but she is talking of waiting for me so we can serve together. The thing now is that I wish to get married to her but am not ready now. But she says she can wait for me if only I won't disappoint her.

Now am confused, if she waits for me for 5 years she would be 35 by then and am not sure if it's right getting married to someone 2 years older than me and someone at the age of 35 or above.. to add to it, she doesn't look her age, even if someone sees us, they won't believe she is my senior..

Pls am really confused, have never dated someone who understands me like she do.. Note: she never knew my age, she thought we were age mate cause of my voters card she saw which doesn't carry my real age.

BluDesk:




Wisdom. The psychological imbalance and instability they suffer from at that age would rattle any man. They won't do such to men 50 and above out of fear and respect


Always why I respect your IQ. You see far. Well done. How doctor?

milann:
the older the juicier

franchasng:
hahahaha, she de fine oh

BluDesk:



My dear brother. Who no know, no know. Wetin pass person IQ, person am. The difference between man wey go smile ten years time from man wey go dey cry, na simply one thing o.. Wisdom. Wetin person no know, e no know. And wisdom is the truest virtue of the great.


These days dem nor dey give one advice twice.

Bynz:
U ain't ready No job no money so what's keeping her... it seems you are giving her good sex then

Alaye if u truly love her as much as she does please let her go be with someone that's is ready to settle down.

While u graduate strong, start earning income. Get someone when u know that you are ready to marry. Be careful what you do. Don't go around breaking young or old girls heart

younglleo:
Belarus visa go cost me how much? Una dey do travel now pay later?

Romanoff:


No. Relationship isn't the same as marital matter.

As per sharing what I've learned, it's on a case by case basis.

seanwilliam:


It is either you’re blind or you’just choose to be wicked. Op is broke and him never know when him go get 100k you’re here telling him to come buy land of 1m . U Dey whine me?



Anyway shey u get land for ogun state?

Romanoff:
If you know she'd be too old for you when you're ready to marry, please tell her to move on to a guy that's ready.

No use your reggae spoil her Fuji.

amrichy:

I guess for now we should just agree to disagree on our difference about whether or not relationship should be regarded as a marital matter (na very trivial matter anyway). I'm sure there are more important and perhaps interesting issues we can argue about.
So here is the first "case" i need your knowledge on:
Should a guy or lady be in more than one relationships at a time? what are the pros and/or cons of doing so?

Eval123:
Please I need advice.

I am a young guy age 28 currently in my final year hoping to graduate this year by God's grace. Am in a relationship in with a gal I love so much and the love keeps growing day by the day.

She is 30 years old and just graduated this year but she is talking of waiting for me so we can serve together. The thing now is that I wish to get married to her but am not ready now. But she says she can wait for me if only I won't disappoint her.

Now am confused, if she waits for me for 5 years she would be 35 by then and am not sure if it's right getting married to someone 2 years older than me and someone at the age of 35 or above.. to add to it, she doesn't look her age, even if someone sees us, they won't believe she is my senior..

Pls am really confused, have never dated someone who understands me like she do.. Note: she never knew my age, she thought we were age mate cause of my voters card she saw which doesn't carry my real age.

Eval123:
Please I need advice.

I am a young guy age 28 currently in my final year hoping to graduate this year by God's grace. Am in a relationship in with a gal I love so much and the love keeps growing day by the day.

She is 30 years old and just graduated this year but she is talking of waiting for me so we can serve together. The thing now is that I wish to get married to her but am not ready now. But she says she can wait for me if only I won't disappoint her.

Now am confused, if she waits for me for 5 years she would be 35 by then and am not sure if it's right getting married to someone 2 years older than me and someone at the age of 35 or above.. to add to it, she doesn't look her age, even if someone sees us, they won't believe she is my senior..

Pls am really confused, have never dated someone who understands me like she do.. Note: she never knew my age, she thought we were age mate cause of my voters card she saw which doesn't carry my real age.

Ajibade123:
I am so disappointed that you are educated and you still take age as a big deal
so 35 years old is bad for a female to get married??

if you interested in Canada, UK, Belarus work and study visa
package check my signature to be added to the gc.

Eval123:
Please I need advice.

I am a young guy age 28 currently in my final year hoping to graduate this year by God's grace. Am in a relationship in with a gal I love so much and the love keeps growing day by the day.

She is 30 years old and just graduated this year but she is talking of waiting for me so we can serve together. The thing now is that I wish to get married to her but am not ready now. But she says she can wait for me if only I won't disappoint her.

Now am confused, if she waits for me for 5 years she would be 35 by then and am not sure if it's right getting married to someone 2 years older than me and someone at the age of 35 or above.. to add to it, she doesn't look her age, even if someone sees us, they won't believe she is my senior..

Pls am really confused, have never dated someone who understands me like she do.. Note: she never knew my age, she thought we were age mate cause of my voters card she saw which doesn't carry my real age.

Romanoff:
If you know she'd be too old for you when you're ready to marry, please tell her to move on to a guy that's ready.

No use your reggae spoil her Fuji.

Romanoff:


Well, me I will always present it from the Christian angle. If you are not fornicating and you are dating for marriage, there's nothing wrong with getting to know other people.

The moment you've decided this is the person I'd like to marry, that's when courtship starts.

I see relationship as friendship. You can't court someone you're not friends with, abi?

Eval123:
Please I need advice.

I am a young guy age 28 currently in my final year hoping to graduate this year by God's grace. Am in a relationship in with a gal I love so much and the love keeps growing day by the day.

She is 30 years old and just graduated this year but she is talking of waiting for me so we can serve together. The thing now is that I wish to get married to her but am not ready now. But she says she can wait for me if only I won't disappoint her.

Now am confused, if she waits for me for 5 years she would be 35 by then and am not sure if it's right getting married to someone 2 years older than me and someone at the age of 35 or above.. to add to it, she doesn't look her age, even if someone sees us, they won't believe she is my senior..

Pls am really confused, have never dated someone who understands me like she do.. Note: she never knew my age, she thought we were age mate cause of my voters card she saw which doesn't carry my real age.

mech2021:
imagine a 28years old calling him self a young guy, nothing wey person no go see for this nigeria, well back to your real question, age is not a problem but you need to find the right time to tell her the truth firstly, secondly what are you waiting for 5 years for before you get married ? i guess you already looking at 5 years before you will be okay financially to get married, am not surprised, you already calling your self young man at 28, alaye, you only need 1hr big moments to move from grass to grace, start speaking good things into your life.

Romanoff:


My dear na from experience and poor choices of mine, friends and people around me, na him I use wise up o.

Oracleforce:
This is a lesson for all female folks....I'm sure the guy has Bleep this lady tire...instead of the lady to play relationship with sense, she is playing endurance for the guy that his heart has gone away from her....
Now, I know op has made his decision concerning the innocent lady, he is just looking for more wicked advice on nairaland to use for the lady...
Addressing the question, I see nothing wrong with marrying someone that is years older than a man...mature comes from the wisdom and knowledge you have acquired and put to use...not age at all...
For female folks, Who told you that 35 years cannot bear fruits and who told that 20 years old female cannot be barren for life...

This guy is a cheater.....and it is not his fault...it is the fault of the gullible lady that kept following him without a defined roadmap, timeline, and action....she is so blinded by love and material things.....

Op, may you reap what you sow