Biggers82:
If you fail to marry that girl you will regret it later

That's how the devil always trick them into making decisions that 20 years down the line they'll be crying.

All these foolish women everywhere who are above 33years and still think they are young to marry. I pity una

Menopause keep una dia

Eval123:
Please I need advice.

I am a young guy age 28 currently in my final year hoping to graduate this year by God's grace. Am in a relationship in with a gal I love so much and the love keeps growing day by the day.

She is 30 years old and just graduated this year but she is talking of waiting for me so we can serve together. The thing now is that I wish to get married to her but am not ready now. But she says she can wait for me if only I won't disappoint her.

Now am confused, if she waits for me for 5 years she would be 35 by then and am not sure if it's right getting married to someone 2 years older than me and someone at the age of 35 or above.. to add to it, she doesn't look her age, even if someone sees us, they won't believe she is my senior..

Pls am really confused, have never dated someone who understands me like she do.. Note: she never knew my age, she thought we were age mate cause of my voters card she saw which doesn't carry my real age.

so......what is the issue here ?

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amrichy:

Believe you me, you can never "wise up" enough when it comes to marital matters. The sorts of issues that can crop up during relationship or in marriage are manifold and dynamic!

Thank God I've learned enough and I'm hoping to learn more.

And marital matters are not the topic here but relationship.

Op u have to be older than your lady, unless she wont respect you. i once dated a girl older than me by a year, omoh she feels she can control the relationship but i have to free her

Guy let her go o.

franchasng:
Best age to marry a Nigerian lady in our present time is 28yrs to 36yrs. At this age, a Nigerian lady becomes more rational in her thinking and lifestyle and she also becomes more valuable to her husband.



Marrying any girl below 28yrs, more especially girls of 25yrs and below is asking for trouble into your life. Girls of this age range are mostly parasites.....and their thinking is always irrational and selfish. They only think about what they will gain from a man and not what they can offer to a man aside sex. Their thoughts center around how to have fun, party, fashion, handsome boys with sagging boxers....so allow them to grow past this age range before you wife them if you want peace of mind.



I do usually pity guys marrying girls below 27yrs.


The only people that can marry girls below 25yrs and not have issue are men of 55yrs and above who are marrying them as second or third wives.

Wisdom. The psychological imbalance and instability they suffer from at that age would rattle any man. They won't do such to men 50 and above out of fear and respect


Always why I respect your IQ. You see far. Well done. How doctor?

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Lolsss... bro men dey see things ooooo....


My own dat year say she no go leave me until she get married... las las she found her true husband, introduced him to me, invited me for the wedding but unfortunately i couldn't attend due to my schedules.. We dated from 2011 till 2019...


Bro understanding is the key to a healthy relationship....

omo you really grandfathered this girl

Romanoff:
If you know she'd be too old for you when you're ready to marry, please tell her to move on to a guy that's ready.

No use your reggae spoil her Fuji.

Gbam!!!

@OP HOPE SHE IS NOT PREGNANT YET. IF YOU KNOW YOU ARE MUCH READY IN SETTLING DOWN. BUT WHAT IS 35YEARS DOING THERE 35YEAR U PUT HERE IS INCONSEQUENTIAL. YOU SAID SHE IS 30. ADVANTAGE OF MARRYING A WOMAN OLDER IS YOU WILL HAVE A HEALTHY CHILDREN.

EmekaBlue:
All these foolish women everywhere who are above 33years and still think they are young to marry. I pity una

Menopause keep una dia

33 year old housewives still dey born for their husbands na.

It's when they are above 40, that I would worry.

The major concern should be how chaste is she?

If Boys never too tamper with wetin she dey carry come your house.

I will advice that you let her go immediately. The pain of losing her now would be temporal than the pain of losing her after the five years you have given yourself. I thought I would be marriage at 28 only to realize that life had a different bargain for me when I turned that age. It could still happen to you. It is usually very dangerous to agree for a girl to wait for a man. So many stories shared in this regard did not end well. Let her go, when you are certainly ready, you will see somebody to marry. I rest my case.

MALIGNANTGuest:

.....So the LADY should move to a Guy that's ready and no longer the Guy that's Tall, Dark and WEALTHY ..
when Age starts creeping in, the Guy that's ready becomes the potential man & no longer the classy man.

Lol

CSTRR:

33 year old housewives still dey born for their husbands na.

It's when they are above 40, that I would worry.

The major concern should be how chaste is she?

If Boys never too tamper with wetin she dey carry come your house.

I made this comment because one I wan marry who is 33 or maybe more as women too lie with their age dey do one kind attitude like she is doing me a favour. I go soon change my mind go for a younger one make she dey old dey go

Ok

For you to have reasons to be confused now, shows that you will have reasons to regret it later. Moreover, its not advisable for her to wait for you because the beautiful ones are not yet born. In Ola Rotimi tone, " it is only ignorant that make rat to attack cat".
The gods are wise!

mrblessed:
If a girl (This is a mischaracterisation of address; she should be called a lady) of 35-year-old is not good, at what age do you expect her to be good. 50?

Lol again

Ajibade123:
I am so disappointed that you are educated and you still take age as a big deal
so 35 years old is bad for a female to get married??

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Age might not seem important but I have seen some women reach menopause before 35. Not many but I have seen firsthand. Education helps to ask many questions and look at things from many angles like the OP is doing.

Ask yourself: would the lady care about age too? What happens if maybe when she's 36 or 37 they want to have kids and there's fertility issue? The issue may be with the guy but everyone will automatically assume it is with the lady.

OP needs a frank discussion with his girlfriend. He cannot let her sacrifice a lot only to find out about his lies much later and maybe still get the blame if things don't pan out well.

True true you're confused

EmekaBlue:
I made this comment because one I wan marry who is 33 or maybe more as women too lie with their age dey do one kind attitude like she is doing me a favour. I go soon change my mind go for a younger one make she dey old dey go

Na normal female attitude.

She sef wan shakara na.
You go just overlook am.

If she's decent, stick with her.

Eval123:
Please I need advice.

I am a young guy age 28 currently in my final year hoping to graduate this year by God's grace. Am in a relationship in with a gal I love so much and the love keeps growing day by the day.

She is 30 years old and just graduated this year but she is talking of waiting for me so we can serve together. The thing now is that I wish to get married to her but am not ready now. But she says she can wait for me if only I won't disappoint her.

Now am confused, if she waits for me for 5 years she would be 35 by then and am not sure if it's right getting married to someone 2 years older than me and someone at the age of 35 or above.. to add to it, she doesn't look her age, even if someone sees us, they won't believe she is my senior..

Pls am really confused, have never dated someone who understands me like she do.. Note: she never knew my age, she thought we were age mate cause of my voters card she saw which doesn't carry my real age.

Age is just a number.

But then... I don't support the idea of promising a woman to wait for you so that you can marry her in the future.

It will be like doing both of you a great disservice because...

Nobody knows tomorrow and a lot of things can change. You could lose interest in her in those five years, and vice versa. You could meet another person more interesting and worthy for a life partner, and likewise her.

The way I see it, you could marry her now and damn the consequences, or you could just forget about everything.

Playing a game of Future is like playing a game of Death.

Enough said.

Eval123:
Please I need advice.

I am a young guy age 28 currently in my final year hoping to graduate this year by God's grace. Am in a relationship in with a gal I love so much and the love keeps growing day by the day.

She is 30 years old and just graduated this year but she is talking of waiting for me so we can serve together. The thing now is that I wish to get married to her but am not ready now. But she says she can wait for me if only I won't disappoint her.

Now am confused, if she waits for me for 5 years she would be 35 by then and am not sure if it's right getting married to someone 2 years older than me and someone at the age of 35 or above.. to add to it, she doesn't look her age, even if someone sees us, they won't believe she is my senior..

Pls am really confused, have never dated someone who understands me like she do.. Note: she never knew my age, she thought we were age mate cause of my voters card she saw which doesn't carry my real age.

Please, I beg you in the name of God (or whatever you believe in ), don't waste her time if you know you have no intention of marrying her. In short, tell her your real age and your true thoughts about her.

EndRape2:
Who release this mad man from prison


Mental patient spotted






..uote author=demmymoney post=100649060]Dump the bitch

U are still in ur 20s for bleeps sake why wud u b in an exclusive relationship with the opposite sex in ur 20s and the foolish thing is this one has already hit the wall. Guy don't u know ur value or are u dumb!!!

U should make yourself ur mental point of origin. Focus on ur goals and spin plates. Don't have onetitis for that bitch nahh jeeezzz

Nothing about his comment showed he is mad or anything. You're the one that's mad for not being able to read and pass.

Na somebody like u will advice a young girl to abandon the man that laboured so hard to see her through school because he himself is not educated.

Shut ur mouth and pass

Ajibade123:
I am so disappointed that you are educated and you still take age as a big deal
so 35 years old is bad for a female to get married??

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I think u missed a very vital part of d story. D lady doesn't no his real age. She thinks they are of d same age

EndRape2:
Do you have sense? Did you check when he met the girl? Reason girls are dumping you people, because even if they stay and bear, you people will later say they are old.

Why are u angry? Lol

Romanoff:


The tall, dark and handsome that she is loving is already chickening out because of her age.

Na still Una go insult her if she's marrying at 35, the old newspaper tag comes to mind.

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e be like say to suffer dey sweet you for body!!!... you don't even have an assured job yet, if you know thousands of graduates roaming this country for over 5 years jobless I swear that mumu love go clear for your eyes sharply!, like what makes you feel you are special and will immediately land a good paying job!?... Bros leave that girl, go and establish yourself, this country hard oo, let no one sugarcoat anything for you, na person wey eat belleful dey remain food for another persin, till you finish your service na then everything go clear for your eyes! I reiterate go and ESTABLISH yourself!!!

the girl is a good and humble girl marry her this is a life time opportunity

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Obviously she is in love, love can make you make some irrational decisions but trust me when she is down to reality later, she will be the one to first leave you. Age is not on her side that's number 1 reality, number 2 love alone is not enough when it comes to marriage, there are other ingredients. If she pushes you to marry her because of love only, I can assure you within 1 year 6 months, the two of you will become sworn enemies when you can't pay bills. Tell her off and make her see the reality and not the emotion. You both don't have monopoly of love for each other, with time someone else will love and understand you, same thing for her.