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Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by amrichy(m): 11:23am On Apr 10, 2021 |
Romanoff:Technically, relationship can still be classified as a marital matter. About you learning enough, do you mind sharing some of your knowledge with me then (i'm serious)? |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by milann: 11:23am On Apr 10, 2021 |
MufasaLion:the older the juicier |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by Tregmas: 11:24am On Apr 10, 2021 |
Romanoff:you make sense |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by Romanoff(f): 11:27am On Apr 10, 2021 |
amrichy: No. Relationship isn't the same as marital matter. As per sharing what I've learned, it's on a case by case basis. |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by emeshot: 11:28am On Apr 10, 2021 |
Eval123: Was one time in your shoes bro,the best you can do now is to push her go for her service if you truly love her,encourage her to pursue her dreams try to give her space and work on your dreams too with time she will leave you on her own cause surely she will meet people and with your space she will be able to attach herself with a ready man.do not allow her distract you and don’t ever I repeat ever promise to marry her 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by BMusa1(m): 11:29am On Apr 10, 2021 |
Marriage comes with so much complexities. Most especially when the family on both sides come into the matter. If you are committed to the lady and can fulfill your promise of marrying her after the waiting period, so be it. I'm not sure her age at that time will be so much of an issue. However, if your family or hers will have a say when the time comes, it's also important to get their views right away, so you don't end up wasting each other's time and the family factor hampers the Marriage down the line. |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by sanyablaze(m): 11:29am On Apr 10, 2021 |
gaius01: Wetin spectacular about the advise she gave.. You people go just dey fall hand because of orange |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by sgtponzihater1(m): 11:29am On Apr 10, 2021 |
Start your relationship with the truth. Let her know what she is going into. |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by sirabbey(m): 11:29am On Apr 10, 2021 |
Eval123: Let her go. The age thing matters to you, irrespective of how much you try to convince yourself otherwise. A man's greatest need in relationships and marriage is respect, but in most marriages, the woman will disrespect the man as it is natural for them to do when they are angry but you will feel the disrespect more because of the age difference, It will be difficult for you to overlook or disregard the disrespect like other married men because of the age difference. You will think it is a deliberate act borne out of the age difference. A woman on the other hand feels respected once she is loved or shown love. So while it may be easier for you to love her, I hope you will not feel excessively hurt when the disrespect starts to show in the relationship. 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by donogaga(m): 11:30am On Apr 10, 2021 |
Romanoff: Gbam. As simple as ABC. |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by Gsentme(m): 11:31am On Apr 10, 2021 |
I wonder oo Romanoff: |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by Gsentme(m): 11:33am On Apr 10, 2021 |
But two years isn't much.. what matters is the love you both have for each other. But i prefer marrying 5 to 10 year younger. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by wonderiyke(m): 11:35am On Apr 10, 2021 |
Eval123: At this stage of your life marriage should be the last thing on your mind. Are you in Nigeria at all? My 2 cents Biko! 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by Romanoff(f): 11:36am On Apr 10, 2021 |
sanyablaze: If you read again, his comment was based on comments I made on other topics and this one. No be everybody dey reason with wetin dey between their legs. |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by Caleycashh: 11:36am On Apr 10, 2021 |
NVSBL:Wrong!!!... you can't compare a man's age and that of woman, their biology are built different! |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by CzarChris(m): 11:36am On Apr 10, 2021 |
Eval123:Guy, "hell has no fury like that of a woman scorned". Guy man, you don catch your cruise. Let her be, just be totally honest with her, if not even your dead body go still dey regret when she is through with you. Break it off now that it's quite early. E get why. Love is a phantom, it doesn't exist. It's just a few chemical reactions in your brain that makes you feel that you are in love. Use your senses man. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by Naughtysex: 11:37am On Apr 10, 2021 |
Romanoff:May God bless your wisdom |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by SpencerM(m): 11:37am On Apr 10, 2021 |
Ajibade123: aw fa bro abeg Add me make we vibe |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by Naughtysex: 11:39am On Apr 10, 2021 |
You are scared to marry someone who is older than you but you are not scared to phvck older yansh Is your head paining you? 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by Nobody: 11:41am On Apr 10, 2021 |
Just let her go because even that 5 years you are not sure of the future |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by braunny(m): 11:41am On Apr 10, 2021 |
Romanoff:very right |
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Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by STINOS(m): 11:44am On Apr 10, 2021 |
men age like wine, while women age like milk. Bros don't start what you can't finish. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by CzarChris(m): 11:46am On Apr 10, 2021 |
Ajibade123:Guy this is not an education matter, women tend to age faster than men. Will she still be attractive after a few years in marriage? That's why majority of men almost always go for younger girls (consciously or unconsciously), and women almost always go for men who will be like father figures to them(crafted in the image of their own fathers). Wether we agree to this or not women want men they can respect and not the other way around and subconsciously it plays a part in their selection of a mate. Marriage no bi beans o 3 Likes |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by tunary(m): 11:46am On Apr 10, 2021 |
lkillbrokehoes:42 or 52? |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by ultimatekint(m): 11:47am On Apr 10, 2021 |
You are the head , but not the tail; later the inferiority will surface. Let her go and search for her age mate. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by CzarChris(m): 11:49am On Apr 10, 2021 |
Naughtysex:Guy pucking an older ladies punnany is gold no bi all these small pikin wey full everywhere now. She don give am style and wynning wey all these smallie no even believe is possible. He is in love with the experienced sex not the woman. We know. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by rollandben(m): 11:49am On Apr 10, 2021 |
Guy Look, apparently, your mind is not stable, you know what you want already, age is just a number because i don't think it has a role TO Play relationship. if you don't like HER please tell HER and let her MOVE on to the next available guy who is ready to settle Down. Please dont waste HER precious time if you you cant get marry with her 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by Skyfly007: 11:50am On Apr 10, 2021 |
FalseProphet1:stale |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by younglleo: 11:50am On Apr 10, 2021 |
Ajibade123:Belarus visa go cost me how much? Una dey do travel now pay later? 1 Like 2 Shares
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Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by adebwalex(m): 11:52am On Apr 10, 2021 |
Eval123:VERY FUNNY QUESTION, SOME ONE OLDER THAN YOU FOR 2YEARS ONLY DON'T BE A CONFUSE FELLOW. AGE IS NOT A BARRIER IN RELATIONSHIP. IF SHE IS OLDER THAN YOU WITH 15YEARS OR 10YEARS THAT IS WHEN YOU SHOULD BE ASKING THAT QUESTION... 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by linearity: 11:54am On Apr 10, 2021 |
If you guys truly love each other, age is not an issue; but it appear that her age is an issue for you, hence you are doubting if it is right to marry a lady older than you by two years. Listen, never get into marriage out of an obligation or out of pity for the other person. If you truly don’t love her or you are having an internal misgivings about her age, please don’t marry until you are in total peace about that. And don’t give her a promise to marry in five years. Though very painful and disappointing, a broken courtship is far better than a broken marriage...if you respect her, the earlier you tell her things might not work, the better for her and even for you, it will relief you of a lot of stress and pressure. |
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