Jerrick:
Just have in mind that whatever happens, happens! Girls that won’t fall for this no reach 4 for Nigeria currently

You think it’s every girl in Nigeria that is as poor as the guy chatting her up?

You both were wrong. She was wrong entertaining a man up to this point. Her greed was pushing her on. She is sure you love her, she sure loves you however, she isn't contented with you because she wants all the things you cannot afford.

You were wrong trying to tempt her. You can move on if you feel your expectations are no longer met.

She seems the type who is occupied with her studies and I will say she needs some maturity.

So serious

At 22, unmarried and not engaged (or are you engaged), it's 'understandable'. I also understand that you are crushed but for all you know, she may just be planning to clean out 'Tayo' without any attachment. She even wants to bring a chaperone, that's some decency there. So don't jump into conclusions.

What you should do is face your real problem. Have a mature heart to heart talk with her about your relationship. If she's in and just having some personal issues, fine. If not and she wanna quit, you'd know. Will hurt, but you'd be sure. This will let you know where you stand.

But still on still baba, go for the date. Complete the plan and let us know the reaction and interaction.

In a country where many are poor, you want to test your girlfriend with the bait of an illusory rich guy and you are shocked she fell. She even tried. She admitted that she had a boyfriend whom she loves and she said she will come see him with a friend. What were you even expecting sef? Jobless OP

For the fact she admitted she has a boyfriend, give her a break. You must have gotten her really mad for her to ignore you.

If someone wants to send my girl 25k and she doesn't take it, I'll be mad. You offered... She didn't do anything wrong.

Look at yourself and find out where you went wrong.

Plus all these text drama are unnecessary... Quite childish.

kmcutez:


You think it’s every girl in Nigeria that is as poor as the guy chatting her up?

So sorry “her richness”

AishaYesufu:
What exactly do you intend to achieve? A woman doesn't give you attention, rather than take the honorable path by ignoring her, you elected to waste your time over what is unprofitable to you nor her simply because of your desperation for her attention.

Beside, you talk too much and boring

Honestly.

99% will fall even u wey be man girl wey rich come like this u no go fall lol . Abeg abeg move on if u no like her again

AishaYesufu:
What exactly do you intend to achieve? A woman doesn't give you attention, rather than take the honorable path by ignoring her, you elected to waste your time over what is unprofitable to you nor her simply because of your desperation for her attention.

Beside, you talk too much and boring

You read my mind.

@Jerrick: Guy, you get energy and time oh.

I no get time for all of this ur CIA investigations.

So all this while that you were chatting as a fake guy, did you have time to chat with her again as he real guy?
If you as Josh is better than the real you, any single lady will chose Josh.
You sha have time.. weldone.
Babe no want put all her eggt in one basket.
But cheating is not a gender or race thing. Break up if you don't feel secured.

I carefully go through the chat, and i can tell you that your girlfriend is a honest type just that she's not contended with what she has. She was so honest to tell the supposed rich guy who you claimed to be, that she has a boyfriend though, and the boyfriend love him so so much, assuming she said otherwise, then i will conclude that she's olosho. Go back to that girl.

Op na woman rapper. like who doesn't love good things.... mind you, when a guy can respect the privacy of his girlfriend then shit like this happens.. This is how you will be going around leaking ur marital affairs to people later u would blame village people. ode

Nobody on Fp even considered the fact that the girl might want to chop and run. You all just assume that she will probably Bleep on the first day.

Didnt you see as she stylishy blocked the hotel gist. I dont blame the girl at all. You displayed the typical gameless behaviour of wanting her to like what you are and not who you are. If she were my sister I'll tell her to collect everything and more from you because a fool and his money are soon parted.

Offering phone and 25k and you say she shouldn't take. You funny sha.

P.s you were very desperate in that chat and women sense that and already have the upper hand before you even see her.

Finally if your girl is even of average intelligence she should know that you are the one playing this game...

Bros, at least she honest about having a boyfriend, about the guy loving her, about her loving you and most importantly say you do try in taking care of her.
Most girls wouldn't mind to meet alone or going there alone to meet nor the hotel part.
99.9% of girls will fall for this, that's i know so what?
This prove nothing bro..

Baba you talk too much, talkative.you get time seff you better go and hussle and make your life better dey follow olosho up and down in the name of girlfriend

kmcutez:


You think it’s every girl in Nigeria that is as poor as the guy chatting her up?

The guy is poor and insecure. It's not necessary.
I will advise him not to ever let her girl know that he did this rubbish but then, it's already on social media.

The relationship may not survive this.

OP, if Temi Otedola (for example) requests you go on a date with her, would you reject it?

Jerakson:
guy I like this your style. Be like I go use am for my stronghead babe

This style is meant for people wey get mouth and money. if money isn't involved. how she go take dey respond ?

Jerrick:
This is very recent!! Pardon my errors and mistakes please.

What do women really want? Everyone is really jealous one way or the other and our degree of jealousy varies but I wasn’t the over jealous type and would even let go of some things to avoid issues. So I was wary of my GF recent behavior; I’d send her text she would not reply for hours or even till the next day while she was online. I called her attention to it and she was acting like nothing was wrong, it actually got me mad that I overreacted and went as far as blocking her. I knew I made a mistake, I unblocked her back and apologized and we were fine but funny thing is that the same day we settled our dispute she repeated the same thing of not replying me which is very strange to me because throughout the years we’ve been together She’s never done such. I became worried so I decided to play games with her. Below is the chat of the person she thought she was chatting with.

I’ll upload more of it when this hits front page because I want to know if I did overreact ending things with her or not.

Well from what I've read so far your babe is just playing along. There is nothing suspicious from these chats

So what exactly is her offence?
She's probably engaging the stranger in order not to appear rude, that aside OP she's neither married nor engaged to you so calm down.

Glorious2021:
Beware of this hungry scammer

so you fall for it too...

@OP, see guy. I painstakingly read through the chat screenshots.

Nothing is wrong with this your girlfriend and it is a typical of what an average girl would do whether Nigerian or not .

Her responses were okay.

Try and settle whatever you have wrong with her.

PS: why were you covering some part of the chat? I hate what I don't like

Jerakson:
guy I like this your style. Be like I go use am for my stronghead babe

Just sign her account on WhatsApp web and find out what your babe is up to.. No need for all this stress

Sonnobax15:


like I do tell my real dudes..That I'd rather spend my sub and precious time watching xvideos than see myself wasting my time on any Nigerian girl matter..
Two days ago,I sent my gf a dm on fb...I see say the banny read my message on messenger but she no gree reply me... infact,I resent her another message just to make sure she sees it..She saw it and again snubbed me for the second time....I just lock up like say nothing happen..

yesterday,the same banny messaged me on fb,I equally read her message and snubbed her as well..She noticed it and tried calling me but I kept ignoring her calls till now..

my guy,let your peace of mind be your utmost priority.

Come let me hug you. No homo. Abeg, na man you be.

I don’t know why u have to do all this just cos ur gal of 4 years isn’t relpying ur msgs as quick as usual, u don’t stay with sm1 for 4 years in a serious relationship without knowing their in’s and out unless it’s a casual relationship and if they change u should know how to address the changes accurately and sensibly.

U can’t just be knowing ur gal can go on random blind dates after 4years? U just waking up years behind Tme. well Lasu gals no Dey carry last.

jelel6:


Haha.

Is that the mentality you have after dating someone for 4 years? That You'd still be unsure whether that person is 'best' for you?

So you'd be cool and not bothered if your partner tells you they are recieving gifts from other admirers, going on social/romantic outings, and this same admirers have been asking your partner if you both love eachother?

And I wonder where the line for cheating begins in your playbook. Until she sleeps with the audio Doctor from Belgium?

Did she not specifically say that they love each other..so what's the fuss about

Boy Friend and Girlfriend. Ona Well-done ooo.

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SoliBayNG:
For the fact she admitted she has a boyfriend, give her a break. You must have gotten her really mad for her to ignore you.

If someone wants to send my girl 25k and she doesn't take it, I'll be mad. You offered... She didn't do anything wrong.

Look at yourself and find out where you went wrong.

Plus all these text drama is unnecessary... Quite childish.

Very childish stuff

Probably why she's giving him the cold shoulder

I used to fight this before but not anymore because what will be will surely be,this generation ain't joking, everything is all about the ego,kudi,Owo.�����

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1F30M4:
You're indeed a clown lol..

While I'll agree with you that any form of breach in communication between two or more parties who are in a mutual relationship, sows seeds of doubt, a cause for concern.. The right thing to do is to call the attention of the party(parties) involved, as the case may be.. In this context, you did the right thing by expressing your displeasure, you went way overboard though.. It shouldn't have gotten up to that(your attempt to fool her, consistently chatting her up & what not), that consistency shows that you really do love her, you're hurt but then you just want some form of closure before breaking up with her..

She does love you though but I can't say I know why she ignores your chats or her late replies(not just minutes, many hours later).. You both should've really talked about it yh cos if she can reply a "random stranger" relatively faster than she does to you(her supposed boyfriend), there is something wrong..

Oh well, if you feel the breakup will make you feel better, then by all means go for it.

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