₦airaland Forum

Bigdik70inch2:
Well.........yo grevious mistake was leaving the bed to sleep on the floor........in the first place bro.........

Girls see u as a king........when u put nobody above you.........they r all bird brain

Haaaaa,,ogami sir ...we are all bird brain biti bawo?

Level down to her , I feel you been too bossy and you don't relate with her often. There is a lot after school.

ekene101:
Idiot,I am not the op,I just smelt your stupidity millions of miles away,if you are so daft not to no know how to put an erring lady in her place,how can you notice that I am not the op. You are SIMP-ly stewphid.

SIMP-ly stewpid
Chai see punches

MickzyDonald:
He hasn't bleeped her see the way she's misbehaving, what if the Guy has now been f*king her nko, she will even lock him outside out of respect

Oga unless he no Bleep am well some Bleep deh reset girls brain

stinflame:
Level down to her , I feel you been too bossy and you don't relate with her often. There is a lot after school.

More wisdom is your portion jare. He should check himself first

daveyjay:
Good day NLers, please I need your take on this.
I'm a student in one of Nigeria's prominent public universities.

A girl decided to vie for admission in my school via the predigree programme but she had no accommodation. Because of the relationship between my parents and hers, I offered to take her in from January till now

I offered a roof over her head.

The first night she came, she slept on the floor and I wasn't okay with that, the following night, I told her she could have the bed, I vacated my bed and relegated myself to sleeping on the floor, we can't share same bed since she's neither my babe nor sister. And this sleeping routine has continued ever since then. The floor is my new bed

I gave her my spare key, uncensored access to my kitchen and everything within my legal occupancy.
Cut long story short, last week Tuesday she woke up, had her bath, ate then stepped out briefly, when she returned we were outta water. Tap water of course. She called my attention to it to which I remained calm. Meanwhile I hadn't eaten neither had I bathed. At noon, she came to me that she was hungry but couldn't cook due to unavailability of water, I then asked her if I am to fetch her water??!.

She said she was gonn take food stuff to her friend's place (upstairs) to cook.
I replied by asking how many of her friends had lacked water and brought food stuff to cook here??!


She got angry and took some money and left


That same Tuesday, I went to see Chelsea game, when I returned, I asked her if she cooked but she didn't dignify me with her attention talk more of a response.
I thought it was rude but considered it as one of the many tantrums of ladies

The following morning, she woke up, acted like I don't exist, couldn't greet... had her bathe and left. Returned, unlocked the door, walked in like I wasn't there, ate, left to her friend's place.

On Thursday she repeated the routine, I called her back when she was going out, I asked her if she considered me as her father, brother or boyfriend that she'd wake up and start throwing attitudes...
I made her understand that I am her benefactor.
Hardly did I finish before she left. She returned and continued in same path and that has continued till this very moment...

Last night she didn't sleep at home, when she returned in the morning, she unlocked the door with her spare, walked in, ate, brushed, dressed and walked out without a single word e come be like say I be ghost.

What I did, I changed the locks, took some stuff, sealed my door with strict instructions to the caretaker then moved to a friends place outside my lodge and I've been there ever since.

She has returned and has been calling my line but I've been ignoring...

Now, is my action too harsh or still in line??!

Guy! You be OG!

Don't let her in that room ever again. She's a silly girl.

daveyjay:
I should unlock and evict her??!

I don't actually want to be the one who tells her to leave.

She should make that choice herself

You are very wise, I like that

And your action was on point too

Bad behavior is not to be encouraged.

daveyjay:
Good day NLers, please I need your take on this.
I'm a student in one of Nigeria's prominent public universities.

A girl decided to vie for admission in my school via the predigree programme but she had no accommodation. Because of the relationship between my parents and hers, I offered to take her in from January till now

I offered a roof over her head.

The first night she came, she slept on the floor and I wasn't okay with that, the following night, I told her she could have the bed, I vacated my bed and relegated myself to sleeping on the floor, we can't share same bed since she's neither my babe nor sister. And this sleeping routine has continued ever since then. The floor is my new bed

I gave her my spare key, uncensored access to my kitchen and everything within my legal occupancy.
Cut long story short, last week Tuesday she woke up, had her bath, ate then stepped out briefly, when she returned we were outta water. Tap water of course. She called my attention to it to which I remained calm. Meanwhile I hadn't eaten neither had I bathed. At noon, she came to me that she was hungry but couldn't cook due to unavailability of water, I then asked her if I am to fetch her water??!.

She said she was gonn take food stuff to her friend's place (upstairs) to cook.
I replied by asking how many of her friends had lacked water and brought food stuff to cook here??!


She got angry and took some money and left


That same Tuesday, I went to see Chelsea game, when I returned, I asked her if she cooked but she didn't dignify me with her attention talk more of a response.
I thought it was rude but considered it as one of the many tantrums of ladies

The following morning, she woke up, acted like I don't exist, couldn't greet... had her bathe and left. Returned, unlocked the door, walked in like I wasn't there, ate, left to her friend's place.

On Thursday she repeated the routine, I called her back when she was going out, I asked her if she considered me as her father, brother or boyfriend that she'd wake up and start throwing attitudes...
I made her understand that I am her benefactor.
Hardly did I finish before she left. She returned and continued in same path and that has continued till this very moment...

Last night she didn't sleep at home, when she returned in the morning, she unlocked the door with her spare, walked in, ate, brushed, dressed and walked out without a single word e come be like say I be ghost.

What I did, I changed the locks, took some stuff, sealed my door with strict instructions to the caretaker then moved to a friends place outside my lodge and I've been there ever since.

She has returned and has been calling my line but I've been ignoring...

Now, is my action too harsh or still in line??!

you a man indeed for keeping things straight with her, you are a benefactor to her not her father, or brother, or boyfriend.. She should respect you.. If she can't she is better off parking out, although I suspect he has seen and stupid Bobo that has promised her roof over her head, she will soon understand that People like you are rare, very hard to find.. I am very sure by the time that Bobo is done with her puzzy, she will have to find a place to go

Go back to the hostel, let her park her bag and baggages
She will revenge for been stranded for two days and she will say you raped her
Mark my words!

You better kick her out permanently before she poisons your food or stab you while you sleep. Be wise

I am not bossy at all.
True that I do not relate with her often.
I'm too busy with myself...

stinflame:
Level down to her , I feel you been too bossy and you don't relate with her often. There is a lot after school.

I cannot exert violence so I came up with the idea

Biglittlelois:
You are very wise, I like that

And your action was on point too

Bad behavior is not to be encouraged.

E never reach like this boss

Babara1994:
You better kick her out permanently before she poisons your food or stab you while you sleep. Be wise

You may be right.
Your moniker tho

Depressed101:
you a man indeed for keeping things straight with her, you are a benefactor to her not her father, or brother, or boyfriend.. She should respect you.. If she can't she is better off parking out, although I suspect he has seen and stupid Bobo that has promised her roof over her head, she will soon understand that People like you are rare, very hard to find.. I am very sure by the time that Bobo is done with her puzzy, she will have to find a place to go

daveyjay:
Good day NLers, please I need your take on this.
I'm a student in one of Nigeria's prominent public universities.

A girl decided to vie for admission in my school via the predigree programme but she had no accommodation. Because of the relationship between my parents and hers, I offered to take her in from January till now

I offered a roof over her head.

The first night she came, she slept on the floor and I wasn't okay with that, the following night, I told her she could have the bed, I vacated my bed and relegated myself to sleeping on the floor, we can't share same bed since she's neither my babe nor sister. And this sleeping routine has continued ever since then. The floor is my new bed

I gave her my spare key, uncensored access to my kitchen and everything within my legal occupancy.
Cut long story short, last week Tuesday she woke up, had her bath, ate then stepped out briefly, when she returned we were outta water. Tap water of course. She called my attention to it to which I remained calm. Meanwhile I hadn't eaten neither had I bathed. At noon, she came to me that she was hungry but couldn't cook due to unavailability of water, I then asked her if I am to fetch her water??!.

She said she was gonn take food stuff to her friend's place (upstairs) to cook.
I replied by asking how many of her friends had lacked water and brought food stuff to cook here??!


She got angry and took some money and left


That same Tuesday, I went to see Chelsea game, when I returned, I asked her if she cooked but she didn't dignify me with her attention talk more of a response.
I thought it was rude but considered it as one of the many tantrums of ladies

The following morning, she woke up, acted like I don't exist, couldn't greet... had her bathe and left. Returned, unlocked the door, walked in like I wasn't there, ate, left to her friend's place.

On Thursday she repeated the routine, I called her back when she was going out, I asked her if she considered me as her father, brother or boyfriend that she'd wake up and start throwing attitudes...
I made her understand that I am her benefactor.
Hardly did I finish before she left. She returned and continued in same path and that has continued till this very moment...

Last night she didn't sleep at home, when she returned in the morning, she unlocked the door with her spare, walked in, ate, brushed, dressed and walked out without a single word e come be like say I be ghost.

What I did, I changed the locks, took some stuff, sealed my door with strict instructions to the caretaker then moved to a friends place outside my lodge and I've been there ever since.

She has returned and has been calling my line but I've been ignoring...

Now, is my action too harsh or still in line??!

Brother man, you did the right thing. You are the real GOAT

daveyjay:
Good day NLers, please I need your take on this.
I'm a student in one of Nigeria's prominent public universities.

A girl decided to vie for admission in my school via the predigree programme but she had no accommodation. Because of the relationship between my parents and hers, I offered to take her in from January till now

I offered a roof over her head.

The first night she came, she slept on the floor and I wasn't okay with that, the following night, I told her she could have the bed, I vacated my bed and relegated myself to sleeping on the floor, we can't share same bed since she's neither my babe nor sister. And this sleeping routine has continued ever since then. The floor is my new bed

I gave her my spare key, uncensored access to my kitchen and everything within my legal occupancy.
Cut long story short, last week Tuesday she woke up, had her bath, ate then stepped out briefly, when she returned we were outta water. Tap water of course. She called my attention to it to which I remained calm. Meanwhile I hadn't eaten neither had I bathed. At noon, she came to me that she was hungry but couldn't cook due to unavailability of water, I then asked her if I am to fetch her water??!.

She said she was gonn take food stuff to her friend's place (upstairs) to cook.
I replied by asking how many of her friends had lacked water and brought food stuff to cook here??!


She got angry and took some money and left


That same Tuesday, I went to see Chelsea game, when I returned, I asked her if she cooked but she didn't dignify me with her attention talk more of a response.
I thought it was rude but considered it as one of the many tantrums of ladies

The following morning, she woke up, acted like I don't exist, couldn't greet... had her bathe and left. Returned, unlocked the door, walked in like I wasn't there, ate, left to her friend's place.

On Thursday she repeated the routine, I called her back when she was going out, I asked her if she considered me as her father, brother or boyfriend that she'd wake up and start throwing attitudes...
I made her understand that I am her benefactor.
Hardly did I finish before she left. She returned and continued in same path and that has continued till this very moment...

Last night she didn't sleep at home, when she returned in the morning, she unlocked the door with her spare, walked in, ate, brushed, dressed and walked out without a single word e come be like say I be ghost.

What I did, I changed the locks, took some stuff, sealed my door with strict instructions to the caretaker then moved to a friends place outside my lodge and I've been there ever since.

She has returned and has been calling my line but I've been ignoring...

Now, is my action too harsh or still in line??!

aswear ...oil dey ur head!!!! I love the fact that you not simping around

Watch that lady lie to her family and yours that you made sexual Moves on her hence the fall out. She will never take responsibility for her irresponsibility, i can bet you on that.

Best thing is to cut the shit, call your parents and tell them the situation of things, if you can no longer have her in your space, clearly let them know.
Ladies and their stupid sense of entitlement.

I just pity anybody, male or female wey go come de project any sense of entitlement where i de sha. I de always de prepared for them.

I want to knw how this saga ends

Where una dey meet all these girls sef... Na wa o

daveyjay:
Bossy by vacating my bed and sleeping on the floor since January??!
Bossy by tolerating her insolent behaviour for one full week??!

C'mon

sleeping on the floor is one big mistake u made.

It's either u both sleep on the mattress or she gets another one. Period!

If she must continue to stay, it has to end in only one way; apologizing for bad behaviour!

coming2america:
I want to knw how this saga ends

But she clearly told you that she couldn't cook due to unavailability of water. You are the host and very likely the one with the muscles. I don't see how fetching water for your guest to prep your meal is a big deal. Unless, you want her to pay for the roof over her head, by doing all the house chores, I'm certainly not understanding what really prompted this fight.
There's probably more that you are not telling.

No...you are wrong to lock her from her belongings..I understand the feeling..I have been there ...talk to her ...there might b some tins u r doing wrong that u don't know....if the case continue... involved her mum...don't lock her out...because if anything should happen to her..na u go answer ooo

OP, if you really want her to behave well towards you, then you have to make her your girlfriend first.

She needs you badly.

daveyjay:
My neighbor called that she's stranded that I should return

Nooo the petulant fool should go stay with her friend. What rubbish. Never tolerate nonsense from ladies o

OP, have a change of heart. She is someone's daughter.

daveyjay:
You may be right.
Your moniker tho

relegate her to d floor jor.

Mexzy4sho:
Bro, I off cap for you. Best response to someone like that....

God will continue to bless him for this action he took!!! I'm honestly Glad!!!

Richochett:
At least I'm more intelligent than you.

No...u are not

harrwix:
Apart from your actions, I appreciate the fact that you initially reached out to her. Let her know henceforth you will not welcome an insolent behaviour of which she has two choice, apologize and turn a new leaf or take her stuffs and leave your apartment

To add to that, let her be sleeping on the floor while you reclaim your bed back.

Make sure you guys don't eat together. Cook your food different.

Rocktation:
But she clearly told you that she couldn't cook due to unavailability of water. You are the host and very likely the one with the muscles. I don't see how fetching water for your guest to prep your meal is a big deal. Unless, you want her to pay for the roof over her head, by doing all the house chores, I'm certainly not understanding what really prompted this fight.
There's probably more that you are not telling.

You said a host not a slave. Does that mean if you visit someone, you can't help them out with anything?

Women and their shallow thinking

Paramount01:
Call yor parents and inform ur mum, tel ur mum the decsion you want to take,trust me,she will give u the best advice
Open up to your mum fully, she will even know how to talk go her,there is life after skull ooo...if u like take the advice if u like leave it, but what an elderly man sees while sitting a small boy can't see it even of he clumps irokto tree

since he said both families r close, I think this advice is better.