Originalsly:


Just curious..... before Broke Guy lost his job ... did you all like him? If yes... what about him you all liked but now you no longer like? Didn't you all like him like you like the New Guy? ... and is it you all like him... or is it you?
As I see it .... you like the new guy. You are writing out of fear ... fear that if your sister does not accept the guy then you will not have access to him nor his fortune. If she does... then you will be the happiest person on earth... you will have alllll the time in the world to seduce him and carry on in private because after all.... you are the sister in law.... one big family under one roof.... you resuming living like a leech. You most likely have a reputation .... of sleeping with family members bf's ... and since you are showing interest in Mr New Guy... your sister has already seen the writing on the wall and is staying clear of him because of you. Mr Broke Guy is sucking your sister dry .... is it your portion of juice to suck has reduced? Do you work?.... do you have a bf? You said your piece to her ... exit right.

you must be very stupid for writing this piece of crap is she your sister? Did they told u am single my boyfriend is a senior staff at a big company as u can see I have sense so I want my elder sister to have sense as well

orohbiro:
Good day my fellow nairalanders, my sister and this guy has been dating for 4 years now he use to work in a company but lost his job 2yrs ago since then he had been a parasite to my sister coming to our house to eat our food two times a day.

There is this new guy who asked my sister out. He is gentle and he has a good job, he is a Christian he has his own house, we all like him. I have been begging my sister to give him a try because he is ready for marriage unlike the other guy who has no hope of taking good care of my sister rather sucking my sister dry.

My sister seems to love the broke guy more but that guy is not a serious person for 2 good years he can't look for a job not even a menial job. If my sister mistakenly marries the broke guy she will suffer in the marriage because all the responsibility will be on her head. Gidforbid!

Please how do I convince my sister to focus on this other guy that is comfortable? I want the best for my sister.

Nairaland is a very terrible place to seek advice. Most people here will write trash just for the likes.

Nairaland represents Nigeria people. Only few people are sensible. Others follow bandwagon.

Most of the people insulting you now will still blame your sister if and when the man is unable to take care of her and the children.

I had a sister like that who married her husband because the man appears to be a church goer. My sister's question to my mum then was "between a rich man and a man that knows God which do you prefer?"

Many years later, my sister still borrows to pay rent. I'm sure if we turn our back on her, she would have been thrown to the street with her children.

The only thing the stupid man does is to keep getting her pregnant. My sister foots all the family bills, from rent to school fees, feeding, hospital treatment, etc.

She has even saved up money to start some business for the husband but they all failed because every business seems stressful to him. He has a working class wife so why not?

Tell your sister that you will not look at her face when the financial responsibilities surface. That's how some girls will see fire and step into it. Which type of guy lacks self worth that he has to be eating daily in your house?

Been jobless for a whole two years? Trust me, that man will never make a good husband and father.

Forget whatever nairaland members are saying, most people here are hypocrite. Typing as if they don't need money themselves.

People should be able to live with their decisions in life. I'm sure by the time your sister ends up with this man and things get tough and you refuse to assist, she will see you as wicked.

Now her decision is hers but later she will want to share her responsibilities with your family.

That's how people go about giving birth to so many children than they can care for because it's their decision to make but when the responsibilities come, they will be looking for one uncle and aunty to assist.

felixzo1:
if the new guy losses his job, what happens

God bless you bro.

The op is a gold digger

SILENTandSMART2:
Ode you just dey think like rat wey see delicious food in the trap.......

This are the way of thinking that's making Nigeria to move backward.....

What if the second guy later got broke or it can't happen ?......... Let her marry the one wey true love dey , if he didn't loose his job will you bring yaaa nonsense brain come here writing rubbish ?.....

This type of thinking always consume my energy........ Mad people everywhere......

I wonder, foolish girl

orohbiro:
you must be very stupid for writing this piece of crap is she your sister? Did they told u am single my boyfriend is a senior staff at a big company as u can see I have sense so I want my elder sister to have sense as well

Don't stress yourself over these bunch of non-thinking entities (nonentities) here. I really felt sad reading the replies here.

People just type to get likes. No single objective contribution with application to real life events and experience.

Just their usual way of shaming the female gender.

Gabkosh:
I wonder, foolish girl

You might be the foolish one here.

Gabkosh:
God bless you bro.

The op is a gold digger

Gold digger kill you there. She only wants the best for her sister. Love does not pay bills

Qatar2022:

Now he lose his job he is parasite but when that money was coming he was god to your useless family, your post show how desperate you and your family are, you want to discard him because he lost his job, shame on you and your family

Big shame.

May God not let me meet such a girl like this useless op

PuZZyNegro:


Gold digger kill you there. She only wants the best for her sister. Love does not pay bills

Best kill you there.

When the new guy goes broke, she will still advise her to move to the next one.

You are a fool. Bird of a feather.

I repeat, the useless op is a chronic gold digger.

PuZZyNegro:


You might be the foolish one here.

I know you are the op.

Like I said, God punish your gold digging family.

PuZZyNegro:


Don't stress yourself over these bunch of non-thinking entities (nonentities) here. I really felt sad reading the replies here.

People just type to get likes. No single objective contribution with application to real life events and experience.

Just their usual way of shaming the female gender.

Shut up oleeeeeeee. Useless gold diggers. God punish you all.

[s]

PuZZyNegro:


Nairaland is a very terrible place to seek advice. Most people here will write trash just for the likes.

Nairaland represents Nigeria people. Only few people are sensible. Others follow bandwagon.

Most of the people insulting you now will still blame your sister if and when the man is unable to take care of her and the children.

I had a sister like that who married her husband because the man appears to be a church goer. My sister's question to my mum then was "between a rich man and a man that knows God which do you prefer?"

Many years later, my sister still borrows to pay rent. I'm sure if we turn our back on her, she would have been thrown to the street with her children.

The only thing the stupid man does is to keep getting her pregnant. My sister foots all the family bills, from rent to school fees, feeding, hospital treatment, etc.

She has even saved up money to start some business for the husband but they all failed because every business seems stressful to him. He has a working class wife so why not?

Tell your sister that you will not look at her face when the financial responsibilities surface. That's how some girls will see fire and step into it. Which type of guy lacks self worth that he has to be eating daily in your house?

Been jobless for a whole two years? Trust me, that man will never make a good husband and father.

Forget whatever nairaland members are saying, most people here are hypocrite. Typing as if they don't need money themselves.

People should be able to live with their decisions in life. I'm sure by the time your sister ends up with this man and things get tough and you refuse to assist, she will see you as wicked.

Now her decision is hers but later she will want to share her responsibilities with your family.

That's how people go about giving birth to so many children than they can care for because it's their decision to make but when the responsibilities come, they will be looking for one uncle and aunty to assist.

[/s] ode, kee replying yourself because you think people will support your gold digging nature hahahahaha. Ole.

May God save the guy from your gold digging family of theives.

orohbiro:
you must be very stupid for writing this piece of crap is she your sister? Did they told u am single my boyfriend is a senior staff at a big company as u can see I have sense so I want my elder sister to have sense as well

Shut your gold digging mouth and answer his questions. Ole oshi.

A girl that her boyfriend is a senior staff at a big company will not think local like you.

Why not tell your Mr senior staff to help him get a job.

You are just a useless leeche.

orohbiro:
Good day my fellow nairalanders, my sister and this guy has been dating for 4 years now he use to work in a company but lost his job 2yrs ago since then he had been a parasite to my sister coming to our house to eat our food two times a day.

There is this new guy who asked my sister out. He is gentle and he has a good job, he is a Christian he has his own house, we all like him. I have been begging my sister to give him a try because he is ready for marriage unlike the other guy who has no hope of taking good care of my sister rather sucking my sister dry.

My sister seems to love the broke guy more but that guy is not a serious person for 2 good years he can't look for a job not even a menial job. If my sister mistakenly marries the broke guy she will suffer in the marriage because all the responsibility will be on her head. Gidforbid!

Please how do I convince my sister to focus on this other guy that is comfortable? I want the best for my sister.

And u believe you know what's best for your sister right?
Look you have to respect your sisters choice and see her for the intelligent person she is. How do we know if your own relationship choices are better than hers.
Madam u are no relationship expert so respect yourself and stay clear of your sister's business. What u are doing never ends well.

The kind of shameless men roaming in Nigeria I no understand


Talkless of the ones under who are approaching 40 and still living under their folks

Tufiakwa

orohbiro:
Good day my fellow nairalanders, my sister and this guy has been dating for 4 years now he use to work in a company but lost his job 2yrs ago since then he had been a parasite to my sister coming to our house to eat our food two times a day.

There is this new guy who asked my sister out. He is gentle and he has a good job, he is a Christian he has his own house, we all like him. I have been begging my sister to give him a try because he is ready for marriage unlike the other guy who has no hope of taking good care of my sister rather sucking my sister dry.

My sister seems to love the broke guy more but that guy is not a serious person for 2 good years he can't look for a job not even a menial job. If my sister mistakenly marries the broke guy she will suffer in the marriage because all the responsibility will be on her head. Gidforbid!

Please how do I convince my sister to focus on this other guy that is comfortable? I want the best for my sister.

If the new guy losses his job as well so what next? I pity who will marry an unfortunate soul like you! God forbid!

Yeah. I guessed right. A woman is the author of the post. Women tend to evaluate men based on how much they have. I feel sorry for the broke dude but you saying he has no hope doesn't cut it, you don't know tomorrow. Moreover, we've neither heard from the man nor his chick. So ima move

orohbiro:
Good day my fellow nairalanders, my sister and this guy has been dating for 4 years now he use to work in a company but lost his job 2yrs ago since then he had been a parasite to my sister coming to our house to eat our food two times a day.

There is this new guy who asked my sister out. He is gentle and he has a good job, he is a Christian he has his own house, we all like him. I have been begging my sister to give him a try because he is ready for marriage unlike the other guy who has no hope of taking good care of my sister rather sucking my sister dry.

My sister seems to love the broke guy more but that guy is not a serious person for 2 good years he can't look for a job not even a menial job. If my sister mistakenly marries the broke guy she will suffer in the marriage because all the responsibility will be on her head. Gidforbid!

Please how do I convince my sister to focus on this other guy that is comfortable? I want the best for my sister.

Gold digging thief like you

Babafash:
Am a guy but will never allow my sister to date a broke guys no matter what. Relationships is 80% money 20% love o. We no come this life to suffer abeg. Op do everything in your power to chase that your sisters pest of a boyfriend. Haba for 2yrs no job or even menial job the guy is cursed

. You will live to regret these words be you male or female
Mark it. You have placed a judgement on yourself

Hmm, are you your sister? ,is your sister you ni ? . The best you can do is to employ the guy or get him a well paying job and when he refuses to take it, you will now come back and meet us here let's regroup and know the way foward

felixzo1:
if the new guy losses his job, what happens

orohbiro:
Good day my fellow nairalanders, my sister and this guy has been dating for 4 years now he use to work in a company but lost his job 2yrs ago since then he had been a parasite to my sister coming to our house to eat our food two times a day.

There is this new guy who asked my sister out. He is gentle and he has a good job, he is a Christian he has his own house, we all like him. I have been begging my sister to give him a try because he is ready for marriage unlike the other guy who has no hope of taking good care of my sister rather sucking my sister dry.

My sister seems to love the broke guy more but that guy is not a serious person for 2 good years he can't look for a job not even a menial job. If my sister mistakenly marries the broke guy she will suffer in the marriage because all the responsibility will be on her head. Gidforbid!

Please how do I convince my sister to focus on this other guy that is comfortable? I want the best for my sister.

Wahala for una nor get work .Aunty face your boyfriend .When your boyfriend get work ,enjoy he money but when he loses his job, dump am..Aunty, God dey watch you with his 3D camera ooo

I repeat if he was spending on her sister when he had a job the girl has no right to call him a pest. Ppl always go through trials in life. Only a gold digger will leave a man when his broke... I repeat op should butt out of it and focus on bettering herself. All these broke ass girls always looking for someone to leech on and once they hv sucked all the guys blood they then throw them away... if op was working and doing something with her life she wouldn’t hv time to focus on what her sister does..... if the man has a vision and treats her right then the sister should stay with him and build with him.

BRATISLAVA:

When he was working he was not a parasite (theoretically), but for two years he's been one. Do you know if the man was ever able to stand on his own or they were sharing bills? Would he have done the same for her if she didn't have the job? What if he's still there just to eat her money free?

She has no right to butt in, but how many people have helped your partner decide on that to do with you through their interference?

It's her sister, she has a right to be concerned about her sister being blinded by love for a guy who has leeched 2 entire years to the point he's an outright pest.

She has as much right to leech on her as the man does, don't try to guilt her, as if the man is entitled to.

You never complained when the guy was working but now you don’t want to see him because he lost his job.

I know you will do same to the new guy if he loses his job.

orohbiro:
Good day my fellow nairalanders, my sister and this guy has been dating for 4 years now he use to work in a company but lost his job 2yrs ago since then he had been a parasite to my sister coming to our house to eat our food two times a day.

There is this new guy who asked my sister out. He is gentle and he has a good job, he is a Christian he has his own house, we all like him. I have been begging my sister to give him a try because he is ready for marriage unlike the other guy who has no hope of taking good care of my sister rather sucking my sister dry.

My sister seems to love the broke guy more but that guy is not a serious person for 2 good years he can't look for a job not even a menial job. If my sister mistakenly marries the broke guy she will suffer in the marriage because all the responsibility will be on her head. Gidforbid!

Please how do I convince my sister to focus on this other guy that is comfortable? I want the best for my sister.

gold digger!

You came to the wrong place... Nairaland, the land of broke boys, they will always advocate for their fellow... As for your sister, you have done your part, leave her alone for reality to reset her brain...

I have two sisters who fell in the hands of broke boys all in the name of love, today they are gnashing their teeths in regrets because they're the ones footing the bills for their household in suffering.

awulio:
I repeat if he was spending on her sister when he had a job the girl has no right to call him a pest. Ppl always go through trials in life. Only a gold digger will leave a man when his broke... I repeat op should butt out of it and focus on bettering herself. All these broke ass girls always looking for someone to leech on and once they hv sucked all the guys blood they then throw them away... if op was working and doing something with her life she wouldn’t hv time to focus on what her sister does..... if the man has a vision and treats her right then the sister should stay with him and build with him.

Aunty preach some more... As if you can do the same.. Too many movies have made most of you forget realities....
His sister ain't getting any younger.
His sister needs a man to take care of her and her family not the other way around.
If that guy truly love her, then he should let her go rather than being a burden to her.

Life is the present. The past is history.

Very typical...

Orohbiro, so if the new guy loses everything wetin go come happen.

Leave your alone she is wise and a good woman.

You are a bad influence to her

orohbiro:
Good day my fellow nairalanders, my sister and this guy has been dating for 4 years now he use to work in a company but lost his job 2yrs ago since then he had been a parasite to my sister coming to our house to eat our food two times a day.

There is this new guy who asked my sister out. He is gentle and he has a good job, he is a Christian he has his own house, we all like him. I have been begging my sister to give him a try because he is ready for marriage unlike the other guy who has no hope of taking good care of my sister rather sucking my sister dry.

My sister seems to love the broke guy more but that guy is not a serious person for 2 good years he can't look for a job not even a menial job. If my sister mistakenly marries the broke guy she will suffer in the marriage because all the responsibility will be on her head. Gidforbid!

Please how do I convince my sister to focus on this other guy that is comfortable? I want the best for my sister.

Stay clear from your sister relationship money kill you there i know u must be a igbo guy that how you guys behave..... Do you know if the guy is trying to get a job all this years..... Let they be and mind your business

Gabkosh:
I wonder, foolish girl

no vex, don't mind her....... She's just not serious.......

Broke guy ! Broke guy! Please leave him alone, nobody knows tomorrow, your sister loves him, what about if the new guy loses his Job, then what will happen, eating your food does not matter, allow your sister to make her choice, been broke today does not mean that he will be broke forever. Tomorrow is deep , forget what you are seeing today, focus on the Future. You as a brother,you should mind your business go and hussle. Allow your sister to be.