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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by chii8(f): 11:25am On May 13, 2021
You both need to stop and give your life to Christ, fornication is a big sin oooo,if you aren't feeling guilty after fornication,my dear your conscience is dead and the holy Spirit is very far from your heart....


What am I even saying the devil has blocked some ears....

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by meobizy(f): 11:49am On May 13, 2021
Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

lalasticlala mynd44 seun Dominique
Marry her first and find out.

See me see wahala. They’ve started deleting comments again? Na them go tire first. Thank God today is a public holiday.

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by ayo2008: 12:53pm On May 13, 2021
Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

lalasticlala mynd44 seun Dominique

Why won't she feel guilty when she knows God hates pre marital sex( Fornication).

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Soulsymbol99: 2:24pm On May 13, 2021
Or she is guilty of cheating on another dude u knw not in abt grin these hoes ain't loyal cool

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by samwash(m): 3:01pm On May 13, 2021
Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

lalasticlala mynd44 seun Dominique


It depends on upbringing & personal devotion to God.
What some pple said above may not be true, that maybe she's is cheating or playing mind game.
This thing happen to me years back when I newly get involved in sexual act.
As a Christian, anytime I engaged in such act, guilty conscience go wan kill me that I have sinned against God & as a believer our body is the temple of God, His Holy place. Initially, it affected me & my relationship with God.
It's just a matter of her mindset & her personal devotion to God.
But truly speaking nor be sin una dey engaged in, when una never marry.

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Ishilove: 3:02pm On May 13, 2021
Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

lalasticlala mynd44 seun Dominique
Fucky fucky

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Ishilove: 3:05pm On May 13, 2021
uboma:


You are right!

I owe you some bottles of beer.
And is it wrong for her to teleguide him? If they are both mature and ready then they should go ahead instead of having illicit sex without the fear of God

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Alex08101558404: 3:08pm On May 13, 2021
My girlfriend had such syndrome too ...doh I met her a virgin at 26. But after I bust d bubble ,she always feeling guilty after it cos she is a very devoted Christian...too bad for her she had to be wooed by a bad sharp guy. But it do exist dis guilt after sex..I googled it and it's a syndrome dat wit time they get out of it..mine is outa it now.

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by uboma(m): 3:10pm On May 13, 2021
Ishilove:

And is it wrong for her to teleguide him? If they are both mature and ready then they should go ahead instead of having illicit sex without the fear of God


What is it with the 'crocodile tears'?

What happened to having normal conversation about issues that worries her?

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by walex2(m): 5:16pm On May 13, 2021
Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless. Marry her she will change

lalasticlala mynd44 seun Dominique
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by strangest(m): 6:20pm On May 13, 2021
phuck her well, phuck guilty comot from her face

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Mac2016(m): 10:01pm On May 13, 2021
It solely depends on your carriage!

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Itzlinda(f): 10:02pm On May 13, 2021
Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

Wife her bro
She's unhappy because she sin

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by DashDolls(m): 10:03pm On May 13, 2021
Are both of you legally Married...NO
Does she feel guilty after being intimate with you...YES
Do you feel guilty after being intimate with her...NO
And you don't feel anything is wrong here?

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Mayng01(m): 10:04pm On May 13, 2021
Arrant nonsense

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by chloride6: 10:04pm On May 13, 2021
Lmao..

The better the sex, the faster it will go

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by GboyegaD(m): 10:04pm On May 13, 2021
She feels ashame because she feels she isn't doing things rightly.

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Goldiness: 10:04pm On May 13, 2021
Marry her and stop committing fornication, so her mind will come down.

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by EjaikreTheViper(f): 10:05pm On May 13, 2021
This old man again,
Na every time you dey bring your personal issue come Nairaland?

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by SILVERLINES: 10:05pm On May 13, 2021
Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.
Op make Ur head crack like Okorocha bridges
Shey ur head d pain u

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Annajapheth: 10:05pm On May 13, 2021
21st century generation has seen sex outside marriage has nothing but love making.. really!!!!! bro let me remind u...u are both fornicating Nd it's wrong and her conscience is baring witness to her wrong doing because it is a sin...if u love yourselves stop it and wait till u are married...

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by HighPriest86: 10:06pm On May 13, 2021
Oga, your babe is cheating on her main guy with you.


In other words, you're her SIDE GUY

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by topliest: 10:07pm On May 13, 2021
why does she look like dat after all d money
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by incogni2o: 10:07pm On May 13, 2021
See tons of Bad advice everywhere.

What has this world turned into.

Oga Repent, and start on a clean slate.

If not, the things she is scared of will affect you both, if not you alone.

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by koyyess: 10:07pm On May 13, 2021
Marry her and end the shame na....ode.

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by SouthSouth1914: 10:08pm On May 13, 2021
Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

Your answer you seek, is in your questions! She already explained she will enjoy intimacy once you guys are married, abi you wan chop clean mouth?

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by emmy091(m): 10:08pm On May 13, 2021
With time she will get used to it, you are probably her first or amongst her first batch.....give her time to adjust

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Calitoscassius(m): 10:09pm On May 13, 2021
Yea right! even the prostitutes i fuccked feels guilty after sex but they still demand for their payment.

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Nobody: 10:10pm On May 13, 2021
Marry her
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Angelmichael63: 10:10pm On May 13, 2021
immortal2:
The poor girl might have been trained in the way of Truth. Unfortunately, she has not personally experienced the Truth so as to be empowered to walk in it. This is were the guilt comes from. Please encourage her to go back to the Truth, while you seek out evil people like yourself.

#the struggle between the flesh and the spirit.
Very correct.

A struggle between flesh and spirit indeed

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