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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by PrimadonnaO(f): 10:11pm On May 13, 2021
Most people just psyche themselves to act normal.

Ordinarily, every unmarried person feels guilty after sex.

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by AuroraBrls: 10:11pm On May 13, 2021
If you met her a virgin and she is from a homely good and strong religious upbringing....then she ain't manipulating you. In that case she is a wifeable breed. make her your Queen

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by shariff84: 10:12pm On May 13, 2021
Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless. There is nothing to worry about,she is just a decent girl!.She will surprise you after the marriage.
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Nobody: 10:12pm On May 13, 2021
Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

Fornicators and Adulters shall have their part I lake of fire.

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Kisap11: 10:12pm On May 13, 2021
It's normal

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by UDUJ(m): 10:12pm On May 13, 2021
Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

You are like those chicken they deceive by putting their chicken feed on the floor leading to the slaughterhouse cheesy

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by lifenija: 10:13pm On May 13, 2021
yawn
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Olisehinnocent: 10:13pm On May 13, 2021
Guy u really need to do some investigation on her. She may have another guy she truly love that she's cheating on with you. After enjoying the sex she will remember that she has just cheated on him and she will start regretting. U just have to be watchful. Such girl can be dangerous. Meanwhile, we Vaseline gang no dey bleep kpekus. Na weed and Vaseline be our joy cheesy grin
Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by piagetskinner(m): 10:14pm On May 13, 2021
That’s because it’s a sin....
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by knowhowk: 10:15pm On May 13, 2021
Sebastine1994:


she might be online
. That is not an excuse ,you already brought it online ,The few you have talked about is enough for her to know now

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by knowhowk: 10:15pm On May 13, 2021
Olisehinnocent:
Guy u really need to do some investigation on her. She may have another guy she truly love that she's cheating on with you. After enjoying the sex she will remember that she has just cheated on him and she will start regretting. U just have to be watchful. Such girl can be dangerous
. Exactly
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by armyofone(m): 10:16pm On May 13, 2021
Maybe the guy won't understand she doesn't want it.
Normal convo from an understanding guy, yeah.
The OP should be like "baby since you are feeling this way, let's wait till we are married ok. I love you and will gladly wait"

uboma:



What is it with the 'crocodile tears'?

What happened to having normal conversation about issues that worries her?

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Nobody: 10:17pm On May 13, 2021
Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.
you're a sinner grin
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Ijaya123: 10:17pm On May 13, 2021
Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

Why not just go ahead and marry her to put this issue behind you?

I believe when you’re married, the issue here will be a thing of the past to talk and laugh about.

Don’t you think?

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by CALCULUS16: 10:17pm On May 13, 2021
You are her shame, you will soon go away after u don chop her tire.

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by NwaIgboBoy(m): 10:18pm On May 13, 2021
You sure say you no dey rape her ??
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by anthonydunamis: 10:20pm On May 13, 2021
Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

Fornication is, and will always be, a sin. The girl's conscience is being pricked because her spirit wants to obey God. You being an agent influencing her to disobey God makes you an enemy of God. You know what that means? You are FIGHTING GOD and trying to frustrate His intentions concerning that dear lady.

Repent, my friend!

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Nobody: 10:20pm On May 13, 2021
If you feel she feels so, maybe she's not too free, girl is basically doing it to make you happy, against her own peace. How about going to do her introduction and putting a ring on her finger, and marry her, so she stops feeling bad and shy? I mean, You day enjoy free toto_ u wan collect all the Nutrients for there, then leave her for Leftovers or what Exactly? Akoi common sense? Haba, Get remorse and thinking na.

From what I can detone here, she may love the love making, but her fear is, after everything and you don't marry her or you don't show that interest as well. Sometimes, we need to stop wasting these girls time o..

If she's good for lovemaking ,she's good for marriage too. Go and wife her, stop messing with advantage of free pussy. End of story!!!!!

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Secondt44(m): 10:21pm On May 13, 2021
She's jest telling you to Carry Yam to her parents indirectly.

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by stasius: 10:21pm On May 13, 2021
Marry her so that her shame will go away!!!


A kwazina iko!!!

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Remember1313: 10:22pm On May 13, 2021
Wahala
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by ecomalchemist(m): 10:23pm On May 13, 2021
big ups
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Memyselfu2009(m): 10:24pm On May 13, 2021
You better marry am
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by komodapson(m): 10:24pm On May 13, 2021
ahiboilandgas:
she is doing psychological work on your mind called mind games.teleguiding you to marriage.

Hmmm...this is an intelligent response. She could be manipulative in nature.

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by sonofElElyon: 10:24pm On May 13, 2021
Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

After sleeping with her severally you now feel hopeless? I'm sure you are the one who convinced her to go against her moral values of abstinence until marriage.. now you are hinting at possibly leaving her...

Solution is for you to stop sleeping with her and still marry her.. if however sex is the only thing that you want from her, then let her be and walk away with guilt instead of using her..

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by NamelessOGBENI(m): 10:25pm On May 13, 2021
Yusufisraelj and immortal2...


I'd like to appreciate your inputs, we still have people who will not water down their morals just because immorality is the way of the world.
And for OP, I had wanted to go the Red-pill route with you but what's the point, if all we keep talking about is sex, sex, sex and more sex with no purity attached to it purpose for which it was created by the Creator for. I hope you will sit down and asked yourself if what you've just describe here is worth it or not.

Mind you, I'm worst than the OP but I'm a work in progress, I pray this process will work not only with me but with thousands if not millions and billions coming to know the truth...

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Nobody: 10:27pm On May 13, 2021
Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

My ex did exactly the same thing.

She would be the one to initiate sex, and would even get angry if I refuse to make love to her during a visit. But immediately she reaches orgasm, she would start hitting me with her bare hands. I would then cuddle her while she cries.


She constantly asked for marriage even while she was still in school. I told her to graduate first.

Then, one day, she accused me of being a juju man that has been using charm to prevent her from getting pregnant despite me ejaculating into her while I believed she was following her contraceptive plans.

She told me to never ask about her again. I was so angry that I was suicidal. I met another lady who was through with school and we got married after about 3 months dating.

This my ex is back begging me for forgiveness. I told her I'm married and she said I never loved her because I MOVED ON SO FAST.

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by dontai(m): 10:28pm On May 13, 2021
knowhowk:
. That is not an excuse ,you already brought it online ,The few you have talked about is enough for her to know now
don't mind him, it's such a fake story. See how he shut the most leggit question down. She may be online, so? When you bought it online you didn't know she's online.

That's how I wan yank one that time, she's asking me if she get pregnant nko, as a Sharp guy, I asked her two quick questions, are you a virgin?, Have you gave birth before?, Both which she answered no. I was like naa now you want get pregnant.
Who really get time for minimini manimo.

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by SweetDipBenny(m): 10:29pm On May 13, 2021
U two need to start walkin around d houz naked like 247. Thank me later
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by tiswell(m): 10:29pm On May 13, 2021
Op,you should be ashamed of your premarital sexcapades

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by melviniyke2002(m): 10:29pm On May 13, 2021
koladata:
its normal, some young people who are still God fearing believes sex is a big sin. Everything will be fine after marriage .
so wot is sex outside marriage

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by dochenaj: 10:30pm On May 13, 2021
Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.
I find it surprising that Christians and church people can commit fornication at will and not feel guilty about it.

I even recall one "pastor" who recorded the various sexual encounters he had with a particular lady and would go ahead to leak said video after the lady left him.

I bet you're a Christian and go to church regularly.

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