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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Knsley(m): 4:52am On May 14, 2021
Begin:
The bobo no smart the girl they real play with him mind. Na so one be won run me for skul that year me way be say na confirm street, after we don go down finish bae go start cry say she don promise God say she no go do this kind tin again Lol, two days time if I touch her na so she go spread leg wide open me self way no get time na so I go dive enter after everything me self go come start to the form say my consice they disturbe me

My real guy
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by AdeolaOmoOba(m): 4:59am On May 14, 2021
1. Hope you're not forcing her against her will?2. Hope you're not forcing her against her will everytime?
3. Please avoid "stories that touch" o, before someone accuse you in the nearest future of being a serial rapist.
4. Come to an understanding, don't sleep together anymore until after marriage for her peace of mind and emotional stability.
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by franksam209: 5:25am On May 14, 2021
Foolish topic
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Hassanmaye(m): 5:33am On May 14, 2021
Sammy07:


Lol.
1st question.
Did you met her a virgin?
Haha guy who understands games I remove cap for you grin

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Hassanmaye(m): 5:34am On May 14, 2021
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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Hassanmaye(m): 5:36am On May 14, 2021
Ayo2004:
Na reverse psychology grin
U better run away from marriage
Another sharp guy grin
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Nobody: 5:37am On May 14, 2021
ahiboilandgas:
she is doing psychological work on your mind called mind games.teleguiding you to marriage.
Women?
Make she come meet criminal like me
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Nobody: 5:39am On May 14, 2021
Propheticdavid:

So it's not sin.kai.. Fornication everywhere.
Oga, you nor dey knack?
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Nobody: 5:41am On May 14, 2021
Masturbator2020:

Personally I do feel guilty too after sex..it's the fear of God.
Is that why you prefer to manage masturbating for now?
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by CSTRR: 5:43am On May 14, 2021
Alex08101558404:
My girlfriend had such syndrome too ...doh I met her a virgin at 26. But after I bust d bubble ,she always feeling guilty after it cos she is a very devoted Christian...too bad for her she had to be wooed by a bad sharp guy. But it do exist dis guilt after sex..I googled it and it's a syndrome dat wit time they get out of it..mine is outa it now.
You mean their conscience become dead with time.
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by omoadeleye(m): 5:44am On May 14, 2021
koladata:
its normal, some young people who are still God fearing believes sex is a big sin. Everything will be fine after marriage .

But they keep having sex and still believe that sex is a sin?

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by ubimagos: 5:45am On May 14, 2021
That's call emotional blackmail. Some girls do have it!
Harry00:
don't know what y'all talking about abt
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Hassanmaye(m): 5:45am On May 14, 2021
Alex08101558404:
My girlfriend had such syndrome too ...doh I met her a virgin at 26. But after I bust d bubble ,she always feeling guilty after it cos she is a very devoted Christian...too bad for her she had to be wooed by a bad sharp guy. But it do exist dis guilt after sex..I googled it and it's a syndrome dat wit time they get out of it..mine is outa it now.
They like your type na if na good guy he will never see pant
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by ubimagos: 5:47am On May 14, 2021
That's called emotional blackmail. Some girls do have it!
Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Moneyboyz: 5:47am On May 14, 2021
Masturbator2020:

Personally I do feel guilty too after sex..it's the fear of God.

And your moniker is masturbator!
Hmmm wonders
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Hassanmaye(m): 5:49am On May 14, 2021
PrimadonnaO:
Most people just psyche themselves to act normal.

Ordinarily, every unmarried person feels guilty after sex.
It's true

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Weany: 5:59am On May 14, 2021
As a guy, It happens to me then. I just kneel and ask for mercy. Now, my mind is already made up and the right thing is marriage or pay dowry.

She still has the fear of God in her. She wants a relationship that leads to marriage without THE BED UNDEFILED.
She has good intents but your heart is just to sex sex and leave her with no plans. Young man look for an assignment and work it out with the lady.

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Unrated900(m): 5:59am On May 14, 2021
ahiboilandgas:
she is doing psychological work on your mind called mind games.teleguiding you to marriage.



Leave him
Who no go no go know.
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Ujahson85(m): 6:01am On May 14, 2021
Like you said "... her conservative upbringing" makes her think sex outside marriage is a sin. Our people have been brain washed to feel guilty even where there's no wrong. Talk to her and with time she can overcome the guilt else she can't enjoy sex. Nevertheless, from your statement I don't think you are ready for commitment, so be real with her.
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Wolfofallstr33t: 6:02am On May 14, 2021
ahiboilandgas:
she is doing psychological work on your mind called mind games.teleguiding you to marriage.
Two big stout for u �
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by VTJN(m): 6:04am On May 14, 2021
ahiboilandgas:
she is doing psychological work on your mind called mind games.teleguiding you to marriage.
you don't conclude on someone's feelings or emotions on nairaland just like that

Teleguiding him to marriage as per say na Dangote pikin or what kwan?

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by nnaekezie: 6:04am On May 14, 2021
Na wen you marry am finish ur eyes go open wise up guy the babe just they play low key for u to marry then after that u are just like �
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Ujahson85(m): 6:05am On May 14, 2021
Hassanmaye:

It's true

It's not true, just because you have been brain washed son! Our fathers before Christianity do not feel guilty having sex before marriage, in fact they enjoyed it son.
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by RMoneyInTheBank: 6:05am On May 14, 2021
Masturbator2020:

Personally I do feel guilty too after sex..it's the fear of God.
masturbator2020
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Kraudas: 6:06am On May 14, 2021
It is simply shameful and unholy from a spiritual stand point. Sex is a benefit of marriage as ordained by God. Until then abstain. She knows this and its tormenting her but lacking the will power to do the needful ( I.e practical repentance). Take heed now!!

Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Masturbator2020: 6:08am On May 14, 2021
dochenaj:
The fear of God is to depart from evil.

You have a lively conscience, one that still believes the truth about sexual sin.
Thank you.
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Masturbator2020: 6:12am On May 14, 2021
RMoneyInTheBank:
masturbator2020
I choose this moniker because of a thread I created on masturbation..I started masturbating because I read somewhere that it was a lesser sin than formication. In any case, I stopped the act long time ago.So don't use moniker to judge me
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Masturbator2020: 6:14am On May 14, 2021
Moneyboyz:


And your moniker is masturbator!
Hmmm wonders
I choose this moniker because of a thread I created on masturbation..I started masturbating because I read somewhere that it was a lesser sin than formication. In any case, I stopped the act long time ago.So don't use moniker to judge me
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Masturbator2020: 6:15am On May 14, 2021
Anakojum:

Is that why you prefer to manage masturbating for now?
That's why I started masturbating. I actually read somewhere that masturbating is a lesser sin than formication. But I have stopped for like 13years now
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by HOVATECH2021: 6:20am On May 14, 2021
Your girl friend knows that what you guys did is wrong, that is why she is not happy and feeling guilty. May be you compel her to do it against her wish, Let me tell you the gospel truth flee fonication, flee youthful lost because if you continue to voilate the teaching of your creator you shall die. Give your life to Christ

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by GAZZUZZ(m): 6:20am On May 14, 2021
Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

You are not doing well. If odi naka handles her, he will nack the shame away. Improve on your skills, you are not doing well.

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by UltimateSpice: 6:25am On May 14, 2021
If guilt comes, then it is better to stop the act.

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