Ginaz:


You know what is wrong with you? Wanna know ? You’re a fool! You’re supposed to be married and act married , not fool around with a jezebel!

Divorce your poor wife and marry the whoreee jezebel so you can live happily ever after cos I prove to you that you will definitely fuvk her.

What I hate most is foolish adults who have no control. I was once in a tangled- affection war with someone who got married but immediately he married I deleted his number cos I won’t want another woman to cry cos her husband can’t get over her fellow woman.

It hurt to pieces knowing your husband is still in love with someone else while being married to you !!!!

I send love and light to your wife and I hope God spare her the trauma of finding out what you have been up to. Useless dick like you.

Now, I know where you are coming from! . I have been looking for you really. The truth is the story is fictional and I had wanted to know how different people felt about it since it hit differently on different people. The lesson in this is, always be objective on issues no matter how painful they might be. Instead of cussing people out. Seriously, I get your point. Like I said, I know where you are coming from and I won't belittle you about it. Infact, I am following you on this bird right away. The truth is you have a great soul but always be calming down.
I come in peace madam Ginaz

czarr:
Lol...this is personal for you. E no go better for that guy wey do you like this.

Haba Oga! E never reach that level now

Expresswriter:
You need sense to stop talking to her!

Bible said flee, yet you're still talking to her.

What do you expect? That you won't have feelings.

Na you know wetin you de find. Continue.

hhhmmmm. You are right.

bepositive11:
Why didn't you marry her instead of your wife? It's a sad situation.

She refused me when I did.

daylay7:


I also did. But I reached out again to someone who reconnected us.

Hmm, my hand no dey again ooh.

Goan meet ur pastor

daylay7:


She refused me when I did.

But now her eyes don clear abi??

Na win win, make she sef dey battle with the trauma and pains. Laslas una go give unasef belle.

I just pity your wife

czarr:
Lol...this is personal for you. E no go better for that guy wey do you like this.

I hate nonsense. No guy do me anything joor.

daylay7:


She refused me when I did.

It's tricky. You will have to either leave your wife and be with her, or cut her out of your life completely if you wish to stay with your wife. If you can, try to remain friends with her but define clear boundaries.

Say No To ORGAN DAMAGE.
Say No To ORGAN PAIN
Say No To CHRONIC AILMENTS
Say No To CHRONIC SICKNESSES
Say No To ROUTINE INTAKE OF DRUGS DAILY
Say No To SURGERY
Don't Be Ignorant
Your Life Is Once
Preserve it NOW

Listen to the stories of these people below.

https://www.nairaland.com/6545614/stop-battling-ailment-organ-damage

There's a word called polygamy...... Pls go check it out maybe your solution lies there....



Next rubbish news @ Seun

U go soon marry spirit wife.

Wetin you they find you go soon see am

daylay7:
Hi everyone,

I met this lady long time ago before I got married to my wife and we were in love back then. She refused me when I actually proposed to her and I moved on afterward but each time we were together, our love was quite evident in the air which became noticeable to people around us.

Eventually, I got married and we distant ourselves for the sake of both of us and then, we reduced our phone talks but we were still friends.

And now, each time we were opportune to talk on phone, the feelings keep coming back. It is irresistible! The day we eventually met, we almost make out but we got ourselves under control miraculously and we distant again for a while. The truth is I can't stop talking to her at least we don't even do that often as before.
What is wrong with me? i need help! What do I do?

Believe me she only wants to manipulate and destroy you. Be smart to realize you are only being used.

daylay7:
Hi everyone,

I met this lady long time ago before I got married to my wife and we were in love back then. She refused me when I actually proposed to her and I moved on afterward but each time we were together, our love was quite evident in the air which became noticeable to people around us.

Eventually, I got married and we distant ourselves for the sake of both of us and then, we reduced our phone talks but we were still friends.

And now, each time we were opportune to talk on phone, the feelings keep coming back. It is irresistible! The day we eventually met, we almost make out but we got ourselves under control miraculously and we distant again for a while. The truth is I can't stop talking to her at least we don't even do that often as before.
What is wrong with me? i need help! What do I do?

SHE IS FULLY IN CONTROL.

..... got ourselves under control miraculously ?? THATS FOR YOU NOT HERS, SHE KNOWS WHAT SHE IS DOING 100 PERCENT.

SHE IS STILL SINGLE RIGHT? SHE WILL SCATTER YOUR MARRIED AND STILL DUMP YOU!

They are all like that.... Just friend zone her, because running from her would keep the feelings stronger.... Tell her all about yourself love and sex life , let her know she is just and old friend and your heart is elsewhere

I have an ex with 2. Kids who had managed to keep in touch since 2012

She always has one reason or the other to get in touch

daylay7:


I also did. But I reached out again to someone who reconnected us.

Block and kill every acquaintance

daylay7:
Hi everyone,

I met this lady long time ago before I got married to my wife and we were in love back then. She refused me when I actually proposed to her and I moved on afterward but each time we were together, our love was quite evident in the air which became noticeable to people around us.

Eventually, I got married and we distant ourselves for the sake of both of us and then, we reduced our phone talks but we were still friends.

And now, each time we were opportune to talk on phone, the feelings keep coming back. It is irresistible! The day we eventually met, we almost make out but we got ourselves under control miraculously and we distant again for a while. The truth is I can't stop talking to her at least we don't even do that often as before.
What is wrong with me? i need help! What do I do?

. If you still love her my candid advice is for you to divorce your wife. Must you bring everything to nairaland? What is happening to you do happen to 60% of men and women if I'm not mistaking. Best of luck.

You need prayer.
May God guide you

Feelings is a very strong spirit same thing happened to me too... You have to deal with it fast bro before it takes away your happiness permanently.

daylay7:


Na vision u dey see so?

calm d fvck down na u find advise na u still de reply almost everyone with unserious vibe

Tomorrow you will come to us and say you want to be a leader. you want to rule Nigeria , ordinary feelings you cant control

You are not wise for exposing personal life here,this nairaland people will make your case worsen.solve your problem within your self.not all issue come here.nairaland people are not solution solver.they are problem manager.all of us.

The devil want to use that demon (the lady) to ruin your marriage.

This is the programming
1. Your wife will divorce you when she get to know.
2. The lady herself will dump you like you ever exist
3. Depreesion will set in
4. Then your peace of mind is gone and finally
5. Thought of sucide
Be wise

czarr:
Lol...this is personal for you. E no go better for that guy wey do you like this.

oh e choke u too, those one's liking the post, i even fear them more.

daylay7:
Hi everyone,

I met this lady long time ago before I got married to my wife and we were in love back then. She refused me when I actually proposed to her and I moved on afterward but each time we were together, our love was quite evident in the air which became noticeable to people around us.

Eventually, I got married and we distant ourselves for the sake of both of us and then, we reduced our phone talks but we were still friends.

And now, each time we were opportune to talk on phone, the feelings keep coming back. It is irresistible! The day we eventually met, we almost make out but we got ourselves under control miraculously and we distant again for a while. The truth is I can't stop talking to her at least we don't even do that often as before.
What is wrong with me? i need help! What do I do?

@OP, you didn't do in summary at school?

How is that our business

daylay7:
Hi everyone,

I met this lady long time ago before I got married to my wife and we were in love back then. She refused me when I actually proposed to her and I moved on afterward but each time we were together, our love was quite evident in the air which became noticeable to people around us.

Eventually, I got married and we distant ourselves for the sake of both of us and then, we reduced our phone talks but we were still friends.

And now, each time we were opportune to talk on phone, the feelings keep coming back. It is irresistible! The day we eventually met, we almost make out but we got ourselves under control miraculously and we distant again for a while. The truth is I can't stop talking to her at least we don't even do that often as before.
What is wrong with me? i need help! What do I do?

Bámidélé or whatever you call yourself, you nor well. Shey o wà okay shá? I think your name should be added to the list of Playboys and demons along with names like Femi, Tunde, Segun, Vincent, Chuks etc that are commonly heartbreakers.

When he now has problems with his marriage as a result of infidelity, he will not allow people rest on Nairaland. Then you will start seeing front page topics like "Help, I'm married but my ex-girlfriend got pregnant for me", "Help, my wife has threatened to kill herself and I when she discovered I have a relationship outside", "Help, I'm married but I slept with my ex-girldriend and now I think I have HIV", "New couple clash as wife pours acid/hot oil on cheating husband".

Nonsense. Except this OP is trying to catch cruise or trend with this topic, I don't think he deserves any advice of any kind. Because if indeed it's true life story, then I'm sorry for him and I hope he burns in Hades for betraying the love of his wife and mortgaging the peace in his family by even remotely entertaining any iota of romantic urge towards that ex.

What nonsense. An ex is called that for a reason. Do you realize that it will be more painful for your spouse if she finds out your infidelity is with your ex more than it will be if it is with any random girl? Thinking of your ex alone is a slap on your wife cos it simply means she is not worth as much as the ex to you in the first instance.

I don't even stay as "friends" once we've dated before. Even if you turn down my advances but still want to smartly put me in the friend zone or in the "please I urgently need 2k zone", you become enstranged to me at once. You become an outcast, an anathema and a virus to be avoided at all cost.

The only person that should deserve your attention is the one who was ready to accept you/accepted you and that person is your wife. For whatever reason the ex rejected you at that time, you should move on and ignore her memories even if you can't totally delete them.

I'm so pissed right now.

Ginaz:


You’re such a fool , deranged and I spit on you. What the hell is wrong with men of these days? You are married ! You are fuvking married for God’s sake ! What on earth do you want? Is your wife not giving you pusssy? Doesn’t she kiss you? Doesn’t she moan and suck your useless dick enough?

It's understandable that humans (both male and female) are polyphahic, hoping to try out new menu different from what they currently enjoy. Even if his wife gives it to him in all manner conceivable only in p0rn movies, guys may still wish to get laid outside. The agreement between the dude and his wife was to be faithful till death do them part. It's a different cup of tea if they agreed on an open relationship/marriage or if they agreed on polygamy from the start cos he will not be breaking an agreement that way. The wife will have a prepped mind that her husband may also be getting it outside, so no emotional trauma will ensue from that.

What is annoying in his short post is the fact that he did not even give any sign of worrying about the effect his actions will have on his wife. Such disrespect.